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Yeah, to perpetrate and deepen the sense of self. That's all. If there's a trap to fall into, it's the guru and disciple trap.

When you guys really understand the dynamics of how pain is felt, treated, internalized and/or processed, both physical and mental pain, you will start to understand what the saying "there's no one" really means. I know I say that a lot on the forum and it sounds woo woo and like some spiritual bullshit fantasy, but it's exactly why even this discussion about pain can get so technical, confusing and misunderstood. Let me give an e.g. If your hand gets chopped off, would you say, "I got chopped off", no, you'd say my hand got chopped off. Two things there. My and hand. If your heart gets broken do you say, I got broken, no my and heart. If your kidney gets removed, you don't say I got removed. Your hand gets hit with a hammer, you'll say I got hit with a hammer on my hand. Why not say my hand got hit with a hammer. You identify with your body parts only when they are attached. If they are severed they are not you anymore. When you feel pain, it's only because you've identified with the body, so now the pain is yours. When your severed hand is across the street, you don't feel the pain of the hand, you feel the pain on your shoulder, the hand no longer is you, but the shoulder part is, and that's why you feel it. You feel that heartache because you've identified with the thoughts that come with the heartache, the heart is physically fine, it's the thoughts that's painful. Thought's aren't painful, only the sensation felt. The sensation is felt because you think there's something there. Nothing is there. There's no one feeling anything. What you think you feel is not yours, but an identification with who you think you are. Once there's a you, everything else is connected to that you, but it really isn't and that's the friggin illusion. Only feelings, sensations, body parts that we've identified with. There's no one in these bodies.

Mental abuse is also a wound that can be healed. Hospitals have the words Trauma Response on their titles, referring to accident victims. Mental trauma is physical trauma internalized. The internal system went through it's own trauma. Breaking a leg is the same as breaking someone's heart. It's treatment is the difference and what type of bandages are used. A rebound relationship is a bandage one puts on the heart to mend it.

Depends on who is receiving the abuse and their perception of it. There are people who even get off on being abused. That's another topic. Nothing is as it seems.

Yes, that's understandable. However, we both mentioned physically.

I never said anything about being in a relationship and feeling entitled. I've seen countless verbal descriptions made by men calling women entitled, so no you're wrong about that; the word isn't reserved for men deemed as losers. I will also end this convo right here as I don't ascribe to personal attacks when there's just an open and general discussion about a topic. I will not take anything you say seriously as a result of that and will feel your comments will be biased and only based on your judgements on what you believe to be the case with all women. You're quoting me a belief that you want me to be honest about and are practically insinuating it's a belief I personally hold. I never called any man a loser, that came from you; and not only that, you want me to confirm your adjective for you and agree that I feel the same way. I'm through with this one-sided conversation, but not before saying that yes some men great status, wealthy, successful, broke, ugly attractive, confident, not so confident or whatever adjective, do have a sense of entitlement to a woman's body just for existing..

This is the difference. A female can hit you where it stings but a man can hit you where it kills. That's just an analogy, but women, especially if they're teenie and weenie and petite doesn't cause that much harm VS a strong physically powerful male. Usually a female's physical abuse is not that life threatening VS a man's. I know they can get violent, but i'm speaking on a general scale.

Ok, understood.

Nothing is new under the sun and I didn't make anything up. That term is not original. You said "for just existing" and I was responding to that. The sun shines for everyone just for existing. Only humans think we need to earn our way to live. The difference is the sun doesn't get mad at us when we try to block it. Men will hate us if we don't wanna sometimes as if they're entitled. That's the difference. Women will just move unto the next.

Ok

This is not a Trump thread or political thread. You've turned every thread into Trump Mania. Geesh. You've made the man your God without even realizing it. I won't say anymore on this and will stop right here so i don't keep it going, but c'mon....

Then get the heck out the car, it's that simple. Now, he's locked up for murder.

No, YOU gotta prepare for the worst. Stop trying to drag the crabs down in the bucket with you. We're trying to get out not be dragged back it. Fear loves company.

Lol..i can't. The madness never ends. You should have said boobs too, cause here it comes....

Can we just start a thread called TRUMP where you can just post every comment you will ever make for the next 4yrs. Read other threads and just post your comment over there. It'll fit right in.

