Princess Arabia

You're judging. These scenarios can be quite fulfilling to both sides, putting away the morality of the situation. Nothing easy and quick about it. One has to be in it to understand this. What's easy and quick is to quickly believe it's easy and quick. If it were everybody would be doing it. It can get quite challenging when one has to emotionally abuse someone they don't know. Believe it or not it's a skill. One might say, come on how much skill does it require to do this, well, to be able to do it professionally and believable it is. Don't care what anyone says. All the rebuttals will only come from ignorance and assumptions and misunderstandings.

Not necessarily. They can be just very good actresses.

No, it is the Absolute Infinity where EVERYTHING exists. No need to try and figure how why. It just is.

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What I'm saying is emotions are energies in motion and need some flow and somewhere to go. If you take ownership of them by saying "my jealousy", "my sadness", etcetc they become like leeches and stick to you. They need to be, as you've done through coaching, let go of and not owned as yours. Even if your intent is not to own them, repetitively saying "my" will make the process harder and will leave the subconscious confused as to how to direct that energy because it believes it's yours and it's not in the business of losing things but to accept everything it is told as true, which happens through repetition and conviction. So eliminating the word "my" from these emotions will not make these emotions stick as much and will allow for a smoother transition when trying to heal.

If you want me to keep going, I'll even say to not call it "my jealousy", that's ownership; and the egoic mind identity hates to lose it's possessions. Don't own that jealousy. It's just energy that we've labelled as jealousy and it needs no ownership, that's why you were in that position to begin with. Food for thought.

👍but say, DONE. This way you're not embedding an attitude of trying. Just showing how the mind works even though I understand fully what you meant. The mind will just keep finding ways of just trying instead of getting the job done. It's very tricky.

Ok I'll throw it in the other direction from where you're gonna jump and then grab it and you till the psych ward comes.😜

We are thinking our lives away. I'm happy for you. Now, use the same strategy in all areas and only pay attention to the thoughts that are serving you and what you'll like to achieve. That's how we use the mind instead of letting the mind use us. It's not easy, but practice, practice, practice until it becomes embedded within the subconscious and a way of being without effort.

Nice. I keep telling people, especially on here, that it's the thoughts they're battling with. I personally have noticed this within myself in the past and have seen the difference. When I speak like I do, in this regard and context, it's from personal experience and not just what i've heard and parroting. I'm living this shit. I think it was just recently I said to someone about how they give those thoughts power but I was ignored maybe because it wasn't what they wanted to hear - which, ironically, is also a useless thought of mine to be believing that, but it's OK because at least i'm aware of it and awareness is curative.

I understand, but don't dismiss the ones that got fucked up mentally because they weren't ready. The End. ❤️

I've had guys tell me I'm not for them because I cannot humiliate them and treat them like the shit they want to be treated as. No one is taking advantage of anyone here, they want that, they want to be treated as such and will pay to get the job done. I was told I was too nice and i wasn't mean enough a couple times when approached for this type of work and there's no amount of meanness I could have faked because these guys can tell the difference and want it to be authentic and not faked. So don't think these guys are being taken advantaged of THEY WANT TO BE TAKEN ADVANTAGED OF or else they will look elsewhere. Now, whether this is sick or sadistic or whatever is another story, but there is a demand for this stuff. I personally don't like it, but I've done some mild ones because it wasn't so bad for me to handle.

Two reasons here why this line of work isn't for you. If you think it's "free money" and you're taking advantage of people for an exchange of services, that's emotional investment; and in this line of work you cannot have these mindsets. They are mindsets of the squares and normies in this field and you will be chewed up and eaten alive on a mental scale. These clients don't see it as being taking advantage of and these girls or whatever gender the worker is doesn't see it as free money. If they do, they are not seriously invested in the line of work and will suffer a quick burn out. It is simply a business and it has to be looked at as such where there is an exchange of services rendered and where there is a demand.

Lmao.

