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It's not about what you think I'm basically saying. It's about what I said. Nothing in my words implied judgement. They were simply observations and my own analysis and implications. I would like for you to quote me verbatim where I passed judgements and criticisms and where it wasn't just a response to what I thought about something that was said. Please do, and make sure it's not someone else's quote that I didn't personally say. I will agree with you when I see it and agree where I was passing judgements because I'm not afraid to do so and admit to anything.

That's not what I'm saying. Of course, practice makes perfect, and we need to put in the hours to be good at something. To be out just approaching and approaching and approaching is only getting you good at approaching. 2000 approaches? What has one accomplished? Getting good at approaching. He said you can do that in a year. Sure. Fine. When do one stop to say after she says yes, how do I deal with the situation. Do I have the skills to keep her attention and to have a good time. Now you need 2000 more dates to get good at dating because you've mastered approaching. Then 1000 dates more to go through to really appreciate your times spent. Now 500 more to sift through the weed from the shaft and 250 more to get and keep a gf. By that time, you'll be an old man who conquered the dating scene and writing books and novels about how to seduce women and with a sore throat like Robert Greene.

I never started. I just love to inquire into the nature of reality. I'm a curious gal and like to observe. Anything I do is out of love not seeking. Yes, I'm seeking practical things but what else should I seek. I'm not playing hide and seek with the Universe. It never asked me to seek for it. It's right here, right now in plain site. What you see is what you get. I don't see any thing lost. Any knowledge I acquire is just that, knowledge. I'll know more than somebody else who doesn't have that same knowledge. If there's something for me to find, it will find me because i didn't ask to come here. I popped outta my mom's belly and here I am. If that's just my imagination and it never happened, then so be it. Why am I seeking for who I am and what is this moment. It's ridiculous. I read books and watch videos and listen to podcasts and am interested in improving the way I relate to people and in learning new things. If I spew stuff out my mouth, it's what I believe to be the case. If I'm wrong, then so be it; nothing will change because I'm not in charge. I'm aware and conscious, that's all i know, everything else is just concepts and ideas and regurgitation. I have not stopped learning about the Universe. It's a learning process not a seek and you shall find. I have matured while learning. I have gotten wiser and have learnt a lot about how the mind works, self-deception, spiral dynamics, how intelligence works, how reality is a strange loop, about infinity, about states of consciousness and so on and so forth. Lots of normal people don't have a clue about these things and I will continue to learn about these things because I love to learn and these topics interests me.....but seeking.....seeking for how to write an e-book, how to cook delicious food and how to control my emotions and not react to things so I don't raise my blood pressure. These are things I'm seeking. Not to see elephants in my hands and to see eyeballs on walls. Not to find God, because that's his problem if he wants to hide, not to get enlightened because I really don't know what that is and not to stop suffering because all I have to do there is allow it to be there. I don't mind. It doesn't like when I ignore it and it goes somewhere else for attention. You see, I don't need to seek in the ways you're referring to because I don't see anything wrong with anything only in the normal world where my perception is skewed and i believe that it is wrong - that's being human and I know it's not who I really am; because if it was, I wouldn't be able to perceive it. I cry and get mad and feel upset and joyful and peace comes and a little suffering comes and a little fear and anxiety and frustration and all the different emotions. So what. It's all encompassing and what life is about. I don't need to enjoy every waking second and I am a big girl now and have grown into all that to realize it's not permanent and those are things that will always be there. So what. I DON'T MIND. Only the ego does and I try to comfort it whenever I can and it settles down and walla it comes again and i ain't got time for all that babysitting so I just let it be and it shuts up. There you go.

I never mentioned anything about Solipsism in my last comment, the one you just replied to. I don't have to justify Solipsism because if all I said is true, there is no Solipsism either, but only as a concept and idea like we're talking about now. There's nothing justifiable but only within the illusion within the illusion. Now, we can continue to be illusionists.

