Lyubov

What do you mean made the first move? Like, actually did you make the first move or did you just give him to go ahead to make the move on you? You are just coming across the 99% of guys that aren't a match for you & are not interested in. Some guys are maybe doing it more boldly than others which you are put off by more, but you are giving a green light to those you like and overlooking the rest which many of the other men you don't like likely share with the ones you do. Every man is doing it with every woman he is attracted or interested in. A man can not read a woman's mind right away and uniquely tailor their approach specifically for every woman they meet. It's a waste of time trying to even think doing that is possible. A man won't be able to really start bespoke tailoring their approach till they are well into a first date with a woman and even then it's still tricky. Yes to a degree... I think men don't realize that a woman has actually made up her mind a bit before giving the green light for a lot of what's going on. For most men all the results they are gonna get are from women that were into them from the beginning and they were either smart enough to pick up on the signs or dumb enough to just keep doing till something stuck with the right woman. I think this is different from actually pursuing though which is essentially leading. from my experience women fall into three categories, green light, yellow light, red light. Green is they are showing signs of interest and showing they wanna be pursued by you (can be a bit coy sometimes), yellow is signs that are mixed (men should just proceed like it's green), and red light is they aren't interested and it's a no which is basically a waste of time to pursue. Yeah this is common for women to take longer time and I think that is fine. I don't mind waiting if I see she is a green or yellow light and is showing signs that she is interested. comes down to not being too attached and keeping the field open as a guy. don't count your chicks before they hatch. I've been hurt before thinking I had a green waiting for a girl for 2-3 months for her to turn red. don't expect a guy not to play the field in this time as well and not seem so devoted cause 3 months is a long time to wait and anything can happen.

yes and no... a lot of guys will read this advice and think it means they don't have to make conscious choices, lead, facilitate or anything. nah... that is not what letting her pursue means. all it means is giving her a little room to chase you as well. not so much that you seem aloof and the experience is wishy washy but also don't be so tight that your frame starts to cut off part of her artwork. I actually think depending on the girl some will prefer a more dominating/pursing man than others. For newbies I think they should be practicing pursuing since they are likely already too meek and don't know how to suavely get a girl to chase them. I think 70%-30% is a decent number to shoot for where sometimes you might go 60% and other times you need to ramp it up to 100%. it's dynamic, don't overthink it, just stick your your principles and embodied positive masculine emotions. Most men today should be practicing how to pursue healthy though. EDIT: after reflecting on this for a bit, this is pretty awful advice for 90% of men, like what another poster said in here. MOST men need to be practicing how to lead and pursue especially in late stage orange / green cities in the US. you're shooting your odds in the foot if you play passive like this and hold out for the one in a thousand chance for the girl that wants a passive man.

Mean green has so many clowns and people who have not really transcended with a healthy rational orange. Explains all the goofy stuff in with mean green types. They failed at orange so they went to green and wound up as mean green.

quite simply: spiritual ego

"why can't I realize my dream of having a straight guy in bed?!"

lol it's just "reaction andy" stuff welcome to twitch tv where 90% the site streams themselves consuming other people's content they didn't make and reacting to it.

Yeah I kinda agree with your definition, Psychosis to me is having a very weak reference point but not the sharp mind, wisdom and understanding to accompany it or ground oneself out.

Saw he dropped a new video today. Love his talks, gonna listen tomorrow.

I've heard some good things about it from a couple people who attended these a seminar of it. It can be quite beautiful and trance like.

I got shot #1 about 2 weeks ago, moderna. 2nd one is in two weeks or so from now

I've been here before and I feel for you. go easy on yourself. it does get better and you will come out much wiser and stronger from this.

*is for many people around the world *was for a small amount of people from developed countries who on a material level are more free which this thread is meant to challenge

I wouldn’t bust your ass trying to understand them if you feel you are ready to let them go. You probably have interacted enough with them to have some foresight about walking into something you would rather not be in so with regards to that you are probably as safe as you can be from being used or abused by a toxic person. From there usually thinking a ton about it just creates a bad mood in the topic. I’ve let this go cause I think it can be reduced. Most people we find toxic usually have something else from their past bothering them. That’s their business. Trying to contemplate it more tends to not lead me anywhere. I have a good head on my shoulders and have had enough social experience to know who is good to have in my life and who isn’t. From there it’s just forgiving and letting go the toxic people from my past and the times I was toxic.

When every human has such an inclusive view that they have basically embodied selflessness and have a love for everyone. That has to apply to 7 billion + people... don’t think scarcity is ending anytime soon

He’s an npc and can’t ever be awake lol only Leo is sentient

I like this guy

Won’t earn you many brownie points except in maybe tech / Silicon Valley

I agree if it’s in the moment. Most honest thing you can do if someone is being a bully. If you have already moved out though obviously it’s time to move on. this place sounded toxic as hell and you’re better off not being there. Honestly drop this spiritual talk bs. You gotta take a reality check and realize that someone hit you cause you tried to be friendly and you blame yourself for it? Ok... does that sound right?

the guy in this video is kinda a tryhard dope lol. doubt it. no one knows when and if it will crash or rise either. if they did they would be making money off the dollar not grifting financial & crypto advice.

did you know humans can get drunk by putting alcohol up their asses? the point is to exercise your ability to consciously choose what causes the least amount of harm to animals while still fulfilling your own nourishment. you have molars as well.

no.... cause that's all a lion can do humans dont have the same mind and limitations a lion does also if you read my post I made an exception for people living in less developed countries and don't have that same privilege and material options. obviously my post does not apply to a farmer that can only grow rice and eat chickens.

lol looks like a dead insect is stuck to the lens

you're playing with fire. there is a reason most retreats don't take people with schizophrenia and the ones that do are cowboy operations. they already have a very light reference point and you're gonna leave them w/o one which makes life unlivable.

depends how you define enlightenment

Brian rose is the #1 example on youtube that diving deep into consciousness work doesn't automatically mean you clean up all that shit in the closet. If anyone doesn't know who Brian Rose is, he started a youtube channel called London Real which at some point in 2019 really started to take off with viewership. He was interviewing some really interesting individuals like Sahdguru and Wim Hof and putting out several interviews that were quite beefy and interesting. He had over a million followers at this point and was covering topics on psychedelics and self improvement. Jump to 2020 as COVID lockdowns started. Brian started to collaborate with David Ike and Alex Jones. One of his interviews got taken down and he started a donation platform. He raised A TON of money to start some video platform that materialized in the most pathetic way and seemed to then be swept under the rug. Jump now to 2021 and he is running for London Mayor. Bellow Rebel Wisdom summarizes the events from 2020 till now and Brian Rose is a good case study of how just because you get into consciousness work that you automatically aren't a saint like some people think.