Princess Arabia

I've had people say to me they enjoy my posts, including one as recent as yesterday. Also people like you who doesn't. There are plenty that I don't like and plenty I do like. What gives me the right to want life to go my way at all times. You have demonstrated here one of the reasons why the mind suffers. It wants to be in control and think life is about it. It sees everything that opposes it's construction, beliefs and world views as the enemy and the contrary it's friend. This forum is not about you. We're not here to temper your temper tantrums in life to make your life a better place to live and feel oh so comfy. You say my posts are highly misleading FOR YOU. Well, block or ignore me if you don't like my posts. Hollering and shouting at me isn't the answer. Maybe another call to action could be to analyze why this is the case and that maybe, just maybe you are so attached to your pov's that they have made you their slave. You call what I've said bullshit but at the same time were not in control of your feelings and responded negatively when the truth of the matter is you were not doing that on your own accord; if you were you would be in heaven 24/7, 365 because that is the desired state but impossible because the choice isn't yours to have.

I'm not the one on here passing judgements. I'm not the one on here attacking anyone. I'm not the one on here getting triggered nor am i the one on here not respecting others' perspectives and lashing out. Maybe you're the one that needs to do some work. Being direct and lashing out criticizing, trying to demean and attack are different things. That's not being direct, that's fear. Of what, idk. Your work might reveal that to you.

Thoughts. It is going on it's own without any input from you. That's an illusion. I said nothing about not having feelings of happiness on a daily basis. They are still short lived when they arise even if they are frequent. Everything is in motion. So are thoughts. Constant negative thoughts in motion can bring upon depression if kept alive and believed in. The bliss being more life empowering than depression that you talk about here is still just a belief, a human belief. A thought. The very mere thought that happiness is good and sadness is bad is the very thing that creates more sadness because the thought seeks for more happiness because it thinks it's a better sensation. If all these sensations were to be left alone and not come with them judgements of good or bad, right or wrong and just move through the body on it's own; there wouldn't be an imbalance where depression arises. Each time one experiences happiness, UT tries to hold on to that feeling and now a default mode gas been created where the sadness gets deeper and gets stuck in the body as unwelcom You guys keep interpreting what was said with your own train of thought processes and not seeing it for what it is. It's a natural occurrence and cannot be helped, because of your constructs so I understand. Nothing in my comment said anything about acceptance. There's nothing to accept and no one doing any accepting. Those are just thoughts arising and being claimed to be accepting something when the truth of the matter is that's another illusion. There's no free will and choice but only within the dream of separation.

Hi Bambi. I see you're at it again. How's your day going. I see I've triggered something in you again as usual. Might want to take a deep look at that and why. If you really took a look at my post you'll see I never said people aren't suffering, quite the contrary. Nor did I say suffering cannot be increased or decreased. Matter of fact your whole response is an interpretation of what you believe I'm saying, nit what I actually said. Maybe your psychedelic use isn't working for your temperament and triggering responses to someone's ideas, thoughts and comments. If you don't agree, you don't agree. No need for attack and insults, which you constantly throw at me everytime you get a chance. I was speaking from the Absolute perspective. I don't need Spiritual practices to recognize what was said. Observation, curiosity, resonance and something that can be recognized within can be enough. There's simply energy responding to energy and all that drugs and suffering and all you're saying has nothing to do with what was said. The Absolute doesnt carry with it a pity party and doesn't see humans. It's the human that sees other humans and can only relate as such. Feel free to come at me some more, as that energy needs a place to vent. I don't mind.

Blissed out? What do you mean blissed out? That's just the mind. The body cannot handle being blissed out. The body's mechanism is designed for survival and reproduction. It's the mind that wants to be blessed out. The body doesn't care about your bliss. States are short lived. Any longer and you'll end up in the looney tune. That's where depression and anxiety come in. It's the need to hold unto that blissful state and the need to be happy more than the body can handle. Notice your happiness is short lived. The reason your happiness is shorter than your sadness is because thoughts are more negative than positive. Either way they are only sensations. Sensations are felt because the identifier thinks it's theirs. It's just sensations arising but because of that energy that thinks it's separate, everything that comes with it is owned. You can have a blissful experience but it doesn't last long because of it's nature. These are arising out of nothing and goes back to nothing. Energy in motion. Claimed by the individual in it's dream state. Bliss is bliss, doesn't need a claimer.

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This is already liberation. This is already freedom. So much so, that it can appear as not. So much so, that it's freedom to appear as enslaved and unliberated. There is no liberation or/and freedom for the individual. It's automatic. The individual separate self, that thinks it's the "wave" cannot be freed nor liberated. Why? Because it doesn't exist in the first place. Freedom and liberation doesn't mean the end of suffering. If it did, it would be freedom and liberation, that's a condition. Freedom and liberation is unconditional love where nothing is excluded. That's Absolute. How can it be totally free and excludes suffering and pain. It also includes people who think God Realization is the end. People who do psychedelics. People who feel lost. People who post on forums telling other people that a guru says God is not the end; and people who oppose this message. That's the freedom. Not some airy fairy idea of what you think freedom/liberation is. Like bliss/happiness/joy/fulfillment. This is already that and also sadness/misery/hopelessness etc. It's all energetic. Energy in motion. Appearing as misery and bliss. This is neutral. Empty. There's nothing to hold unto. Nothing to gain, nothing to get. Nothing. It's all appearances. Anything can appear. The individual is an illusion. That's why "noone" makes it out "alive". This is already death.

