Princess Arabia

Nothing wrong with what you're saying; but would you give a plant orange juice or put Pepsi in your gas tank or does a ruler measures backwards. No, there are certain rules that apply for this level of creation and certain qualities that are intricately designed in order for this level to grow and evolve. It may not be right for the egoic individual; but if that individual steps out of it's egoic structure and taps into the higher Universal mind it may work for them on a level where it reduces suffering and pain and maybe bring more flow into their lives where they start to experience more harmonious relationships. Everyone has their own unique personalities, but certain things will apply to everyone on a Universal level and it will be up to that individual who understands the original topic to structure it consciously into their lives in a way to suit their preferred chosen identity.

Most men will not understand this, and this message will be misconstrued. It is indeed correct. It is not about serving the feminine, being submissive, being a simp, having her control you or whatever other unaligned notion you may see this message and interpret it to be. The Universe also operates like this - as far as masculine and feminine. Parts of the mind is also masculine and feminine, and one gives while the other receives. The conscious mind (masculine) penetrates the subconscious mind (feminine) which is the womb of creation and gives birth to everything in the physical realm. Giving is receiving and receiving is giving; so it's not like anyone is missing out on anything. The egoic mind structure will not understand this because it's about me, me, me and acquiring more for itself, being in control and usually not aligned with the Universal flow of things. When women are less stressed about life and gets the opportunity to rest in her feminine, it works for all. That energy flourishes and emits so much radiance and light unto the world in a positive way and the masculine then gets to receive that to power it's life force to now birth new ideas and creation flows. There's more to this that meets the eye and it's not about men serving and women taking. There's a balance at play here and energies have masculine and feminine qualities. Even in homosexual relationships where one is more masculine/dominant and the other feminine/less dominant the energy dynamic still works the same. When you stop seeing people as humans and individuals and can see everything as energy, those personal attributes you take so personal along with your biases and prejudices will melt away as in "homosexuals can't have kids so therefore it's not natural" type ideas. That's in your limited mind because having kids is not the only way to birth and create and allow for the Universe to continue it's flow of life. That comes in many different areas of life. We have strayed way from this natural law with our thoughts and ideas about masculine and feminine and the feminist movement didn't help. Neither did the mgtow movement and the different pill ideologies which have vastly separated the two and now we're seeing the aftermath of this dichotomy. Women are built a certain way psychologically and so are men. Men are givers by nature and women receivers by nature (as the sex act implies). But the masculine is still receiving and the feminine still gives - it's only indirectly. Both flourish under this dynamic as both balances each other out; but I'm afraid we have a long way to go for this understanding to turn itself back around due to the increase in the gender wars; and it's in the ignorance of this very same dynamic why it was birthed to begin with. Going against the laws of nature has consequences; and when it's on a large scale as this all will feel it's wrath and it is one of the reasons why there's a loneliness epidemic also. This is obvious when we look at how the feminine gets attracted to status and the likes and men to beauty and sex. It's all because of this dynamic and gets revealed when you dig deep as to why and leave your petty little egoic judgements aside.

Ok. It takes time and maturity to see through this. Sometimes we have to go through things ourselves for us to learn. We can't be force fed. A lot of stuff I didn't have a clue about either. If it weren't for my willingness to learn, try to understand why people do what they do in a loving way without malice, anger and/or judgements, I would be carrying around baggage too that would only wear me down and tear me apart. It has to be earnt. I damn sure earnt mine because I put in a lot of work to not let my mind rule me and take over. Sometimes when people tell you stuff you can't really take it at face value by itself, but every circumstance is different. Some will put up with shit if other things are in place and they'll overlook certain things. In the end, they'll just say whatever seems easier to say without too much fighting and bickering. Good luck to you. I've said my bit. You have to change your mind to change your life circumstances and the way you see them.

These are all thoughts. Let them go. Start afresh and throw out all those limiting beliefs. The world is just reflecting back to your your beliefs. It's a mirror. Don't try to solve anything because you'll be doing that with the same mindset. Just allow for things to naturally occur and you'll be given the necessary tools and when to act as long as youre not in resistance. Reading your comments all you're doing is throwing temper tantrums because things aren't going your way. See the lessons in them, if there's any and get a step above your egoic mind's tantrums which doesn't know anything but to feed itself some more and to build on it's construct which are all lies. Tell yourself the things you want to see happen and stop focusing on what you don't. It's that simple. You are that powerful. It's all within you.

