Lyubov

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  1. It's a form of self expression. I think there are heathy and unhealthy ways to do this. To a certain degree it is necessary and a valid desire when really in your masculine and wanting to leave your mark on the world so to speak. Even animals do it lol. Ever heard of peacocks?
  2. sounds more like some dumb bubble fad to me than a timeless piece that will be remembered and studied in art history classes. dunno if the artist even cares or not about this, he got his bag.
  3. there is an existential reason horror movies are as popular as they are. they allow one to experience their fears and shadows without having to actualize it. nothing wrong with it per-say. I would let go about worrying about your vibration and honoring the part of you that views horror movies as long as it isn't interfering heavily with your life in a way that is dysfunctional.
  4. Have a lovely one I printed out. I'm not holding my breathe but I like how it makes me creative and it fills me with good feels so even if I don't get it materially I think it will come in some form symbolically.
  5. I guess when you've figured out a way to magically snap your fingers and have a million dollars in cash in front of you let me know
  6. Megan does not look ethnically white from a US perspective to me. I would think she is mixed or a Latina. She is very pretty though.
  7. wait... what? ok I'll have to try this
  8. this is one of the last things on my mind when looking at women. I'm attracted to it cause it just looks beautiful to me and a woman's body that is filled out nicely feels great to touch and be in. maybe there is something underlying at play but it's not what's conscious for me when in the moment.
  9. Yes, you have a limited free will that comes along with being a finite life so to speak. You obviously can't will a million dollars in front of you out of nowhere as this life. You have to make it, steal it or earn it. There is a greater will encompassing it though which is baked into everything so to speak that is willing everything all at once. It's god's will or the meta will. It accepts everything as it is essentially and allows it to be.
  10. sometimes I feel selfish/survival is subtly used by this forum as a substitute for good or bad.
  11. The best place to start for newbies is books. Go on amazon or audible and read all the self help classics and top rated books in a specific domain. They are cheap and hold all the fundamentals. Very little unique information to be found in most self help video courses that are incredibly expensive. That money is better spent going towards a very specific skill or class or retreat or therapy.
  12. I'm not in denial. I've just given it more thought than you have. You're making the typical false equivalency most people make who think they know anything about politics. You probably believe in conspiracy theories too. Bill Bar is not an example of deep political contemplation, he is a comedian. Expand your information intake and start reading books. You would be singing a different tune if you were a child born in Mexico with immigrant parents or invested in climate change or a low income person heavily reliant on Obamacare, list goes on.
  13. a poor distinction. actually look up the policy put into play during these two administrations and how they affected people. I'm not going to educate you out of your "both sides" stance a lot of fake woke hippies who haven't actually contemplated or done much research on this domain claim.
  14. first message, what girls say they want... then they get it and all of a sudden they aren't interested second comment, what attracts girls but then leaves confusion for guys ok my last gender wars comment
  15. Center right compared to a lot of European countries Quite liberal compared to most other countries.
  16. So I am doing a bit of contemplation and it seems like homelessness is a systemic issue that is not overcome when there is a stage green majority. Certain societal issues seem to become less prevalent the higher up on the spiral but it doesn't seem like this issue is really solved at green. Perhaps more citizens need to become green in order to solve this issue in California? California is pretty green but also there is a lot of orange there as well. Each systemic issue is unique so I don't think it solely comes down to the spiral level. Is this a case study of the limits of green or is California not green enough to solve it?
  17. Call me shallow but I would choose as a partner any day of the week a woman whose physical beautify far exceeds my preferences/standards but has some healing to do and causes some friction between us on a regular basis over a really conscious woman that just barely meets my own personal preferences/standards. Seems like most women would do the same with a strong/confident man vs a meek man.
  18. I do agree there is a difference between the two but on the contrary you could switch out big tits with physical preferences and if that is absent then from the masculine's perspective there will be no desire to contain her in the first place. I think it's a prerequisite as well. I don't desire to contain or bring out the feminine in any woman but one that I find physically attractive. It plays just as big a role even if they are different parts of the process.
  19. Well, not every woman that is for sure. But some women may be attracted to the dominating qualities a bully has. It's sort of a low quality toxic version of strength but strength none the less. Also, I was not there at your social situation so it may have just been interpreted as some light hearted teasing or a funny situation. Not trying to gaslight you. You're justified in feeling the way you did. Sometimes people can say pretty nasty stuff to each other. Just saying others could have seen it differently if it wasn't directly blatant bullying so don't draw wide conclusions that all women will laugh or find this attractive.
  20. Can you say in a few sentences or less what exactly women are attracted to in men?
  21. This is pretty much exactly what Leo mentioned in that same post earlier about how "they get offended and call men gross and shallow and sexist for wanting it." The word shallow is what I'm talking about here. I don't care if I'm labeled shallow. It's what I desire and I'm not going to settle on anything less than a physically beautiful woman. I only want a girlfriend that has an amazing body, cute face and fits for the most part towards my physical preferences in women (fit body, nice ass, long healthy hair, tan, etc). Nothing wrong with that and it's just the other side of the coin to woman saying they want a confident man.
  22. I think CA attracts a lot of homeless there as well cause of the weather and liberal culture. I heard that they had some homeless people find their way there cause they would freeze to death if they stayed in some shitty mid-west state. It's really visible though. I wonder why you don't see it as much in NYC for instance. It is there for sure in NYC but it just doesn't stand out like it does in LA. Are there more homeless in LA in general and how do they define homeless as well? What percentage are locals that fell on hard times due to addiction and prices? I know some "traveling kids", those sort of counter culture hippies that play music on the street and are on drugs maybe get counted in the group when they are more so choosing or pretending to be homeless. California just is the perfect place to be homeless too. It's expensive and if you have issues and end up on the street you will be relatively okay compared to some other places where the police will beat you and kick you out of the warm subway during the dead of winter.