There is no brain, and the body isn't real. There is no person having a life. There are no experiences and there is no world, not even on the inside. There is no one and there is no you to claim there is no one. There is no past and there is no future, there is not even a present moment because that implies a past and a future moment. There is no NOW either, because that implies time and that there is a THEN. Einstein and Jung and whomever else you claim to be so smart never existed and that's why they are not here to back up your claims about them. There is no movement and nothing is really happening. There is no one dreaming, nor is the Universe a mirror. There are no stars and no moon and sun. Jesus was never born and never died. My mother never existed or she would still be here. Everything you claim to know are just thoughts repeating themselves and will be repeated by another illusory figure to come that will claim to know stuff. Knowledge is an illusion and it's all descended down from dead ancestors who themselves didn't know anything. There is nothing here it's all empty and there is no point of reference, no facts, no truths and nothing false. Need me continue. Who is delusional now. Prove me wrong.

It's funny how I don't really watch porn and i will never do porn, meaning have sex on camera for the world to see. Nothing to do with morality as I'm an escort but it's just not my thing; but I don't shame the industry and call those people dysfunctional and low-consciousness or judge them. I find it's people that engage in these activities as watchers and even those that unwillingly engage in it that have the most judgements; maybe for the reasons you mentioned. Keep in mind that I'm not speaking about where there is abuse and exploitation and kidnapping and child abuse. Excluding those cases, but where it's consensual and only involving adults who enjoy their work and have no problems with it. There are these cases, in case nobody knows about them. The bad comments I see are from the ones who are porn watchers.

You are living in fantasy land. Do you think Mooji would laugh at someone if they put a gun to his head. I even heard him say he grieved over a relative's death but not to the point of getting all emotional about it. He moved on. You don't understand that it's the body doing it's thing. You're not responsible for how the body reacts no matter how conscious you think you are. You don't make your heart beat and you cannot make it stop just by saying "stop". The body will react, even if it laughs, doesn't relate to how awake you are and what you know about this experience. You just don't know. You heard about awakening by someone and now you think you know what awakening is. I never mentioned anything about awakening, you did. You are already awake and conscious, aren't you. How much more awake do you think you can get. The only difference is levels of awakening which is only a matter of perception. No one is more awake than another; only in perception and states of consciousness, which is still illusory as there is only the Absolute appearing as humans who are conscious. All that we do as spiritual practices is just for different experiences and ways of being and how we live life and perceive it. Yes, it will make for a better experience but that's it. You're not going to automatically know that you will just laugh at a gun to your head, unless you practice it over and over and train the body to react that way. Nothing to do with knowing that this is illusory and how awake you are.

He also used the word dysfunctional. So, if he agrees, he's agreeing to be dysfunctional.

That's what I said too. This is why I pay humans no mind. They are not acting of their own free will and choice and will say things that contradicts. Including myself, so I'm not exempt. It's just funny to see and shows how not to take yourself and the world too seriously because it's filled with contradictions and makes no sense.

❤️Wish you the best.

This is not Reality. To answer your question, yes, the body will jump into fight or flight response because it's a living and breathing thing. It's a response mechanism just like how a car will stop running if it has no gas. It's also a living thing because it's a part of a living Universe. So is a pen and a piece of paper. Just be is still having heart palpitations and being fearful. The difference is not going into story land and fantasies about what happened. Not ruminating in the mind that if I had done this or that it wouldn't have happened. Not seeing it as anything but a gun is at your head and what happened as a response. Just be means to allow things to flow as they are without the mind's stories attached.

OMG! If you read my first sentence of the first comment I made, this is the site i was speaking of. I forgot the name of it; and when I looked it up after seeing the name you posted, which immediately rang a bell, I noticed it was the same. One Mind. The more you connect mentally, the more things get revealed. People think I speak and parrot gurus but I'm very observant and see for myself the directness of what I speak about. It's no coincidence that you mentioned this exact same site that I didn't remember the name of. I was invited to dinner today for a later date by someone i just met, and they gave me a take out menu to revise and take home to see if it's a place I'd like to eat at. Guess what. I came home and guess what was in the mail box. That same take out menu. Delivered and sealed right in my box to let me know this was a good choice. I pay attention to things like these because the Universe sends us signals all the time, we just have to have the eyes to see and acknowledge them when we do. It's a local Italian Restaurant and I love Italian food. I have never even seen that menu before delivered to my mailbox. Pay attention to details and keep your thoughts and ideas out of it. Only if they serve you. This is how to see reality as it is and how to direct it in ways that serve you. Ideas and thoughts about reality are not reality and it's forever changing to fit into our own unique survival mechanisms through our thoughts and beliefs. So, start believing in things you want to see happen.

