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Dude I honestly can’t tell if you are playing a gimmick here now at this point or serious with your hysteria. Calm down. Log off the internet. Turn off your tv. Go for a run, hit the weights. Work on your life purpose. Go with the flow. This worrying you’re doing is a bigger threat to you than a Trump presidency.

you should consider dialing it back

Matt Gaetz as AG is wild

to live in the unknown, beyond all concepts, is a beautiful thing

I went through one two weeks ago around and it’s definitely outside my comfort zone. I would say I even seen many men who seem to struggle for ages to rebuild their lives after a break up ? Why do men specifically struggle most after a relationship has ended? I think it’s because men don’t have as good of social skills as women, most women have a ton of men waiting for them to get single and lastly men are very loyal.

Thanks for the supportive words. That is true, I would prefer not to jump back into a relationship. I think it's good to take a little time just to make new friends and socialize and whatnot. I am not against dating again and I think it's good to allow for a natural flow so I may be ready sooner than I realize but I think it's important to learn these life lessons from the last relationship. I think the way forward to meet new women would be to be friendly when I go to the beach and just have no expectations, just focus on socializing and it will come to me like my last relationship did.

The right thing to do now is reflect and rebuild, not revolt. Dems waste for too much energy on shit like this.

Guys, AOC asked for dems who split their vote to explain why. could show signs where Dem party needs to evolve. The party should really focus on rebuilding itself.

I know this is a very controversial take but what men are talking about when they talk about cheating is just having some sexual fun with another woman. Most men will never cheat of the heart, only of the body. I don’t know if women in general are open minded enough to understand it but instinctually they are when sexually with a leading man because it’s not uncommon for them to share a girlfriend with their man but it’s not common for a man to share the woman he’s in a relationship with another man. We don’t mean leaving a woman type cheating. We mean enjoying our freedom and having just sex with other women. Men are extremely loyal when it comes to their heart and will even do crazy stuff even for their ex girlfriend or wife who they may be in love with years later. It’s pretty taboo for a man to flat out leave his wife for a younger woman. I think that’s terrible. But psychologically I understand why men want to have fun on the side with another woman, but still be in a relationship and be with their main woman who they want to build a family and future with. Basically love only one woman but have fun with many.

Could be, I’m just drawing comparisons here for conversation sake, maybe there’s something to learn here. Just seems form my POV men struggle in specific situations when it comes to moving on and rebuilding their lives and I wonder why that is. I don’t doubt there’s things I’m not seeing on the side of women. I completely agree that it boils down to belief system. I wonder why so many men have self sabotaging beliefs when it comes to dating. I’m only speaking from experience here. When my ex and I broke up I could see there were a lot of men in our larger social circle who were interested in having sex with her and flirting because she is a beautiful young social woman. Now does that mean these men will lead to commitment or being what she wants in a partner? Perhaps not. So maybe I’m seeing something she doesn’t value or care about. Like you said you make a good point. Just because women are getting all this attention , like they have a pick from the buffet doesn’t mean they will find what they want or will enjoy. I do think having all these options though does help a lot of women see more opportunities in life. I think men will be very social isolated and not see as many opportunities due to their limiting beliefs so they will choose to become very socially isolated and that’s very damaging. Women seem much better at social support circles and relating to other people. I can speak from experience I have to push myself a bit to really stay social and keep that area of my life healthy while I know a lot of women that is effortless for them. Not saying I’m a victim or anything just it’s interesting these differences.

I disagree. It is impossible to compare your spirituality to anyone else. Do not fall into this guru trap. Sahdguru is just a guy teaching spirituality and if it helps you, I'm happy for you. But don't fall into this trap. It's impossible to be "more enlightened" than anyone else.

