Princess Arabia

You need to stop this idiotic reasoning. Lots of rapists are married or have gfs. Lots of flashers do it out of perversion not from sexual frustration. How is one getting their normal healthy sexual needs met by flashing. The root cause of sexual harassment is not from sexual frustration, it's from perverting thinking and a need to express this dysfunction.

Why do you think they are so many mental illnesses. Suffering, depression, anxiety, etcetc and so many go through the motions, it's because most are detached from reality. What seems to be the norm, isn't. If I speak something that sounds radical to the conditioned ears, I'm sounding crazy and depersonalized or seem to be detached or whatever else word is used to describe it. Most are so used to this way of living that if it's not the case, things seem abnormal. See someone smiling all day and they seem weird. Friendly people are suspicious and monogamy is revered. Most walk around with a chip on their shoulder, have a bone to pick with the world, seem like zombies and whatever else that seems like the norm. When I speak from a more natural way of what reality is like, I'm seen as the one detached from reality. The so-called human being seem to think the world revolves around them and that they're the most important thing in the world. They live in their own reality and keep on trying to fix things to suit their fancy and complain about everything and everyone that doesn't fit inside their illusory world. There's nothing natural and normal about a personal identity as it is a construct, yet we think it's what is. No it's not. We own everything and think we have to figure out how to maneuver this world to survive and be the best at what we think we're the best at. There's nothing real about any of this and something knows and realizes this. Nothing can be changed about this either nor does it need to. One is already detached from reality the moment they seem to realize that they are separate and there are others. When they seem to think they have autonomy and they are thinking their thoughts. When they think they have free will and choice and that there is a way to maneuver what is happening. When they seem to think there is a person in there with a life that is having emotions and doing things. That's the automatic detachment that confuses that energy into thinking it's a separate individual in charge of and responsible for it's own happiness and survival. It's ll an illusion and noone is doing anything ever and this is total and nothing is separate. No one can do anything about this because no one did anything to bring it about in the first place and there's no one anyway that can and ever will do anything. I'm not immune to this either.

Ok. You're saying the same thing I'm saying. You just have a word for those guys.

I didn't say lots of men are. All I said was it's possible for a man to end up sleeping with a lot of women without setting that intention. Read my words for what they are saying, not for what you think i'm saying or your interpretation of it.

What's so silly about that statement. A man can end up sleeping with a lot of women in his life without setting that intention. What's so stupid about that statement. I just don't get it why that's so hard to understand.

Of course its harder for men to get sex than women. Women aren't going around trying to get sex just for sex's sake (of course there are exceptions) but it's a bit more challenging for them to find someone THEY WANT TO have sex with. Nothing impressive about screwing a bunch of women just because they look good or because they're willing to give it up. Something impressive about trying to find a man of means to help support you and your potential family or be of assistance in some way as a woman and has your best interest in mind and are able to find one. Just because money is hard to come by are you going to go rob a bank, no, you go do the best you can to earn it. As far as sex with women goes men see it as hard to come by, so that justifies my wanting to sleep with a lot of women and cheering on guys that do.

Unfulfillment appears in many different ways doesn't have to appear as wanting to kill yourself. You're seeking for other stuff, right. There's a 'next' in your book right. If I could just get that, .....then I'll be. It's disguised as many ideas....,spirituality, religion, being ambitious, striving for, a sense of need and want...that's all unfulfillment in disguise. He just expresses his as hopelessness and a need of not wanting to be here since his craving for a better experience seems far away and unreachable.

You wouldn't even know what fulfillment feels like. Nobody does. If they say they do, it's contentment and an acceptance of what is. Separation cannot feel fulfillment because fulfillment is the absence of separation which is already the case. Sorry to sound all woo woo, but it cannot be escaped, no matter how hard we try, we'll be back to square one of feeling unfulfilled. You're waiting for the next thing to happen to feel fulfilled. It'll never happen because there will always be a next. Never arriving.

Most here probably don't remember but this reminds me of where you were around 2yrs or so ago. Talking about how you hated your job of cutting trees and you're financially unset and how you hate your life and how depressed you were and it went on for awhile then I guess you started your Qichong business and now it's back to the grind only you seem a little more financially stable. Back to being emotionally unsettled because nothing has fulfilled you. It'll pass.

God is denying the existence of God.

So I just briefly did a Google search. Very brief because I didn't want to spend too much time on it. Men incarcerated for child support was like 2mil (USA). Wedding business is booming and is a lucrative business. Baby clothes is a lucrative business and lots of Valentine Day dates. This does not suggest that men aren't getting laid or are in relationships and that only the top 10-20% of men are the only ones getting dates and the rest of the incel reports. This is how you tell what's really going in in the dating world. Not listen to stories or look at fake stats. I'll tell you exactly what's happening. Most of what I mentioned above those women (not all, but most) are average looking women maybe even overweight or just ordinary looking. Most of what's being reported is coming from guys who want hot women. This is why they say it's only the top whatever percentage of men getting these women . Probably so. They can't find hot women to date and now there's an epidemic. Guys are having problems finding hot chicks. That's the fucking problem. Look at the video of canal street. Go look at Las Vegas shows that show the streets downtown and on the strip and other places like these. Tons of couples. Those women usually look ordinary but they're still holding hands with their loved one. This is what you do. Do the raw research. Not listen to some closeted incel or guys who sit in the basement or getting so-called rejected from cold approach where the female don't know him from Adam. That's not how you tell the raw truth. Go deep inside. Go to court tv. See how many couples there for domestic charges, stuff like that. All those reports about men having it hard......NO...they are having it hard finding hot females to date. That's it.

That's no secret and nothing to get repulsed about. There are worse things that some men do that's more repulsive to women; one of them is calling women sluts and whores while he's slutting and whoring down the town himself and trying to get into every pants he can. Another one is men who deliberately want to sleep with a lot of women. I say deliberately because sleeping with a lot of women can just happen, but if that's your goal, it's a turn off for women. They won't say it, but it is. It's only other men that finds this impressive.