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Nahm is just another cause and effect trick of the cosmos. Just like how you think you feed yourself because you're hungry. No, the body moves to feed itself and you think it's because you were hungry. Nahm got ostracized and now you think it's because of his belief system. No, it was life doing life just as life is doing you. Except there is no you, only life. Everything that happens, happens on it's own. The person is what internalized it and turns it into a story. There's no real time so how is anything in succession. There is none, it only appears that way because of the brains capability to abstract form. See through the illusion, my friend and liberate yourself. No one is actually in any trap because traps needs time and space to be effective and time and space are illusory. It's all empty and is only there because you are. Take you out the equation and life is just happening, to noone.

There's nothing to teach other than how to build a coffee table or how to build a computer to show illusory trap videos.

The fear mongering of the sense of self is contagious. It tries to trap all the crabs along with it.

Yeah, to perpetrate and deepen the sense of self. That's all. If there's a trap to fall into, it's the guru and disciple trap.

When you guys really understand the dynamics of how pain is felt, treated, internalized and/or processed, both physical and mental pain, you will start to understand what the saying "there's no one" really means. I know I say that a lot on the forum and it sounds woo woo and like some spiritual bullshit fantasy, but it's exactly why even this discussion about pain can get so technical, confusing and misunderstood. Let me give an e.g. If your hand gets chopped off, would you say, "I got chopped off", no, you'd say my hand got chopped off. Two things there. My and hand. If your heart gets broken do you say, I got broken, no my and heart. If your kidney gets removed, you don't say I got removed. Your hand gets hit with a hammer, you'll say I got hit with a hammer on my hand. Why not say my hand got hit with a hammer. You identify with your body parts only when they are attached. If they are severed they are not you anymore. When you feel pain, it's only because you've identified with the body, so now the pain is yours. When your severed hand is across the street, you don't feel the pain of the hand, you feel the pain on your shoulder, the hand no longer is you, but the shoulder part is, and that's why you feel it. You feel that heartache because you've identified with the thoughts that come with the heartache, the heart is physically fine, it's the thoughts that's painful. Thought's aren't painful, only the sensation felt. The sensation is felt because you think there's something there. Nothing is there. There's no one feeling anything. What you think you feel is not yours, but an identification with who you think you are. Once there's a you, everything else is connected to that you, but it really isn't and that's the friggin illusion. Only feelings, sensations, body parts that we've identified with. There's no one in these bodies.

Mental abuse is also a wound that can be healed. Hospitals have the words Trauma Response on their titles, referring to accident victims. Mental trauma is physical trauma internalized. The internal system went through it's own trauma. Breaking a leg is the same as breaking someone's heart. It's treatment is the difference and what type of bandages are used. A rebound relationship is a bandage one puts on the heart to mend it.

Depends on who is receiving the abuse and their perception of it. There are people who even get off on being abused. That's another topic. Nothing is as it seems.

Yes, that's understandable. However, we both mentioned physically.

I never said anything about being in a relationship and feeling entitled. I've seen countless verbal descriptions made by men calling women entitled, so no you're wrong about that; the word isn't reserved for men deemed as losers. I will also end this convo right here as I don't ascribe to personal attacks when there's just an open and general discussion about a topic. I will not take anything you say seriously as a result of that and will feel your comments will be biased and only based on your judgements on what you believe to be the case with all women. You're quoting me a belief that you want me to be honest about and are practically insinuating it's a belief I personally hold. I never called any man a loser, that came from you; and not only that, you want me to confirm your adjective for you and agree that I feel the same way. I'm through with this one-sided conversation, but not before saying that yes some men great status, wealthy, successful, broke, ugly attractive, confident, not so confident or whatever adjective, do have a sense of entitlement to a woman's body just for existing..

This is the difference. A female can hit you where it stings but a man can hit you where it kills. That's just an analogy, but women, especially if they're teenie and weenie and petite doesn't cause that much harm VS a strong physically powerful male. Usually a female's physical abuse is not that life threatening VS a man's. I know they can get violent, but i'm speaking on a general scale.

Ok, understood.

Nothing is new under the sun and I didn't make anything up. That term is not original. You said "for just existing" and I was responding to that. The sun shines for everyone just for existing. Only humans think we need to earn our way to live. The difference is the sun doesn't get mad at us when we try to block it. Men will hate us if we don't wanna sometimes as if they're entitled. That's the difference. Women will just move unto the next.

Ok

This is not a Trump thread or political thread. You've turned every thread into Trump Mania. Geesh. You've made the man your God without even realizing it. I won't say anymore on this and will stop right here so i don't keep it going, but c'mon....

Then get the heck out the car, it's that simple. Now, he's locked up for murder.

No, YOU gotta prepare for the worst. Stop trying to drag the crabs down in the bucket with you. We're trying to get out not be dragged back it. Fear loves company.

Lol..i can't. The madness never ends. You should have said boobs too, cause here it comes....

Can we just start a thread called TRUMP where you can just post every comment you will ever make for the next 4yrs. Read other threads and just post your comment over there. It'll fit right in.

Never give up, you'll get there, apparently. This is what happens when we think we're a "thing" in the Universe. I won't even bother to clarify anything. I'll just be accused of wrecking people's lives and creating confusion in the already confused minds. Maybe I will: There is no one. It's all PURE BEING appearing as bodies and places and objects etc. It's all Absolute perfection. The relative is nothing but a dream of the individual that thinks it's a separate being. How is that possible in Oneness. It's all there is. All these so-called individuals will tell you it's all one, it's absolute and there's no separation, no time or space, but tell you stories how it's not the case. They'll tell you how we are living in the realm of the relative where humans exist and that we have our separate lives and how we're special with exceptional brains that has figured out stuff and have created the most advanced technologies and blah blah. It's all the Absolute appearing as such and that's also apparent because it's not really happening. Nothing is happening. Nothing is moving. It's all one eternal infinite appearance not happening through time and no space only seems to be. The dream isn't really happening just like when you dream at night and it's not really happening. You at the beach in your dream is the Absolute appearing as you dreaming you're at the beach. It's all an apparent dream except for what is actually appearing. There is no one who is alone anywhere. There is just the Absolute. Call that Solipsism if you want, it's just a word. THERE IS ONLY PURE BEING appearing as everything. Here comes the Absolute rebutting and naysaying it's own existence. It's a Cosmic fucking Joke...don't fall for it. Hehe.

Yes, that particular cop was out of line. Absurd, actually.

Don't forget the men who feel entitled to sex for just existing.

Happy Holidays Actualized Community!!!

Yes, but what else were they supposed to do, stand there all night asking him to get out the car?. Idk. Tough call.

We as citizens should be focusing on surveilling our own criminal behaviors also. Yes, there are crooked cops, but there are crooked everybody everywhere, including crooked crooks. Get off that surveilling cop behaviors stuff, ley's do that when appropriate, not make it into a crusade. Let's start crusading for citizens using guns inappropriately and just shooting and taking lives whenever they feel like it.

He kept asking "why you all doing this to me", because he knew what he was about to do. "Why you all making me shoot you all", is what he's really saying. Why you making me cop a murder charge for this weed. He kept begging them to leave him alone for this reason. Glad he was caught.