Princess Arabia

Keep count only if you have infinite time to. It'll never end.

By your definition, I guess I'm a high-quality woman because I checked all those boxes. Of course, I didn't need your approval because I already knew it and you must be too since it came from you❤️

You are always in the "now". It's the thoughts that separate.

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Please message more of this mindset. Such high frequency and better than emitting fear which is exactly what his post is about. Thank you. As I read his post, your words are what I was thinking but wouldn't, say as I know it wouldn't have been received well coming from me.

Depends on the kind of relationship. Bf - Kindness (same as respect)/Money (as in generous)/Confidence/Humor/Leadership/Looks(don't care about height) Serious relationship - Respect/Generosity/Leadership/Humor/Confidence/Looks Marriage - Generosity and Respect are the same, and in that order if one exceeds the other/Leadership/Confidence/Humor/Looks Kindness/respect and generosity/kindness are the same in my book. If he's generous but disrespectful it's a no no, don't care how much money he has; but that can work for work as long as he's not disgustingly disrespectful. Looks isn't important but he still cannot look like Nostradamus and smell like a skunk. Has to be clean and not smell and not overly, overly ugly. If everything else lines up perfectly and he's passed everything 90%+ then doen't matter if he's ugly. There are paper bags at the store.....just kidding. But he's gotta be so perfect in all the other ways and exceed generous by far and we have a great relationship. I would date or marry a midget or a dwarf. Height has zero importance to me. You could be the shortest man in the world, don't care. I believe that's it. Might be a few slight changes here and there as I'm not rigid and set in stone but close to it. Why generosity is so high for me is because of what i do for a living; and to give that up for a serious relationship or marriage, he has to exceed that. Why respect is so high is because I cannot feel sexual attraction for a man that doesn't respect me and i know in the bedroom he'll be very attentive to my needs and this is the only way I can be willingly receptive to a man and be sexual with no problem. I don't get wet or turned on by a man's looks. I can admire a man's looks and be like, "wow" or "nice" but that's as far as it goes, nothing sexual there. How he treats me is more important than how he looks. A handsome man is a handsome man to me and that's it.

You feel like you're not good enough for them; that's why you struggle to open up. Fear of being judged. If it was the other way around, you would have no problems opening up. You're not mentally ready for a relationship, so you sabotage it by your behavior. See her as your equal and not beneath you and that will balance that part of it. You see her as beneath you but you don't believe it, so you struggle with it. Don't see her as above you, because then you'll resent her. Sounds like you've been conditioned and don't know how to recondition. Love yourself more and that love will shine through unto her. I bet you've been listening to those pill ideologies and now you're starting to see the side effects. Cut that out. (If that's the case). You care, or you wouldn't be here asking for advice. Hard to say more without more information. These are just my opinions; so take it for what it's worth. I could be wrong.

lol. More duck fat please. Now, that's worth killing for, lol. I love duck.

I can meet a man today and end up in a loving and wonderful relationship with him and still sticking to all I'm saying. I'm not sulking nor am I in a rage. All I'm saying is it's not about the love for me, it's about the quality of the relationship. I don't have to be in love or have fell in love to be in the most wonderful loving relationship ever. I'm not looking to be pampered nor catered to, nor am I looking for you to elevate my sense of worth or to be taking from you just to please me. That's all what I love you in most relationships mean. Sometimes I feel I better not express myself because I'm so extremely mis-understood a lot of times or I should try and express myself differently, idk. I'm not in rage, I'm not anxious, I love my cooking and sharing of recipes which is separate from all this, I don't feel deprived. What I'm saying is human love is overrated, the word has been misused and I don't base my feelings off of that, it's more genuine than that. It's based off of authenticity. Do i really like you. Do I really enjoy your company. Forget about how you make me feel for the moment as that's where the love part comes in, how do I really feel about you, the person you are and how I see the dynamics of our interaction together. Lovey dovey shit doesn't come close to what I'm trying to express here.

I've taken Reishi mushroom tinctures. Powerhouse. Mushroom is a superfood, imo.

We love to complicate things while the ants just walk with bread on their heads. Lol

And this is why most women love to be with men of status, whose got their shit together and somewhat already successful because who wants to surrender to someone who doesn't know where they're going.