It's irresponsible to recommend it to someone with obvious mental issues and not recommending proper screening first.

That's the problem. Leo reached out to you with some solid advice and you respond by shouting back and reiterating you thought patterns once again. Do you really want helpful advice or to keep rebutting and sticking to your same frame of thinking. We're trying to help but you have to see that there's no solution when coming from the same state of mind that created the problem.

This is why sometimes you don't listen or adhere to what others have said and go with your own intuition or feelings, even though that's not always full-proof. . What are you detaching from to go get attached to something else. You're not attached to anything but your own frame of thoughts and thinking. Let go of all that and allow for what's taking place to take place without fighting it. That's the way to go. You are too much in your head thinking this should be this way and that should be another way. Too much information, too many strategies and how life should be. Let all that go and just let whatever comes come without judgement. Even letting go of the need to connect. Connect to your being and it will never fail you.

Thank you for responding the way you have. Maybe, just maybe, he might look up to you enough and take your advice seriously and think about what you have said because your influence on some here is very impactful in a positive way and you can be a great source of inspiration to those who need some motivation and advice when it comes to issues as this. I think it may be just what he needed to hear.

This is not, and I repeat, not for people who suffer from serious mental issues. Stop pushing this on those who threaten what he has threatened. Maybe an ayahuasca ceremony or mindfulness meditation or something like that but psychedelics might not be a good idea in his frame of mind.

It's funny watching the mind at work. It will drive us up the wall and back if we let it, which is exactly how 90% of humans live. Women is my only distraction from enlightenment. I need to get this out of my system. I've tried prostitutes but they don't scratch the itch for me and there's no connection to them. What kind of connection do you want with a prostitute. Now, I'm not at a particular level and my stupid ego has to come on board with this and realize that it has to accept that I have dualities (which, BTW are illusions) to take care of. Using an illusion (the ego) to take care of another illusion (duality). If this isn't neurosis like we all have been succumbed to, then I don't know what is. All in the mind. All delusion, all erractic thinking, all identification, all attachment and all within the scope of appearances in the world of change and where nothing is real. All thought after thought after thought and the egoic mind is trying to do something about it's own delusion. Next week it'll be I have awakened to so and so or I'm giving up this or that or I seek no more or whatever. It's infinite; infinitely everything and anything can appear including this. I seem to appear as fallen into victimhood too, so it's not just you; I'm seeing my own delusions playing out by seeing myself through you because it's all the same thing and there's no separation.

ok fine, I agree, but the OP isn't asking about relativity. The questions posed are more on a metaphysical level and are Absolute in nature and it seems to me looking for more clarification on the Absolute structure of reality more than how us humans experience it.

You don't get it. I don't wake up everyday, saying nothing is happening, but for a conversation as this and when someone is asking existential questions and looking for clarity, whether or not it is the case or I'm right or wrong, this is appropriate to discuss. This is not a dating question about sex and i'm responding nothing ain't happening so don't worry about it, it's a question about the existential nature of reality, telling me if I smash my fingers with a hammer is irrelevant to this discussion and doesn't answer the question as to whether anything is truly happening or not.

If there truly isn't anyone or no other or a figment of one's imagination, or I should say if one truly knows this, then why is this a concern - that people will not like and there will be a fall out. I don't get it.

Time and space are illusory - what path.

How do you know that anything is actually moving and that it's not just an appearance. How can you say "as much as you can be one with the movement", then say it's all one and speak about the Absolute. Doesn't that imply we're already implicitly one with the movement. We also say suffering is in the mind and it's an illusion, but you say if we can become one with the movement less suffering will take place. Is that one illusion (be one with the movement) making another illusion disappear (suffering). You see, it all sounds good but doesn't fit into the grand scheme of things and what doesn't fit into the grand scheme of things is to expect you'll say something that will. I realize nothing really fits into the grand scheme of things because there's nothing to fit into Infinity. So it's a matter of what is the mind is making sense of.