Lyubov

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  1. I received the teaching of responsibility when it was time for me to enter creator mode. Different aspects of life lessons / spirituality / seeking (whatever you want to call it) find their way into your life when you are ready to receive/perceive them. It's impossible to not be responsible.
  2. At least they aren't like Osho's, trying to kill people. There will always be people who need a guru to look up to.
  3. I can do all this stuff too, nothing special if he has helped you or brought you joy then that's good. He makes some great youtube videos.
  4. I went bald at 20…. Just shave it and move on.
  5. I’ve found this all to be true as well. I’ve struggled with letting go of a woman I been with for a while based off of beliefs of scarcity and lack and also beliefs having to do with gaining value by pleasing someone I see as family, loyalty and beliefs about love having to be rare and exclusive to be true. There is a whole prison we can create for ourselves around relationships where we entirely forget we have our own value regardless of this relationship or person. It can be very hard to get out of. Especially if you particularly grow close to one girl, that relationship ending is like a death and something about that is very hard to accept when looking at it through the mind / ego / inner child. It can really expose a huge inner misconception about needing to earn value outside oneself and also resolve some massive misconceptions about family and other people giving us value. I struggled for years with women and was very isolated, separated, self imposed separation. This issue of a lack of relationships with women ties directly into a lot of core childhood issues that form alongside the ego. Misconceptions of needing someone else to be whole and one. But the interesting thing about it is that people like the OP can’t be forced or told that this sort of rage they have around this issue is trivial. I can really relate to how this issue of not dating and being able to meet women can become so incredibly hard for men these days. Being told lofty spiritual stuff or given perspectives on how this issue isn’t as big as it is I found wasn’t helpful for me resolving this, even after being with many women since the core issue I still need to revisit and let go and my understanding of it has grown much deeper and deeper, it culminates ultimately in accepting eternal change and death. In my opinion what OP needs to do is really open up. I do think OP should seek professional therapy. He said he doesn’t want to but I think this is a massive blunder. OP needs this. It helps create space and a freeing. It’s ironic but this holding on to the anger is oddly enough what keeps us stuck. Just having someone who actually knows what men face today, a male therapist who knows how hard dating and relationships are today, this can help a ton: do not get some clinical weirdo or a woman therapist. Get a male therapist in his 30s/40s who isn’t gay or an overly SJW. This will help a ton and help release a lot of contraction on this issue. From there OP can start to become more resourceful and start learning about women and going places to socialize. Right now OP is in extreme separation, they need to open up and reconnect more and regain energy to then start to learn how to socialize and do pickup or whatever:
  6. Stop projecting your enigmas and fantasies and self made mystical confusions onto this man. He’s a spiritual teacher and if you want to entangle yourself into what I’ve found to be a dated and problematic path towards spiritual awakening feel free. He’s just a man. He does a lot of good here and I recognize his contribution. I do think he is honest. But if you want to put yourself into a trans like a cobra listening to a flute feel free.
  7. And they can’t get treatment for this sickness because people like healthcare ceos make sure insurance doesn’t cover it.
  8. PayPal is such a cancer. Someone please explain to me how that useless piece of shit is still in business. It’s so bad and I’m surprised better alternatives haven’t just outright ran it out of business.
  9. Dude I live now surrounded by some of the most beautiful nature and a 10 minute walk from one of the best beaches in the world, what are you talking about
  10. Dude your brain is rotted. I lived in Russia for over 3 years. Almost every Russian with a decent education and job wants to leave due to corruption, pollution in the major cities and weather. It’s a total police state and you can be drafted to the army if you’re a young man. RT has rotted out your mind with conspiracy thinking and evangelical thinking about this place. Russia is a shell of an empire that wants to be great again like the USA. It’s cold and unbelievably corrupt, not a single higher value is served by the state when it’s as corrupt as it is. Half the people there are poor and don’t enjoy their lives. The culture is great though and life isn’t bad everywhere there. It is an alright place, really not that worse to live compared to the USA if you have okay money but it’s none of these special things you have listed here. It’s an autocratic police state with little opportunities to go places and go upward if you aren’t in the top 1%
  11. 1) A lot of weirdos apply for the first one. You have to be pretty brain rotted to apply for Russian residency on these grounds. 2) You have to be an even bigger weirdo because that land is out in the ass, like really out in the middle of nowhere with nothing and you have to live on it for 5 years.
