Princess Arabia

This whole comment is so young, inexperienced and immature, I won't even bother.

Your opinion, based on nothing. I do understand men as it's my job to, thank you. It's all I've dealt with in the last 10plus years on a specific level. I can even confidently say I probably understand them more than you do.

If you said that to a woman with any self-esteem, class or of any caliber, she would dump you like how the trash collector dumps his trash.

Don't know where and how I did that. Please explain.

No.

Ok, thanks. Ever heard of Dr Cass Ingram.

Just like how the body knows what to do (digest food, grow hair, heartbeat, pee etc), the mind knows how to survive it's own illusory nature. It's very cunning. So cunning, it's hard to outwit. It knows what it's doing even when it seems like it doesn't.

Lol

Lol. That's funny. Well, that's your genius playing it's role. There's a payoff there for that energetic pattern. Get your ass in a bind or an emergency and we'll see how blank your mind is then. It's genius, I tell you.

Ok. Just note that human behavior is very complex. It's genius, actually. So genius we're not even aware how much. We will make ourselves broke on purpose just so we find the strength to keep working. I want you to think about that statement deeply. We will self-sabotage just so we create a problem to fix to feel like we have a life and that life is revolved around us.

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I added to my previous comment. Plus it's not done on a conscious level. I'm not saying we actual do this on purpose.

This is a very tricky one. I think the saying "things aren't what they seem", applies to this one. I think we actually need the pain to feel alive, to make us feel something. Maybe not need, but I can't think of a substitute word - maybe create. Regardless, you get what I'm saying whether you agree or not. I seriously think humans create their own pain just as a motivator, to keep the personhood alive and to say, see I'm alive and it's like a motivation engine to keep going. Where's the motivation when everything's going well and nothing ever goes wrong. It like keeps us on our toes to not internally die and reveal the true nature of nothing. I want you to seriously consider this. Have you ever noticed how most of us will say we're suffering, we suffer, spirituality helps suffering or however we mention the word and whatever context, but very few ever say what they're suffering or what their suffering is about. Just the mere fact of admitting one suffers is enough for the motivation aspect. Think about this. Don't even respond. Just from now on notice how the word very rarely comes with it contents of the suffering, but only that I'm suffering or I don't want to suffer. Observe this from now on. And in case you say people don't want to air what they're suffering about, that's bullshit crap.

Sorry, can't comment on a forum to myself. BTW, that was sarcasm.

That's fine but most of my friends used to be platonic males. I was the "hung out with the boys" type girl. Not that I watched sports or competed or did manly stuff, but I am very down-to-earth and fit right in with them. I had gfs too, but they were mostly going out peers. The guys I hung out with and drank with and partied with - all platonic. Been that way from teenage years. Neighborhood buddies and just all around. I'm very cool like that. I actually prefer to hang with guys than girls normally. Girls are too uggh...gossipy and some get jealous of you around their man. I ain't got time for that. The few female friends I had, though, we were very close. Still are even though we don't see each other often.

Maybe he needs to start interacting with different women.

Oh my. Such sexist statements. Why do you talk to females on the forum then.

The poor blind. No attraction for them. They got left out. Such a limited response.