Princess Arabia

Men are out here chasing women instead of chasing careers and status to attract the women. Notice how easy it is for men of status to get women. Instead of calling women gold-diggers or money hungry or manipulators, maybe try and see from their point of view. Lots of men don't mind providing and providing protection the best they can for the 'right' woman. The woman that appreciates and respects them for their efforts. Those men get their rewards just from being with the woman herself and not what she brings to the table. Her presence is enough for them which enables her to be in her feminine in their presence. She can maneuver both traits back and forth when needs be but usually is almost in her feminine around him. He feeds off of that. A lot of women become masculine because they are left on their own to fend for themselves. They get chewed up and spit out by men who can't see beyond her on a sexual level or the beauty that emanates from her being. They'll want to use her for their pleasure and also expects her to do all the work like raising children and doing house-work. That can mentally drain a woman and cause her to become bitter towards men and causes her to be in her masculine and close off her feminine side as a protective mechanism. Wrong journal. Just noticed. Anything can appear.

This thread is very erotic. It kind of touches that erotic zone. The kind that makes you want to make love. Unlike that other thread where someone wanted to stick something in someone's ass. 🤣🤣See the difference. @integralYou done it again, you instigator you. You made me start thinking about the best sex i ever had. Maybe will never be duplicated and doesn't have to be.

Yeah, I guess it depends on the circumstances. Here in the US when I lived in apartments they always had extra keys that could access the apartment but only for emergency or if locked out and was free of charge. This was years ago and things could have changed now with all the digital stuff going on. So yeah, general advice there. You're right, though, locksmiths are brutal and the business can be a rip off. Just don't break into a locksmith shop, they'll fine you double in court and charge you triple just for showing up. Hehe

It's love because love is the absence of separation and there's none. Love is unity. The individual wants to "stick that dick into that ass" a forum member said that and because it seeks love and unity. I got upset by those terms because I saw a lack of love and unity. We seek what we think we lack. There's actually no seeker, only appears that way. Those words were said but by themselves. The anger towards those words was anger appearing. Energy turned to anger. No one did that. There's no one to do anything. It's all energy appearing including the person that may seem to say there's an avoidance of responsibility for one's actions. I invite for anyone to explain to me in detail or even slightly how they get angry or sad or moody or happy or whatever. Please explain to me the mechanics involved. Not why you got angry or the thing or circumstance that made you angry, but how you made anger appear. How you made sadness appear. How you build a chair and a house can be explained and taught. How the hands moved to build the house cannot be explained. Maybe scientifically but there will always be a gap somewhere as to how the motion was generated. It will always lead back to energy. God is energy it us how the hands moved. It is how the hands appear to not move (maybe a stroke or an accident). Also an appearance. God appearing as a stroke or accident victim. A new car can appear to make someone happy but that someone cannot explain how that happiness was generated. It happened all on it's own. Everything is happening all on it's own including the appearance of a dead body. That body is no more dead or alive than you seem to be. It's an appearance just as a chair is an appearance. There was never anyone in that body. No soul or entity. Just a body. A dead body is not a body that died. There is just an appearance of a dead body. There is no real continuity. That's the dream. When I say this is magic, that's what I meant simply unexplained magic. No one can explain how this is done because it's not being done. It is simply BEING. Being cannot explain being, it just simply fucking is.