@TenebrosoYou have written a well thought-out analysis of the video and it shows how much attention you gave to the details. I'm impressed. It shows how all these things are already within us, and we already have the knowledge inside of us but need others to remind us of it. You wouldn't have been able to do that if this wasn't the case. Don't get too literal with it, though, and leave room for exceptions and spontaneous activity. I also learnt a thing or two from it and was amazed at some of the descriptions she gave as to the dynamics of our attractions. It's the same with me as in being attracted to people and being stunned as to why that is. Her explanation made perfect sense to me as I could relate to it on a personal and individual level. This is why I agree at times that this isn't a one-size-fits all and to approach the dating world with an open mind and expect surprises. I am glad to share videos like this where one can gather information to help them maneuver the outside world in cases where they are having challenges. Glad you got something from it and i suggest you watch more videos like these instead of feeding the mind with tik tok viral videos of women dating serial killers and mass shooters and draculas. Lol. Infinity has no end, and everything exists, but it's a matter of where we put our focus and attention that determines our experiences and circumstances. This is what it means to be Awareness. It knows no bounds and is limitless and infinite. Anything goes. Shine it's light on what you want to see and focus your energy on where you like for it to expand. Not the lack of it, though, because you'll experience more lack which is still abundance to your Awareness. It's not personal and doesn't see you but reads where your focus is.

You can instill in the mind what you want to accomplish. You can see images of yourself doing approaches and seeing the results you want to experience in the mind. You can paint a mental picture and see yourself in likeable situations and circumstances. You can envision what type of female you'd like to spar with and how she relates to you favorably. All seeing these images in the mind's eye before you even go out. You can stay in alert mode, every time you go out in public and be open to any situation that may arise for you meeting women and not just going out to intentionally do approaches. Lots of people meet people in unsuspecting places. Once you have it in the mind and keep it there and keep it some more and some more, you have set the ball a rolling; and in no time, and depending on how intense of an emotional reaction you have while visualizing, you will start to meet people in your reality to match what you've envisioned in the mind. Might not be exact, but you will have developed a momentum and be in flow. Many people including bad boys and players have unconsciously done this but there was no choice but for it to play out in the physical plane whether they realize that they have done this or not mentally. Bad boys and players have developed a momentum and flow and don't need to think about it anymore because now they have the mindset that they can easily get girls and girls will flock to them like flies on dog shit.

lol. I've come to the conclusion that Leo is an extremist. 10,000 hrs, 2000 approaches, and everything else he suggests is to the extreme. Then he expects everyone else to be comfortable with the same approach. No, it's defeat to others minds and requires a certain skill set but also leads to burnt out energy; then he wonders why he's tired all the time and will say it's his health condition. Not denying that, just saying, because I don't know his personal situation. I'm just speaking from speculation.

Thoughts aren't in the head, they are floating around in the ether. We only identify with them because we see ourselves as separate, so everything is in relation to us. Feelings aren't even our own. They are just feelings we've claimed to be our own. This is why not everyone feels the same about the same things. It's energy responding to energy and we think it's personal. There's nothing personal. It's the only way we can be a separate being. Which is fine for survival, living and experiencing. But it's all illusory. Of course I feel, but that's because I'm a separate individual - seemingly so. I can, with lots of meditation, practice, focus, attention and concentration detach from those feelings and feel nothing. Why can Bruce Lee chop on a piece of cement and break it in two and not feel a thing. Took a lot of practice and the rest i mentioned above to accomplish that. The mirage has everyone fooled; and this, my friend, is how we're able to have a life and a world. Solipsism is true from the perspective of it being only one Universal Body/Self, but each of us have our own perspectives. Our own individual experiences, thoughts, ideas etc, but they are all connected; in fact, nothing is connected, because connection implies something was disconnected. It's all the same thing. The brain is what's used to see the forms and is filtering the ways in which we all see the world. Ever seen a brain dead person speak or have perspectives and perceptions? No. Without the brain, the "you" is non-existent. Without the brain we can't see colors, taste, feel, smell, hear or even have thoughts. Those are dependent on the brain. So whether you believe in Solipsism or not, it doesn't matter because you have your own experience and the rest independent of others; but it is only in appearance only and is part of the mirage. Ever thought of someone and they called, ever said the same thing at the same time as someone else, ever heard of twins having the same exact experience as the other twin and ever heard of a mother knowing her child is in danger. These are all a result of the one Universal Mind known as Solipsism. It's not really realm but at the same time not unreal. The Universe is not logical. It's illogical and chaotic, but it's like an ordered chaos. It's unpredictable but also predictable as in the weather and seasons etc. It's spontaneous but also not. It's impersonal and doesn't see humans. It's one flow that is ever present and is happening in one Universal moment - so-to-speak. It's alive, aware and conscious of itself. It's you. There is really no Universe but what appears as a Universe. It disappears when there's no mind and appears when mind is present, as in sleep. There's nothing actually happening, it's all an appearance and it is no-thing and everything simultaneously. It's intelligence at play and cannot be known. Anything you know if it will be conceptual.

