Princess Arabia

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Just random stuff about anything.

They're probably fucking the janitors, cable men and pool boys. Hehe.

Watch this video. I find most of it to be the case.

You must live in Mumbai or Beverly Hills. That's ridiculous. This statement seems a bit off. Either you're delusional or the women in your town are. You're starting to sound a bit clownish and exaggeration galore.

Suffering isn't there to teach us anything or to make us better or to awaken us. The reason why there are some solutions for some suffering or some feel better after doing something about suffering is because life has to balance suffering out to be able to recover from it. Imagine if there was just suffering and pain all the time with no relief . Life couldn't sustain itself from that. Everything is owned by humans and is personalized but life doesn't give a shit. It doesn't see a person suffering. It's just doing it's thing. Deny this all you want with never-ending stories and reasons and excuses but it's so obviously the case. We're just trying to feel better about the cruelty of life.

The moment you realize just about everything you've been taught in spirituality is wrong or is upside down or it's opposite is what's the case. Perfect example: Happiness is the default feeling of the true self. Your true nature is happiness and bliss. So far from the truth. It's opposite is so true that we have to keep chasing what's out of reach. Suffering, sadness and anguish is the default mode of humans. The moment a child is born, is the beginning of it's suffering. The deluded will come up with stories saying bliss and happiness is our true nature but we're blinded by society's this and that and the mind's this and that and unconscious thinking of this and that. Happiness is just the relief of the default mode. Life is pain and suffering because that's just how it sustains itself for survival. Imagine being complacent your whole life; no motivation there to change or move on.

Two negatives in a sentence is improper grammar; but gosh, not sure what to classify four negatives in a single sentence. Maybe they cancel each other out to NOTNINGNESS.

The sentence "The claim to know something as an appearance" is also thought. Thought or no thought, it's all nothing appearing. Nothing matters.

Ok, one sec.

Ok, suit yourself.

"Knowledge belongs to body and mind" was the comment by James I was responding to when I said "nothing owns knowledge".

Ok. Thanks

Yes, it will appear to get burnt, feels hurtful, burns and whatever else but it's all an appearance just like everything else.

Yippee...great, you've got an A for that.

Who is to drop all those words. "All moves". Move to where from where in timeless, boundless energy. All is just moving within itself going nowhere and that's just seemingly as nothing is actually moving.

Nothing owns knowledge.

There's a difference between not agreeing and judging. Anyway, I've done a whole 360 and got to the point to where I'm at. It's not like I'm new to this stuff and haven't seen it through.

Whatever you say. Non-duality cannot be applied and having no self doesn't mean there's someone there to act and respond to life as if there's no self. Words just speak themselves.

Why don't you just go on YT for tutorials on the subject. Plenty of videos I assume are on there for this.

Maybe give some answers or show how my reasonings are not valid or give some explanations to what I was negating instead of telling me I should be an English Teacher. When I speak as I speak, it's because I've thought for myself and came up with what I see to be or not be the case. Of course, I can be wrong and i'm open-minded enough to listen to what others have to say about things to see if they fit into what I've constructed after I've deconstructed. It's all constructs and nothing is meld in stone. I refuse to listen to the herd and just follow blindly what some dead spiritual guru have to say about life and reality, if all is one and there's no separation, how can there be an observer, is a start for one. Convince me otherwise. Plenty where that came from. I see spirituality being used as a means to end suffering and that's where my skepticisms arose from. People are looking for a way out, what sounds good, not for what actually is. You just post a video and expect it to be revered because it's by some respected past guru. Well, I'm challenging it. Who am I. He says I'm the witness. I'm not the body or mind or what I can perceive. Where is the space that doesn't actually exist for me to step aside from to perceive what it is I'm not and why do we even need some other human being to tell us who we are in the first place. Your response only showed more group-think and how you're following blindly what you've been told.

What I've found, and this is mostly with older men, the #1 thing that attracts men to women is a woman's hair. Not saying that's the only thing, but it's a major part. Tits and ass are only there because of too much porn consumption and those women bring out that side in men that see a pair of big boobs. Fantasies start going wild and what they would do to her. A woman with their hair type will be more attractive overall and seen as beautiful even if her boobs are small and her ass isn't big. Beautiful hair and also a beautiful face gets them every time and sometimes it's the hair that makes her look beautiful.

This is actually a dating and relationship journal. I threw the other one out because I didn't think I'd want to talk too much on this topic from a female perspective on a male dominated forum. I've decided to try again because I find myself wanting to say some things but without tainting my other journal which is mostly about reality and spirituality. Plus, I can. Some might even appreciate a female's perspective on this in this field and maybe learn a thing or two about how we think. I don't know, I'll just let it flow and see how it goes. I love the title I gave it. I think it's a but catchy. I'm feeling adventurous right now even though there's nothing adventurous in my dating life. Anyone can comment and jump in for some tea or coffee or some wine and cheese. Just don't overstay your welcome and leave after the date. Don't spend the night. I need a ring for that. Hehe.

Why would someone stop talking to you because you study Literature. Plus being 6ft, muscular and an avid gym goer has nothing to do with getting women. Infact, it's more of a turn off because you probably look like you spend more time in the mirror than her and self-absorbed. Not saying you are....just saying. Plus plenty of ordinary broke guys out there getting laid because they're playful, young and don't give a fuck, plus they have a sex-appeal to them that certain females like. A female into men with money will still go have sex with a broke guy for the fun of it; she just won't get attached or get serious. Most guys with money who don't have a problem with or understand that women like security, are probably having healthy relationships with their women instead of having hang-ups about how she just want me for my money. They respect them more than the ones out there dating and putting up with losers who can't do anything for them and some see it as an opportunity to level up so they can start to attract the women they really want. It's all a matter of perspective. How many ugly, fat, unattractive women are you interested in dating. Probably not much - same difference, only switched around. Guys also have their preferences.

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