Princess Arabia

There is no you to die.

No one knows anything, makes no difference if it's about death or lemonade.

Yes, I agree depends on the woman. You're welcome. 🫠

I think it's the guys that put the pressure on themselves to 'perform'. Women are naturally nurturing and will be more forgiving in these circumstances. It's only when it's a matter of true survival of kids and family where she'll want the guy to be more 'perfect' and fit more into her world of survival. What OP explained was more in fun and play and, remember, women love to play and have fun.....until.

Like, seriously! More reason why he should have had more compassion and regards for human life seeing how it can need special care and not go take the lives of others where now others will really need special care and his actions will take a financial toll on the families involved.

Ironically, it is this that would have been the attractive part to me. I would have been so attracted to this if I was aware all this was going on inside you. It shows sincerity and vulnerability that can only be unleashed by someone that cares. Doesn't matter what you cared about, you cared enough to want to do and be better and that's all that counts in this situation, not excellence. There is no way up from excellence. Now its time for some real excitement and challenges, baby, let's do this together. That's how you do this, not scheme and organize your way into getting it right. Fuck up all the way while trying not to fuck up. How attractive is that. Forget about what to do next time and any tips. Approach it organically and let what happens, happens. Right on! You did great.

We are trying so desperately to dissolve something that we never intentionally started to begin with. I am going to have an ego that I will construct and maintain it with stories, ideas and concepts; and then I will annihilate it when the times comes for me to awaken to my true nature. I will do all sorts of practices and processes to get rid of this thing so I can become one with everything and maybe become enlightened and end all of this egoic suffering or, at best, learn how to live with this suffering as that's the more mindful thing to do, feel into this goddamn suffering since I can't get rid of it but I'll still try. Did you put it there to begin with, no it just appeared. Everything just appears. Nothing can be stopped. It's either it is or it isn't.

Everyone talks about an Awakening. That's lovely, wonderful, beautiful and magnificent because deep sleep is all there is and cannot be talked about or experienced. You have awakened to nothing because nothing is being an awakening.

Boom! I see you! Peek-a-boo!.

A woman can usually detect a woman hater. She can feel it. She feels everything. The one's she comes in contact with physically are harder to detect than the one's online because in person, they'll put up a bit more front. The one's online feels they're hiding behind a screen so they'll let their guards down a bit and expose their true nature more easily especially if they're not trying to get anything from her. Just the words they use and how angry they sound and how personal they take everything; but the main sign and dead give-away is when they call the woman they're hating on a man-hater. It's the #1 sign that he himself is a woman-hater. If a woman is a self-proclaimed man-hater and just constantly hates on men and is obviously a man-hater and the conversation calls for pointing that out, that's different; but just out the blue to make his weak points, then it's just a projection of his own feelings towards women especially if done in an angry way. Women can feel these things especially when she herself is a loving person, has never been called that before by anyone in her personal life by the people that knows her best and have only been called that by men who doesn't know her personally but knows what she does for a living because that's an automatic death sentence that you hate men if you're a stripper or a working girl. Even when I haven't been called a man hater in this context, the men expect it from us because they're thinking we must have it hard in the field and get treated by men badly all the time which is so far from the truth.

Every statement, every comment, every response and everything said on this forum that is a person's point of view and not factual. It also doesn't have to have been concluded because people can change their opinions at any time depending on some other thing or statement they've heard.

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Start to see (without the eyes) how you're creating your story. It varies but I'll name some examples. If you're suicidal, you'll start to see more stories of suicidals. This one is a classic - think of someone and they appear/call/text/show up in some form way or fashion. Even here on the forum, start to notice people absent for a while and they cross your mind and they show back up soon there after. Notice how you don't have to lift a finger sometimes for some mental problem to be solved, it just gets solved automatically or by itself in due course. Notice how what you thought about a particular someone was because of a past experience with someone else. What does the current person have to do with the person of the past - nothing, but only in the story you're imagining and creating. It's everywhere and I'll keep adding to this list when I think of it, i'm at a block right now. Notice life will show up differently than you imagined and having to say to yourself oh I thought that was so and so or that person fooled you into thinking this about her or him. Thats because your story is different from what's actually appearing and it's being constructed. The dream does that. It's it's own world/reality. If someone comments the exact words you were going to comment but you changed your mind and said nothing. Meaning, you saw something you were going to comment on but you didn't and someone else commented saying the exact thing you were going to say.

I will be called a whore or a tramp (just saying, not that I am being called that)if I use my body to pay my bills and eat and not give away anything sexual to any and any guy I meet while a guy will be edged on, encouraged, high-fived and called a Don for sticking his dick in some strange pussy he just met without a condom for free and just go be able to cum or be with some woman.

Some men will think just because a female loves something done to her sexually, she's going to love it when he does it to her. It's all a matter of who it's being done by; and trust me, it won't be by some dude she just met. She may act or be a certain way under the influence, but it takes a certain person for a woman to want some special sexual act from. They'll ask "what turns you on" but it's more like " who turns you on". It took me awhile to even come to grips with how men can just be turned on by a woman's body without knowing anything about her. This was when I was much younger. Even now it kills me how men can just think they can ask me what I like sexually and really expect an answer for them to fulfill. I'm not talking about relationship wise, I'm talking about guys I just met or have never been with sexually. Doesn't matter what I like, it won't feel the same if it's not being done by a specific person, and that's usually someone you have feelings for whether healthily or not.

Wise words.

A woman will get looked down upon as a hooker just trying to pay her bills while a guy praised for wanting to tap some strangers ass simply because it looks good to him.

Everything in this life speaks for itself, you just have to pay attention. One of them is the disdain some men have for women that sleeps around. It's how they view themselves as a man that brings on this disdain. Notice how men aren't viewed negatively the more women they get to sleep with; why is that. C'mon people wake up; and men, stop telling on yourselves.

Women don't leave you, men don't leave you; they appear or they don't. Yeah, I had to throw in a bit of this shit in here. Gotta try to keep it a bit more natural other than that unnatural reality about men this and women that and making up stories to keep this shit going.

We don't claim the mountains to be ours, we don't claim the ocean, the clouds, the rain the volcano to be ours. We don't claim the neighbor's dog to be ours, we don't claim that other person's body to be ours, we don't claim......and I can list to infinity, but why not, we claim passing happiness to be ours, passing suffering and impersonal joy and pain to be ours. We practice neti neti and self inquiry that says we are not the body/mind/thoughts but all of a sudden we want to own happiness, suffering, sadness, joy, bliss, even competence, confidence and every other impersonal adjective and emotion that's just minding it's business and being itself. It's my happiness, my suffering, my anger, my depression, my joy, my love, my hate, my this and my that but that's your dog.

We're not seeing at all. Nothing is looking through these eyes. It's just seeing.

It seems like one is actively hearing but that sense s just going on it's own. Experiment. When nodding off, dosing off to sleep and listening to say a podcast, one can still hear the podcast in the background. Or a movie. Fall asleep on a movie and you can hear the movie in the background while you sleep. Let me see you do free will to shut that down. I can be in my room sleeping and hear the neighbor's music while sleeping. How's that me doing any listening. How's that a choice.

There is no process to something that's not actually happening,

The body will seem to attack itself if an outside threat is felt, illusory or not. It's energetic tension.