Princess Arabia

There's no freedom for the one that thinks it's free. Freedom also includes caring, not caring, just being, not just being, not giving a fuck, giving a fuck. Freedom includes even the feeling of not feeling free. This is why it's the same as unconditional love/liberation. Being free to feel unliberated and free. This is Absolute. You have just described another form of slavery/mind control/ thoughts trying to be free from thoughts. All there is is freedom.

You're funny. Giving him a reminder there, I see.

Oh ok.

Until next week. The control was never there to begin with. Fuck the mind...lol. You've just ignited that flame. Now it's really gonna drive you crazy.

I'm not sure, are you male or female.

I agree some women do prefer larger, but I wouldn't necessarily say it's a matter of how sexual they are. I don't think it matters. A woman may be very sexual and prefers a smaller penis and a woman can prefer larger ones and not be highly sexual. I'll tell you a secret though. Shorter females prefer them bigger. The shorter the bigger.

Most one night stands are done under the influence of something and that's when one gets uninhibited and needs a more intense stimuli to feel, so yes I can understand this. I didn't say anything about women and porn.

Some things are unisex, even pertaining to attraction, relationships and sex. I understand that in certain ways we're different, but those differences are usually meant to compliment a healthy dynamic not to cause conflicts and disruptions if understood properly. If I find that there's a particular difference between the sexes that's inherent and i seem to have a problem there as a feminine, I examine myself to see where is there an imbalance in my thinking or way of being that's not flowing with the masculine energy; not send out public messages of please stop doing that just to make me feel better about my insecurities, or trying to change the gender roles or trying to make the masculine feel he needs to make excuses for his gender.

Why would I want to do something about it. What you're explaining here is a lack of self-control. People aren't getting uncontrollably excited and attracted to things that becomes a problem when seen. If I'm attracted to a nice smile on a man, why would every man with a nice smile be an issue of avoidance. I might like it on one guy and not so much on another same nice smile difference face. I love to see a beautiful smile, it brightens my day. I don't need to go on a forum and tell the whole world how it's distracting and their pushing their beautiful smile down my throat unless I have a problem m controlling myself when I see a beautiful smile. Goes for any other attraction and likes.

Ok, I see this point. Taken.

I'm aware of this and that's why it's irrelevant to turn the tables in this respect because we're not bothered either way to the point of disturbance and it being an issue. Of course, not every instance in the world is the same so this is a general statement. I'm not refusing to understand anything. Youve made this dynamic a problem for you. It's not a problem for some; in fact, some I'm sure enjoys looking and it's not a problem. Yes it does. That booty or boob or pretty face or hair or whatever attracts you is making you feel a certain way. Next time you get attracted to a woman, take note and notice there's a feeling there; a feeling that was ignited for whatever reason. The difference is the man usually has to initiate that feeling for the woman, meaning after getting to know him, is she feeling good about him, is he making her feel.......whatever that is. I don't buy into that only men are visual creatures thing. Both are. Men get excited visually, but women get attracted visually and emotionally. We usually get excited after the fact. Men aren't walking around making women horny. Women are horny then go around looking to "feed" that horniness. She was already horny. There's a difference between getting excited and feeling horny.

Do you really think women are bothered by men on the beach, at the gym or wherever men wear these kinds of clothing. Not every woman enjoys a huge penis and for most women just the look at any ole penis doesn't excite. Even her man's, only when she feels it. Do you know who gets excited from looking at a mans penis, dykes (masculine gay women). You mentioned yoga pants; ok what do you see, the shape of a covered butt and maybe in the front a covered front. Maybe some cleavage and the overall shape of the body. Geesh, I'm forced to deal with men's cat-calling since the age of 10...do I make posts about it. Am I a victim because of it. No. If I know I'll be in a neighborhood where there are numerous cat-calling activity, I wear head phones, problem solved. Or I just ignore. Women have to deal with unwanted approaches. Do we go around saying guys please stop approaching. I give advice on approaching. This is how you not be a victim, embrace life. Nothing wrong with cat-calling, nothing wrong with unwanted approaches (the guy doesnt know its unwanted ), nothing wrong with men being horny pigs. I've made a living from that. I don't care if a guys penis is bulging from his swimwear it could be 12 inches long, don't look, don't stare if it bothers you. Stop blaming women for your inabilities. I've seen plenty of guys keeping their heads straight when passing scantily clad women and I've also seen the opposite. Sometimes I may look the most beautiful I can ever look and some guys don't flinch. They're just not the type. I work in a field where I have to notice men's behavior. Not even the sexiest blonde will turn some men's heads. There are types. I've seen where men think everybody's like them......NO.....they're not all the same. Some men will not care about these things and some will. Everybody glances at everybody, so I'm talking about looks and stares and people being uncomfortable. If you're that type, then you're just that type. Trust me, not every or even ,most men are bothered by a scantily dressed woman. It's your problem not the woman's. We are not speaking about women who show their nipples, half their breasts, see through clothing showing their body parts, I don't see this happening, you're talking about a specific body that when clothes are worn will reveal a shape. Your problem if it turns you on and yours uncomfortable with it. Lots of guys don't mind and don't need to make posts about it and won't tell women how would you feel if my bulge was showing.