God doesn't dream up crappy lives. There is no God that's dreaming. There is no one that's dreaming. THE DREAM IS THE INDIVIDUAL. The dream is the one that thinks God dreams. The dream is the one that thinks it has a life and stands on its own. The dream is not real. There is actually no dream, meaning there is no individual. There is just energy appearing to be an individual. God is energy. There are appearances. Appearances means there's nothing actually happening only appears to be. A rainbow appears when the conditions also appear for it to be a rainbow and those conditions also appears when conditions appear for them to be so and so on. A sneeze appears maybe after being exposed to pollen and a cough after exposed to smoke and a yawn after feelings of tiredness, etcetc. Everything is in relation to another thing simply because they have no true reality on their own. They are appearances. There is actually no relation, only appears that way. All appearances are empty. They have no substance to them. They cannot be grasped or held unto. They are not owned. They don't belong to anyone. That's the dream. This is energy speaking to energy. Responding and relating to energy. There's energy that has taken form to appear as........it's empty. Energy can become anything including the appearance of people seeming to be living crappy lives; including a forum where a poster asks why does God dream up crappy lives; including a reader that reads this and says she's full of shit. That's energy. The thoughts are energy, the ideas, the concepts the chair and the dog. The blood, the heart, the everything. All appearances, all empty and void of meaning and substance. There's a type of energy that thinks it's a separate energy. Somehow it ate from the tree of knowledge that knowledge thinks it knows (metaphor and analogy , didn't really happen, but that's what the story means). Now that energy appears to have a life of it's own, appears to have free will and choice, see other and thinks they're also separate from it and the rest of the shebang. Energy itself isn't dreaming, the body, which is also energy, feels like there's someone in there driving it, it appears to have feelings, emotions, sensations and is thinking and have control over itself. That's an illusion and the dream. It's not happening be cause that energy was never cut off in the first place and is not separate. I'm not teaching anyone anything, this is energy appearing as someone trying to convey a message to other energy forms. It's an illusion. It feels real to the individual and can appear to have consequences. This is not to say life doesn't appear to go on and the felt sense isn't real. It is but tell me one person that ever made it out alive. Not one. Why is it that no one will ever live forever. Ever. Because it's just bodies, an appearance. Do you ever see a rainbow lasting for 100years. Do you see anything that appears, appears forever, maybe suffering but you get the drift. Nothing can appear and last forever. It cannot stand on it's own. It's not appearing out of anything because that thing has had to also appear out of something and so on. IT IS NOTHING BEING. Full on. No middle man.......to be continued. The brain is seeming to shut down and the thoughts appearing and the mind believing...lost it.

I believe if it's an apartment building with an office and onsite workers, they'll have access to his unit if he's ever locked out, if that's what you're referring to about the locksmith.

It doesn't matter anyway because there's no one to decide to do or not do anything to not get anywhere or to get anywhere. Things are going to happen regardless and they are seemingly happening all on their own. So if someone goes in a cave because they believe they won't get anywhere or if someone keeps doing spiritual practices because they think they'll get somewhere, it's all being done by the Absolute being those circumstances and situations without a person in these bodies. Nothing can be done or not done to avoid, get or not get anywhere. It's life being life. Even your message is the Absolute talking to itself using a computer screen. One cannot apply non-duality. It's not even a real thing anyway. It can't be escaped. It tries to escape itself but it can't. It's stuck, but it doesn't know that or maybe it's just pretending. It's all there is. It's not getting anywhere or going anywhere but it can still appear as it's going somewhere or not. It can appear as anything.

When you start to have ideas in your head about what it is you think I'm saying, you'll misread me and recontextualize my words to suit your idea of what you think I'm saying. I never said men ain't shit. I don't even talk like that to myself about men. Why would I say men ain't shit. Sounds like an angry woman just blasting men because they did her wrong. No man has ever did me wrong. No man has ever cheated on me. No man has ever left me for someone else and the list goes on. I simply say some men are whores and they put women down for being whores too. Nothing complicated about that. With me, there are no complications. Just straight and direct. I get paid so why would I be upset with men. It's the stupid women who give their all to men for nothing who are angry with men. Who give up their pussies for free for a man's gratification and who doesn't give a shit about her that's angry at men. It's the ones that "I loovveeeee you" without getting a ring or provisions made for them that are angry at men. I'm not angry at men, i just think some are hippocrites for bashing women while they can go around whoring down the town and get praised for it. I shouldn't get upset though, because that only shows how low value they see themselves in that way and the more the merrier because they hit the prize and the jackpot. Women do not need to praise each other for giving away their prized possession they praise each other for scoring the jackpot of a provider and a protector who cares about them and their well being.

I said this but "men ain't shit" and "men aren't worth shit" are saying two different things. In the context I used it it's obvious I meant their sexuality isn't worth anything and I mean monetarily. Whether that's true or not is besides the point and doesn't mean because I said it makes it so. Not sure why you quoted the other quotes. Neither implies I'm saying men ain't shit.

