Princess Arabia

Nice. Just the other day I was looking out and said I don't feel like I have a head.

You don't have to feel like crap to want to enhance your beauty or appearance. If you go buy an expensive shirt, was it because you felt like crap or a nice watch. Not necessarily.

Yes, some women will enter relationships just to not be single. Still exceptions to what you're saying though. We can't know everything that's happening with everyone. If we don't see it on social media, it's just in our little bubble of experience and heresay.

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The problem is you're looking at a particular breed of women. Probably young, inexperienced, getting to know themselves, etc. Plenty of women are choosing men with the traits you have mentioned. You just won't see that on reality shows or online in drama settings. You're blind to the other side. If one side exists, it's opposite does too. I would never choose the type of males that i chose in my 20's now. Doesn't mean it'll be perfect or something was wrong with those men, just a different stage.

It's not about that. It's that separation is suffering. It feels like suffering. Nothing is actually separate so one cannot "not be separate". One cannot end suffering. Suffering, without diminishing people's suffering or even my own, is suffering being suffering. It's energetic. Happiness is being happiness. No one does either so no one can end either. Let me see you suffer right now on demand. Be happy on demand. Tell me the mechanics of how you're doing that. You can't, so how can you end something you didn't start.

Three quarters or more of forum users have done psychedelics, or said they have. 100% of forum users suffer. Good luck trying to end suffering using psychedelics. That said, I love this post. It seemed a bit poetic too. Like describing the self. What it feels like to be a self. Everybody wants enlightenment and speak about awakening but you just described something very wonderful. What it's like to feel like a person. A person that feels trapped in a human body. It's wonderful to me because I sometimes feel that way. Like I don't feel separate; I feel like an individual. All I saw was Absolute perfection. The Absolute speaking. Speaking from a location, a place, limit, here, I am. That's why I said it seemed poetic. Like the Absolute writing about itself, with itself, by itself. It wasn't trying to be itself - in a way. It was like one describing what it was like playing a movie role. It was superb. I know I'm exaggerating a bit; but I truly felt that way reading it. This isn't even a post that needs advice or anything of the sort. It's one to marvel at. To see and recognize what the fucking Absolute can be. How it can deceive itself. Be anything. Reading your post, to me, was Absolutely freeing. I saw freedom's expression. Abso-fucking-lutely. Excuse my French. IT IS ONLY ABSOLUTE FREEDOM THAT CAN FEEL TRAPPED. If it weren't Absolutely free and unlimited, it wouldn't even have the desire to feel free. It wouldn't even know it wasn't free and liberated. Your post actually made me realize freedom and liberation more than what an enlightened being can ever reveal. It revealed the true essence of what Absolute freedom, liberation and limitless actually looks like. That's what's obvious. This is awesome.

Ok, well now I'm on that level. In the video he also spoke about what you mentioned in your last paragraph and how he tried those things that left him feeling what I mentioned. Yes, I like your definition and can be seen in men with no muscles or a big hairy chest or deep voice. OP could also possess some of those masculine traits you described.

This is where you're limited in your thinking. Why do I have to go and understand how to become what I am already. What's there to figure out - only observe. It's the masculine that I am interested in, so that's where it makes sense to go study and try to understand. I already understand you, you're a softy trying to appear hard but only come off as a hard dick. 😛😛

Believe it or not, lots of so-called masculine traits that men exude stems from past-trauma and were told they're not a man if.....which can lead to lots of men becoming more aggressive, angry, suicidal, resentful and feeling hurt by society. See my latest video in the powerful(dating and relationships) section with Lisa Bilyeu. He speaks about this in the first 15mins. Maybe what we're really seeing in masculine men is the pain they're dealing with. Maybe OP isn't dealing with any pain, but the stigma of needing to show masculine qualities as a man by society's standards. This video. Just watch the first 15 mind or so to see what I'm saying.

True. I wouldn't say it's a matter of preference, but choice. They'll choose whites over non-whites but only when it comes to certain things because of an ingrained belief. Politics is one. Many people have private fantasies in many areas involving non-whites, but in public they'll die first before revealing the truth. Don't be fooled, a lot of it has to do with group think and reputation.

