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You honestly get 100% response rate from that? I know Todd V, he is pretty good for advice on how to flirt

This is why I've cut out eating mammals a year ago. I still eat chicken and fish because I haven't figured out a consistent diet without this meat for nutrition. My long term goal is to go vegetarian.

Ayahuasca is truly one of the bravest things you can take for spiritual/personal reasons. it is no walk in the park. I would say anyone brave enough to take a DMT substance as their first psyche deserves a medal. DMT is the crown jewel.

it depends on what perspective you take and how broad it is. On the broadest level everything happens for a reason so to speak, finding your way back home. If you narrow it down, you could say it's just a random experience. relatively speaking a lot of stuff just happens due to cause and effect and isn't worth over analyzing. from the absolute it is all a miracle and a sign.

nah, in door dining and bars/clubs are still heavily restricted here. it's also quite cold so no one really goes out here during this time to walk around. I don't feel like walking around the mall either approaching girls. basically my window for talking to girls and the volume is quite limited during the day at this time.

lol I just started 4 days ago and I have no way to meet girls in person due to lockdown here. I usually don't do online dating when bars and clubs are open.

I think my reply is kinda bleh ._. I think I'm overthinking this. I'm a bit of a perfectionist and am over thinking what to write. I think I should also avoid writing anything about myself that could come off making me look goofy or bad even if it's jokingly, trust that feeling if it feels "try hard" or trying to be overly clever/silly, don't send it. Just focus on a good opener and transitioning to a simple convo that isn't too gamey but sprinkle it in if something comes to mind that feels natural. Gonna try to message a bunch this week and post some updates next week to see if there is anything I can improve on in my conversations.

stole your line bruh! you think this is better? think I should add anything else or expand it? thanks for the help everyone!

if only it were that easy ._.

Hmm ok, I got rid of the BS line. I'll add a little more interesting stuff that's more specific about myself after my opening in my bio. I'll brainstorm and flesh out the qualifier as well.

memes in my profile cuz I noticed these are a thing a lot of girls have in theirs and i thought these were funny

Ok, I removed the memes line and the stuff after 6'1 I also changed it to "Thrill seeker and adventure enthusiast" and added a weight lifting, camera and motorcycle emoji Do you think "Looking for a girl that is more than just an instagram photo" or "Looking for a girl as cool as me" are fine? Any other ideas for a qualifier? Should I add anything else? I feel like less is more when it comes to this stuff but I'm not sure entirely I'll try to make my messages I send especially openers congruent with my bio

what are some other good ways to start a conversation without giving any sort of compliment of any kind? I just sent a few more messages: for example a hot girl in a cute dress by a painting I wrote "Cute dress but you aren't holding a glass of red wine, not sophisticated enough :smugfaceemoji" trying to figure out other ways to start conversations that are engaging. maybe I should go full edgy/polarizing and just wrote "you aren't holding a glass of red wine, not sophisticated enough :smugfaceemoji" ??

Yeah, I agree. I think for the convo that went well I tried to implement the idea of "push/pull" where I give a compliment but I sort of take it away a little with something else so it kinda has that feel of not being kiss ass and it sort of balances it out and seems not as needy. The girl with the tats I did this as well which got a response (she was showing off her tats super try hard in her pics and talking about how she doesn't care about guys with them)

So basically I was on a free account and wasn't getting matches. I have six photos of myself that have all been approved by two girls and a few other friends of mine. They are great photos. I decided to add 3 memes as well which are sort of cocky funny / "bad boyish" and a little sexual. Also added a dumb bio I found online that makes me sound sorta fuckboyish which idk I think girls react to this stuff over something "nice." Kinda corny but it seems to have improved my profile I think. I used this opening on one other girl. she liked my pic but I didn't get a response. this seems to be going somewhere. gonna think of something to reply back that isn't low effort but also not tryhard. maybe best to just transition to basic conversation since she seems into me. another fail with this line grifting her art work on tinder??? feel like my reply was a fail have gotten 14 matches with hot girls in the last four days since getting the prem service and adding some memes and a dumb stuff to my bio any advice?

I wonder what can be done about this on the short term or is this going to go down in the history books as a forgotten tragedy?

has this been posted? this is insane and fucked up is it even possible to boycott China? I am trying consciously to try my best not to spend any money on stuff made there. China has the largest mass incarceration of an ethnic group since the holocaust.

"asshole" and "nice guy" are just sort of catch all caricature phrases used mainly by the masses that haven't contemplated the dynamics as deeply so they are a little helpful when talking generally but aren't always clear representations. The nice guy will act sweet and like a total suck up and pathetic push over and then throw a fit when he doesn't get what he desires because to him he was "being nice" so he deserves it. The asshole will come off a little stage red. Do whatever to get what he wants without showing weakness and this includes manipulating and abusing. He will lead but his means of leading is toxic like a dictator or through creating some sort of wound cycle the girl has. The asshole will get some romance/sex because he has the general qualities down for masculine/feminine attraction but it will often times be with women with low self esteem and that are naive. There are plenty of women out there like this though so the asshole can stay an asshole if he so desires to or until his girl wises up and breaks his heart in return.

There are more distinctions to be made when it comes to masculine character though over physical beauty I would say. Women get better at smelling out healthy masculinity over toxic. The asshole who was having some luck is masculine for sure but it's sort of a neurotic version of it. Masculine anything will always be attractive to women but the more they are able to tell what kind a man is (if they are wise enough to learn) they will gravitate away from those they know are toxic for the sake of their heart, unless they are trapped in that cycle of associating abuse with romance.

I noticed young women will go through a phase where they will date a few asshole/manipulative guys and then either a) repeat this a million times and become more and more neurotic b) learn from it and start choosing better partners. I've also seen guys including myself who were assholes and got laid because of it but upon self reflection realized that is not the person I want to be and grow from it. A lot of people go through these phases when they are young.

It's getting sort of annoying how the word asshole is constantly used when this question is brought up. When I think of an asshole I think of a guy that is downright disrespectful, abusive, shaming and a liar. Naive girls that get walked over will fall for these guys sometimes. Just because you are outgoing, self confident, a little edgy and not a people pleaser doesn't mean you're an asshole.

let those garbage senators go on the history book

cause leo still has some more to learn about women

why did you mom put you on a dating site? she doesn't like your current boyfriend?

it depends on the person. I would say neither sex is more hornier than the other. both are equally horny. women just aren't usually as down to fuck as quickly as men are since there is more risk for them on the physical (pregnant, STD more likely, safety) end and maybe on the emotional one as well.