Princess Arabia

Don't care about tik tok and social media dating stories. Nothing new under the sun. Just more publicized because of social media and our obsession with it. Watching that stuff and focusing on those types stuff does nothing but embed in our brains what we think the world is like, when in fact; successful, great quality, and happy relationships don't make the news as much or shown as much because it doesn't satisfy the mind's quench for drama and problems. By watching these stories you are not empowering or helping yourself, you are weakening and disempowering the mind to be more in a victimhood state. What are you getting from it? CONFIRMATION OF YOUR EXISTING BELIEFS - beliefs that are not serving you. You are a victim to your own circumstances.

Might be is speculation. Women aren't having sex with themselves.

Who the heck are these women with, themselves? Makes no sense.

I don't know, but it seems these women you're talking about that can easily find a man, these men are also with these women. Saying women can easily find a man yet complaining how hard it is for men to find women seems like an oxymoron. Obviously it's not hard for men because these women aren't with themselves or other women. IT'S MEN THEY'RE WITH. Your post is a great example that we have belief systems that aren't true; and we make them up as excuses as to why we're not accomplishing our goals. This one isn't obvious and kind of hard to see through because so many also believe what you're saying about how women finding it easy. So, you'll hear, "yeah man, you have to go out more and socialize". Yes, that's true; but how about addressing the fact that you're believing something that isn't true and it's showing up in your direct experience as so. I'm so sick of hearing about how women find it easy when that is also a misconception. Women can get laid whenever and by whomever, but women don't want to be, so they also have it hard finding the perfect lay, men are not as picky if it's just a lay they're looking for, as shown in your first sentence. Women have to usually feel something, men don't. It's not a judgement; it is what it is.

Haha, I tried to Google too and a bunch of recipes came up. Still not sure what it means. The did look good.

It's more of a pasta thing no matter the kind. Only if I'm doing Italian like Chicken Parm/Cacciatore/Meatballs or stuff like that with the red sauce; and even then I might sub mashed potatoes. Plus, not a fan of the spiral. Penne is good and spaghetti. Chick pea pasta is good.

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You mean zucchini with stuff inside?

That vinaigrette looks delicious. That salad too, only since I'm not a big fan of pasta, I'd use romaine instead. Thats how I cook sometimes. Lots of Mediterranean style eating.

You're being pretty funny and more relaxed lately. This side of you is refreshing to see. Something has changed. This is how observant I am. I can tell.

Yes, it's delicious if that's your kind of thing. My main style of eating, though, is Mediterranean as Jamaican food, depending on what it is, can take some effort and time to prepare and cook and sometimes I don't want to be in the kitchen for long. Mediterranean food is a lot more healthy, simple and easier to prepare. I can whip up a salad in no time or some fish or beans like hummus or some veggies and a side of whatever.

This is what i mean.

Just so you know this is about you and not the women. You were disowning and judging parts of yourself and now you've learnt how to accept them. The women were only tools and a reflection of what was going on deep inside you. As a result of this, you will also see positive changes in other areas in your life that you're challenged by, kudos to you.

You keep putting words in my mouth. Where in my comment did you see the word random. You have a very unsettling way of communication. You seem to hear only what you want to hear but not what's been said. Your interpretations stem from that, and in that brings complications and misunderstandings. been said.

When I was typing "parts have been solved", I didn't feel good about writing that. Something fell off, but I kept it there because if you notice the length of this thread, it was crazy busy and flowing and i felt it would have been missed and didn't matter. You quoted the only part I wasn't comfortable with and that says a lot in of itself.

It's all purposeful to the egoic mind identity, but not to life. Life is it's own purpose and is doing it's thing perfectly. I haven't seen life disappear yet. Life isn't saying I must do this or else, of I have to be this way or else, life is just life and how ever it is, is how it is and cannot be any other way. We're the ones putting our ideas unto life and turning it into "about us". Life is impersonal and doesn't see a human. There is no life and then you either because you are life. It's the mind that's doing this.

You should make another one of those Actualized trailers. That was epic.

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Yes, but one person isn't a reflection of infinite mirrors. So, no one can have all the answers.

Yes, I agree. If you're only talking about the kind of experience one can have, then I'm totally in agreement. If you're talking about some existential meaning and benefit one will gain to getting somewhere like say closer to God of enlightenment as in being in a better place after the so-called dream experience is over, then no. I'm saying all you're saying and those people you talk about are just different experiences and that is where it ends. There's no benefit other than maybe less suffering for the mind and a more enjoyable life experience. That's it. So, for those reasons it's worth engaging in.

Yes, I hear you but I don't mind. I get to engage with like-minded people and I'm engaging with life. Telling about my life and reiterating my life story is one way of keeping the dream and the illusion of separation alive also. So either way, we can't escape that unless we recluse in a mountain top somewhere away from people and live in a cave.

If there is no separation and all is one, how can anybody know everything. It's impossible. Even from a logical perspective. Knowledge is separation, so anything anybody knows is considered duality. I don't care about teachings and all that and don't think I'm speaking only from messages I've been exposed to. It's quite obvious to me what I'm saying is the case when I look at the big scheme of things. There has not been anything to debunk what I'm saying yet, only more thoughts and more stories, concepts and ideas. An apple cannot know anything about an entire apple because it's already the entire apple and knowing would mean it had to separate itself from itself, What part would it use to know the other pieces and what part would it use to know the part it's using to know that part. You see, just like science cannot know the whole truth because it is using itself to try to figure out itself. Sane thing. Going meta is still within the scopes of reality and so it's impossible for anyone to know INFINITY.

That "below" is a mind construct and means nothing to life. It only means something to you because you have chopped life up into little pieces to suit your survival and your crying little ego. This is the only way there can even be a world and a somebody with a life. If that weren't possible, we wouldn't be here having this discussion.

That's not what I'm saying. Of course, I can articulate my words and make sentences to construct a paragraph and type words on a screen so you can understand it. This is all possible because I went to school and was taught how to. Someone that didn't get any education and didn't learn how to read and write couldn't do this. What does that mean. All that means is I can read and write and I may get a better job and make friends and able to write letters to loved ones and read cooking books. Doesn't mean I'm going to heaven, meet God, have God realizations or become a guru. What those people are doing is what will allow them to accomplish certain things like have mystical experiences, have people follow them and learn from them and be able to teach spirituality......all that is are just experiences.....empty experiences that means nothing in the big scheme of things. Everything is empty and void of any real substance. The mind is what's constructing all that.

How is that possible? I or no one can answer that. Life is a mystery. It's just that certain parts have been solved and the messages past down. This is why no one, and i mean no one has the total answers for everything. You have still missed the point of the message by saying things like who is he making videos for and who are we talking to and stuff like that. There's no one to say, I'll stop making videos since nothing is happening. That is not what that means. If he was to stop, that would still be what's appearing to happen. There is no decision to be made regarding this on an individual level because those decisions would also be appearances and what's seeming to happen. This is not a message for anyone or for anyone to do anything about to change what will happen. Anything that happens will also be what life is doing. So I'm not saying it's meaningless and we're doomed, that's your mind's interpretation of what I'm pointing to. Nothing need change and nothing will change. Life goes on with friends, family, work, partying and so on if this message is being received in it's true context. It's when the mind filters it is when it becomes troublesome. No one knows how it's happening and how it's possible for this thing called life to be the way it is. It just is and words cannot explain it away. It's like magic and mysterious but only to the mind. This intelligence just is and this intelligence is known by no one because it cannot be known. Knowledge is separation and there's none.