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Keep in mind that your name could be accidentally hit. Happens all the time.

Now ya know. I've learnt a lot about men just from being on this forum; I've also learnt a lot just from interacting with them. It's all about mindset and the type of personality we're dealing with. Not every female is the same, not every guy is the same. The main issue I have with all this is how it seems to be OK for men to want to whore down the town and it's OK, but when women are trying to make a living to take care of themselves and their families in this way and by men who don't mind, it's looked down upon. A female here once started a thread about putting seductive pictures on Only Fans to try to make a living and she got backlash. Guys talk about cold-approaching and calling women targets to go have sex with them (strangers), and it's the norm. Pick-up is trying to get into female's pants just for the sake of sex, prostitution and gold digging is women trying to get paid to take care of themselves. The former is praised but the latter isn't. It's hypocrisy at it's finest and women aren't standing for this shit any longer. Constantly I've seen on this forum how guys are trying to have sex and more sex, not much about caring about a woman's well-being. Nothing wrong with that, but stop calling out women that are trying to get paid. The guys aren't looking for marriage or someone to love, so the moral part of it flies out the window with the judgements.

Why do you say casual sex is normal but having a guy taking care of you isn't. Gold digging comes in many different ways. The video isn't talking about using guys for money but to have them take care of you if they want you like that. She doesn't promote raw straight up prostitution, she is more about not letting guys use you for sex and to make something of yourself with what these guys give you to be with them. Casual sex is fine if that's what both partners want and the females don't care, but guys taking care of women financially isn't a problem either if both are ok with it. You say the pua guys are thirsty, but whose problem is that. The women are thirsty too. Like I said it's the same kind of dynamic, only difference is guys are looking for sex and the females to be talking care of. They're not looking for guys who don't want to take care of women, they're looking for men who do. So why is there something wrong with that.

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I keep telling you all, pick up is just reversed gold digging. Digging for pussy. The same rules and lingo apply, just in reverse. OP uses the right term. Stop trying to tell him don't use that word because those women are his targets. He knows what he's saying. He knows his own mindset. Same thing. Use strategies. Hit on the right one. Hit on both and who leaves choose the one that remains (according to a comment here). She's teaching women how to get provider men and she calls them targets. OP's trying to dig for pussy so he calls them targets. Don't butter this shit up. It is what it is.

The jealous thing is if she gets jealous on her own, not you purposely trying to make her jealous. An example is if you're in her company and she sees other females looking at you or maybe you're talking to your mom or sister on the phone and she thinks it's another female.....stuff like that. When that happens, and if it's not in a toxic way, it could be good for the both of you because it can be a test for her to realize she really likes you as long as she doesn't respond in an immature way or confront you about it. She might realize on her own that she was mistaken, and her attraction may heighten when she realizes how the misunderstanding made her feel. Trying to make her jealous will not work and only makes her think you're not really interested in her.

Well, you just demonized porn.

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This is already death.

Go to the blog and read #107.

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There ya go.I lost my taste for Spiritual knowledge. It only masks what this is. I do not go out looking for my purse if I see it right here beside me, now do I. I only have a taste for the here and now and what is. More knowledge is just that, more knowledge. It leads nowhere and only breeds the need for more knowledge. I still watch videos and still do whatever, but it's just like doing anything else. The so-called wise that you refer to them as, are no more wise than you or I. The stupid are no more stupid than you are I - ONLY IN APPEARANCE. The mind is what makes that distinction and the mind isn't real as it's contents are forever changing. The wise weren't born wise and the stupid weren't born stupid. They only appear as such in the infinite scope of things and the only difference between the two is energetic and energy cannot be placed in a box and be defined, so it's all the same thing. You think you're becoming wise by listening to the wise, but all that's happening is you're feeding the mind and it's need for truth. Truth cannot be grasped because Truth, is all there is. It's already the case. Wisdom and stupidity collapses and become one because they are both defined against each other.

@NoSelfSelfanswered your question. Do we talk about our sex life in detail here on the forum. Why not? Same reason.

Why are you quoting me somebody's words. What are my words. I have quotes too. Here's one. "I do not need to become anything. I am what I am and will be what I will be. I didn't ask to come here, so however I got here, that will take care of itself". I don't need to go by anyone's quotes just because my momma and poppa had sex. Quote me a delicious recipe so I can make it for dinner and satisfy the body's hunger. The mind doesn't need anymore spiritual quotes from some dead man.

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I didn't.

Only thing i can say is that when I don't, I feel like shit and certain health problems start to arise. As soon as I get back to eating better, they go away. So I don't think it's the eating healthy as much but it's the opposite that creates the problem. Eating healthy probably just puts the body back to homeostasis and eating poorly takes you out of it and sends the body out of whack.

None of this really matters anyway because there are no recipes for what is. What is, is and that's it. There is no point in me saying there's no you or self because who is saying that and to whom. Robert Adams is just a name attached to a body that is speaking words uttered from nothing appearing as some guru teaching something. It's all empty and means nothing. Doesn't mean life won't go on and words won't have meaning and gurus won't exist. It's all appearing from nothing as something, but in the end means nothing. This isn't nihilism, this is freedom, but for no one. The person is freedom appearing as a person. There is no value in this comment and nothing for anyone to grasp.

I am not a liberated being. There's no liberation for "me". Liberation is what the "me" spawned from - so-to-speak. Liberation is not for anyone because there's no one to be liberated. Liberation is already the case, so liberated that it can appear to not be.

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Yes, but making a quote like that then saying "you and yourself", defeats the whole purpose of there's nothing you have to do and nowhere to go and nothing to get. One doesn't get up in their daily lives and keep saying there's no me or you and nowhere to get or do when they're going to work or engaging with the world. But sending a message as his doesn't require for you to get between you and yourself because there's no you and there is no self to get in between.

I don't know why it's you think I'm overdosing on anything. Problem is you're still looking up to an authority and you think I'm doing the same. I can listen to Robert Adams and enjoy what he's saying just like I could listen to sponge Bob and enjoy his show. Makes no difference as it's all entertainment. I don't have to listen to anyone anymore about anything spiritual or non-dual when I can see it right before my eyes as in this OP's thread. It's everywhere. Cat chasing it's own tail.

He's probably stepping on an ant right there while filming that video. Poor ant screaming for HELP!!!

Plus I never said all is a dream and all is an illusion, because it isn't. The only illusion is the "me" thinking it's a separate entity. That's the only illusion. That's why it keeps looking to get something and trying to find value. It's all a made up pipe dream. Nothing wrong with that, but it's a hopeless case and will go right back to square one chasing it's own tail just like OP. You're right there's no value in this message and nothing for the person to grasp unto.