You'll be fine. The fact that you didn't lash out at me for coming down on you so hard says a lot. You didn't try to defend yourself but you owned up to it. If I may say, and this is just my take on it, and that is you seem to prefer to rely on outside sources to "cure/fix" you. First of all, there's nothing inherently wrong with you but the conditioning you have been succumbed to and the thoughts you're believing to be true. That's it. Once you get that you'll see you don't really need therapy, unless it's something severe and even then it's usually the case as I mentioned. I'm not a therapist so that's just my humble opinion and based off of what I've become aware of. You're battling your own thoughts. Sounds woo woo, but just investigate this for yourself and you'll find this to be true. Whenever those thoughts come up just ignore them and allow them to float on by without giving them life or energy. Whenever youre feeling down, see what thought is behind that and say to yourself, "what am I doing right now, sitting on the couch (or whatever you're physically doing)" and rest in that space. Keep doing that and doing that and doing that and doing that and you'll see how your mood changes. Not only that, things will start to line up for you in a way that it wouldn't if you were in resistance. Allow for the thoughts to come and go without judging them. Don't project your own insecurities unto the world and the world will not show you circumstances to feel insecure about.

Nice. #4 is so true and #12 hit my heart where I felt it deep.

Reading through the thread and before I saw these comments, I could tell this was the case. She's probably not the problem, you are. Calling her a selfish bitch and how you're hating on women. No self-respecting female would want to be with a man with these kinds of mindset and inner talk. She started to see the real you. It's not about you having no money because you didn't have it to begin with and she chose you. Now your bitterness, which has nothing to do with her, is starting to come through; and women will tell you anything to break up with you. The whole thread you said nothing about loving her for her but for what she could do for you as in helping you to heal your wounds. Then you called her a selfish bitch for putting herself first. That's your feelings of selfishness you're projecting. These kinds of threads are useless to give advice to for lack of knowing the full story and what is not being revealed; but from reading all your comments, I can tell it's you who need to put in the work and you only want her back because you feel you fucked up and it didn't do anything for your already low self-esteem, and you want to use her to help to build it back up. There's no love there and women can sense this shit a mile away.

That's the tunnel El Chapo, the ex Mexican drug lord used to escape from prison. Not really but it looks like it.

There are barks from trees that they use to use and other things I'd have to do a Google search for to get the details.

Saying toothpaste alone is like saying soap, drinks, food, clothes, lotion, oil.....there are many varieties made from different ingredients. Oral care is very important as many illnesses can stem from poor oral health. Smelling like garlic without eating garlic is just odor from bacteria build-up which can get in the gut and cause stomach issues from the bad bacteria and can cause halitosis. It's not about dropping toothpaste but what are you using to cleanse your overall mouth, gums, teeth Jaws, tongue. I dropped conventional toothpaste a long time ago and only use natural ones like neem, dr bronner's or one's from reputable company's I trust and where the ingredients doesn't contain fluoride or other ones not suitable for the mouth. Fluoride is arguable and some insist it's necessary and will want to debate the topic. I don't and I choose not to use toothpastes that contains it. Who knows if the water I drink has it so i try to minimize when I can. Most toothpastes out there are toxic to the point and most people will end up at the dentist requiring dental surgeries in the long run because of them. Very few people I've seen that consistently use toothpastes like Colgate and Crest for a period of time that didn't have dental issues in the long run, but their diet didn't help either so it wasn't just the toothpaste. I needed the dentist once years ago; but ever since I changed from conventional to more natural I haven't needed, haven't had a toothache, never bad breath (even after waking up).

It's pretty simple. All of life is an illusion. Thought is time. There's nothing really happening at the existential level. It's all appearances. If you burn wood, it turns into ash. Where did the fire go. It became one with the ashes. Is the fire separate from the ash. It took time for the wood to burn and turn into ash. Is there time now between the fire and the ash. No. Both are entangled. There's no space and time between the fire, wood and ashes. It all became one. No distance, time or space. The ash didn't make itself, neither did the wood nor fire. They all were born out of something, but now they're all one. No separation. In order for creation to happen, time is needed. For each expressions of the same source. The appearance of ash stem from fire and wood. Ash does not appear on its own. Fire needs a spark, so that's also dependent on something to exist prior. Everything is in relation to everything else. No separation. Where is the time in that. It's an illusion because there is no separation only appears to be and thought is what makes that possible. You thought about making a fire to burn the wood which turned into ash. Without thought none of this would have happened. Without time and space none of this could occur. Now, thought, time, space, fire, wood, ash are all entangled. The end result is the ash but that ash will eventually turn into dust or whatever which will also be a part of the equation; and whatever the dust turn into will also be a part of that equation to infinity. Where did it all start, with a thought. Where did the thought came from? Universal mind. So, Universal mind to ash to dust.....and so on required time and space, which it imagines to be able to create all that in between stuff. It had to imagine time and space. It's all imagination. I can sit here and imagine myself at the beach. Where is the time and space in that. So time and space are illusions which is created by thought. Phew! And that's all thought which created the time and space to be able to write this epilogue.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C-4CORBsyXx/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Cat has it's own room. All decked out.