@Ampresus Hey dude I missed your post. Thank you so much. Reading it was helpful. I actually really liked the Bible verse you shared. I am not Christian but it got me thinking this verse. I’ve realized at the core of my problem is basically these 2 beliefs 1) Without this person in my life I am unlovable, lacking value and unable able to cope in life 2) I do not want to accept and embrace uncertainty and change in life These two beliefs I hold keep this issue from being entirely resolved and closing the door 100% They also tie back to the Bible verse you quoted since the two beliefs I stated in essence are basically the core issues for most people in life, believing they are lacking value for a reason outside themselves and not accepting uncertainty and change I think it’s eye opening to write this

There’s this one girl. Well, she’s not just a random girl to me but my ex gf and we were together from summer 2021 to spring 2024. I’ve done a ton of growth in terms of accepting things have ended between us but damn this still is the one thing in my life I need to really keep myself accountable with and support myself through. We were in a sort of situation-ship after breaking up and up until this week. This relationship has meant so much to me and she’s been family. We lived together over two years. Letting her go and moving on has single handedly been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in my life. Can anyone relate? I hope one day this will be just another chapter in my life and my mind will be at peace about it.

This is childish and my post was as well. I'm bringing out a pretty immature side of myself since this election and I don't like it. These women are free to do as they wish. I literally do not care what they do and I think it's ridiculous what some of them are saying, just as I think the men going their own way movement is a "blame the other side" copout.

Just a photo of shoes that look alright is difficult. we need to see fit pics, your body type, height, skin color, your personality a bit too. style is personal and just like clothing, one piece of advice doesn't fit all.

Enlightenment is a word and a belief. No words can be put on your spirituality in reality. It’s unique to you. I would say look to live your life with truth, honesty and integrity and you will know god this way daily.

I think you need to have a caring discussion with yourself about comparisons and why you choose to compare yourself to other people. Do you believe you have innate and true spiritual value that cannot be given or taken away?

Why? The stock market performed well under Trump

it's gonna get worse these next four years

Looooool this is gonna sound mean but like probably 90% of the women commenting on this thread most men would not rank as attractive or are the women the incels feel they are missing out on. Physically attractive women generally speaking don’t give a shit about feminism or politics. I saw videos on my feed made by the women making these posts and they can keep those doors closed men in the USA ain’t missing out on nothing with them.

I understand the outrage in here about Trump winning. I agree he is a liar, corrupt, a terrible candidate and not remotely aligned with what’s true. I also do agree the country and key demographics (women needing abortions) will face problems due to his leadership. I also would wonder if Harris won, would there still be a similar reaction? Because I believe it would warrant one just as big but for entirely different reasons. Staying in the known and having no bold vision or path is equally as dangerous in entirely different ways. I’m comparing a make believe scenario with reality so take it with a grain of salt but Dems had four years to guide America away from Trumpsim yet did nothing. The “Trump side is worse so just vote for Harris” argument doesn’t cut it here. It’s a very narrow near sided way of thinking. Republicans have kept their party alive by embracing radical new change, for the worse. Dems refused to embrace change and look at how they have stagnated. This is actually a lesson in life here. If you do not embrace change and the unknown you will be trampled by those who do even if it’s terrible ideas, so why not embrace the unknown and change if you are so certain your values and politics are the best?

I’ve been saying this here the entire election cycle. The party has a huge issue with being entirely unappealing to young men. This is the same political force that downplays masculinity, tries to make men more effeminate but claims it’s called being compassionate, actively works against traditional values which many men value. I actively feel alienated and unwelcome by my own party. Not everything has to be about diversity. Green has gone too far on the messaging and culture side of things. I really think a lot of it comes down to lgbtq, feminism and the gender stuff. The party decided to run with radical inclusivity takes on this stuff instead of finding a message that suits everyone. This is why 15 million people including me sat out.

I think the worst thing to come from this is that it brought legitimacy to how trump denied the election results in 2020 and started a riot cause he lost. That is the main thing why I would never tell anyone to vote Trump. I didn’t like his policies before and thought he was a huge liar and disrespectful but that was some next level stuff which most Americans seems to not care about either. The truth is not valued in the USA.

White male and he had draw from older voters and the rust belt. There’s many loyalists who liked Biden. I think he would have lost too but it wouldn’t have been a blowout. He got 81 million votes last time. I think he would have performed better than Kamala on name recognition alone. No way he would of lost 15 million votes.

Not as bad as Kamal. I don’t buy that.