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Being in the center and having good logistics will help a lot in terms of having a place to go and really just close out the night in general. You can get away with an uber that’s like 20 mins or so, maybe a bit longer if you guys are having fun in the uber. But yeah it’s not rocket science. Obviously certain things will work better in your life based on the location.

It’s so annoying. You lay out a reasonably decent model of how love works in relationships and of course there’s some guy always going “there’s only one tho, you ain’t going deep enough” junk that pollutes half the threads here, while some here actually want to widen their perspective and share useful and nuanced information on aspects of life. Typical.

Dems are just so spineless. They adopted such a bizarre identity where they disowned all masculine elements to the point now where it’s just a genuinely cringy and weak party. I don’t feel like a man associating with Dems. I want a party that is strong and champions human rights but also embraces manhood, male leadership and diversity without going so far to the left where we have transexual rainbow hair people and all the weird far left culture stuff as its face. Many Dems have completely torched all the good things about appealing to traditional conservative family values and instead took on a wild experiment of self expression. All they had to do is be less gay and be less soft and make the party about the 99% who are being exploited by billionaires. But instead the party has to be about giving gays or black women voices and letting guys step back to let them lead. The party has a massive image issue and it’s as confused about its identity as much as many of their lgbtq voters. In short Dems need to drop all identity politics and become a party about fighting for democracy, human rights and anti corruption, a return to the working man union party.

First off I read what you had to say and I can tell you’re facing some challenges in your life. I understand where you’re coming from. I struggled a lot to socialize and get sex in my early 20s as well. Especially in these days where it seems the rules for society and socializing are constantly being rewritten and whatnot. I have a few lessons I learned that I hope can maybe help you see this from a wider perspective. I think first is that it would be very beneficial for you to recognize you are creating all your emotional pain. It’s your belief system. There’s people out there who are in a similar situation as you but it does not bother them because in their belief system they do not believe they are lacking value because their needs for intimacy aren’t being met. I’m not saying it’s wrong to feel how you do, and I’m not criticizing you at all. I’m simply wanting to draw your attention to this suffering structure you are indeed creating, because in a counter intuitive way you creating this internal pain is actually making it harder for you to tap into your true and authentic power. You’re so fixade on these things you wish were different and any associated beliefs around them that you aren’t aware that is pulling you from finding some resolution here and moving forward the best way possible. I would ask yourself why you believe this whole thing is a problem? What do you believe about yourself? I would imagine you have some beliefs around you not being good enough or your life lacking something because you aren’t socializing / experiencing intimacy as much as you would like. You have to address those beliefs and realize that regardless of your sex life your value is unaffected. Your value and worth and life just is and sex does not somehow make you better or make it so that you aren’t “missing out.” You are exactly where you’re supposed to be always and that’s ok. In what way does creating painful emotions in your life on this issue somehow help you find resolution for it or gain more sex? I think you are punishing yourself and would benefit from being on your own side and being there for yourself during challenges like this. Now apart from what I just wrote, which is probably the most important stuff to focus on because it is your foundation, you can look towards setting intentions. You want to have more sex. That’s a fine intention to have and sex is nice to have sometimes. What now are some things you can do to have this come into your life. Be honest with yourself, what are some mindsets or ways of looking at life that would more likely bring you closer to this? What are some logistical changes you could build up to? Most importantly in what ways are you sabotaging yourself from living in your flow and effortlessly doing the things that are right for your life to bring about more sex?

@zazen You failed to mention any of the long term consequences Russia faces for continuing to fight. Stop this RT take. It’s been happening since 2022, first with this war only going to last to a few days to now how Europe is making terrible long term decisions. Moving the goal post always. Both sides are going to face major problems and a loss in a standard of living.

Because it isn’t about perfection. You can know something works and even be living truthfully and still make some mistakes. I do not believe in enlightenment in the way this word is often used and the way people frame things here. To me there is a way of life and a state (you could maybe label it a state) which is the byproduct of living the way. But it opens so many doors to the unknown where this term enlightenment in an of itself is like infinitely evolving, infinitely unable to be labeled, it breaks down and starts to dissolve itself. So all that is left is just pointing towards it. I think if you are looking for people to learn from, asses how humble they are, how honest they are, how kind, balanced and flexible they are and most importantly if what they are saying can be applied to your life to make it better, peaceful and more authentic.