Never give up, you'll get there, apparently. This is what happens when we think we're a "thing" in the Universe. I won't even bother to clarify anything. I'll just be accused of wrecking people's lives and creating confusion in the already confused minds. Maybe I will: There is no one. It's all PURE BEING appearing as bodies and places and objects etc. It's all Absolute perfection. The relative is nothing but a dream of the individual that thinks it's a separate being. How is that possible in Oneness. It's all there is. All these so-called individuals will tell you it's all one, it's absolute and there's no separation, no time or space, but tell you stories how it's not the case. They'll tell you how we are living in the realm of the relative where humans exist and that we have our separate lives and how we're special with exceptional brains that has figured out stuff and have created the most advanced technologies and blah blah. It's all the Absolute appearing as such and that's also apparent because it's not really happening. Nothing is happening. Nothing is moving. It's all one eternal infinite appearance not happening through time and no space only seems to be. The dream isn't really happening just like when you dream at night and it's not really happening. You at the beach in your dream is the Absolute appearing as you dreaming you're at the beach. It's all an apparent dream except for what is actually appearing. There is no one who is alone anywhere. There is just the Absolute. Call that Solipsism if you want, it's just a word. THERE IS ONLY PURE BEING appearing as everything. Here comes the Absolute rebutting and naysaying it's own existence. It's a Cosmic fucking Joke...don't fall for it. Hehe.

Yes, that particular cop was out of line. Absurd, actually.

Don't forget the men who feel entitled to sex for just existing.

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Yes, but what else were they supposed to do, stand there all night asking him to get out the car?. Idk. Tough call.

We as citizens should be focusing on surveilling our own criminal behaviors also. Yes, there are crooked cops, but there are crooked everybody everywhere, including crooked crooks. Get off that surveilling cop behaviors stuff, ley's do that when appropriate, not make it into a crusade. Let's start crusading for citizens using guns inappropriately and just shooting and taking lives whenever they feel like it.

He kept asking "why you all doing this to me", because he knew what he was about to do. "Why you all making me shoot you all", is what he's really saying. Why you making me cop a murder charge for this weed. He kept begging them to leave him alone for this reason. Glad he was caught.

Hurt is not the word. Own up to your own hatred and resentments and realize it's about you and the thoughts you're entertaining. That's all. I have resentments too, but I don't project them unto the world because I realize they are only thoughts. Thoughts that has nothing to do with what I resent. I work within to try and overcome them. I try to see things differently and from another perspective. It's a constant work in progress but has nothing to do with the outside world. The person inside is delusional and it is constantly being seen through when I realize it's a construction, programming and conditioning. Reality doesn't see me. I see it as revolving around me, as is the case with just about everyone. We have taken it personal and it's not about that, it's how we perceive it that's the problem. Even with you, I've done the same thing. I've made you into a problem that doesn't exist but only within the constraints of my own being and ways of thinking. You have also woken me up to realize my own delusions and how I respond to outside stimulii. Totally and utterly delusional.

It's not about that. It's all in the open here. It's not like there are hidden documents somewhere waiting to be exposed. My lawyer comment was me being silly, but I just think it's a waste of people's time and efforts to keep bringing up an issue that you yourself don't attempt to solve. You have been saying this stuff for eons and the fact that you even say you don't even like the girls that rejected you tells me that this issue with you seems psychopathic. You're suffering from resenting your own egotistical neurosis and you probably need to stop putting that blame on those women you're trying to pick up that you don't even like. I tell you, half of you guys that have problem with women are the problem themselves and women can smell that a mile away. Then you have the nerve to say how you begun to hate women for your own neurosis and narcissism. It's a problem, yes it's a problem. How and why? The tendencies tend to ease it's way into society and the dating world and toxic pill ideologies and tends to poison the minds of other men who are just starting out and looking for advice from the more experienced and when they see how rejection can hurt or that guys are being rejected but for the right reasons, they tend to adopt the same beliefs about women you have implanted in their brains and now they see women as the enemy and who can be responsible for their hatred. It is a problem for everyone when you say you hate or despise women you don't like when they reject you. People will tell me about my spiritual beliefs and say stuff like other people are reading and to be careful about saying there is no one, but they can't and won't see the hidden toxic poison in your sentences that can be problematic for women and men alike because spreading hate can be very contagious and other young men reading your comments can just start to hate women just because you're saying how much you have been rejected BUT ARE NOT STRESSING THE PART THAT YOU ACTUALLY DO NOT LIKE THESE WOMEN TO BEGIN WITH and women are rejecting that about you, not necessarily you perse.

He'll be denying his DNA too.