Ilm sorry, but if this is your reasoning, you're a victim. 2 billion people didn't decide that. A few did, and the poor enslaved people with dictators had to follow. Let them try that elsewhere. I see you as the only one on this forum with this problem. Thats it no more comment from me to you.

I'll just leave you alone. I don't have time for this.

The subconscious mind is what's running the show. It's like a filing cabinet. Like a computer that stores memory, but it's not really memory but programs. It hosts all the things you like, dislike, are drawn and attracted to. It doesn't have the ability to reject anything, it accepts EVERYTHING that is programmed within it. It's different than the logical mind. It's illogical. It's the program that's responsible for all your bodily functions. It doesn't relate to the word "not"; so saying I'm not eating ice-cream anymore is registered as I'm eating ice-cream. This is why we have habits and habits are formed, because of the subconscious. Repetition. It is a program, a program. You are running on a program. This all ties into there's no one there. It has been programmed by friends, family, society, media etc. You are operating from that. It can be changed just as it was installed. Everyone, and I mean everyone is running off of a program, it's just a matter of which program are you running off. You think I'm nuts when i say there's no one there. Here's the proof. This course will be one of the most valuable courses you'll ever take in changing your life. I have seen drastic changes in myself from understanding a teeny bit on how the mind works (I used to preach that stuff on the forum a while back, but not anymore because I was getting too much flack from naysayers). The program wouldn't allow a working girl on a forum to make any changes but most programs will allow for gurus and people of influence as in Leo to. That's just how it was programmed, by school, teachers, society etc to listen to authority figures. I'll stop here but this will be life changing.

There's no reason. It could have been your body, my aunt's body, gotta be some body. It just happened to be this body. Programming and conditioning as far as psychologies and tendencies. It's still all just stories.

You said "there's someone here but is not an "I". Then you said there's no "here". So I guess there's a "here" but not for the I or there's a here but for the someone, or the someone that's not an "I" is here and there. So the "here or there" is only for the "someone" but not the "I". Here or there only exist for the someone but not for the I (I can't bother with quotations anymore, too many). Then you said, since there is no I, there is not there or here....so where is there if its not there. You're gonna tell me we have free will and choice and that there's people in these bodies, no way, not with all this confusion and mess. Lmao.

@James123I only mention that stuff now when the conversation is existential or speaking metaphysically etc. You said 'When there's no more you", in reference to death and I said there's already no you, which there isn't. I don't go around speaking like that on a day-to-day-basis because it's not relevant. If you slap me, there will be a response, pain will arise and I may feel hurt. Doesn't mean there's someone there feeling anything. You are being lived. There's no control. Everything is the Absolute "issing". And that's too much because there's no moment to "iss", it's already done. Nothing is actually happening.

Listen, I'm not going to argue with people back and forth with this shit. There's no one there so why keep saying there's no you. There's obviously no one in these bodies, just a program. I'm not going to keep arguing about this stuff. If I say there's no you and you say, bs; you want me to keep saying it. It doesn't really matter anyway because it's just one program arguing with another.

I would slap you back so hard, you'd really wish there was no you.😂

There's already no you.

Time doesn't exist, how is there an end; and what was the beginning.

Anything I say is a story.

I wasn't making objections, I was responding to your post. Unless we're in a courtroom, responses aren't necessarily objections if the post was challenged. Language is needed is a poor excuse here because the word object could have been used. That's just your way of also opposing my challenge.

lol