This is a belief system I choose sometimes as well, as a straight guy in a society which tells us more is better. I’ve noticed I definitely want more and more beautiful women, and I’m getting married to a woman who is very beautiful and who loves me! Why isn’t one enough? It doesn’t help being surrounded by beautiful women and women knowing I’m getting married who then want my attention more and more knowing I’m in a relationship. Single women are absolute devils around taken men. It’s a form of corruption where we as men think we need more and more women to fulfill something in our lives and it’s a way the ego sort of hijacks the openness and excitement that the soul gives to new possibilities. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with exploring sexuality and sleeping with various women. Just something seems off when you get a guy bending all sorts of social agreements and whatnot, perhaps in a somewhat dishonest way considering it’s like signing a contract then trying to change the terms after when you have more power. I’m going to be careful going into the future because I know there are some women I’d absolutely be tempted to cheat on my fiancé with if they came for me. I have to choose not to be corrupted and let go of all this glamours instagram fantasy stuff, that more beauty from women will make my life better, when I know deep down what will make my life better is being honest about the long term authentic connection and long term vision for building a family with someone who loves me is more important. Because at the end of the day beauty fades and after a guy busts a nut he sees more clear what he’s doing when he throws out his loving monogamous relationship for a bit of passionate fun with a tease. Audrey is kinda doing this by wrapping it in spirituality. He basically has gotten his wife to agree to him having a mistress.

What can’t you control? You did take Ayahuasca so while I do agree there were aspects of that state change, while on ayahuasca, which you couldn’t control, you are still responsible for it. You chose to alter your state taking ayahuasca. What now in this moment can you not control? Those benefits sounds really good.

But don’t conflate relationships with love. They are two separate things. Love is not a commodity that can be given or taken away. It is hard to put into words but it is truth, it is the sun. You can recognize this sun within yourself and clear the clouds and then choose to act in a way in which you shine, regardless of conditions you honor or what needs you have which you may be pursuing. A mom shows signs she is experiencing this sun within herself by caring for her baby and treating it well. You can love and still have conditions. A mom experiences herself and cares for her child and mirrors back to the baby the love the baby has within itself. All relationships revolve around the same thing where you may tap into various aspects of your true self more than with others based on the arrangement of them. For example, you may not see this as much in your mailman but if you stopped for a moment you still may have love for their existence and wish them well in life just as much as any other person. You may see this more apparently in your wife though who you live with and relate to often and have various things you share together and various needs you fulfill for each other.

How is the prioritization of truth here very limited? All you have in relationships ultimately is communication and if you are doing that honestly you are prioritizing truth…. From my POV you are making distinctions I see no point in. Existential truth? What? What is existentially true in a relationship is when two people are communicating truthfully which includes communicating your conditions honestly and finding what is in harmony with each other, like I said. Yes, a relationship has needs that need to be met, how does that make it less true? I do not align with your model to be honest or your application.

So what is the point of you changing your state and going to the spirit realm? What is the benefit for you? In what way is this true for you and better for your life as opposed to before?

You look at it far too black and white from my point of view. I never said there weren’t conditions nor that they should not exist. Recognizing there are conditions, meeting those in a relationship and prioritizing truth and open communication in balance with them is living from truth, including if it leads to the relationship ending. Since when is removing conditions entirely what makes something truthful? You see this is probably where we disagree. This is living out of balance and chasing an ideal / perfection, an idea of what true love should be. True love in a relationship is prioritizing truth, which has room for conditions. You can have a condition for a relationship that “I won’t be in a relationship with you if you are addicted to drugs” and still maintain love as yourself. That is true if you live by that, and if both people are living by these conditions and being themselves (love), that is a relationship built on truth.

Will Trump even finish his term?

