Princess Arabia

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  1. Ok. Please don't drive yourself crazy by these things. They're meant to be understood not used as escapism of reality.
  2. https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_tn13wSYOh/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Cabbage bread. So simple and easy. Love these bread alternatives and why I don't eat that many sandwiches; it's because of the bread. You have to check this out. Pay no attention to the sandwich ingredients if that's not your taste, it's the cabbage bread that's the star of the show.
  3. lol. Let people have their fun. They're probably home sitting on the balcony watching the cool breeze while they're talking shit and having a grand ole time. Lol. You know how we do. Talk shit. Then we realize that we need a job to pay for the internet that allows for the talking of the shit. Lol you're reading the shit.
  4. Nice. Just one caveat; and this is only to make you aware of it and to keep it in the background. It's the mind that wants to work on itself and it's the mind that says it needs to quit social media to work on itself. The mind is very tricky and will end up in circles if you're not careful on how to maneuver it. A suggestion is to not say you're quitting social media because it's bad and causing this and that and i need to work on myself but to just see it as something you're just not interested in anymore and are moving on to do something else. Only a suggestion as I'm kind of familiar on how the tricky mind works and how it gets entangled into it's own traps. Kudos to you, though, for taking steps to improve your experience.
  5. Also consider where they got their information to be able to share it here. Came from somewhere. That place might have been from social media. The people with those brilliant insights were also influenced by something else. So it's a chain of causation. Saying this place is the only good social media is like saying I'll just leave out the reasons why it's so good and forget about the things that made it good.
  6. There's a time for these kinds of abstract notions. During the night dream, there's no one there telling you, it's just a dream don't run from that bear. Your ass is still running or you're still fearful. Integration of the Absolute and the relative is key to be able to have conversations in life and to be of service to answer questions of this nature without saying nobody is here to answer their questions and maybe it's all an illusion. If someone asks me about my stance on solipsism, my response wouldn't be there's no one here so i don't know or you don't exist so there's no question here etc, Just saying.
  7. If social media was a problem for you then deleting it will (or I should say might) lead you somewhere else to project that problem. A lot of people are using it to better their lives and to learn and acquire the knowledge they seek. That's how I use it except for an occasional scroll here and there. Can't resist a cute cat video or a little tiny bit of celebrity gossip to break up the monotony of learning and delving into deep topics. Maybe 10mins here and there of random stuff. So, I feel no need to delete. I'm actually bombarded with topics of interest as the algorithm caters to that and that's the only problem I have. Not just randomly scrolling. A problem doesn't just go away by deleting it, but getting to the cause of the problem to avoid other problems similar to the frequency of said problem. Things just rotate and not get solved this way. It's like having an addiction problem and trying to eliminate the addiction to that substance while the reason for the addiction still lingers around. You'll just find something else to get addicted to. The issue is not even that, because we're just addiction freaks but levelling up your frequency and changing the core of who you are will lead to being addicted to other meaningful things that may be more beneficial and where you're engaging in things on a different level that allows for a better experience of life. E.g. getting addicted to healthy eating, knowledge that's uplifting and motivating, addicted to sharing love, addicted to helping others, stuff like that. Certain problems cannot even arise when there's a certain mindset; they can't flourish. They fall away. Someone who feels deeply loved by whatever source, whether it's from through self or loved ones, will not be addicted to certain things and vice versa. So, increasing your capacity to love and to share that love will also lessen the addiction to destructive things and widen your capacity to turn towards more things that will allow for the expression of that love. Social media can be used for that, as I try to do here with posts like these, where I share the knowledge I've acquired from life and experts on certain topics; and I can also receive from others. If social media was a bad thing, it would be bad for everyone. It's just a matter of how it's being used.
  8. What self are you killing. Something cannot kill itself.
  9. And I respect you for not shying away and being patronizing. It was a normal comment said in a respectable tone and doesn't really warranty a surprise reaction. Coming from you, it has an air of concern for the outcome of Actualized whether agreed with or not.
  10. What's the difference with saying what he said to Leo in a respectable manner out of love and somebody degrading someone on the forum and being crude. Would you say to them the same thing. Probably not. I haven't seen anyone saying to me or anyone when we're being disrespectful "did you really say that, really? Except for being punished. How great society would be if being disrespectful and cruel to anyone would get the same response.
