Lyubov

https://www.ctvnews.ca/toronto/article/i-was-able-to-fight-for-myself-woman-comes-forward-after-dating-coach-charged-with-sexual-assault/ Another one catching charges. PUA model has some serious shortcomings to it.

He has a very reasonable take. I cannot say I recommend them nor that they are "better" than whatever nor that you can't learn some things from them and have some life changing experiences either. They are NOT for me. I've come to realize I simply do not enjoy nor get a lot of benefit from abrupt psychedelic type state changes. There's other things I've found that awaken love in me far more than shrooms and ayahuasca.

You talk about how selfless you are... You point out how other people are somehow a problem, how you're in the right here. Dude you need to take a very LONG look in the mirror. You do not sound dumb nor like you lack an able body to do something to get out of this situation. You have 200 euros, how are you spending that in a few days? This sounds solely like you are in a spiral downward through negative beliefs and self sabotage. Poverty is not your problem, it is likely some unresolved issues around your self worth and childish victim mindset you use to cope. I'm going to tell it to you straight because I think some people may be hesitant to offend you given your position. You're clearly smart and more than capable of sustaining a reasonable degree of survival, more than what you're doing now. But you are acting like a victim. You are in this situation because of your choices and while I'm sure there are people that have treated you poorly and made promises thy broke, you are putting far too much energy into complaining and blaming your problems on them. You need to get off your high horse and go get a job. Stop letting your stubborn inner child run the show. Love them and start making the right choices for your life as an adult. No one is coming to save you. I don't give a damn if your sissy little lungs don't feel great from a bit of cig smoke. You're a strong guy and your body is far more adaptive and able to heal itself, you're lowering your life expectancy through self sabotage way more than 6-12 months of second hand smoke in a shitty job to save up enough to get out of an abandoned slum.

You talk about integrity, but ask yourself, are you being honest with yourself? You can’t find a job at a restaurant or something to just save up enough for a hostel or room? You can’t work in a restaurant as a dishwasher and save some money up? I remember when you made your thread about how you’re homeless and to be honest I think this is much more of a mental / belief problem than a money one if you are still being picky about work… My friend YOU LIVE IN AN ABANDONED SHACK. Go to the center of Athens and start asking restaurants if you can clean… You can save up money and get into at least a hostel or shelter or room.

let go of all hierarchy

He’s testing the waters on everything. 2028 greenland one party rule ending elections He puts it out there and sees how much support he gets from his base and internally for it.

This thread is hilarious. I don’t wanna let it die.

I would say China historically, legally and coherently has the strongest claim in their disagreement with Taiwan. Russia to a far lesser extent in Ukraine. However they ruin their standing, claim and integrity on the world stage with how brutal and disgusting they are with their army. If they had the ability to do what the USA did in Venezuela (they don’t, the Russian army is a unprofessional, cruel and lumbering beast of the worst human qualities), it would be perceived very differently. The USA is largely hypocrisy and “rules for you but not for me” but they offset this a lot by having zero casualties in their military operations. That goes a long way in how they are perceived and respected. Israel is the most hated and has both a disgustingly cruel army as well as a hilariously bullshit claim to Palestine (pure neocolonialism Zionism fairytale)

My point is the USA says it’s wrong for China and Russia to mess with other countries but then goes ahead and does the same… all 3 of these countries are hypocrites Hopefully 🤞 from a prison cell 😭 🙏

Men in the west aren’t perceived as able to offer anything to a woman. It’s not worth it being in a relationship for these women. Most western women I’ve noticed say the average man brings little positives to theirs lives, mostly compromise and challenges. They don’t need men for money. Add on top of that the world view of “doing things yourself” and all the feminism oppression ideas from the past 30 years. It’s not just a man issue, although men I think feel it the most since they don’t really socialize or have many friends. These women are either dating a guy with options or they have more friends, women also do not create for themselves the same idea of lacking when they aren’t getting action. Men have the idea of getting women much more wrapped up in their self esteem while women in general couldn’t care less if they are getting play from the opposite sex. To be honest much of the issues young guys face is their own creation. If young men would stop all this petty immature shit, stop being such edge lords, make some friends and treat other men with respect instead of constant competition, not let streamers and influencers scam the shit out of them with sports betting (the list goes on), most young men may not get a lot of action but they would be living with dignity and have more energy to steer their ship. All the women foregoing relationships seem to be pretty content with their work and newfound liberation in society. Birthrates will go down regardless at this point (I don’t see it as a problem). I think mostly American guys need to do is stop falling for all the red pill crap and get right mentally. Unfortunately most will donate their money to streamers, play video games, gamble on sports and stay bitter red pilled gymcels.