Massacre in Jamaica. Terrible tradegy.

👍That constant is who we truly are.

We're all trying to make sense out of this chaos. It won't work. Just accept that fact. The mind needs structure and order and it keeps thinking logic and reason will do it. It won't. Not in the Universal sense. Every mind will see it differently in some way or another. The only constant is that which doesn't change and that is wherever all this chaos is coming from. It's utter chaos can't you see it. This forum can go on to infinity discussing these very topics till the brain fries up and everyone won't come to the same conclusion. Why? Because there isn't any. Shit just comes in and out of existence with no warning labels attached. Just boom. Here I am. Out of nowhere. Out of nothing. That nothing is something, but it's not some thing, it is no-thing. Everything is nothing and something simultaneously. Polar opposites which balances everything out. But it's not two sides, it's infinite. Infinity has no structure; it's chaotic. Intelligently chaotic. At our level we are making the best of this chaos in this 3 dimensional plane. At the higher levels, these kinds of conversations doesn't even exist. And at more higher levels, conversations doesn't exist at all. At the singularity it's just oneness. So all this talk about nothing and no-thing and something doesn't even exist once there is no egoic mind structure, which seeks to make sense of it all. Some will say I'm just talking shit. Don't know what I'm saying and what I'm saying is false. Damn right; to your mind that's the case. To the no mind it doesn't matter. It's all right. Nothing excluded. Even this insane comment is a part of infinity, because it exists. So keep going at it for eons you will never get to a point, any point. It will go on forever and ever. Until.......until...death; and that is just a concept because infinity cannot die. Tomorrow it will be another topic. Another topic for the mind to ruminate in. To keep it's status quo going. Thoughts upon thoughts upon thoughts. Keeping itself alive and using others to mask it's true identity. Going around and around in a circle to infinity. Thoughts talking to itself and never coming to an end. It got us by the balls. We'll keep on and on and on and on until it realizes it's just the wave in the ocean that popped up and believed it was a something, when in fact it was nothing but a wave in the infinite ocean of love. The tricky part is that it wouldn't even recognize itself as a wave anymore because the wave never existed in the first place. Can't grab a wave and set it aside.

The only thing that's not insane is the empty space that holds all this insanity. 😍

Youre right I was being ignorant and naive. I will straighten that part up and try to transcend that part of me that doesn't like complexities. It's the mind that's not familiar with those terms lashing out, instead of trying to embrace the different forms of expression that the Universe has to offer. How silly of me to make a statement like that. I retract.

I loved what Sadguru had to say in this video. So true. Human intellect can be a destroyer. We dissect and dissect and dissect till we cut ourselves to pieces beyond repair. The intelligence that's at play, the intellect is no match for. All the knowledge we acquire is just being recycled and nothing new is being spun. Leave all that be and look at life directly. See the intelligence at play right before your eyes without trying to dissect it to pieces. Dissecting can be helpful for certain tasks and to accomplish certain things, but on a whole, leave the intellect mind behind and see life as it is - directly, pure, whole, infinitely beautiful void of trying to intellectually dissecting it to pieces which is what the (........) mind does. Forgot the fancy term for that part of the mind.

The ego is a construction. To "kill" the construction, one has to eliminate all the constructs. It's that simple - simple explanation but hard to do, since it's the egoic mind that's trying to kill itself. Let go of all beliefs, constructs, concepts, ideas etcetc. See yourself anew everyday. No baggage, no world views, no opinions, no future no past. That's all happening in the present, where the egoic mind doesn't reside. Its not about killing the ego, but to use it to transform itself, through meditation practices that target this specifically.

Idk why, but this remark made me laugh. I don't need a bunch of ego's coming at me so that's all I'm gonna say about that.

I wonder if the man up the street would understand this. Probably not....some fancy shit spirituality invented. Wtf is ahamkara. What's the English word for that.

Idk about anybody else's comment , but I suggest you read mine again because nowhere in my comment I insulted you, was judgemental, or had a superior attitude, nor did I criticize you. All I stated was how I did my practices. This was my comment. How was this saying all you said. I admit I didn't tell you how to do your shadow work; but your reply to me was a bit harsh nonetheless. I apologize if you took offense by me just saying what I do and how I do my practices. I was a bit taken aback by your remarks as I didn't think I was rude to you on any level. Noself was a bit abrubt in his remark, but that wasn't coming from me.

You said there's no such thing as nothing. What am I reading. The word nothing. So it exists.