  12. he supports whoever would favor corruption and tax cuts for his business class and then creates a story and looks of evidence to skew around his belief system and rationalize to himself that it's good for everyone else so he doesn't feel bad
  13. It sounds a little like you’re being pessimistic. Maybe it’s my millennial conditioning where they told our generation every day we were so special and would save the world, but lots of really progressive policies were popular with our generation at one point. How that actually plays out with a changing world and as people get older… I have my fingers crossed. I wouldn’t hold my breath for many changes but you never know. Maybe our generation will be a strong swing back to liberal democracy and rebuilding our institutions to help people.
  14. weird how many of us millennials were all very blue and loved Obama. us guys were told to take a back seat too lol. weird how younger generation is more conservative than us.
  15. I get shroom like highs when I smoke strong marijuana. It definitely can induce some altered states and psychedelic experiences. How useful they are for learning? I've personally found it marginal and if you get a weed hangover or there are time sensitive tasks on your plate it can be distracting. Overall I would give it a 3/10 for using it for my personal growth. It can be fun though and relaxation is an important part of life, so for this it's good when used occasionally. I do love to get high sometimes!
  16. I have also gone on record saying I don’t support Israel annexing Syria’s territory. That’s very different from Israel destroying Syrian weapon caches and chemical weapon sites. Those absolutely should be destroyed. This shit is nuanced. Those weapons won’t defend a new Syrian state. They will be used on Syrian civilians if the new state is threatened.
  17. I went through one two weeks ago around and it’s definitely outside my comfort zone. I would say I even seen many men who seem to struggle for ages to rebuild their lives after a break up ? Why do men specifically struggle most after a relationship has ended? I think it’s because men don’t have as good of social skills as women, most women have a ton of men waiting for them to get single and lastly men are very loyal.
  18. I don’t think there’s anything necessarily wrong with a Rolex. It’s a beautiful watch and it does indeed display luxury and craftsmanship. It would definitely help in business and potentially attracting a woman who wants a financially well off man. I think too many people define their own personal worth or judge people who can’t afford this though, in addition people spend above their means and buy this stuff then have to pawn it when some bills come in. Be wise with your money. Don’t live above your means.
  19. 1) I am not condoning Israel seizing Syrian land. You can be for regime change and anti axis of resistance and also want to see UN borders respected 2) when Russia forms alliances with weaker dictator ran states like Syria human rights go out the window and the common citizen is slaughtered. The axis loves to muddy this fact but when the west forms alliances this is much less so the case, there is at least some rights respected and less violence, but I welcome in people wanting to cherry pick points against this and feed their confirmation bias. I’m not saying west is perfect. I just look at directions. A dictator toppling and the sphere of influence for democratic countries expended is a plus vs if a stage red dictator stayed in power.
  20. Aren’t you always whining about how Russia is the victim in the Ukraine conflict about how the big bad mean west destroyed Russia in the Cold War and now it’s so unfair they have more say when making the rules and how Russia can attack their neighbors cause history? Apply your rules evenly like how you like to complain about how the US doesn’t. This is a net positive from the world sliding back toward stage red kingdoms waring and dominating each other. Iran is going to face setbacks from this.
  21. Seeing the axis of resistance taking a geopolitical punch to the face is nice though. This is their version of Afghanistan 2021, much worse potentially too considering Israel is going to really redraw those lines and disrupt what Iran can do in the region.
  22. A male professor and friend of mine who is my senior and not from a western post modern country one time explained to me when having a problem with a mutual friend of ours who is female that because of the magnitude of her ability to bring into existence new life that any emotional issue or problem with her should just be let go and consider this is the primary factor of why she is seeking conflict and to just let it go and it will pass.
  23. @Daniel Balan I wouldn’t say tier 2’s main characteristic is open mindedness. There are plenty of open mind people like Joe Rogan who will still go along with some edgy trend and gobble up tons of shit. Open mindedness is one characteristic of it but in my opinion tier 2’s main characteristic is balancing that non-material truth, intrinsic value, god, whatever you want to call it with the sort of material dualistic survival based truth, creating a yin and yang / Wu Wei balance. Tier 2 is no different than what we are trying to do here in our personal lives but from a much larger macro perspective on politics and the formation of society aligned with truth.
  24. Israel planning to build more settlements in the Golahn heights. No surprise there.