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I'm just saying as a general. If it was just the lack of a vagina, there's plenty of places to fulfill that need without rape.

It's hard to really put in words; but as an empath that absorbs the energy around me easily I can sense a lot by just feeling. Doesn't necessarily mean he's aggressive. No not at all. He probably won't be very submissive, but not necessarily aggressive. It's in his style and manner and how he is afterwards. Not saying all, and that I'm completely correct, as it's just a feeling I'm going off. I don't condemn from feelings.

If this were the case prostitutes would be catering to would be rapists left and right. Why would a man that just craves pussy just doesnt go out to a pro instead of raping.

This is what I'm talking about. This belief. It just doesn't get reported as much. What about Bill Cosby and the infamous Donald and so many more accused of sexual mis conduct. It's not about caliber, it's a mindset.

I can tell, just from having sex with a man, if he has the potential for rape or not. It's in his energy.

I can't seem to get through to these people that it's not about the lack of sex, the less powerful.....it's still about power but a different kind of power.

No

Most criminals don't not commit their crimes because of fear of being incarcerated. A true rapist isn't thinking all this through. The urge is stronger than the consequences. Has nothing to do with morals.

I was waiting for this to come up. I'm not intimidated by this statement. It's just a way of trying to silence the female voice on these matters. I don't have to be a guy to know or understand why people rape. Your arguments are lame and only shows ignorance on your part.

There's probably 100 men right now in a particular town who are sexually frustrated another 200 that crave sex and not getting any, but not one of them is a rapist. There's probably one rapist in that same town, married with kids and can get pussy anytime he wants. Don't be fooled guys, there's a difference between a rape fantasy, and actually going out and committing the act. Or even thinking about rape from frustration and anger and actually doing it. One doesn't become a rapist by just thinking about it. Many people think about it. Just like you might think about robbing a bank when you're broke, but never actually doing it.

What I'm saying is, if one doesn't have the other attributes that leads to rape, they're not going to likely commit the act from mere sexual frustration or the fact that they crave sex. A person doesn't become a rapist out of sexual frustration. They can be sexually frustrated, but it's not the underlying reason. It's these kinds of belief systems that sometimes make these perpetrators feel justifiable in committing their acts or simplify the act of rape and boil it down to a mere matter of sexual frustration. There are men turning down pussy just so they can derive pleasure from the one that was harder to get or that they had to manipulate their way into getting. It's a type of mindset, guys. I'm not saying that rapists don't get sexually frustrated.....but it's not why they rape.

lol

THERE'S NO POINT THERE. Rape is not about sex.

If one doesn't already have a rapist mentality no amount of sexual frustration or craving sex will lead one to actually go out and commit rape.

It pains me to see this statement.

Yeah, you're right. It's important to note also that in the mind of a rapists, seeing prostitutes is the last thing on their mind because they don't really get that same satisfaction. It's about power and with a pro, there's no power there, in fact she's the one with the power in that instant. So a real rapist isn't interested in prostitutes, that's usually where the serial killers come in. There are different categories to this shit. It's amazing how it works. That's why they have people that study these minds. It rings deeper than some mere sexual frustration. My cat gets sexually frustrated.

Yes, yes, yes.

Couldn't have said it better.

So the many people that are frustrated doesn't include women, I guess. Because if both are sexually frustrated, then they'd find a way to satisfy their frustration without raping. Believe it or not, sexual frustration doesn't lead to rape. One might think about it but will never commit the act, if the underlying reason for the rape wasn't there to begin with, which could be a few things like hatred for women or a feeling of lack of power or whatever else goes through the mind of an actual rapist. Saying people rape due to sexual frustration undermines the severity of the act and to me is saying that sexual frustration can lead one to commit a crime of rape based solely on the fact that they were sexually frustrated. Totally undermines the crime by putting it in that category.

Great point. Sexual frustration is just that. Rape takes a different mindset. That's like undermining the violation of the act. Oh well, they were just sexually frustrated. No, something else is going on there. Most times rape isn't about sex, but about power. Plenty of people getting plenty of sex still rape.

What good work is this. What good work is Bambi doing here, I'm dying to know. Other than projecting, criticizing and judging and assuming and speculating.

I never said he mistreated me. Why would I get into this type of work because some man mistreated me. Makes no sense. You're the one projecting on me here. Nothing I've said so far indicates that I've been traumatized, have low self esteem or whatever else you keep saying I am. I was joking about my ex he never traumatized me. I'm not traumatized by anything. Traumatized...by what. The only trauma I go through is you keep telling me I'm traumatized..lol If I was fucking guys left and right and on drugs to numb the pain yeah I'd be traumatized. I would never do this if that's what I had to do. I'm older than I look because I'm not traumatized, never did drugs, have no children and live a pretty peaceful life, eat fairly healthy, holistic and don't consume too much negativity. I do have my vices, but other than that, I'm good.

I'm home, dear, just giving an example of my work. If I was working i wouldn't be on here entertaining you

haha. Way before sex work dear. I was in college. Nothing to do with sex work.

Bambi I'm so sick of you stalking me. Go stalk someone else and stop traumatizing me please. I don't need your analysis of what I do. Go and clean up yourself from all the torture and torment you put yourself thru all those years while I go have a salmon dinner with my date, where's the trauma in that.