Princess Arabia

Yes, but still....can you ask first. My manners is very up-to-par and I think it's rude. Now, I don't think a man would think it's rude if i was to send naked pic's; another example of how some men think women like the same things they like or love the same way they do. Maybe not love - but you get the drift. They would love getting these pics, so they think we do too.

Lol. I've gotten unsolicited pictures of men's penises just because they find me attractive. These weren't low-lives either but distinguished men in society. I felt violated. Lol

Ok, I see what you mean by value.

I don't get excited just because I see a high-value man. For me, it takes more than that. So, how would you put all what you're saying when a woman sees a low-value man and gets excited because she just loves the way he looks. Plenty of women are in love with men who are bums. Where is the value there in her excitement. BTW, that pig analogy speaks for itself.

Don't feel bad; it's normal for the limited human. Real love exists, but it's Universal and is already the case. What humans are doing is just expressions of that Love. It's impossible for humans to have unconditional love for anything in form because of it's nature. You loving your gf only because she's of ideal weight in your eyes is only natural. Don't look to try and love anything unconditionally because you're not capable. It's like expecting a piece of an apple to be a whole apple. The whole, of which you're apart of, is already unconditional love.

So many men love really attractive women, but sometimes when those women decide to date them and are really into them, if they are average guys, they start to wonder what does she see in me or become very insecure in the relationship not realizing there's something there that sparks her fancy other than what he thinks she should like or be into. Men will judge themselves negatively and eliminate themselves before even giving the woman a chance. Many times I've had men say to me I know you have a bf or man, where's he at, or how they can't afford a woman like me or they're too old for me or too short or whatever. They have told me what I'm looking for indirectly. Secretly I'd be like thanking them for eliminating themselves before me wasting time with all those insecurities. I can deal with being insecure about your hair or your little fat stomach or your big toe, but those insecurities i mentioned is telling me that you're not confident in yourself enough and would put me through it to have to prove why I like you so much and your suspicions would start to kick in as to why I'm with you and probably be the jealous type. Just come to me straight and direct and let me decide for myself. When a woman is looking for love or she's in the market to fall in love, or wants to feel that spark, her "logic button" is turned off; it's when she's trying to get married or looking for security off the bat, is when she turns the "logic button" back on.

Just because some women like men of status, doesn't mean they are physically attracted to those men. Women's attraction isn't based on value, unconscious or not, it's based off of feelings; so if how she feels is valuable to her then OK. A lot of women are out here getting attracted to men who are of no value to them; she's just going off of her emotions and feelings and then later on, when all that settles down, she realizes he's of no value, if he isn't. Then she's like "what the hell was i thinking", she wasn't. I didn't realize feelings had logic behind it. Thought it was ether logic and reason or feelings and intuition. Maybe that's all just semantics.

Lol

Except for the countries part,(only because I think it's just a matter of preference), spoken like a true man of status. I can tell you have class and is a man of status. This is how they usually speak about the women they are looking for.

This is what some just can't understand.

This is just from a man's perspective. A man who desires hot chicks and settles for what he gets. Women aren't thinking this way. Women aren't going around saying, this is what I can get so I'm attracted to him. A woman is either attracted or she's not, not based on what she can get. Yes, people settle, but attracted, no.

Lol. People are lost in the dream.

Very interesting conversation.

Sure. Just wanted to point that out.

@Dana1I agree with what you're saying but that's why there are other experts and sources to get different information from and to not put all our eggs in one basket.

Have to stop you here. This, to me, is justifying and blaming. No matter how society is, no one is responsible for someone else's actions. When others see this type of rhetoric who are mentally deranged, they might think it's OK to go ahead and commit their atrocious acts since it's "them" that created me. That's definitely taking the load off of taking responsibility for one's own actions. I do understand what you're trying to get at, but I still think no one created them but themselves.

Hehe. Grounded in jokes.😜

You see billions of people; the Universe only sees itself.

Yes, I also read that, but I also read the opposite. Personally, I don't think it causes it. Here's a video on it.

Nothing has power over you unless you give it. How you give it power is by focusing on it and placing your attention there. Getting emotionally charged over particular circumstances. It arose, you charged it, and now you made it come alive. It's the same as me replying to your post. It's not a big deal that I responded, but I'm giving you an example. If I had left this post alone and replied to another thread, this post would be dead to me just like all the other threads from years ago that are still in the database of the forum. Look back at all the other things that arise within your awareness in the past that are no longer there, no longer on your mind, no longer making you emotionally charged; they went right back from whence they came.

More power to you. I'll continue to put my energy and awareness on where I want it and what serves me; not on dead matter.

I read somewhere once that soy milk increases estrogen. It increases chances of breast cancer, (Just saying what I've read before, not my findings). I personally don't drink it but only because I don't feel like and have no need to. I also read before that soy is best consumed in fermented form like tofu and to avoid edamame.

Why all this fear mongering. If you want to fight, fight for what you are for and not for what you are against.