Right here, is where I got it from. It's about you not her. She means something to you because she's filling a gap. Sorry, it's just how it is. Nothing wrong with it as we all do it in different ways, but it's still ego-based and stems from fear and attachment.

How do you know this. You're not doing anything so much different than what I'm doing with my statement that started this whole shebang to begin with. You only know your gf, the people around you and what you've read in books, seen in videos etcetc. You don't have proof of any of this, you're only speculating.

🤣There's no settling of debates, only dropping. I think the heading only stirred the pot up some more. It's a fun topic, though.

Ok, most men, not all, Lovely, nice. Great. All of what you're saying is great but I still stand by my words. I've downgraded to most and not all. This is not about the wonderful gf that you have and have put on a pedestal. It's funny how all you're saying is a bit extreme and not the norm as in first and only girl you've had, you'll allow her to cheat if that's what she wants and all the other stuff you're saying, it's not the case with most men. I've been there done that too, had guys worshipped the ground i walked on. That's not love. That's worshipping and fulfilling a void and a gap within you. Eventually you'll see this but only with some inner work done. You have put others down while lifting her up, that's not healthy. Saying she's in the top 1% is no different from me saying 99% of men cheat. You just don't recognize this. Of course, idk that all men cheat, because I don't know all men. Right or wrong that I said what I said is the issue and not the validity of my statement. You are no better in your pedestalizing of your gf and putting other women down while doing that than my saying all men cheat. I'll agree my statement was a bit too much on the absolute level as not all is the case; so I'll give you that; working in a field for so many years and that's all you see plus even in personal life, can't blame one to feel that way. It's something I'm working on tho, hard, because the evidence is overwhelming but I'm trying.

Why are you thinking i will lack something with my stance and way of thinking when it comes to men. I'm not being in denial nor am I preventing myself from flourishing on an emotional level. What I'm saying is quite radical and a bit out there, but why do you say I've made bad decisions with men. If I'm sounding like I'm disliking or hating men, you have totally misread me. Just because I'm not into men for the sake of romantic lovey dovey shit, doesn't mean I don't know if be men and would enjoy men in my life. It's just i know and understand men and they are not capable of monogamy and truly loving a woman. Even if they are monogamous, it is forced and strained and has to be focused upon. Lots of discipline and self-control. I don't consider that love so men aren't loving women either. Listen, it's all semantics and word games. If you truly knew me you would see how much I can display love but not because I want something from you but simply for existing. That's my baseline. Survival and agendas is another story of which I'm well aware of and will not go into this love shit fooling my self into thinking its real love when it's all just conditional.

Correct, you never said that. I interpreted it as that.

I could tell you had women in your life; probably quality women too. Can always tell the ones that do.

What you're describing is strength, what they're describing is "been there, didn't work out so now it's my way".

"There's nothing wrong with the world", then shows a picture of Donald Trump. Nice edits.

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You need us to tell you how to sit and think about how your day went? Sit on the couch and do nothing. That mind will do all the work for you.

Brilliant-e. Excellent-e. No more needs to be said-e.

Even if you were correct, which you're not, so what. Where is the woman you're talking about. Her hair, her shoulder, her feet, her toes, her breasts, her fingernails, her ass, her pussy, her.......where? Aren't those all of her, so who cares. I don't have to deny what you said, because it doesn't matter. You just gave pussy value by your comment, why should I deny that. BTW, I've been with men who knows nothing about my pussy, never saw it, touched it, tasted it or entered it and i was still valuable to them . Many, many times different men. I've said this on the forum a few times I'm a working girl and I barely have sex and i provide lots of value. If I didn't i wouldn't be getting paid. You said if women were vagina less we wouldn't be discussing this? Go tell that to the sexy tranny escort with a penis who is also valuable to men who thinks she's female and doesn't have a vagina. You guys think you know anything, you don't; not in your little bubble world of how you view the world and the people that's in it. Plenty of people different from you and plenty are into way different things than what you're into. You'd be surprised of the possibilities that are out there and the different kinds of people engaging in things you couldn't even dream of.