Princess Arabia

The Absolute is lost itself. Trying to find it's way back home not realizing it's everything. It's not really lost because that implies a position, but it seems to be. Everyone on this forum is the Absolute talking to and responding to itself. It cannot know itself. It's like a little baby trying to figure shit out. It won't get anywhere because it is also everywhere and nowhere. Why do you think you keep asking who am I, why am I here, looking for purpose and meaning.

You're probably handsome. Ugly guys experience it differently and thinks every guy does.

Pickmeishas do. Pick me, pick me.

The reason why the world seem so cruel and needs fixing is because the observer, the me, the I, the separate energy, all seemingly appearing to happen as such, has projected its sense of realness unto it. It doesn't fit into its fairytale paradigm of safety, comfort and whatever else it seeks to allow for certain feelings; the world it imagines doesn't fit into that. It sees a bunch of other me's acting up and being irrational and whatever else it projects and it's the only reason why and how the world cannot be perceived any other way.

You keep wanting and expecting there to be autonomy over here. The Absolute speaks, the Absolute responds, reacts and gives smart remarks. I'm not over here saying there is no one so who is going to chew me out. That would be me trying to see a no me. There's no me already so if it's being said, it's not being said by a me to say there's no me over there to chew me out.

I'm more speaking of the initial stages; even before you even have established a relationship other than just casually in passing. I'm not referring to the signals she gives if she wants to remain or stay or even on a date but more prior to all that. What happens in the cases you're mentioning will depend on the character and personality of both parties involved and the type of relationship it was.The cues will be different in thise cases than her trying to get you to notice her.

This is the dream. No relativity, no dreamlike state. Relativity is an illusion which makes the dream appear real but if there's no relativity nothing appears to any one and is just appearing, just as it is to a baby or an animal with no sense of a self. Existence is nothing.

Perfect. You described the dream perfectly. This is how the dream "gets created". In quotations because the dream isn't created but for language's sake). The Absolute, which is still a definition, cannot conceive of itself because it is whole and complete and nothing is outside of it. That's consciousness which is what you described and is also the Absolute being. Absolute appears as consciousness. This is how it's resonated here and doesn't mean it is so, so don't chew me out.

I choked so hard. 😂 Gotta make sure the volume is on to get it.

A woman that really wants you, will make sure you don't get away. She will find a way to get your attention but not only that, make you interact with her. If you don't do the obvious she will. If you don't, and she doesn't she never wanted you like that. Women are subtle in their cues, but they will make sure you get them to make the next move or they will. A hi and a certain look is not one of them.

Freedom from what. To be what. To do what. Being fearful is also freedom. The human wants conditional freedom. Human freedom. To be human is to fear. Both go hand in hand. To not want freedom is freedom itself.

Nice!! Love it.

Hope is the resistance to what is.

I said ok. Whatever you say. Doesn't matter at this point. I'm already over it. I don't even remember too much what all that noise was about. That's the beauty of who I am. I'll probably be smiling with leelajoker tomorrow. I'm only bothered in the moment. Working on not being bothered at all. Don't even see where I take this forum seriously in the way you mean it. I respect this forum and try to maintain a certain standard. I said ok, and you still pushed it with criticisms. Perfect example of what I mean. Anyway, I'm done with this nonsense now.

Ok.

Ok, I hurt by saying I and achieve and enlightenment shouldn't be used in the same sentence. Well, you guys hurt like death when you say "tap that ass". How's that for a hurt. Men hurt when a woman says no so I understand how anything can hurt if a simple no hurts. Does that hurt. I'm just direct. Some just can't handle a woman's directness, they want roses and poses and fairytails from a woman but from a man directness is accepted and expected. It is because I'm a female and it is personal for them by the nature of the convo, and observing how men speak on here to each other or even about wonen and the hatred they spread and no one intervenes and says nothing. Even threaten to rape and murder women and it's bypassed. Don't tell me shit. You call my taking up for and defending myself after I tried to be nice and not confronting, confronting and assertive. Whoopiie. Did you read the whole convo. A woman can take but so much before she flips.

That made me chuckle. Lol. I think AI did that on purpose. Probably saying to itself you interrupted my day by asking me how to slap peanut butter between two slices of bread to make a sandwich. It said " I'll tell ya alright, and eat it too and tell you why you shouldn't eat it so you don't bother me again with that petty shit". This was funny. I couldn't stop laughing. 15 paragraphs. Lol

No, I'm not stepping on roaches, they're bugging me and in the room where they might get sprayed.😏its ok, i'm good now. That energy is dissolving and going elsewhere. Thanks for your quirky words. They made me smile.

I understand and I also apologize for how I came off at you by saying "don't tell me to let it go". Its just I'm tired of the one to always having to let go of the bullying I receive on this forum by certain types of guys. I know you didn't mean any harm and I respect that, but, come on, it's getting a bit out of hand. Someone here told me the same thing with the preety India issue, let it go. Not much said to the perpetrators. It's starting to seem personal at this point on their end and I'm responding to that. Never any reason for their animosities towards me.

If you notice, i do, it's only certain types of guys that wants to fuck with me on here. No matter how much disagreements I have with certain types, I never run into a problem nor disrespect. It's always respectfully agreeing to disagree this includes schizophrenia, breakinthe wall, davino, and many others who don't disrespect others. I just sense a projection and I sense it being personal for them. They will fuck wit me and take my response to "not them" but the op personally. If that's not picking on, and projecting their personal views about me on me, I don't know what is, and I'm never initially responding to them in the first place. The result, Arabia, let it go and shut up. The paper trail is there, go read it.

Don't tell me to let it go. Nobody ever tell the guys to let anything go only the females. Did you read the whole convo, I think he's the one that needs to be told to let it go not me. I'm starting to really hate being on a male-dominated forum. It sucks. But I'm not here for all that, so I can suck it up. I never start anything, I only try to stick up for myself when there's an obvious projection of something other than having a discussion or a disagreement. What's wrong with saying the words I, achieve, and enlightenment shouldn't be used in the same sentence, if it's how I feel. Thats all I said and I got chewed out by an onlooker. Goddamit, I should just not speak at all. I bet plenty here would love that. Too much woman talk. Silence her. Let it go Arabia, not hey leelajoker you didn't have to be so harsh and mean ; instead you called his disrespect "a poke".

I never told anyone what they should or shouldn't do. I merely said what words shouldn't even be in the same sentence as a remark which I'm entitled to do on a public forum. Your remarks didn't move me one bit. They were harsh remarks that were addressed to someone who wasn't even addressing you in the first place. All I said was the words I achieve and enlightenment shouldn't be used in the same sentence and you cursed be out like a step child suggesting I shouldn't use the word shouldn't. How ironic. What's up with you guys here on the forum with your bullying ways. You don't scare me.

Yes, sir. Next time I'll stay silent. Yes, sireee. Nothing new here. I'm used to be silenced. Seems to be a trend here. I treated this one kindly though, you got off on this one. Next time I might not feel so kind.

You'll always seem stuck if you insist on a "you". That's where you're stuck at and keep thinking there's something to do like surrender or open up. If you can just drop all that, a revealing might happen where the self is illusory and all just is and nothing to do because this is already it.

I'm not sure anything arises from anything, but I do agree there's an openness that is possible to allow for the sense of self to "open up" or see things not as object/subject, but it happens all on it's own and without a cause or an effect and is not done by anyone but the body naturally opens to this.