This is the key. Not doing approaches after approaches after approaches. Someone can approach once or twice and get results; but if the mindset is to do plenty of approaches before you can see results, the mind will sabotage itself and not expect any results until it does a certain amount of approaches to get the same result.

This is your belief because you think I need to understand what it's like to be horny and need to get laid from a man's perspective. I don't need to know how that feels to be able to understand that more approaches just for the sake of approaches doesn't lead to better results or even getting better at approaches. All that means is that you are doing over 2000 approaches and developing a mindset of more approaches and being a master at approaching. Approaching isn't the goal.

This is what I'm talking about. It's a mind's game. Leo teaches this too so i don't know why he thinks this is any different. Numbers are important, but I think in this case it's the number of times one goes out more than how many women one approaches. 2000 plus, geesh. That's like an approach marathon, lol.

I never really had this experience, but I felt every emotion that you felt writing this. I could feel the pain you were going through. It will take time. Don't try to think of another woman you can, will or may love as much as you loved her for now. Try not to think about another woman now. I will say, and even though it's not the same, I know you'll understand because I sense an air of maturity in you that can see the similarity. I had to let go if a cat I dearly loved and had for 14yrs. I cried like a baby and swore I'd never get another cat. Guess what, I have another cat. About 2yrs in between but I never went looking, she found me because I opened up my heart and was mentally ready to the point where I started dreaming about cats and one day a stray kitten was found in the back yard. Long story there but you get the drift. I thought I'd never find or even wanted another cat; but it happened when I finally allowed myself to open up to the possibility of having another cat again. So, allow yourself to go through the emotions and when you're mentally ready, it will find you, but not before.

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It's not about approaching 2000xplus either. I don't need to be a man to know that that's burn out mode. Attracting things to you doesn't mean to sit on your ass and do nothing. It means going out with a particular mindset and let the energy do the work. That could still be approaching but not in numbers but in right timing. Anyway, I'm more into working smarter not harder. You can use other examples with this analogy and certain things operate the same way only in different contexts and contents. So, certain things are Universal and can be applied whether it be a male thing or a female thing.

That's because it's not a numbers game it's a mind's game. 2000x means you're trying to force something physical in a mental Universe. Also chasing implies something's running. I bet you pussy started coming to you when you didn't want or desire it and was even turning it down. You released the resistance of trying to get something instead of attracting it to you.

An apple doesn't know it's an apple. A cat doesn't know it's a cat. Knowing is separation. One cannot know themselves, they can only be themselves. This moment is eternal and that eternity is infinite and also cannot be known, it just is. When you realize this, the seeking stops and you just be.

It's not so much as needing it to fade but to see it in a way where it brings you joy to have had such an intense experience with someone that made you feel alive and you were able to express the love that you are and share it with someone. Now you have practice and can do it better next time around and now your capacity to love has expanded where the hurt won't feel as bad and the joyous moments seem to replicate themselves but through different people. Why would you want such joyous moments that you had with someone to fade...only if they were looked at as something to gain and not something to experience and your ego feels bad because it isn't gaining anymore, so let's fade it away, so I can concentrate on gaining from a new experience where i don't have to remember that other joyous lover i had because it was about me and what I'm about to hopefully gain from you too. You trying to get that ex out of your head is exactly why they are still there.