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That's the thing. I'm not against men paying for women and providing and buying them nice stuff, especially if their gf isn't a career woman cause unless she comes from a rich family or has an onlyfans she wont have much of her own money. When does the providing start though? before or after sex? when should the guy start really putting out? girls are afraid of putting out sex and feeling used. guys are afraid of putting out cash and feeling used. it's that spider man meme with them both pointing at each other. a girl's "bodycount" is how many guys she got to spend on her with her not having to put out herself.

Not to sound shallow but I could literally fall in love with and marry a girl that has only ever worked at a mcdonalds. income/education/statues in a partner does literally nothing for me. in fact career women often aren't sexy to me... not trying to be mean or say they shouldn't follow their dreams, just speaking on what i find attractive. i find myself attracted to women that wanna be a housewife/mom. nothing wrong with a girl wanting to be that or wanting to be a career. both are fine if that is what a person wants to do with their life.

I think letting go of declarations like this and anything identifying with relationships and just being open to what comes helps a lot. You don't even have to actively focus on this domain if you wanna focus on other stuff. Just stay open to what life brings. Don't build some identity around or make some declaration like you're celibate now. Just be open to what life brings and focus what you wanna focus on.

Whelp... I'm not above being cooked every now and then for trying to put my head in the sand. I needed this.... I made a plan yesterday and I'm making changes now. I finished my last vape ten days ago and haven't bought a new one since... I've quit vaping and Im going to move forward with these diet changes The don'ts - Cutting out all bagels with cream cheese and dunkin donuts and fast food in general. Basically all junk food, candy, chips/crackers, soda, etc is gone. period. - No more sweet coffee drinks like frapiccinos. If I get a coffee out it will be black coffee with a splash of oatmilk and no sugars or syrups, same goes for all sweet drinks like smoothies with syrup in them. No more sweet drinks. - No pizza, on a very rare occasion or celebration I will have a few slices of cheese pizza but I am cutting this food out of my diet as a regular that pops up a couple times a week. - No more deep fried food of any kind, period. - Avoiding all those heavy dairy based sauces with tons of sugar in them - Cutting heavily back on bread & cheese, if bread and cheese is a cornerstone of the meal like a sandwich, I'm not eating it. The dairy and oil should be most of saturated fats I'm taking in so this should help with cholesterol. I already don't drink milk, cheese is the only dairy I take in so gonna try to avoid this in my meals. - I already don't eat red/mammal meat of any kind and will continue to no The dos - Eating colorful, lots of vegetables every meal and plain fruit for desert - light sauces only and if there isn't once available, no sauce - Grilled chicken & rice, some fish on occasion, not deep fried or breaded - beans for additional protein, some nuts but not too much - I'm not a dope and I know what is healthy so basically avoiding all the don'ts

YES! Happy Birthday Leo Have a great one!

Just sounds like you're state chasing to me if you think the DMT is offering something more than you already have access to. You can realize everything you want/need for DMT once you've been initiated by DMT and let your life become the DMT trip itself. Maybe it takes more than one trip for some to realize this? Bashar isn't entirely wrong here if you're open to what he is saying.

go listen to some sahdguru, and stop doing drugs if you can't handle your shit

@AlterEgoThere is like one reported case of a woman dying from a blood clot from the J&J vaccine... and that's it. Some people don't know how to play their cards or poker chips so they worry about losing them over random stuff. at those odds you might as well just never get out of bed and stay under a weighted blanket 24/7, cause there is plenty of stuff out there that have a 1 in 200 million chance of killing you. hammers fall sometimes from buildings under construction, do yall carry hard hats around when walking around the city?

any good book examples on divine masculine ?

this is 50/50 between purple and red purple really is just as savage as red is

this subforum i swear lmao

It's possible to get into states (post breakthrough from a past DMT experience usually) that have all the benefits/take aways of a DMT breakthrough experience but aren't as intense or have the same appearances / " highs" / OBE / light show (shamans call it that for the gringos) of a DMT breakthrough. Just seems like state chasing if you think constantly tripping super hard (basically leaving behind your reference point entirely for a bit) is what is growing a person. You can get the majority, possibly even all the benefits from psychedelics after having a massive breakthrough without having to take a psychedelic if you are willing to allow for that breakthrough experience to come back in again while sober. It's possible for sure. I've confirmed this for myself through direct experience.

some really cringy stuff (with a good sentiment behind it) coming out

just let it go. I've felt this way before. just be yourself and authentic and if you occasionally offend people sometimes so be it. no need to die on a hill defending yourself if you offend someone. can always ignore them, no engage or give an apology if you think upon reflection what you said was rude. don't micromanage shit like this or else you will be too much in your head and it will block some energy from flowing. now if you are CONSTANTLY pissing people off then maybe your social skills need work but I doubt that is the case and you have a problem. summary: just be yourself and not worry about this and let it go and don't be afraid to speak your mind and be yourself but do be conscious and mindful... being yourself is not the sane as going unconscious and not giving a fuck.