No. I will notice the starer. The only reason you even notice is because he stands out. He makes you nervous, uncomfortable. You speak in generalizations. There are people everywhere. Grocery stores, on the street, clubs, bars, restaurants, etc. People take quick glances; might say hi, smile, depending on the proximity. Depending on how I'm dressed and I'm not a very revealing dresser. My boobs are average in size and my butt isn't large. I have a model type figure with long legs. In a bar or club setting there are plenty of attractive women walking around most are dressed to reveal. I can be fully clothed and still get eyed, if I'm dressed nicely and hair is done. I get complimented on my face a lot and legs. Guys will not be staring at my boobs or ass (maybe unless I'm in tight jeans) but my face and hair is what attracts the most. I do have a nice body but it's not screaming come fuck me, it screams elegance and beauty. All guys will notice from afar with me is this tall female with hair and a nice body if I'm wearing fitting clothes. I don't attract the drooling type. I attract the guys who admire beauty not boobs and ass. I have a nice smile and decent guys are attracted to that also. Once in awhile I'll come across a guy who can't stop staring and those are the ones that make me uncomfortable (I'm speaking of in a rude and piercing way). It is rude to just stare at a person who notices you're staring for long periods of time. I'm not speaking about an admirer who admires you and walks away or even says hi and talks to you, but the ones that just keep staring even when they've noticed you've noticed them staring and doesn't say anything. That's rude. For the most part guys are just glancing and minding their own business or maybe a tooted horn or "hi georgeous", or "hi beautiful", that's it, if it's not where he comes over and talks.

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Ok.

Ok. No argument here. You said your piece. You're right. I should have left it alone and shut my mouth. Wish you the best.

For no reason. It doesn't have a reason to appear as it does. That's the freedom. If it had a reason, it wouldn't be infinite and unlimited. Limitation spawns from it. It is life; and life is spontaneous. Free as a bird. It dances to its own music. It is impartial and is free to be as it is. Reason and purpose is a human construct to make sense of what is happening. Without reason and purpose there will be no one with a life. There would be no direction, no path, no journey, no beliefs, no causation, no language, no anything, just what appears, which is what is. The reason you ask why it appears that way is the mind trying to make sense of it. The mind only knows past and future and doesn't exist in the present. Thoughts appear and disappear out of thin air. They are of no significance only what the individual makes of them. I am also here trying to make sense of why you asked the question "why would it appear that way". There is actually no reason for the question to appear; but to the mind, and to be able to maintain its continuity, it tries to find a reason that makes sense and that is how thoughts maintain itself, life gets constructed, the world is formed and the individual gets created. But that is all illusory because there is no outside world. Thoughts make up your world. When you sleep there are no thoughts and the world disappears. Infinity at its finest. Nothing, emptiness. You are that. INFINITY. NOTHING. That's why one can feel empty inside because there's nothing actually there.

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Lol. The cucumber one got me.

And how do you have sex in a conscious way; keeping your eyes open?

There's no creation of duality but only in the mind. It's a seeming occurrence that's not really happening only appears to be. The infinite did not develop individuals. The individual created itself, but only apparently because there are no real individuals. All there is is Infinity which can appear as bodies. The individual is energetic by nature and arises out of a false sense of separation within the seeming duality; and when it collapses, it's revealed to never have been - also known as death. Duality and Non-duality are constructs. Neither is actually the case. All there is is the Absolute appearing as dual and non-dual.....but only as concepts.

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This is the only problem. The recognition that there's an issue that needs addressing. Once you've identified it as a problem, then it becomes a problem. The women aren't the problem, your eyes aren't the problem, whatever you're doing to try to solve the problem also strengthens the fact that you see it as a problem. You are battling with thoughts. If you feel a certain way when you look at women, let the feeling be there. You are uncomfortable with the feelings because of the thoughts that accompany them. Actually, it's the thought that precedes the feeling. Neither is the problem. It's your identification with both, that creates this battle. Now you're creating more problems for yourself and creating another issue by doing whatever you're doing to combat the issue. Now, you'll be staring at pictures of women instead of real women trying to desensitize yourself. It won't work because now you'll be staring at pictures and pictures and pictures instead of real women thinking there's a difference. There's none as far as the brain is concerned. Now, you'll become a slave to pictures. Solution is to allow for the feelings to be there, without judging them. Allow for the thoughts to be there without addressing them. In time, the recognition that there was never a problem there to begin with will surface as the thoughts won't have continuity because they weren't being fed with your attention and focus on them.

You shared up top that you will explain how you UNDERSTAND Awakening these days. Now you're saying the mind cannot comprehend the infinite. Do you understand or don't you.

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