Princess Arabia

These two comments go hand in hand. Shows the likelihood of it being the case.

Quite unlikely. Never happened to me. It's more likely to come off during regular sex. In oral, you hold the base if he's small as that's when it can get a bit tricky; but getting lodged in the throat isn't likely. Not impossible but not likely.

And neither is anyone else but only in the dream. It's the Absolute appearing as someone who appears to be enlightened. Nothing is separate do how can someone be enlightened and another not if it's not only in the dream of separation.

Absolute freedom cannot be known. There's no one to be aware of freedom, because freedom (in this sense), is all there is. It is not a feeling state. It is what is. Free to even be a slave. Unconditionally free. The separate self, the individual, the contracted energy that thinks it's a human and a person can never feel free because that is freedom expressing as someone who isn't free. There is no becoming free. There's no "you are always free" because there is no you. The person/human is just that seeking energy that seeks to be free and liberated. It cannot be anything else but "not free", but only in appearance.

Simple. If you we're rich, would you go out to do things to make you feel rich. No, because you already feel rich. Insert any adjective there including unique. Hope you get the drift. Nothing intrinsically unique about anything, so the sentient tries. If it were already, it wouldn't feel the need.

Ever seen the movie CHLOE. Pretty good. It's about an escort and a wife that hired her to see if her husband would cheat on her with the escort, and she ends up sleeping with the wife instead. This trailer kind of reminded me of that movie.

Lol. Never mind. Haha

Last thing I'm saying on this. This is what I'm talking about. You need others to identify with what you identify with. Without others, you couldn't say, "then I'll be like everyone else". There wouldn't be anybody else to not be like. You contrast your sense of being and how you define yourself because you have defined everyone else, however that is. You still need others to be able to know what you're like or not like. You need to hear others' opinions and beliefs to be able to contrast that you're not like them. If OP didn't ask the question, you wouldn't even be able to recognize that you're not like him and that you don't need to ask questions because you're operating from your own authority. Something to contrast it with. I'm just trying to let you see how you're operating from the same place OP is operating from but from the inside out, anti-clockwise and clockwise are still from the same clock. It operates both ways but can only do so one at a time. He's asking for opinions, you're saying he should know himself and not depend on others to know for him, but you're also depending on others to be able to know yourself. Either way you look at it you're still dependent on others. You can't be how you are, if you weren't dependent on others. Both of you are dependent on others. His way is just more direct while yours is more indirect.

I didn't say define I said know. You define yourself from what you know and what you know is determined by the outside world. I get what you're saying, but I'm speaking on something different. You still need others to know yourself and to know what your likes and dislikes are. You didn't cone to your assessments because you were in a cave. Point is, telling someone to not ask questions about things and that they should know themselves and not rely on others is defeating the purpose of not getting to know yourself. This is how you get to know yourself, it's by observerving how you respond to life and others and seeing yourself in relation to others. You didn't know yourself at 10yrs old (eg), it took you years of evolution, queries, and knowledge to come to this point. OP is also in this process, which never ends, btw. At 80yrs old, you'll be responding to life and others differently than you do now and you don't know how that will be then. Life unfolds in stages, relatively speaking.

Yes it does, whether you like it or are aware of it or not. If you were born in Africa, Timbuktu, Canada or some other country than your were born; if you were borne from different parents, went to a different school, had different friends, had different lovers anything outside, you would have been a different person than you are right now. You only think you're making your own decisions and I'm not even talking about non-duality or that there's no one etc,I'm saying the outside world has made you become who you are today and has allowed for you to know yourself.

You can only know yourself in relation to something else. This why there is a world, an I, and duality. This is why you're there and I'm here. The only way you think you know yourself is because you have created a life based on what you know and one can only know something they see outside of themselves.

We're not addressing the root cause of the problems, only the symptoms. The society creates the problems, then we try to solve the problems with the same mindset. Don't vape, don't smoke don't drink, don't pop pills.....well who the hell is providing this shit. The same people profiting from this shit. Then we wonder why we're insane.

Please tell him. We trust our doctors too much in this country to be giving us the proper care and guide. Many addictive pill poppers first got their pills from a doctor. Not saying don't treat, but for goodness sake let's treat where proper healing takes place and not just create other problems.

