Princess Arabia

👍That constant is who we truly are.

We're all trying to make sense out of this chaos. It won't work. Just accept that fact. The mind needs structure and order and it keeps thinking logic and reason will do it. It won't. Not in the Universal sense. Every mind will see it differently in some way or another. The only constant is that which doesn't change and that is wherever all this chaos is coming from. It's utter chaos can't you see it. This forum can go on to infinity discussing these very topics till the brain fries up and everyone won't come to the same conclusion. Why? Because there isn't any. Shit just comes in and out of existence with no warning labels attached. Just boom. Here I am. Out of nowhere. Out of nothing. That nothing is something, but it's not some thing, it is no-thing. Everything is nothing and something simultaneously. Polar opposites which balances everything out. But it's not two sides, it's infinite. Infinity has no structure; it's chaotic. Intelligently chaotic. At our level we are making the best of this chaos in this 3 dimensional plane. At the higher levels, these kinds of conversations doesn't even exist. And at more higher levels, conversations doesn't exist at all. At the singularity it's just oneness. So all this talk about nothing and no-thing and something doesn't even exist once there is no egoic mind structure, which seeks to make sense of it all. Some will say I'm just talking shit. Don't know what I'm saying and what I'm saying is false. Damn right; to your mind that's the case. To the no mind it doesn't matter. It's all right. Nothing excluded. Even this insane comment is a part of infinity, because it exists. So keep going at it for eons you will never get to a point, any point. It will go on forever and ever. Until.......until...death; and that is just a concept because infinity cannot die. Tomorrow it will be another topic. Another topic for the mind to ruminate in. To keep it's status quo going. Thoughts upon thoughts upon thoughts. Keeping itself alive and using others to mask it's true identity. Going around and around in a circle to infinity. Thoughts talking to itself and never coming to an end. It got us by the balls. We'll keep on and on and on and on until it realizes it's just the wave in the ocean that popped up and believed it was a something, when in fact it was nothing but a wave in the infinite ocean of love. The tricky part is that it wouldn't even recognize itself as a wave anymore because the wave never existed in the first place. Can't grab a wave and set it aside.

The only thing that's not insane is the empty space that holds all this insanity. 😍

Youre right I was being ignorant and naive. I will straighten that part up and try to transcend that part of me that doesn't like complexities. It's the mind that's not familiar with those terms lashing out, instead of trying to embrace the different forms of expression that the Universe has to offer. How silly of me to make a statement like that. I retract.

I loved what Sadguru had to say in this video. So true. Human intellect can be a destroyer. We dissect and dissect and dissect till we cut ourselves to pieces beyond repair. The intelligence that's at play, the intellect is no match for. All the knowledge we acquire is just being recycled and nothing new is being spun. Leave all that be and look at life directly. See the intelligence at play right before your eyes without trying to dissect it to pieces. Dissecting can be helpful for certain tasks and to accomplish certain things, but on a whole, leave the intellect mind behind and see life as it is - directly, pure, whole, infinitely beautiful void of trying to intellectually dissecting it to pieces which is what the (........) mind does. Forgot the fancy term for that part of the mind.

The ego is a construction. To "kill" the construction, one has to eliminate all the constructs. It's that simple - simple explanation but hard to do, since it's the egoic mind that's trying to kill itself. Let go of all beliefs, constructs, concepts, ideas etcetc. See yourself anew everyday. No baggage, no world views, no opinions, no future no past. That's all happening in the present, where the egoic mind doesn't reside. Its not about killing the ego, but to use it to transform itself, through meditation practices that target this specifically.

Idk why, but this remark made me laugh. I don't need a bunch of ego's coming at me so that's all I'm gonna say about that.

I wonder if the man up the street would understand this. Probably not....some fancy shit spirituality invented. Wtf is ahamkara. What's the English word for that.

Idk about anybody else's comment , but I suggest you read mine again because nowhere in my comment I insulted you, was judgemental, or had a superior attitude, nor did I criticize you. All I stated was how I did my practices. This was my comment. How was this saying all you said. I admit I didn't tell you how to do your shadow work; but your reply to me was a bit harsh nonetheless. I apologize if you took offense by me just saying what I do and how I do my practices. I was a bit taken aback by your remarks as I didn't think I was rude to you on any level. Noself was a bit abrubt in his remark, but that wasn't coming from me.

You said there's no such thing as nothing. What am I reading. The word nothing. So it exists.

Show or tell me a word that doesn't exist. You have brought life to nothing in your heading.

Nah, I have to work on my reception of devilry and the way I react. 😍

You're not borrowing anything. It's not owned. Thanks for sharing. We are all in this together. The only reason why I cursed you out in the beginning lol, was because you put my post down and elevated yours. As if my post wasn't shit.

Great point. That's why I do stuff i enjoy and what comes naturally, I don't want to make this into a chore. It's like listening to your fav music because you want to, not because someone tells you you're not whole and complete unless you do. I practice every chance I get in my daily life, so it becomes a part of me and it doesn't feel like I'm trying to achieve anything; only to become familiar with the presence I already am. Some things takes extra effort, yes, but it's still not a chore.

Yes, I understand. That's why we have statutory laws. Plus, between adults, we know the difference between consensual and forced. Anyone that doesn't know the difference shouldn't be having sex.

I can sense and feel this in you. I felt the trembling in your typing voice as you wrote this. That's how sensitive I am. You probably grapple with this issue more than women because of your sensitive nature and your genuine love for women. It breaks your heart to see this happen to them and you're trying your very best to help the best way you know how, but it gets frustrating because you can only do so much. I get it.

Yes, there are sexual fetishes of the sort and rape fantasies that people play out. Not the same as the actual thing, and I don't see anything wrong with playing out those fantasies if consensual and no one gets hurt unwillingly.

Exactly. Some caveats to explore here, but definitely on the right track, imo.

What a shame if that's what it takes. I highly doubt how one dresses matters to a "real" rapist.

I don't have a problem finding "high consciousness" stuff on social media. In fact, I'm bombarded with them. It's as if the Universe is sending me more of what I'm focused on. I have to unplug sometimes. I go searching for the other stuff, the good stuff finds me.

Yes, without getting into the details, they usually have certain traits. Single, sex addicts, loves porn etc etc, but not subjected to.

You'd be surprised how many "normal" guys have this mentality. Not saying they'll actually go out and rape, but they don't enjoy it when the woman is enjoying it. They'll take it either way, but they're not turned off if she's hurting or seems disinterested or seems to not be enjoying it, matter of fact some get turned off if she's actually genuinely enjoying it. Guys of a good caliber don't realize how much of a precious gem they are, including yourself as I can sense from you.

You're right, BDSM is not about sex. Most of these people into this stuff don't crave sexual intercourse.

That's not true. But I won't go there. Makes no sense.

Oh yes, sure. I wasn't insinuating that to like it rough you're sexually unhealthy. I was just saying it could be coming from an unhealthy place (for some). There are times when I myself like it rough and other times I don't and that was just purely based off of the time of day, who I'm with and how I was feeling at the time and not some unhealthy sexual traumatized being.