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Doubt I'll see this in my lifetime but you never know. It's going to start with an overhaul of social security in the US. My generation, millennial, is gonna be near broke or have very little come retirement age. In 40 years I don't know what society is going to do about the massive amounts of elderly with almost no savings. I hope by then healthcare has been expanded and comprehensive including medications. Elderly currently get Medicaid which is decent and we see this system being advocated for expansion to other groups and universally. I'm guessing some sort of UBI system will start with the huge amount of poor elderly and will then be expanded eventually universally, think 100 years from now.

Hmm okay, interesting. Yeah I’m starting to see this not necessarily a green issue but still orange at play here. I just wonder if this problem is mostly solved when green has a strong footing or if it still is prevalent. If anything it seems like green handles it better and more compassionately even if it doesn’t solve it. They will hand out food and offer medical care services that drive around. I know in blue society they basically will bulldoze them away and let them freeze in winter.

Does anyone know what I'm talking about? I noticed a lot of really feminine girls spin this sort of love fairy tale about how her man magically fell in love with her, etc when from my perspective it seems like her guy was just on the hunt and sort of made things happen. Why doe girls sort of spin this fairy tales around this? take this conversation I was having with a friend (open image in new tab). basically this guy broke her heart a few years ago that was a player and she went on a sort of reckless sex filled spree after of partying. apparently he still texts her. is this just passion? it doesn't really seem like a sturdy form of a relationship.

they sure are to me

So you have any advice how a man can navigate a woman’s desire to do this, allow her to experience this, but also not get sucked in or overly indulge her or manipulate her when she feels like this? Does it just sort of have a natural design to it that if you are a man with healthy grounding, good faith and good self esteem you won’t get overly sucked in?

oh yeah, I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. I just think a nice balance is needed so one doesn't get so wrapped up and attached to these notions that when the eventual heart break occurs jadedness and resentment sets in. I think of it sort of like a healthy diet. Some cake and candy sweetens it but you can't just eat that to stay healthy.

@Preety_Indiathanks for the insight. My friend got kinda defensive when I was poking holes in her stuff and I thought it was kinda gaslighty to do it so I stopped. Kinda for her to figure out. I’m guessing when a woman leaves this phase a really healthy and long term relationship can begin. I think when men can set aside their narcissistic desires to bed every woman that’s their wake up call.

I'm not the biggest fan of Teal when she covers other topics but she really does put out some great insights on communicating the feminine is ways a man can understand and learn from.

lefties are tearing this guy apart on twitter. dunno what they expect from a person who represents WV lol

So this may be looked down upon and seem as kinda slimy or like something a low value guy would do but tbh I really think if you have the means to (are financially stable) and really want to date around and find a really beautiful girlfriend that it’s better to move to a country different from yours, especially if you live in (most of states bar a few) the US or Australia and maybe the UK? There just are not a lot of attractive women in these countries compared to several other European, South America and Asian countries. I found it way easier to get dates with real hot women when traveling and living abroad. It takes way more effort and the volume is lower in the US. I really don’t plan to settle down and live the rest of my life here so I plan to travel and meet a woman in Europe. They often are in much better physical shape there and I noticed the volume of beautiful women is like triple there compared to most places in the US. You also get the appeal of being foreign and interesting just for being you vs having to act like a clown to get a girls attention back home. if you live in a country that you have problems dating in, just move to a new country with beautiful women if you can.

A lot of guys are limited due to the city or location they are in. he doesn't list cities off here but sort of goes over the disadvantages your location may be having on your dating life. consider setting a goal if you aren't able to financially yet to relocate to a city with a ton more options. moving abroad can be great but I recommend if you do really commit to stay for a few years and integrate into the local culture as much as possible, learn the language, make tons of friends, etc. it won't automatically solve your entire dating life but it will open up way more doors that usually won't be there in your home town of retired people and families. tiny cities that aren't really "cool" or the suburbs are going to be much more difficult to build a sort of abundance feeling in.

I support raising the minimum wage. I just wonder what effects it would have on the current economy. would we see a lot of small businesses shuttered because of it?

lefties online have been losing their shit over this complaining about dems failing and how they will be slaughtered in 22. same with the 8 dem senators voting against $15 minimum wage. really not sure where I stand on this. ideologically I would like both to happen but I don't know the full systemic under-workings and I'm tired of a hasty and reckless government like the last administration.

fashion = designer trends and big brands trying to sell something new each season style = your own personal tastes for clothes and what you make of it. I've noticed so many men dress either acceptably or poorly. Let's set aside economic barriers for now in this thread. If you are struggling financially there are probably other things to focus on first before this. I've noticed that good style really makes a difference in how receptive women are towards me. Not just a nice shirt and pants that fit well and some shoes but really making sure everything I'm wearing looks good and I stand out in the crowd. This includes accessories, jewelry, a watch, nice hat, a wallet chain, etc. Also, COLOR! Having a mix of colors and patterns that look nice. Not just muted colors like sweatpants grey. A guy with average to mediocre looks but who is wearing an awesome button up, cool jeans, shoes that stand out, a cool hat and a few rings, necklace, etc and some sun shades really stands out and looks good. Throw in a few well done tattoos as well if that's your thing. I'm walking around and see so many guys just doing the bare minimum with their style. Maybe you finally got some clothes that fit but your style is still sorta bland... WORK ON IT! Improving your style is fun too. Don't be cheap either. If you are shopping mall brands you are going to be wearing something that 90% other guys are. Research brands and find unique stuff that stands out to you. Women really do notice when a guy puts effort into his outfit and they appreciate this quite a bit.

Yea, for sure. But don’t split hairs. Probably a good idea to shake your head and say no if your girlfriend asks if she looks fat regardless of what you think

vaush taking a more yellow perspective at points

Republicans Throwing Fit Over Biden's 'Neatherthal' Comment republicans are so dumb

I like this approach. I personally am not a fan of spending a bunch of time going out and doing “day game.” Something far too forced and try hard about it. I think working in a few approaches a day when your out and about can be good if you don’t get overly attached to results and flow with what’s happening. It’s largely an inner work process.

ding ding ding... there we go as expected

you are correct, that is true. I'm speaking from experience myself. you still will need to be developed and learn how to flirt and attract women but at least you will be interesting right off the bat and not have to do as many superficial backflips trying to impress a local girl that has a million guys after her just like you.

don't waste your money on this crap you're better off spending it on some nice clothes and some therapy to boost your self esteem there is enough free content on youtube to get an idea of what to do. be your own leader, go out and do it. there are some books as well on how to be masculine which are way cheaper than these grifts. these pick up programs are just an excuse to keep you from actually going out and learning. if you actually saw these guys in field you would think far less of their programs after you saw how much they get rejected, just like you will be when you go out and practice.

pick up is such a drag lol, especially if you are stuck in a rut just move to a place where foreigners are rare and beauty is plentiful sounds like a cop out but it's worlds better and more rewarding than having to slog through all the bullshit trying to impress a local girl that's going to be half as attractive and interested in you for being the unique person you are. all relative I suppose.

I see no way we can sustain ourselves without transferring over to nuclear. The world population would have to greatly rise in consciousness and cut back on consumption and make all sorts of massive collective changes. I don't even think a green majority could accomplish this.

having sex is one thing but a relationship... it's a little odd. he may not be a bad guy but it is a little suspicious.

jesus day game rejections are cringe