Princess Arabia

I prefer to drink a little when working. Makes the experience go by easier and more fun. If I'm not drinking when I'm out like that I don't want to be there because I'm not really a bar person. Maybe because I've done it so many times, it's quite boring for me. I'm speaking about work now. I'm very rarely at a bar if I'm not working. Drinking makes the time go by faster. I drink red wine and on a few occasions a shot or two of something, maybe tequilla or brandy.

Yes, been drinking for awhile now. I've worked in bars for awhile. Don't drink at home, only out. If I drink at home, it's because I'm headed out and getting a head start. Lol

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The body doesn't need much in the beginning; but after awhile, it will need more to have the same effect and more and more then it goes back to where a little bit will make it feel drunk because of the overdosing.

Everyone experiences alcohol differently. Just because it's that way for you, doesn't mean it's the same for everyone. Even being drunk can have different effects for different people.

Your understanding didn't become sharper, you just filled a hole that was open. It seemed brilliant to me too when I read it but didn't fit into the Absolute scheme of things, it is still duality, and cannot be the actual truth. It all fits into theory and concepts but it's still separation. Consciousness is still within the dream of separation.

All that sounds like to me is another distinction the mind made. We know there's no actual space and time so now we're going to have to find ways to explain how consciousness exists within space and time or not. Dimensions - it's still a concept.

You just knocked your whole post off the map with this sentence. You're all over the place.

There's no actual difference between anything. How can there be in wholeness. Yes they appear as such, so what you're speaking of is still not actual. I'm not saying you're wrong, but it's still only within the idea of separation. Have fun with it, but it's illusory.

The "me" is fucked. Simply put.

Cool. Nice experience. There's no one to know there's no self left because there never was a self. There's no one here and no one there either. No one is free because freedom is all there is. It's not for anyone. This is freedom already masquerading as "not being free". Being free also means being free to suffer and live a life of hell. Freedom is not conditional. It's unconditional and anything goes. The individual can never be free because it looks for personal freedom of which there's none. There's nothing to surrender to as life is just happening all by itself. Even your message and my response is life messaging and responding to itself.

Lmao. I was jamming the whole time.

There are children all around us. They don't need to be forced to see and hear about adults porn addictions.

Asking a male what do females want the most and an apparent single male at that. It's a good thing we already know what most men want. God was good to us in that department. We don't have to go round town asking about what men want, just what kind; and that's relative and objective and depends on whose looking, so it's a no brainer for us. We just show up and that's it. Women knows what men want and men knows what they themselves want. Everybody knows what men want. When it comes to women, now it's a mystery. I can tell you one thing. The one thing you left off the list is what men want so it can be safely said that women and men don't want the same things. So now, it's easy to figure out. Just cross out the things that men want and you'll have your list. You just now have to figure out which women will want what and see them as individuals with a variety of tastes and see how you can make them feel.

Sure, in your dreams. No one awakens. It's just a story. What are we awakening to, God. Why is God asleep. So it can remember itself. So, what happened to the billions that came before us. Did God remember itself then. Why not. Why now that we're all here in this lifetime. What will happen billions of years from now, everybody will be born awake. What's the point to forget yourself then. What will happen trillions of years down the line. God will start over and forget itself with a new generation of humans to remember itself again. Is this an ongoing process. Does it ever ends. So that means, it's all God playing a game with itself. so who awakens, God. What's the story again. We suffer so we can come to God when we can't take it anymore and .....walla...we awaken to our true nature. Only thing is we still suffer, and still can't fly and walk through walls. We observe the body as awareness and we observe everything and we are not that which we observe. We observe the cruelty and crises of the world but we are not that. We awaken to our true nature as awareness but have to meditate everyday twice a day for 20mins to maintain that illusion so it doesn't go away. The illusory ego will awaken to not be itself and realizes it's something else. Then the illusory ego that isn't really there but just as a construction of the mind will die but the mind remains to construct itself as God. Then God goes through an existential crises wondering why it put itself through all that pain and suffering just to remember itself and then ends up suffering some more till the body dies anyway. This reminds me, I'll just write a book on God's awakening and hope I make it through chapter one before I realize I'm God pretending to not be God so I can awaken with the masses in the year 2025. What a hell of a dream to awaken out of. I'd rather stay asleep as God and explore earth some more. Seems more exciting that being nowhere and being nothing.

