Princess Arabia

Why are you constantly putting down the people here. You can praise Sadhguru all you want and kiss his ass, but doesn't mean you have to compare and put others down. Didn't he teach you that. Maybe he should. "Doesn't just talk about it like many here". What you want, singing, dancing, meditating, acting.....here on the forum. It's a place to talk.

Thanks. Your idea of me isn't that bad, I'll take it. High conscious is just a concept an idea. Let's see if your high consciousness concept and idea doesn't make the body appear to rot, and maggots and flies and ants don't consume it in the grave. Will those maggots be high conscious too. Maybe not. So you see, doesn't matter.

You're not in control of what you attract.

Tell 'em. Love it. It's kinda cool. Makes me wonder what next. You know they're all kinds of stories they're making up in their heads as to why you do that. Don't you. When something is out the norm, it confuses the mind. Perfect example of how we create our problems. Can't see things for what it is but how they want it to be or think it should be.

Sounds like an ego trip. You don't say that regarding the poisons you put in your body when you support those million dollar company's or anything you buy for your pleasure. Nobody said anything about paying for anybody. Shit I can pick up a tab for anybody anytime no problem, without weighing out the pros and cons, if it's appropriate. If a guy asks me out he has to pick up the tab. I don't ask guys out. Enough said there. No such thing as an equal partner in this respect. Feminine and masculine are not equal. Ask her to lift a 20lb weight and see if you're equal. Let her hormones kick in when she's pregnant and can't work and gets morning sickness and see if you're equal. Let her lead you and see if you're equal, let her wear a pants and a jacket with a tie and a tuxedo out to dinner with you and see if you're equal, let her speak with a crusty old masculine voice and see if you're equal. Only dusties, like I said have to test a woman financially to feel loved, to feel wanted. Masculine men don't need to feel wanted only appreciated. If she reciprocated and the feeling is mutual, then he's satisfied just for making her happy. A healthy woman will want to be with a man if he makes her feel wanted, feminine, loved and cared for, not if she has to prove to him that she likes him, that's not the feminine role. I'll stop here because it's obvious we're on a different page and a different mindset. No worries. One more thing, no man has to provide for me if he's not sleeping with me or want to be in a relationship or marriage. I don't expect every man to be a provider or protector. He just has to have that mindset for me to even want to take the date any further as I'm not into casual sex and just for fun dating. Just for fun is not a date, to me that's a friendly outing where no intimacy is involved whatsoever. That's just me. No users allowed. Don't use me for your pleasure. I'm not into that. Atleast put in a little effort like you do for your purchasing of your video games.

Dusty talk. I won't even bother to contest. Go have your fun, that's what my gfs are for and my cat.

Bid, bid!!!!

Yes, my love. Hehe

The poor women out there on auctions and not getting their fair share. That's a rip off. I hope you all atleast buy them dinner. Not to disrespect them, but the way some of you see women, it becomes foolish just to sleep around just for men's pleasure. Even if she enjoyed it, she probably more than likely really liked the guy, but not as an auction. Atleast, I'm upfront with my bids. I get looked down upon for what I do, but I don't care because I'd rather be a paid auctionee than one that gets left just because no body else is bidding. Get the f outta here. Anyway, that's just Suzy talking, Arabia is back. Next!!

So-called high quality women are also looking for men with status, even more so. They don't want to attract leeches and/or users. Women who worry about a man's finances aren't always users and golddiggers, don't be misled. They value themselves and they are also looking to feel protected and provided for. It's the pickmeishas that don't give a fuck and are available to be used and manipulated and thrown away for when those men level up and go chase after the high quality woman he can feel like a man with by taking care of her and allow her to be and stay feminine. Don't get it twisted. Fun alone ain't cutting it. Fun gets old.

More for people who want to play games, need to feed their egos or who likes to compete for attention. Mature women or women on a mission aren't into those games.

Lol. I had to laugh. Sounds like me and my time. Next!!! Going once, going twice, going...oops, I'm going home. Lol.

Nice thread.

Moving on with their lives or to another man or being alone. Or with women if they roll that way. Or buy a dog. I was kidding about the rolls Royce, who cares. Certainly not me.

The terroist doesn't love terrorism and the pedophile doesn't love pedophilia etc, they are terrorism and pedophilia itself playing out. Unconditional love itself at play.