I'm not a feminist. Don't care to be. I just want men to leave women alone when they act like they do and worse. I get told to smile from strange men who think I'm here to walk around and please their fantasies of a smiling woman saying hi to them so I can build up their ego. SMILE youlre on candid camera, while they're looking serious and shit. My resting bitch face ain't no joke.

I never said men ain't shit. That's a bit overboard. I only called their ways whorish and hippicritical, which it is, imo.

Anything can appear.

Lmfao. Now I'm laughing at you. Have to admit, that vodka joke was funny.

It's fun to see the Absolute at it with itself on the forum. This is the ultimate magic. I know I wasn't saying that when I was pissed yesterday. This is why I just can't hold grudges for too long or at all. Never was like that even from I was a child. Half of the time I'll even forget what I was pissed or arguing about. Something really bad like if I got raped or something or someone tries to kill me, sure, but for normal interactions and disagreements and arguing, I can't stay mad at the person for too long. Not in me. If I ever argue with someone and only interacted with them once, I'll be forgetting who it was and probably say something nice to them on the next interaction while they'd still be fuming from the last one. Remind me please, because I'll forget.

Lmao

It disgusts me how men can say whatever the hell they want about women and women have to be ladies and smile.

"Normal people", as you put it, are probably less neurotic than spiritualists and something in their sense of self probably realizes there's no one there that needs fixing, but they can't put a handle on it. They don't know this. The sense intuits it on it's own. Since spiritualist and self-help junkies have a bit of neurosis in that sense of self, they call people normies and the rest high conscious, spiritual and knows better because they work on themselves. Another form of delusion. Nothing wrong with it, but there's nothing to fix or work on because this is already perfection. Even the fixin' and the improvements is perfection. Either way, it's perfection.

High conscious VS low conscious in spiritual circles is equivalent to sin and morals in religion. They judge by sin and morality and spiritualists judge by low and high conscious. Both are guilty of all by their terms, meaning they both do and say things that breaches what they've categorized the terms to mean or stand for. For example, a religious person who preaches against sin and immorality engages in sin and immoral behavior by the standards they use to represent these terms. A spiritualist that calls people out for being low conscious, also engages in low conscious behavior. Can't help it because no one is doing either. If you can't see the inconsistencies in life, I don't know what to tell ya. This is free flowing and does and says whatever the hell it wants. Go ahead and do your high-consciousness behavior but when you cheat on your gf, tell a lie, drink to get drunk, smoke that cigarette, curse that person out, fornicate in your mind, think ill of someone,,,,,I could write a book here, don't judge yourself or be shocked and disappointed in yourself. That's what happens to the me, it wants to be and become, wants people to be and become, then whenever the Absolute appears however the fuck it wants, neurosis kicks in, guilt, kicks in, shame kicks in, regret, envy, all sorts of emotions and feelings arises. So we go meditate even harder to try and become something that's not appearing in hopes the Absolute appears as that holy person one day and we'll be saved and liberated from our sins and low conscious behaviors. The Absolute is also being that. Can't escape itself. Neurosis galore.

There's no 'other side'. This is it. No one dies and reincarnates or end up on the other side. THIS IS IT. Stories galore.

