Princess Arabia

Maybe how people deal with trauma and other past baggage. Might help to speed up the process of healing. Not sure.

Didn't even know there was a word for that. I've always said I enjoy an intelligent mind and a stimulating conversation can get me going. I was even asked what in a man attracts you and i remember saying his mind. This probably explains my crush on everybody knows whom. I won't name names for fear of jealousy and attacks via p.m, lol which has happened before, twice. Oh God, the insanity of the human race is hilarious. I can't get pass this, even my own insanity.

Maybe "sapiosexual". A person who is sexually attracted to highly intelligent people. (just looked it up). Maybe the thought in saying, "i'm not a sap" was trying to say your intelligence doesn't excite. At least i learnt a new word today from all this mess. I also think I'm a sap. I get excited by intelligent minds. Hehe.

I'm not going to keep this up and will make this my last comment on the matter. If you read the thread and saw how there were no instigation for his frustration. What you're saying is a generalized thing and does not relate to this particular circumstance. There's no trickery in moderating in this instance and you call expletives and blatant disrespect at a new member who was obviously courteous, frustration. What was he frustrated about with her. He could have kindly said, no thank you I'm not interested in your way of expression or whatever else in a kind manner and leave it at that. I don't have to repeat what he said because it is there for you to re-read......how is that everyone has an ego and we all lose our cool and what is acceptable levels of frustration? You said nothing about how she must have felt, and what she might have been feeling having to deal with that kind of welcome and nothing about how she responded in a kind manner. All about feeling bad for him and how frustrated he is and how we all have egos and where do you draw the line. It's like you're making excuses for him without batting an eye to how the recipient must have felt to have to see those curse words coming at her unexpectedly.

There's no trickery and complexity in moderating constant rudeness and disrespect on those levels. A toddler would be able to moderate that.

I understand what you're saying because ever since his beginning i realized he was hurting inside; but he never showed any signs of trying to heal or asked for any advice on how to not feel what he was feeling inside. Instead pretty much all his posts were just venting frustration. That's OK, but not at the expense of others' and the total disrespect he portrayed when he got a response to his posts that was not to his liking. It's obvious to me, he didn't need any help and was very comfortable being the way he was.

I would like to say thank you to all who recognized this as unacceptable behavior; never to anyone, but especially to a new member who did nothing but show kindness, respect and humility. This wasn't the first, second or third time, but I'm happy to see it's the last. I would also expect the same for myself if I were to conduct myself that way, so this is not a one-way street.

I'm sorry, I forgot to laugh.

Please, this is a new member he's speaking to like that and a very respectable one at that too, and this shouldn't be a laughing matter that just gets swept under the rug any longer. This is absurd. The only warning I ever got on this forum was for this............i don't even want to say because I'll get another if I do.

@Thought Art @Osaid @Max_V @integral @cetus@Sincerity and others please see my comment.

Yes, its a choice to be rude and belittling but shouldn't be allowed; especially in this crude manner.

To All Moderators: I have to speak up. This is unacceptable. Yes, we all have our moments. Yes, once I told this user to go "f" himself. Once I got a no point warning for making a sarcastic comment about his behavior and the kind of posts he makes. If I get another warning because of this comment, I don't care. I didn't agree with the warning I got saying i was trolling and gaslighting, but I took it in grace. This is the type of personal attacks that is leashed upon a new member. These are the types of languages allowed here and these are the types of members one will get a warning point for. For trolling a troll. I will not sit around and be a part of a forum any longer that will allow these kinds of members to be a part of it, and on top of that give respectable members warning points against these trollers that CONSTANTLY makes hatred posts and disrespect it's members. Do you see the VERY respectable comment that was made to him by @Evelyna and the nasty and disrespectful response that he gave. Then she respectfully responded and another nasty and disrespectful comment again. This user is a constant menace and I cannot sit around and not say anything anymore. If you want to give me another warning for speaking up, go ahead. I already spoke up about another one awhile back who spoke about murdering women and he has not been back since. So I know sometimes speaking up is the right thing to do. This user has gotten away with plenty and it will only get worse because he sees how he can. He gets defended and is allowed to constantly curse and insult. I don't know if what I'm doing is the right thing or not, but I just cannot let this one go by without addressing it. For some reason I cannot tag the mods names, so I hope atleast one of you sees this.

You're Welcome! Most of us here are kind and loving; and, on behalf of all of us here, we welcome you and are happy to have you.

When I saw your comment up top, I knew it wouldn't go well. All I'll say is, thank you for being you, we need more people like you in this world. You exude grace and elegance in the way you speak and I can tell the people around you are blessed to have you in their life. I took your comment up top as being wise and it being a powerful message.

Nice video. She does have some valuable videos and powerful insights and recommendations when it comes to relationships and the male/female dynamic. Take what you resonate with and leave the rest, don't care about people's impression of her. I'm not living with her nor sleeping with her so all that doesn't matter. This video was very informative as well as a lot more that she produces.

How I was convinced of this "men loving bitchy women" stuff was whenever my nice, respectable, sweet, caring, kind persona flew out the window when I was up to my wits end and turned into Jezebel for a hot minute; that's when I was being heard and got more respect from them in that moment of terror. Lol. It was so bad that they mistakenly took it for love and thought how much I must love them to be displaying that type of emotion and they felt close to me in those moments. Prior to that, I was really being loving and kind and feminine where I was very allowing of the bullshit (not taken advantaged of) just allowing for errs and mistakes etc without getting annoyed because I really wanted it to work out. It was when I was over it and was at my wits end and snapped that they were now ready to hear me out and wanted it to work out then; but it was too late i was done. Like R. Kelly's song says "when a woman's fed up, ain't nothing you can do about it".

It made sense to me.

It's about a year ago or even a bit longer; but I forget under what circumstance and what the thread was about. I thought I was a bit odd that's why it probably stuck with me.

Another proof that life has no real purpose or meaning so humans have to make shit up for their boredom and that anything will do.

Good for you. Sometimes after eating certain foods I get bloated, but it goes away after I sleep or stop eating the foods that caused the bloat. I don't have what you're describing, but I can suffer from bloating at times if I eat foods with gluten, wheat or if I indulge in unhealthy snacks. It goes away fast though and isn't really a problem. I also notice ginger helps and apple cider vinegar. Leaky gut is a common issue for most people and can cause the appearance of bloating; but I don't think that's what you're experiencing. I remember a while back you did mention you had this condition, so I'm glad to see you've found a solution and one that may also have other benefits as far as the body goes in maintaining it's natural flow.

I'm in America but my dad is still in Jamaica and my friend has property there. Thank you. Keeping an eye on it.

Oh oh! My friend had to cancel a flight, or I should say, the flight was cancelled from Ft. Lauderdale to Jamaica tonight because of hurricane Beryl. Hope it doesn't cause too much damage.

@Someone hereI understand what @OsaidIs saying. Try to see the meaning behind all he's saying as he raises some very good points and is pointing to something more than just the surface meaning of attachment and what is really going on.