I think this was the right call. Being a police officer does not come with a get out of jail free card. I realize they are sometimes putting themselves in harms way and that can be stressful and color the entire job as scary but the way Chauvin reacted was beyond reckless and showed little care for his work.

women don't pursue. they just give the green light (sometimes super bright) for a guy to. the most I've even been pursued is a girl starting a conversation with me at a bar. that is basically a super green light so I took the reigns and saddle and brought her back for some bashing season. she did not pursue or lead after the first couple minutes we met, she just gave me the brightest in your face green light for me to and I could read the subtext and I didn't mess it up before things went down (not uncommon for guys to do this). I've missed out on plenty of sex in my early 20s cause I didn't know a girl was basically holding a 20volt green flashlight in my face or I got nervous or passive after taking the reigns. green lights can sometimes be intimidating or confusing for guys if they don't know what it is or it may turn a little yellow as a test sometimes cause girls love that feeling of a man being steady like a rock like he knows what he is doing.

What do you mean made the first move? Like, actually did you make the first move or did you just give him to go ahead to make the move on you? You are just coming across the 99% of guys that aren't a match for you & are not interested in. Some guys are maybe doing it more boldly than others which you are put off by more, but you are giving a green light to those you like and overlooking the rest which many of the other men you don't like likely share with the ones you do. Every man is doing it with every woman he is attracted or interested in. A man can not read a woman's mind right away and uniquely tailor their approach specifically for every woman they meet. It's a waste of time trying to even think doing that is possible. A man won't be able to really start bespoke tailoring their approach till they are well into a first date with a woman and even then it's still tricky. Yes to a degree... I think men don't realize that a woman has actually made up her mind a bit before giving the green light for a lot of what's going on. For most men all the results they are gonna get are from women that were into them from the beginning and they were either smart enough to pick up on the signs or dumb enough to just keep doing till something stuck with the right woman. I think this is different from actually pursuing though which is essentially leading. from my experience women fall into three categories, green light, yellow light, red light. Green is they are showing signs of interest and showing they wanna be pursued by you (can be a bit coy sometimes), yellow is signs that are mixed (men should just proceed like it's green), and red light is they aren't interested and it's a no which is basically a waste of time to pursue. Yeah this is common for women to take longer time and I think that is fine. I don't mind waiting if I see she is a green or yellow light and is showing signs that she is interested. comes down to not being too attached and keeping the field open as a guy. don't count your chicks before they hatch. I've been hurt before thinking I had a green waiting for a girl for 2-3 months for her to turn red. don't expect a guy not to play the field in this time as well and not seem so devoted cause 3 months is a long time to wait and anything can happen.

yes and no... a lot of guys will read this advice and think it means they don't have to make conscious choices, lead, facilitate or anything. nah... that is not what letting her pursue means. all it means is giving her a little room to chase you as well. not so much that you seem aloof and the experience is wishy washy but also don't be so tight that your frame starts to cut off part of her artwork. I actually think depending on the girl some will prefer a more dominating/pursing man than others. For newbies I think they should be practicing pursuing since they are likely already too meek and don't know how to suavely get a girl to chase them. I think 70%-30% is a decent number to shoot for where sometimes you might go 60% and other times you need to ramp it up to 100%. it's dynamic, don't overthink it, just stick your your principles and embodied positive masculine emotions. Most men today should be practicing how to pursue healthy though. EDIT: after reflecting on this for a bit, this is pretty awful advice for 90% of men, like what another poster said in here. MOST men need to be practicing how to lead and pursue especially in late stage orange / green cities in the US. you're shooting your odds in the foot if you play passive like this and hold out for the one in a thousand chance for the girl that wants a passive man.

Mean green has so many clowns and people who have not really transcended with a healthy rational orange. Explains all the goofy stuff in with mean green types. They failed at orange so they went to green and wound up as mean green.

quite simply: spiritual ego

"why can't I realize my dream of having a straight guy in bed?!"

lol it's just "reaction andy" stuff welcome to twitch tv where 90% the site streams themselves consuming other people's content they didn't make and reacting to it.

Yeah I kinda agree with your definition, Psychosis to me is having a very weak reference point but not the sharp mind, wisdom and understanding to accompany it or ground oneself out.

Saw he dropped a new video today. Love his talks, gonna listen tomorrow.

I've heard some good things about it from a couple people who attended these a seminar of it. It can be quite beautiful and trance like.