It’s why I haven’t really spoken to anyone with right wing political opinions in real life or online anywhere but here. In reality you will never show these people up or reason with them. They are so shut off it’s like when a child screams and covers their ears. let’s start a list of switch ups that Trump supports voted him in for but got left holding the bag like a bunch of fucktards - Epstein files - Foreign intervention - Lower prices

Russia wants Ukraine. China wants Taiwan. USA vindicates itself over Venezuela. Fucked up!

They kidnapped a dictator in a 3rd world slum. Look at the mess they will leave behind though.

The MAGA fucktards will do a nice big 180 on how their isolationist dictator is “the president of peace.” “No more foreign intervention!”

Someone PLEASE come do this for us with Trump.

It’s because this teaching is a bit tricky to convey through language since people use different words and have their subtleties to their experience. Yes, you can discover an abundant life that comes easy but not in the sense of you giving up all responsibility and avoidance. think of it like there being an abundance of energy within that is realized and comes to you when you cut through all the bullshit. You can be trusted with this energy because you didn’t go out and force and fight your way to it. This simultaneous flow and ease exists still with getting up everyday when that fucking annoying alarm goes off and still doing some of the tasks and whatnot you may not always prefer to do in that moment cause it’s a bit uncomfortable or not as interesting as some of the others. This is WU WEI. It’s a simultaneous dance of yin and yang. There is abundance and ease that flows through all which one can gently open up to by releasing confusions and limiting beliefs. Simultaneous there is the self responsibility of committing to this and accepting life as it is (clocking into work and doing some stuff you may not wanna do today). Aligning with the natural order of the universe. The natural order for you may be needing to put a lot of time into study something you have chose you believe is right for you life that leads you onward to something else. Passion / joy is an emotion we create by seeing the value in everything we do as valuable and leading us to deeper realization and uncovering of our inner light. Passion is the excitement of what is unfolding, joy is the recognition of the love and beauty in it. No need to get caught up in feeling words.

There’s more to what OP said, specifically “feeling forced.” I would encourage OP to self inquire on why that feels forced? Why create tension to begin with? What do you believe exactly? The world only appears to push back when you create beliefs and expectations and judgements about how things should be, when you question your value. There is nothing inherently “hard” nor pushing back at you when you show up everyday to do what is right for yourself and your life, it can even be quite confrontational stuff like a job that pushes you out of your comfort zone (there’s still space and stillness between it) Can it be a bit tiring and repetitive, sure, honor that. Sometimes you do need to adjust your perspective and def do not be hard on yourself when you fall off the bike or want to go to a familiar place of playing the victim or judging everything you wish was different. keep it simple, set your intentions and just continually show up with no expectations and no insistence of having to control it all for it to work out. Use your head, be responsible and accept whatever unfolds with your heart. The forcing is resistance YOU create dude to your beliefs and judgements about reality. Nothing is inherently hard (resistance) but many things are challenging and require a ton of responsibility and commitment to build. Most people create a feeling of hardness as a byproduct to deter themselves from trying because they’d rather feel the hard feelings than plunging into the unknown and how it will all work out.

I was not being dismissive. I was communicating in a way I believe would get across to OP. I’ve come to learn not everyone should get the same type of response based on the issue they have and the details they provide. I also gave a more detailed answer as well if you look. I can tell you now, OP will be dismissed by the world and broke with this self deception game. You can join him too with putting my fries in the bag if you want but you need to realize the gravity of the situation here that comes with this type of self sabotage. Roosters will come home and it won’t be pretty when you’re 40 with no money and a lack of valuable skills because you were confused about having to commit and show up everyday to make your life better.