I say play it by air. Don't decide either way before you guys meet up. At least see how you feel when you're with her in person. It isn't wise to be so attached to a person where you say to yourself you don't want to lose them. The fear of losing them is the thing that will make that happen. Let go and go with the flow.

No space, no time, you're everything, no here, no there, it's absolute, no separation, completion, creation is finished, it's done, it's not going anywhere. The snow globe symbolizes everything. Wholeness. The All. What's happening inside is the illusion but it's not really happening. No outside, no inside. Within the globe is everything. Thoughts, concepts, ideas, experiences, body, mind, seeking, constructs, animals, trees, buildings, airplanes, EVERYTHING you know to be life. Even the person. It's all encompassing. Nothing more important than the next. All the same thing. It's empty and full at the same time. All those relative/absolute concepts all there. Simultaneously happening.....all there. Going round in a circle - apparently. Nothing new under the sun. History repeats itself. It's all one, not two, whatever it is. However you describe it. This is it. You're inside this globe hallucinating, dreaming and thinking you have a separate life. You're not stuck in a globe, the globe is all there is and what's inside is what it appears as. Shake it up and you have movement. Life seeming to happen. Aliveness, but not really because nothing is really happening.

What does this even mean. Are you saying the Absolute is looking through itself or looking for itself?

Lovely, which is an illusion. Duality is an illusion. You explained perfectly, but it's still illusory and not really happening. That's the magical appearance of This. There is no actual reality only an appearance of one.

Wow, that's a mouthful. Very deep questions. I'll try to attempt in no particular order The Absolute is appearing as everything. What you call a memory is also it appearing as a memory in the present. Meaning there is actually no you with a memory but the absolute appearing as memory and the I grasps and holds on to that appearance and make it theirs. It takes everything personal and believes it's about it. If I'm thinking about my mother right now, thatls the Absolute appearing as thinking about my mother in present time. There is no I thought that keeps appearing throughout YOUR whole life. Your whole life and the I thought are the same thing. Meaning there is no you that is thinking of an I and needs to stop thinking of an I. The I is that energy itself. There is no you separate from the I thought. So there's nothing the I can do to end itself because it really isn't there but only as an illusion. Matter of fact, just watch this in it's entirety. I know you've seen Jim before but this one i think is the best of the best and a summary of it all and sums it all up quite well and explores just every aspect of your questions. Like his best in one video.

There's no human already so there's no one to run your stupid experiment. Even if there's no eating for a month, there's no one doing that. It's wholeness appearing to not eat for a month. If it dies because of starvation, there will be no one there to know it's dead because death can't be known.

lol. Yeah, it's a fucking circle. Going round and round and round and not actually getting anywhere because it's not really going round in a circle. Lol Enlightened/Awakened yet?

There is no human to surrender. It never was. That's just another fantasy/dream/hallucination/ Where's the "you" that's surrendering to the human. That's two things. Separate. There's no separation.

The perceiver is an illusion. There is no perceiver; but I can't tell you that because you already know that there is a perceiver which is the very thing that hides the fact that there's no perceiver.

It's exhausting being a human/person. Why, because there is a feeling that comes with that energy that something is lost, something is missing and that I have to find it and make myself whole. It can't help it. No one is actually doing that, it's happening all on it's own but the illusory experience makes it feel/seems real. There's no one that can actually stop seeking or stop being human because it never began in the first place. It's only an appearance as such and there's no one to awaken out of the dream because...well, the dream isn't really happening. You might say an illusion is still happening, but let me see you go try to grab a rainbow. You see the effects of something else that caused the rainbow and what caused the effects (sun's rays, vapor, etc) are caused by something else, (condensation, clouds, evaporation), and what caused those is also from something else and it goes unto you end up at nothing. The Absolute/Freedom/Unconditional Love/No-thing was only appearing as those things in the moment but not in time, to cause the appearance of those effects.

Absolute freedom cannot be felt; it's not a feeling. What you're expressing is freedom appearing as someone that feels free then feels constricted again. Freedom is unlimited and can appear as anything or else it wouldn't be free.

Freedom is appearing as someone fighting for freedom. Freedom is appearing as slavery. You will never find freedom because freedom cannot be known. Freedom is all there is. Whatever your response is to this statement, that's also freedom responding as such. The individual separate self is fucked in this way, but not really, as that is also freedom appearing as someone fucked. There is already no one.