Princess Arabia

Nothing here that you said suggests my statement was wrong. You don't know if she was looking for a reason to end it. You said her ass was fat and she probably knew it, so she knew if she asked, you'd probably tell her the truth and she'd get offended and use that as a reason.

In your case, who broke up with who?

Everybody lies; it's what you lie about, to me, that makes the difference.

Err....wrong answer. She knows it's not perfect. "Looks good/sexy to me", as @Jehovah increasessaid is the perfect answer.

Perfect answer. It's neither a yes nor a no. Can't beat this response.

Men lie about different things than women.

Hence, my comment above. See, I know what I'm talking about. I need to be like you and stand my ground. Then again, maybe not. hehe

It depends on the female. It all depends on the male/female. Stop stereotyping in the relationship department; you will be misled, misguided, get disappointed, make bad decisions and think you're not good enough. It depends on the person and the person you desire. All walks of life there are people in relationships and/or having sex. Is it their ideal partner - now that's the question.

What is EDT, Ego Development,.......?

Funny. You're funny. Autism humor. I don't think I'm autistic but maybe I am. Never got diagnosed. I think I may gave a speck of OCD and ADD though, not sure. I tend to want to put things in order and my mind tend to start another task before finishing the current. Plus, I'm the type to want to dot 'I's" and cross "T's" and pay attention to detail. Not sure what that all says about my character. I just observe it though and allow for it without judging it or want to change it.

A ha, so if you really look at your responses, you'll see that not all we do, not all we understand is a direct replica of who we really are; and I'm speaking on the human level. Also, a thief doesn't always think their action is OK. They may justify their thievery to themselves but not necessarily think it's ok. A thief also doesn't necessarily understands why they steal. You have put a thief into the conscious equation by saying understanding system.

Did I say everything is one and everything is love. Nothing in my comment suggested non-duality. I was being as practical as I could. The problem is that once one has come to an understanding of certain things, it's hard to come back down and convey what one is trying to say in a way that they have surpassed. I have a friend who is not at all into this stuff and is as practical as it gets and they taught me not to look at problems as problems and if there's a will there's a way. I have practiced that in my life and have seen the outcomes. Some of you guys cannot see the difference when someone is trying to give you sound and practical advice because if your preconceived notions about that person. My advice to you is very practical as far as I'm concerned but if you think it's too woo woo then maybe it's a bit too advanced for your liking. On this forum I do try to balance out things and I'm involved in the practical as well as the spiritual. Once one has embodied a particular way of living, which, btw for me, is not everything is love and everything is one, it's hard to go backwards or see things differently. So I think it's probably best for me to stop commenting in this way if it's not on the Spiritual sub-forum...ooops..this is the Spiritual sub-forum. Oh well, I think this post may be better in the Self improvement section, if a spiritual response is not welcome.

No one said anything about putting anyone on a pedestal. You have went from one extreme to the next. Notice in my comment, I said I don't even like it when guys compliment me too much in the beginning. That's all going to be physical as he knows nothing about me and would only come off as he's only interested in how I look and not the person I am. Afterwards, compliments that sounds more tailored to me would seem more authentic. You said in the OP 50 approaches, so you are counting your approaches, which makes her a number. Not saying she's only a number; but initially to you she is until she has proven herself, according to you because you said you are evaluating them. Nothing wrong with that, just saying. A female will be more receptive to you if she thinks you really like her that's why you're approaching and not just some random female you see on the street and are filling some quota.

Ok a lot of it has to do also with what stage you are in life and one's level of maturity. Also please understand that one's appearance also brings out a feeling in the person looking. It's all about a feeling. Even men are attracted to how the female's appearance makes them feel. The difference with most men and women in this arena is, a male will feel a certain way when he sees the object of his attraction and women will feel a certain way after she has analyzed the object of her attraction, which is mostly done after the initial interaction. When I say analyze, it's within seconds or minutes.

So a teacher is just a teacher. So my identity is shaped by how conscious I am. So everybody is acting according to what the understand. So what is it that a thief understands. You repeated this one twice, so I guess you're just a repetitive human.

I understand. I guess I'm fully conscious.😜

To solve the problem of problems, is to stop seeing them as problems. The mind loves to solve and it will create a problem that's not even there so it can get to work. Challenges and setbacks is how I see it. Then I set an intention and allow the Universe to do it's magic. You cannot solve a problem with the same mindset that created it - Einstein.

It always comes back to I'm not a man. Well, I have news for you. I'm the woman looking. So I'll be a better judge as to what I'm looking for, I don't have to be a man to know what wouldn't work as a man. I know hanging upside down or pointing bananas at your friend or any stunt if you're not actually a stunt man, isn't necessary and would even turn me off as a profile picture. A simple Pic that shows confidence whether not-so-good looking or good-looking will do with a nice backdrop.

I think one can be conscious that they're trying to understand, but I don't think understanding is becoming fully conscious. I thought about it, and I just couldn't see that. Maybe with a bit more clarity on what you mean by this, i could grasp what you're pointing to, but I don't think it's the case. I don't think the two are correlated in the context in which you put it. I could become fully conscious of my breath, my thoughts, my awareness my focus and attention where is the understanding in that. I can understand what it means to be fully conscious; but understanding that doesn't automatically make me fully conscious. Idk, I'll think about it some more.

I would kindly suggest that you try to use discernment when intervening in a serious conversation with so many smart remarks. I was trying to read the comments and every time you commented, it was not suited for what was being discussed. There's a time and a place for everything, and this conversation wasn't one of them. Please note, I'm not trying to do anything here other than to show you how sometimes your likeable personality can be annoying to others especially if it's not being welcomed. I love you, but in a conversation such as the one above, I also found your remarks a bit too much. Try to tone it down when intervening between serious conversations.

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You told me.

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