  11. All meditation means is to become familiar with. You are already meditating naturally.
  12. This is not just what this guy stands for or talks about. He also meditates but not to get somewhere as he totally enjoys it. You would have to be somewhat awaken to really appreciate this guy's channel. It's not for the egoic mind that's chasing enlightenment and believes it's a separate entity. This is why I don't share these small channels as much because some minds tend to like extravagance VS simplicity. Some minds believe it has to do something to attain freedom and to be liberated. These channels are not for those minds it's for the ones who already realize who they are and are trying to stay in that space, to live from that space. It's simple and doesn't engage in a lot of outside practices and fancy terms and processes which takes you away from the true self. This guy is the real deal but he will not be recognized as such because most people aren't there yet. They have to go through the endless seeking and endless processes and practices to realize that it will never end. I'm not speaking about the things we can learn like from Leo's channel or other spiritual channels who goes in depth about the nature of consciousness and so on and about what is intelligence and so on. Just the basics of who we are and the nature of reality as to the illusory nature of it. Not identifying as a human without discarding the human essence is the way to go and will make things reveal themselves to you easier but most people insist on identifying as human and are worshipping false gods and idols saying they are needed to get to where they already know that they are and to show them what they already know that they are. It's the mind's way of keeping itself alive and kicking with all the self-deception and loops it carries on with and consciousness is unaware of itself in those cases. This guy is just a reminder and an inspiration to those who are aware of their true nature and has seen through the mind's deception and it will not become popular because most have not seen through that yet, hence gurus and practices galore.
  13. Consciousness.
  14. Ok ma'am. I guess the same goes for all the others you're a menace to. Seems to be one person in common here.
  15. Telling someone, no matter what they do for a living that they are far from enlightenment is in of itself unconscious behavior. You have shown more unconscious behavior on this forum than I have and if you were even remotely somewhat enlightened you would have come to the realization that the person's true nature is not what they do for a living BUT IS BEING WITNESSED. You have identified with a body/mind and in inturn you can't see pass other's. I'm aware that what I'm witnessing here on this forum from you is not who you truly are but just a false identity you have created and in that case I'm also aware that your bullying and defamations are also coming from a place of ignorance. This is why I won't block you unless it gets really really bad, which I doubt; and will still continue to engage unless it gets really, really bad, because for me it's not personal. In fact, this is very good practice for me to stay and rest as the witness.
  16. I'd rather be of low-self esteem and fart and piss on people who don't mind than to be a forum bully and show's no regard for people's feelings and who constantly belittles people to feel better about themselves and try to defame people's characters. Pissing on someone that asks for that doesn't even come close not even by a mile on the traits i mentioned above. Money can't make one feel better about themselves but being loving and kind can, and also pissing on someone who enjoys that because it's the mind that thinks it's degrading. Love is the essence of creation in it's pure form and the more one strays away from that they are being unloving. Pissing on someone who wants that isn't unloving but being a menace to society is and the constant bullying and showing lack of respect, judging and criticizing is. Doesn't even come close in the relative sense.
  17. Sorry but, the fact that I know there's no such thing as enlightenment means I'm not doing too bad. You don't even know me personally but you've drawn these conclusions. Shows how far you have to go. In fact, I treat people with respect, kindness and compassion even during work and those are traits that so-called enlightened people exude. If you think popping some psychedelics and having God realization and being mean to people on a forum and judging and criticizing every step of the way and every multiple forum members finding you a menace is enlightenment of moving closer to it than a sex worker who mostly shows the opposite traits and is not a forum bully then you have no idea what it is to be enlightened.
  18. You cannot tell me why I've decided to do this kind of work. Some women could only dream of getting paid hundreds of dollars from one client for a half an hr just to talk. (not saying it's in all cases but it does happen)It's a lucrative business and pays well. Between sitting at a desk and working for someone getting paid average salary and making someone else rich, I'll choose what I do over that. Not saying those are the only choices but in this business it's possible to make tons of money doing the bare minimum and it has nothing to do with my self-esteem being low. It's when I realize the details of the work and what's possible is how I ended up staying in it. I could list here the amount of times I got paid good money for doing stuff that anybody else does for free and it didn't entail having intercourse. That's the only reason i'm in it because I wouldn't and couldn't if it were otherwise. No one has to believe me; but I've said time and time again I don't have intercourse doing what I do very very rarely, and as a matter of fact the girls that dont are the ones making more money except for porn stars. You have no idea what this business is like on the varied scale and having low self-esteem isn't a criteria for a woman who is willing to be of service in ways she finds reputable and doesn't destroy her character.
  19. Emerald and I have different likes in this respect. I don't really care if the guy is more attractive than I am; and not to sound cocky, but I'm already a naturally beautiful woman so it's very rare that the case is where he's more attractive than I am; and if that were the case, I believe I wouldn't mind. Don't think I've ever ran into that situation, though. This is probably why, in my case, looks aren't that important and especially where they need to be more or less attractive looking. I carry that weight for both of us.