It isn't racist to prefer a certain race. Most people have their preferences and sometimes it depends on the context. However, by googles definition, it is racist to think of a particular race as SUPERIOR and he said that in his post. That can only be in comparison to...and suggesting that they are better than. There are blacks who believe that blacks are superior and that's also a racist belief. It's that simple and one can be racist if they like, but there shouldn't be that type of language allowed where the rule is 'no racism allowed'. That's the issue. Also, by Google's definition, white supremacy is a form of racism which he also defined himself as.

If that was the case, the whole world would be suffering from food poisoning everyday, it would be an epidemic and food trucks would be out of business; not to mention buffets.

If you're only doing it for women, it may not be a good idea. You may end up resenting women for it. Not sure how old you are, but you seem quite young from what you've said. Maybe time and experience will allow for the masculine side of you to flourish. It could just be who you are also; nothing wrong with that. Lots of women are attracted to the feminine side of men. It may just mean you'll attract more masculine-type women and that doesn't necessarily mean in their appearance, but their ways which could be complimentary to yours. Embrace who you are, and the women will feel that and be attracted anyway. Maybe what's not attractive to some, is that they can sense you're not comfortable in your own skin. All that hit the gym and stuff like that is just a mask to hide what you really feel inside. Gym is great for health purposes, but if it's to compensate to feel masculine, the feminine side will just be repressed and manifest in other ways and now you're left with hating yourself and your feminine side. Personally, too much aggression in a man is a turn off for me. It's not that I prefer feminine men, but I like when they show that side when they're around me and leave all that aggression when with the guys or when it's needed appropriately like in bed. Hehe. Masculinity is not about muscles and a six pack, it's in one's mental attitude and the way they show up. When I see bulk, all I see is a whimp inside. Strength in a man for me is one who's not afraid to show both sides and knows how to respond respectively.

Reality cannot be defined or it can be defined using all definitive words. The word 'Mystery' is one of them.

"Reach Awakening" implies time. There's no actual time. Yes, there appears to be time and we're living in time and space but it's only an appearance. The Absolute appears as time and space. That said, the Absolute is also appearing as someone trying to 'reach awakening'. Blah blah blah. I know, more non-duality bullshit, but you asked and I'm just giving you my take. You're already awake. All the practices people do will lead to this recognition when exhausted. That's actually what the practices are good for. It's not to awaken you, but so you realize there's no you to awaken and that awakening is already the case. You just haven't realized this yet. No one realizes it, actually, there's something there that realizes itself to be nothing. Something like that; hard to explain. This is not to say don't even do practices, but if you're hungry, you eat. You get hungry again, you eat again. You will never stay full. Always a process going on. Same thing here, awaken, then awaken to more, and more and more. Always awakening to bigger and better awakenings. It never ends because there is no end to what never was.

When people are told what to do all the time, and not allowed to err on their own to see what they're doing wrong for themselves on their own, how their decisions are ruining their lives, they will lose the ability to decide for themselves what they should give up, things that are bad for them and why. Just telling people to stop eating junk food because it's bad for you isn't enough, it is not until they're seeing the effects of the junk food that they'll really understand what that means and how badly it's affecting their lives. They see first hand what it can do. Keep telling people what to do and not do without letting them have a first hand experience of things doesn't do much good in the sense of understanding why something is bad for them and will only make them more curious about the thing and indulge more. Of course this doesn't go for murder, theft and laws like that that are obviously criminal.

Nice! You'd make a great father, uncle, son, brother, nephew and husband. At least everybody would know what to expect from you, no disappointments and no surprises. This is not sarcasm and is for real from my heart.

It's interesting to see the craziness, weirdness and ordered chaos of Absolute Infinity play out right Infront of my eyes. It's so fucking wild, spontaneous and free that it needs an ass whooping to tame itself down and behave. The poor mind is having a hard time accepting how free it is to do what the hell it wants to do and be however it wants to be that it tries very hard to cope with the insanity but it just can't handle it. This is utter madness and i can see why things are the way they are or more people would end up in the insane asylum. I'm half-way there; but thank God, I'm able to contain myself and cope with it somewhat. I'm probably the type to just burst one day from over exertion like a gas tank ready to explode. Hopefully my time here on earth expires by then.

