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I like this approach. I personally am not a fan of spending a bunch of time going out and doing “day game.” Something far too forced and try hard about it. I think working in a few approaches a day when your out and about can be good if you don’t get overly attached to results and flow with what’s happening. It’s largely an inner work process.

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you are correct, that is true. I'm speaking from experience myself. you still will need to be developed and learn how to flirt and attract women but at least you will be interesting right off the bat and not have to do as many superficial backflips trying to impress a local girl that has a million guys after her just like you.

don't waste your money on this crap you're better off spending it on some nice clothes and some therapy to boost your self esteem there is enough free content on youtube to get an idea of what to do. be your own leader, go out and do it. there are some books as well on how to be masculine which are way cheaper than these grifts. these pick up programs are just an excuse to keep you from actually going out and learning. if you actually saw these guys in field you would think far less of their programs after you saw how much they get rejected, just like you will be when you go out and practice.

pick up is such a drag lol, especially if you are stuck in a rut just move to a place where foreigners are rare and beauty is plentiful sounds like a cop out but it's worlds better and more rewarding than having to slog through all the bullshit trying to impress a local girl that's going to be half as attractive and interested in you for being the unique person you are. all relative I suppose.

I see no way we can sustain ourselves without transferring over to nuclear. The world population would have to greatly rise in consciousness and cut back on consumption and make all sorts of massive collective changes. I don't even think a green majority could accomplish this.

having sex is one thing but a relationship... it's a little odd. he may not be a bad guy but it is a little suspicious.

jesus day game rejections are cringe

it's a garbage app with some funny videos on it. parents need to actually look after their kids and what they are doing on social media.

some great advice in here

Nothing wrong per say with being a slut. Most men love sluts but then get all hesitant cause they realize if she was easy for him she may have been easy for 30 others before her. Most men want sluts for the short term but then act all holy like they now want a nun to settle down with. Survival and self bias is so funny when it comes to dating.

Maybe she wants a sugar daddy? it’s kinda weird

I own some bonds. They are very safe investments I think.

doubt it

100% boosting this. People, DO NOT MIX SSRI/SNRI WITH ANY PYSCHADELICS. PERIOD. People have died before drinking ayahuasca and doing this.

pathetic pity party

In this case this advice is not for you. glad you found what works for you I also don't consider this advice "pick up." I loathe that word lol. it's just general advice for men who want to make themselves more attractive. Men for ages have been dressing themselves up in silly stuff to look appealing, from powdered wigs to bear skin.

I guess it's up to you to do the inner work along side it to prove them wrong

I'll share with you the brands I like here to give you an idea of my style. I personally like "Americana", work ware, and vintage stuff that feels a bit western and motorcycle rider but not frumpy like some old biker or redneck lol. Stuff that looks kinda rugged but has an elegance and artistic touch. To me personally it feels very masculine and I really like that feeling Think Levis classic style with a modern and artistic twist. I plan to buy this shirt: https://www.ralphlauren.com/brands-double-rl-men-shop-all-cg/indigo-jacquard-workshirt/577422.html?dwvar577422_colorname=Brown Multi&cgid=brands-double-rl-men-shop-all-cg&webcat=search#ns=shopall&start=1&cgid=brands-double-rl-men-shop-all-cg Yes, it is expensive but don't let budget be a barrier. You can shop for cool stuff way less at vintage stores and online if you look around and get an idea of what you like. https://www.ironheart.co.uk/ I like this brand for jeans https://www.selfedge.com/ https://standardandstrange.com/ These two shops carry tons of cool brands https://freenotecloth.com/ https://www.taylorstitch.com/ https://www.kapital.jp/ more brands https://www.instagram.com/brianthebootmaker/ boots https://www.sunsurf.jp/ some awesome shirts for the summer. love shirts with colorful patterns like this. I feel like a beautiful peacock again, these clothes are more on the expensive side but don't let budget hinder you. there are brands like Levis that put out some wonderful stuff that aren't too pricey. your style may be totally different too so just keep an eye out for clothes that you thinks look cool, could be in youtube videos, movies, tv, when you go out, etc. Make a mental note of it and do some research on styles that feel nice and beautiful to you!

Two prong approach - inner work: talking with a therapist that you really like (and that works with the body as well) to uncover beliefs and the bodily responses to them. - what Leo said, approaching anyway, and putting into practice a lot of what you learned from inner work No need to try and control emotions like this. Stuff like this arises in the body sometimes, feel it, be conscious of it, give yourself love, and still be honest and approach

What looks more appealing to tear off? a gift wrapped in a brown paper bag Or a gift wrapped in a beautifully printed pattern

Who knows how far the material dimension goes. If a reference point was established like scientists claim with the Big Bang it is probably finite just like all life. And beyond that who knows ? Can’t say I know much about it. I occasionally keep in contact with astral beings though. They are not grounded in the material dimension.

Nothing wrong with that. do as you wish. don't expect your bliss to open every door though so this advice is for guys who are wanting to improve with women. jinco jeans = pussy magnet

Cause 90% of “pick up” is low brow garbage that is mostly just grifting useless packages and programs comprised of stuff you can figure out on your own quickly to lonely men.

I disagree. It's a fine reason to move abroad. I don't necessarily disagree with every point though. If you are moving abroad to find a gf/bf you likely do have some inner problems to look at which can be worked on while abroad. It's a form of taking action. Better than sitting at home in a place you've grown deeply resentful of. Sometimes a big change can get a person unstuck. I'm speaking from experience. I improved drastically with women when I traveled. Anecdotally a friend of mine as well who was having problems at home dating did as well and is currently in a long term relationship with a beautiful and smart Russian girl. It's what you make of it.