Earn 6-7 figures, drive a Rolls Royce, Mercedes or any expensive car, live in the Hamptons or any upscale neighborhood and own two or more businesses and yeah, you become instantly super attractive...,.until.... you're cheap. Lol. Ignore them for likes and you become a lame dusty.

Look at the way she even speaks about women, calling them bitches. It's one thing to be upset with someone and call them the b word out of anger or rage or disappointment or whatever, but to be addressing women that way in general on a youtube video and representing......trying to coach.... says another. Rachet hood days are over. At least be boujee.

Pickmeishas. Incase you're unaware of what that means. Please, please, pick me.

Lol

Tell 'em. And I've cried without the drugs or altered states. Naturally sober. I've felt the love. Unconditionally.

After I wrote it and reflected, I thought about it and should have explained what I meant about that. Since you noticed and asked, and I don't blame you because it does sound like what you've said, but it isn't like that. What I mean by giving it a chance is (BTW, my first response says "give him a chance", which was incorrect), I gave the idea a chance. I've been very reluctant to date (personally, not workwise) because I just didn't want to be bothered with the ups and downs of dating and all the complications that go along with that. My mind was closed off for a long time where that's concerned. Reasons I'll save for my own. But I decided to give it a chance and open my mind to just casual dating and just hanging out and maybe going places and doing casual things with the opposite sex. That's what I meant by giving it a chance. I know it came off as arrogant and like I was giving him a chance but that's not what I meant. I tried it a few times in the past and it just never worked out because of control and insecurities on their part and I just didn't feel like going through that in this time of my life. Giving it a chance means I've decided to open up to the possibility and to give myself the chance to meet someone on a personal level without any reasons other than to just like him. Not for purposes of provision and protection or because he had status or was of high-value. DIDN'T WORK. Can't go against the grain.

There are certain things I can rule out instantly. There are patterns at play here. For instance, eating patterns. It will affect their behavior and their perception. If they are fat (or not) and only eat fast food, soda pops and chips and dip and are very unhealthy eaters, I don't even bother. Not talking about occasionally but all the time. That is a very unhealthy mind and comes with plenty of disorders. If they are dressed too flashy, that shows inward insecurity - I said too flashy. If they drive a car that stands out too much, that also smells internal problems and immaturity. Sounds weird and judemental, but I've studied the mind and behavioral patterns enough to see it a mile coming. I'm too simple and straightforward to have to deal with too many complexities and games or to babysit anybody.

You have to know what it is you're interested in, right? I'm not interested in bodies. I'm interested in how one thinks, their mindset, how they make me feel and how well I respond to them. Of course, I won't just give any and anybody the chance to get to know me or for me to get to know them, that's all based on instinct, not logic.

I'm not in the mindset of just going out and getting attracted then dating. I work the bottom up in this regard. If the interaction happens, I'll date to see if I'm attracted, then take it from there. I'm not here to fall in love then fall out. For me it's a see, interact, connect, date, feel attraction (or not), expand then we work from there to expand more. Not sure about his mindset, but that's how mine work. So, it's not like I was interested in him, how would I know that from just seeing him, plenty of similar bodies out there, not too many mindsets the same and are compatible with mine. That goes for everybody else. People work backwards. They get attracted to the body then get frustrated with the mind and try to force the two mind's compatibilities'. I start with the mind and work with the body. Afterall, you can make love in the dark but the mind is 24/7. Most close their eyes while making out anyway, why is that. Eyes wide shut, in my mind.

I told you he approached me and i decided to give it a chance. Not that I would have with anybody but I didn't see why not. I don't see reasons "to", I see reasons "not to". Seeing a reason to, is transactional. Seeing a reason "not to", in my mind anyway, is also transactional because there's a reason, but it's not for a benefit and to gain something. Seeing someone you're attracted to without knowing them and wanting to get to know them for potential intimacy is transactional. Getting to know somebody and just enjoying them for being them is not transactional. That's partially what I mean by transactional. It's hard for me to explain these things to someone because my mind operates differently when it comes to these things. We all want something from someone, but when you're not looking to gain something, that's not transactional. I wzs not interested in him, perse but the idea of just being with someone that you connect with but for no transactional reason. My mind got disconnected quickly because the non-transaction turned into a transaction. Meaning I didn't get the satisfaction of no strings attached.