You don’t receive love ever because it is not a commodity you can give or take. Love is what you are if you so choose to see through any lies or barriers you’ve created. You experience yourself and then in your relationships you show signs you are experiencing yourself to your partner / wife / husband / kids, etc. Maybe through words or actions which remind them or point them towards experiencing themselves which is also love. So yes, if you prioritize your true self and seeing through any barriers, and you build your relationships on truth then your relationships will in turn be far more authentic and true and be much less about conditions and much more about truth.

Leo has a lot of young men that follow him and look up to him. I really enjoy reading what Leo has to say here sometimes cause he’s a good writer and an interesting guy. But I definitely do not agree with many things he says and don’t condone his spiritual path for everyone. My path is very different from his. But it’s to be expected. You are basically at the house of Leo right now, it’s his website so you get his biggest fanatics and likeminded folk.

The thing is people have all sorts of funny associations with Jesus, including me. Christianity is a deeply corrupt religion and it is a religion that encourages group think and blind faith. Many people who follow Jesus don’t care about truth. Jesus the saint and of course his teachings are fine. If you are experiencing only positives and benefits from studying what Jesus teaches then that is a good thing. Many people turn it into a dogma though. Anyways good for you and hope you have more helpful trips.

Damn, Hogan died?

Many guys are getting priced out of dating

No never. I almost became a citizen though during COVID, they have a program for naturalizing if you are Jewish and it’s a form of lobbying the USA by getting middle class white Jews to become a citizen, way of getting soft power on the USA. It’s called Aliyah, it’s a joke itself as well. They have no way of actually proving who is Jewish or not so just having a letter written by your Rabi counts, doesn’t even have to be notarize or anything. A lot of wealthy Russians manufacture proof they have Jewish relatives in order to get the citizenship as well.

Israel is a colonial state justified through revisionist history, lies, victim mentality and a warping of sensibilities any rational/moderate person would not apply to their world view otherwise. Israel has to reach for justification somehow, how else would Europeans distantly removed over 800 years have a claim to land thousands of kilometers from where they are from? “God’s chosen people”, “This land was promised to us 3000 years ago”, it’s an extreme form of ideological perversion by spinning a really crazy story, reaching for baseless evidence through emotion and mythology, people eat it up because it’s under the guise of their religion. If you tried to justify mistreating other people in your daily life by doing this you would be labeled mad, delusional a compulsive liar. So you can’t make people like this feel safe because statistically they aren’t in any more danger than the rest of us. It’s ideology and that will eventually crumble.

Jews are safe in the west. It’s pure victim mentality and ideology running the Zionist show. I’m Jewish and I appear white and blend with every other white person in the USA. Unless you were shot in a mass shooting at a synagogue you really have nothing to worry about and statistically speaking that is just bad luck. Zionism is a sort of colonialism to satisfy a biblical ideology where white European and American Jews think they were promised land 3000 years ago. That’s ideology. They have lied to themselves and warped a narrative to throw out all sensible layers and facets to their foundation that they therefor have to now live out this crazy fantasy of being god’s chosen people and having to rebuild some kingdom their holy book promised to them 3000 years ago.

I heard there is a record number of Jewish USA citizens returning from Israel (those that got this second citizenship). They definitely aren’t doing it due to safety. White Jews blend in with all other white people. It’s pure ideology, at least for Jews from the USA.

Of course most of it is limiting beliefs. Basically all problems in life culminate in limiting beliefs. And what you cannot change (IE your height) you accept.

Unlearning is a process. I’m not talking about learning pick up techniques, I’m talking about cultivating a state of being, lifestyle, foundation and social understanding to attract a woman you will want to be with. That is not something many men just are able to do instantly by any means.

I’ve not found that to be true at all. If that’s your experience then that’s cool. Not denying that for you. For me it was a process, like learning to walk. A baby doesn’t one day stand up and run. It tries to walk and falls hundreds of times before being able to walk, and then it continues to fall a hundred more times before doing it well. For many men this is the process they go through when gaining social skills, building their finances and mastering their emotions before they are able to have success in dating. Some men don’t have to do as much while others need to do a lot more.