@something_elseI itemized and quoted you and addressed each point individually. If you can't see how and where I addressed your points, then you must be blind. You said I wasn't saying anything. Maybe I wasn't saying anything that made you keep believing in your fantasies about the field but I did say a lot and a lot to debunk what you think you know and your false beliefs. Either way, you believe what you want and I will keep calling shit out when I see it.

What's your point. Your opinions VS mine. I'm speaking from experience you're not. You have ideas and opinions about the field and I'm speaking facts and from an insider's perspective.

One of the principles in that community is the awareness that men often times don't give a shit about the women they're digging pussy from, so please spare those details. Even on this forum the emphasis is on getting laid more than it is about caring about these women. I'm just trying to show you how you're expecting morality and integrity to work in a world of survival and especially when it comes to sexuality. You didn't even say that these men actually care about the women they're giving money to. It's on the woman to do the caring. Men can not give a shit as long as he's getting his pussy, but the woman is expected to care about the man if he's providing. Fuck me without loving me but I better love you if I'm expecting you to dig in your wallet. I'm exaggerating but it's pretty much the case and what's expected of these women. A man can use you up for his sexual pleasure without giving too shits about you but please make sure you care about him if he's paying your rent or buying you a car. Also, it's not about taking money from but more of an exchange. Men don't bat an eye and say they're taking a woman's pussy if she's willing, so why use those words "taking money from" when the man is willing.

This is why the human species, the ego and the individual who's trying to live a life of integrity and in a moral way often times are the ones riddled with shame and disgust of themselves and their selfish ways and who also often look down on others and feel bad about themselves when they can't live up to their own standards. You're saying one should find healthy ways to get laid. What does that even mean. Don't lie - love her/him first- do it only if....i don't even know what that means. You want people who live in an unfair world and a world that all it does is feed the ego's need for more and more and is only concerned with consumers and doers to have integrity and morals when it comes to getting laid. If someone lies to get laid, so be it. They lied. If someone lied to get a job, that would be viewed differently but it's still lying. We try to live with integrity and fail miserably at it only because these things are subjective and not absolute. The more integrous one tries to be, is the more evil they become.

I understand. When I was first watching her videos and heard her referring to these men as targets, I was not uncomfortable with it too until I realize what the term really means and the context it's being used in. Also I've seen where guys also refer to their gold "pussy" digging female targets as such. Sorry, but it is what it is and i don't hold back nor butter shit up or make excuses. Men are pussy diggin. Women are gold diggin. Both are targets. If I'm looking for a husband I'm going to target a man that I deem husband worthy. If you're out looking for a long-term girlfriend, you're going to target areas of common interests, women who are attractive to you etcetc. The mind just doesn't like certain words but when we really investigate, those words are being appropriately used. Sometimes we stumble upon things in life and other times we set out purposely to achieve things and we set our targets as such to try and achieve these things. It's called focusing.

That's just your interpretation and the word has many. The gold diggers themselves don't see themselves as such and the men (believe it or not) that loves these women don't see them as such. It's like I knew nothing about a pick-up community until I joined this forum and also saw one of Leo's videos on the topic. I didn't even know it was a movement. Likewise, most just doesn't understand the gold-digging community. I know the name doesn't sound too enticing and seems to have a bad connotation and we could probably use other words but either way, it's women who are looking to better themselves and their lives, who look, to men who are willing but they have to level up to the status these men are looking for and certain criteria stands. These women are becoming entrepreneurs, owning businesses, going to college etc and the men are loving their companionship and both are in agreement with what each brings to the table. That's just a brief explanation. The leeches that you're talking about are probably dusty men who want to leech off of women and stay home and smoke weed and drink beer all day while they live off of the gold diggers money. There are so many misunderstandings in life and that's the main reason why I don't care what others think or say anymore about certain things because most are simply just ignorant to the facts or simply have opinions and ideas about a subject that's so far-fetched from the real deal. People will look down on women trying to better themselves and high-five men who just want to sleep around just because they're horny. Go figure.

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The Cosmic Joke at it again.

Seriously depressed? This ain't it. Anyway, doesn't matter, I don't need patience for sarcasm and i think your question is just hypothetical and doesn't hold any weight and I'm not responsible for someone else's choices. Seriously depressed doesn't respond with sarcasm to every fucking suggestion and telling everybody off.

I'm overly sensitive, that's the problem. I get pissed off at people asking for help but want to dictate how the help comes. The bigger picture reveals more than my few little words of ranting. My patience ran out, that's all. Empathy and caring gets one but so far.