Why are prostitutes automatically labelled and called low-conscious when gurus and men of spirituality are raping women and exploiting children for their own benefit. Why are hookers who are trying to make a living put down while men can brag about wanting sex from strangers or women they just met. Why is it OK for men's numbers to be "the higher the better" but women are labelled as sluts and whores for there's. Why is it ok for.......,and the list goes on. I'll fucking tell you why.....BECAUSE WOMEN ARE THE PRIZE AND MEN'S SEXUALITY AINT WORTH FOR SHIT. Who's paying for sex from men, not many, mostly other men and cougars. This is why they give hookers so much flack while praising and cheering on men to get more pussy and wish they were the whoring man getting laid from left to right with a bunch of different women. For men, its nothing because it's not worth anything. I don't have a problem with that, it's the putting down of prostitutes, working girls, escorts and strippers that I have a problem with while men get praised for doing the same thing but minus getting paid. These girls are getting paid by the same men who judge them. We condone strippers and go to strip clubs where prostitution is happening in the Champagne room but call prostitutes low conscious people automatically because of what they do and not how they are as a person. We say survival is key, but we judge people for how they survive. Yes, corruption is involved but so is everything in the modern world, yet hookers and prostitutes gets looked down upon the most. Men can just stick their dicks into any hole they find attractive but when women ask to get paid for them doing that it's a low conscious thing and they're talked about like pieces of trash. I see on the forum countless times how men are looking to get laid, and not by women they know, trust, like, love, or even respect but that's reverred and encouraged. Women are gold diggers, whores and sluts if they look to pay bills and eat and feed their families. Guys will move to another city or country just to get women and you're telling me women aren't the prize. Get the fuck outta here. Stop putting down working girls and also stop expecting for them to show intimacy and care about these men who couldn't care less about them either and just looking for carnal pleasure. I don't care about men's whorish ways, it's what makes me a living, but stop putting down women who care about themselves enough to charge for their services and not give the prize away for free. I'm sure a lot of men had to lie and cheat their way into pick-up and just to sleep with a lot of women. Where is the 1st and the 2nd and the 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, 9th and 10tn one that you slept with. I'm sure by the time you got to the 20th one, someone in the mix got hurt, left, cheated on or discarded for the 21st one. Not all those women you slept with voluntarily left on their own and it took some manipulation, lying and so called 'low-conscious' behavior to get her out of your air so you could go get your next conquest. They call it scoring. Jesus, if that ain't a prize I don't know what is. I don't care about all that, I just want the stigma surrounding willing working girls to not be so harsh. Men will always be whores and slutting down the entire world but stop putting down women when they do the same thing except they want compensation for their prized possession which is femininity all on it's own. Masculinity is also special but in different ways. Not addressing that at the moment. Men are also worth shit just not sexually and the numbers prove that.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around this Truth thing. For me Truth is simply what is. From reading Leo's new blog post, I see his version of Truth seems more nuanced. More involved, More relative, though, and not Absolute. I think what he means by Truth and Truth seeking is on the relative domain. The Truth about the world; how to live in truth and not be self-deceived. Truth of how life should be lived, how to reach certain states of consciousness by seeking truth. If that's the case, then it's different from what I viewed truth to be. First of all. I say there's no truth, just what is. It's all the same on the Absolute sense but the relative is also Absolute so truth is relative in terms of the human and sense of separation. I'll further contemplate this a bit to see where it leads. I cannot just blindly follow if I'm genuinely curious and love this path for it's own sake. I don't consider myself seeking for spiritual gain but out of love and passion. That's the serious part for me, not whether I gain something from it or not but how seriously passionate I am about it but not in a neurotic way and more for the enjoyment of it. There's always room for growth and change on the relative domain even though it's all encompassing and there's no real separation. Cannot live from the Absolute level because that's death.

"God is pure power". That explains the power dynamic in humans. Why it's so essential to obtain it for some. Energy is power. When we're separate and seeking, we seek for things we deem we're lacking in. It's very painful - separation that is. If we have no power over something, we feel worthless and useless and lacking purpose and value. Power gives a kind of control over things and that's where the ego gets it's strength and motivation from. Without it (power), it weakens it. I'm just writing out my contemplations and having new insights from what Razaard just wrote on Squaad's post about God not caring about people's struggles. New way of seeing things and I'll try to fit it into my existing views to see if it fits. If there's a missing link, that's OK too because it will just open the doorway for more curiosity and musings. I never have a closed book. It's always open.

Those statements, when I read them in terms of energy, it made a lot of sense and put a new meaning on energy for me. It really did. Especially when you said God is pure power. Wow! That hit a spot. You know, I'm stubborn and will call out something i don't see to be the case even though they are only my personal pov's, but these statements really hit a nerve and made me see things in a way I've never did before. Something to contemplate on and put into new perspectives. Even the suffering part, I never really saw it that way, but from now on, I'll try to see where that fits in the picture for myself - the way you put it and why we suffer.