You remind me of a Donald Trump. Not sure what the word is but I think there's one born every century. If Obama did half the stuff that Trump is accused of doing or did, he'd be ostracized a long time ago and forbidden to even run for President much less get elected. Donald just seems like he could do or say anything and get away with it with just a pat on the back. You're like that for this forum. Can post anything and get away with it. First it was a about gay people a while back. Then a few days ago it was fantasies about raping and murdering women. Now it's some blatantly racist shit with no attempt to even disguise the wording or any hints, it's blatant and in your face type shit with no filter. All you get is a pat on the shoulder saying please don't be so crude and make sure to straighten up your act and start to post better stuff. This has been up for 7hrs and has not been locked. It's a disgrace that this can be allowed on this forum. We're not sure if you're really from Lebanon or not and quite frankly it doesn't really matter. For all I know you could be from anywhere and of any race. If a black person said they were a black supremacist and that the black race was superior, that would also be racism so it's not because it's white based. @Leo Guranot the mods because they've already seen this and even commented. Not sure if you've seen this but I'm not sure you accept this kind of talk on your forum or not. I've seen where you've told people to stop from making certain spiritual claims but this is on a whole other level. Not asking for anything drastic to happen but for it to be locked to send a message that this kind of talk cannot be allowed and should be against forum guidelines. It's blatant and in your face racist with no attempt to even be disguised as such.

You know I have to be extra for my love on his birthday. Hehe. He's probably like, wtf. Lol.

Do this, do that, don't do this, don't do that. Be this, be that, don't be this, don't be that. Become this, don't become that. Watch this, don't watch that. Read this, don't read that. Eat this, don't eat that. Walk this way, don't walk that way. Sit this way, don't sit that way. Lay this way, don't lay that way. Sleep on this side, not that side. Chew this way, not that way. Drink this, don't drink that. Speak like this, not like that. Dress this way, don't dress like that. Obey this, obey that. Stop this, stop that. Wear this, don't wear that. Act like this, don't act like that. Want this, don't want that. React this way, not that way. Respond like this, not like that. Say this, don't say that. Like this, don't like that. Breathe like this, don't breathe like that. Meditate like this not like that. Think this don't think that. Look like this, don't look like that And we wonder why we need relief, have stress, get depressed, have anxiety, get tired, frustrated and suffer. It's not that we shouldn't strive for what's better for us, it's that there are so many things that's bad for us as a species. We have to be on alert at all times. On guard. So many toxicities and poisons, so many ways to harm us if we're not careful. So much to look out for. So many potential harms. We are very resilient beings the body is magnificently designed to protect itself from outside invaders but it's still in danger. Some we can avoid and some not so easily. It's hard being a being. It's challenging to be and stay alive. Not to mention mental health. Everything is a fucking challenge. We have to watch for everything. Who designed this crap. Why put us through so much. If you say to grow us, then you've been misled. All plants need to grow is water and a little fertilizer proper environment and some love and care. They don't need all that extra shit to grow. All animals basically need is food. The rest as in shelter and health care depends on the type of animal. Most can survive in the wild just on food. Why humans. Why do we have to go through so much to grow. If you really take a deep look into it, it's basically only humans that go through all I've stated in the first paragraph. Does your cat have to watch how it sits or chew it's food or how it breathes. Does your dog have to watch what it watches or sees or how it sleeps and responds. This is utter madness and we claim to be the most intelligent. Why can't we figure out ways to not suffer or be challenged or have to go through all the shit other animals don't have to go through if we're so intelligent. We can't even stop our homes from being flooded or how not to get mad but we're so highly intelligent. It's very tiring being a human. Try not to stress so much unnecessarily. Your body will thank you for it. Relax more. Take it easy more. You're wearing yourself out and causing the body distress. Don't put the body in shock. It doesn't need the extra baggage.

I think he means the knowledge he's acquired. There's nothing to reference to but things he already knows. That's why I say experience is knowledge and the I is knowledge and without it you are no one and cannot know yourself to be a self. There's something there in him that recognizes this.

If that's what's happening, that's what's happening. Nothing you can do about it because you're not doing it to begin with. Everything screams THERE'S NOONE doing anything. EVERYTHING.