We do indeed and it’s delicious. But other sauces are catching on. I used to have the exact same mindset as OP, and I was able to resolve this type of thinking. It’s a sort of inner child game that is basically not wanting to take responsibility for one’s life because through a very childlike reasoning we had when we were young we thought that if we stick to a familiar pattern of behavior of doing nothing that we are somehow safe. There is a benefit to not doing anything out of fear but the results are not good… but we sit here and deny responsibility and don’t look at it with a clear mind. there are 2 choices 1) you take responsibility, you commit to your intentions, you take the right amount of action and you move forward 2) you stay in the familiar, sit there wishing, you act complacent, you make excuses and say you’re afraid or there is risk (keep in mind both 1 and 2 have risk to them regardless). Ultimately you are responsible regardless which you choose. 1 may not work out… 2 may not work out too… it’s a sort of illusion of control and safety but you’re just as in as much risk of something happening you don’t like in both 1 and 2. In other words you want to build a business … ok so with 1 you have a 50% chance you succeed or 50% it crashes and you have to pick up the pieces. Compare that to 2, 100% chance it doesn’t work out and you are then responsible for whatever shit results from that (flipping burger, poor people jobs, unable to pay medical bills, overall low quality of life). The crux of this issue comes down to simply accepting the unknown nature of life and moving forward regardless of whatever happens… always know YOU are valuable and can overcome no matter what even if lots of problems, and even if everything falls apart, you haven’t failed… it’s the souls journey, life circumstances don’t define or change your Devine nature and worth as part of the Tao.

I much prefer Claude as well. It’s really useful. I think you have to instruct it though and definitely don’t rely on it fully… it makes a lot of mistakes still.

Go live your life bro. Why even care if there’s some challenges in the way to overcome? You literally have two choices. Flipping my burger (don’t forget the fries) or being responsible and doing something to make your life better. That’s literally the only two choices. If you choose the first please don’t forget the ketchup.

I’m doing well… living life… with a lot of ups and downs. MY dad just turned 75, I’m working full time, I’m moving to a new country, I’m married supporting two people. Seeing a parent get old and approach the end of their life comes with grief. Life can ver very stressful for me and I’ve never had this much responsibility before. Sometimes I create a lot of fear… I need to really be here for me inner child. Life can be very challenging sometimes and beautiful simultaneously. I’m very blessed.

I would let this go and move on. Grieve and move on. This works sometimes when both people sorta fall out of love or get old and don’t care. Usually it’s harder for younger people to stay friends like this.

I think everyone here makes a good point. Luck, commitment, skill, creativity, etc. Is it hard? I mean I think that depends what you define about it as hard. It’s hard in the sense that it can take a lot of time and you taking total responsibility for your life and choices and what you believe. If you enjoy it though and see everyday as a natural unfolding heading in the direction of what you want, then it can be perceived as not hard but a journey which is unknown. So I think a good way to look at it is by keeping it simple. First ask yourself why you want the money. Get clear in your beliefs. If you want money because you think you need it to be valuable as a person or want to somehow buy safety and future proof yourself your initial trajectory will be off. Once you’re clear on belief then set some intentions about where you want to go. Get clear on what you are passionate about and enjoy and also are naturally talented at. See what skills you can grow. Look out into the world and see what locks need keys that you can create. There’s a ton of helpful mindsets to adopt. I’d say really the only thing that’s certain is the perspective you have the freedom to choose while living fully engaged in life. So choose one that leads to you thriving.

Latin American women are amazing as well. I’d say easily Eastern European and Latin American women are the most beautiful and most attractive. Brazilian women are damn good too. I lived there for several years. I prefer women from Eastern Europe over Latinas but Latinas are really good. I think in terms of pure beauty I would choose Colombia. My one issue with Latinas is that I believe I come from a wildly different background and am introverted and also that I am perceived differently there, so when I was there I never really fell in love with anyone just dated and had a little fun. It’s totally anecdotal but for long term I prefer Eastern Europe women.