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For you, my love..😘

Notice how people think that their situation is the entire world and population's situation. Having it hard in dating? Now it's because there's a loneliness epidemic, the top 10% are reserved, online dating is hard, no one wants such and such or whatever reason one concocts up why they can't get a date, meanwhile thousands and thousands are having babies, getting married, having child support issues, couples are hand in hand on bourbon and Canal Streets, lots of dead beat dads in jail, the wedding and baby industry is lucrative - ask Mr Wonderful from Shark tank. These aren't being single issues. I even saw where someone said they used to have this problem of so and so, and when they changed so and so about themselves, the problem got better and got resolved. That means there wasn't an outside issue in the first place. When you start to see life from this place in most circumstances most things like personal problems fall away because you realize just change some things about yourself or just realize it's how you're seeing yourself and the world that's creating these types of challenges and they won't be viewed as outside problems but problems coming from the skewed observer. Notice a challenge you formerly had that isn't there anymore but not from the world or outside changing but from either you changing or the way you saw the challenge changed. Pay attention.

......,and this is the issue with men who think like this. That women don't have their share of issues and challenges in the dating world. Way more than feeling like someone doesn't even know your last name said no just like a prospective employer may choose another applicant because they seem more qualified for that particular job at hand. The person that didn't get a call back, or most people, aren't home sulking, crying rejection, telling other companies and prospective employees that they don't know what it's like to not get a call back from Wendy's or Nordstrom up the street. For most, it's just....NEXT. That cat at the shelter that you didn't choose isn't saying to itself and cat owners that they don't know what it's like to feel rejected it just goes about licking it's paws, eating and shitting and eyeing out the next victim that comes along and if it likes them, it might show a little more personality , other than that it's life goes on as usual. Now you want to make it about you and how haarrd it is to get a woman to say yes for you just approaching them with no incentive to say yes and come on a forum and write how women don't even know how hard it is while the women have to worry about safety, who just wants to get in her pants and her pants alone, if he's a dick or a psychopathic loser philanderer, misogynist, have to vet and make sure he is who he says he is as far as not being a rapist or that he's not actually married or already taken, and these are just some issues women have to contend with before even getting to know the man and is in the initial stage. If you ask me a little rejection or a lot of rejection seems better to deal with than the mental strains of all I mentioned and more.

What do you think instinct is. It's the absence of the me, absence of awareness, absence of autonomy, absence of meaning and purpose and value and all that has to do with the me energy. Instinct is the real, raw, uncut version of the Absolute. It's what animals operate from babies and even adults when the me isn't seeming to appear. Intuition too, when no one is thinking and appearing to attempt to manipulate what's appearing.

The me energy. (Not really there) it's illusory. It likes to own things: emotions, personal space, ideas, people, countries, problems, mental disorders. solutions, states, life, diseases, reality and the universe and all that it seems to relate to and think are things separate from and different than it. It likes to feel needed, wanted, important, special, loved, heard, understood and to express itself in any way shape or form, a sense of meaning and purpose and for things to make sense to it and it's construction and likes to find value in the things it relates to. It doesn't like to feel, abandoned, angry, lonely, bored, small, unimportant, depressed, perplexed, confused, sad, anxious, ashamed. When I say its not really there and that it's an illusion, I mean everything is appearing but no one is at the drivers seat, no one is observing anything, no one is aware or conscious of anything and all is just simply and effortlessly appearing as itself. The me energy, however, senses that all is in relation to it and therefore the term relativity is born which doesn't really exist but only as a part of the dreamt reality of the institutionalized me.......OH, IT'S A MESS.

Nice. Been saying this all along.

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Were you looking for that from any of your past gfs. Offsprings and to have kids tall, white, handsome and bald who called their daddy, Daddy Deo Lura. 😜

No, it's nothing to be ashamed of; i was pointing out how misleading the title seems to be after reading some of your added comments and responses. Doesn't seem like you have a woman problem but a 'getting my preference met' problem. We all have different preferences, wants and desires in this category, just be upfront and recognize where the root of the problem we think we have lies instead of going around in circles with useless advice from people that doesn't even understand what lies beneath.

Well, everything depends on region. It's like me saying to someone looking for a natty dread and emphasizing how important that is on a dating resume, that's not a criteria for dating; it's not, but for that person it is and so will a lot of other features. Are we going to point out them all. So, him just saying it generally doesn't count without OP saying that's what the girls in that region like. Just saying it off the bat suggests it's a Universal trait that's preferred and it's not.

You should change the title of the thread to 'help, I can't get the type of female I want'. So misleading and a waste of people's time and energy. You're not looking for a girlfriend you seek someone to carry on your off-spring with your preferred looks and status.

This is not an added bonus when trying to get dates.

Every time you turn around, there's a crises brewing among so-called humans; an epidemic of sorts. Loneliness, lack of purpose, feeling empty, suicidal. There's one denominator here. When are we gonna realize there's a certain energy here that's lost in translation.

Is that what happened to you; someone broke your heart.

He already explained why. Something needs fixing.

Seriously? Seems like desperation to me.

People don't ask the hard questions. What everyone is mostly looking for is.....what most people want is,,,we're all looking for the same thing.....etcetc not why is the wanting there in the first place, that's the question in my book. Why is everything so self-centered is my enquiry, why no one cares about the eye lids closing to reveal nothing, we sleep and all die. It's always about happiness, end of suffering, other people being dumb, mean, or stupid, who awakened to what, what retreat to go on for a better life experience, what's valuable and what can I get out of life....meanwhile life is just trucking away with no care in the world for your petty concerns and will throw a tornado, hurricane or tsunami on the way to enlighten you of this fact but you'll blow it off and say that's just life and give me a hard time about something silly I may have said.

it's the passivity I'm referring to. No credit due in my response but you still felt the need to acknowledged that. You don't go around knocking other unworthy comments saying no value as usual, you either ignore or move on, but in my case, you have to unleash. Proof is in the history.

I'm so sick of those incel woman hating guys on the forum projecting and taking out their frustrations with life on me, it's pathetically obvious that's what's going on. Never have anything good to say when I comment and I never see them attack another male for his perversions. Always other females. I understand this place can be used as a place to unleash your pent up frustrations but stick to your journal or start one for that.

Yes, with his hatred for life and the opposite sex.

What kind of value do you expect from a boob flashing thread. Your constant mocking of me gets a bit ridiculous when it's obvious it's personal and nothing to do with the matter on hand. It's best to not project unto me because I can smell a hater from a mile away and for no reason other than i'm a female. I'm a pro at this by now. You, AION & Hojo to name a few and a guy can come on here and say how he'll fuck Jesus up the ass and not get one negative response from you guys but as soon as I as a female says something you deem whatever, it's on.

Keep on doing the work, guys, maybe you'll manifest an attractive vagina next that you can go pursue and end your ass up in jail; so make sure it's an unattractive one you don't care to pursue any further because you think there's an invitation there to pursue.

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