Lyubov

I'm honestly getting tired of the "don't know themselves" and "it's just trauma" talk. to some degree it is and with some patterns and people it is but I also think to some degree it isn't. people need to face the reality that they are willing to walk through some broken glass if it satisfies some deeply held desires the body wants without having to dress it up and ignore how silly yet crucial animalistic survival can be even for conscious people. don't need to spin some tale about it being trauma. just like you need to face killing a beautiful cute deer or cow to survive in the wild. doesn't have as much to do with trauma as some people are spinning in here but I guess that is how they wish to understand something that is more out of their control than they realize. more to do with wisdom not yet gained from life experiences. a lot of people will put up with BS if it means it satisfies a very powerful core desire the body needs to feel good and grounded. period.

the strong-toxic coin for men is the opposite of the hot-crazy coin for women that is often brought up. I'm not going to post one of those dumb meme graphs but basically a guy is willing to put up with higher and higher levels of crazy with a girl if she gets hotter and hotter. strong-toxic coin is just the male version.

thing is though many girls will settle for some toxic if it means strong. just depends what level of toxic is their cut off point. two sides to the same coin if a guy isn't conscious enough to be strong but also keep toxicity and narcissism in check. a really timid weak guy can be very sweet and selfless and not get any action. it's kinda ridiculous but whatever.

he had sexual assault charges brought against him too. not sure if they ever made it to court or not. dude will molest/rape if it means a body added to his tally, sure he loves isolating sloppy black out drunk chicks in a van too.

lol it just goes full circle and gets better and better every time it goes around... this stuff basically became the new normie mundane state for me and life just keeps getting sweeter and sweeter the more love I embody. If anything I feel bad for people who seem to have painted themselves so much into a corner that their death will likely be the only thing that releases them instead of it happening before while their body is alive.

Thanks! Will do

Yeah, if you live in a huge city there is basically a party out in the parks and streets during warm weather. Anywhere but there though.... the guy from wherever wandering around his local 1980s built mall should focus on changing his location, not focusing on improving his social skills.

I haven't made my mind entirely up on your back and fourths with him over the last several threads. You articulate some interesting points and I think you account for a more wider view of things like long term relationships and marriage, family building, etc. but I find what Leo saying is a sort of a pessimistic way of framing what has often times been my direct experience of things, especially in the beginning with girls, and it's hard to argue against that for me.

I never eat this stuff and I very rarely drink. I eat pretty healthy on the food side of things when I focus on it and avoid pizza and deep fried stuff. it's more-so the stuff that can barely be considered food. Soda / milkshake almost every day and tons of desserts, etc. I have a huge sweet tooth. Since my last thread I've cut all that out and so far it's going well. How come? I just got a supplement for liver cleansing. it has in it milk thistle artichoke leaf dandelion root turmeric beet root I think I'm gonna cut out coffee if it potentially hard on my liver while I try to lower these levels

learn to follow your intuition. american men probably think Vegas is a good example of a city with beautiful people lol. materially speaking it's good for US standards I guess. there are literally droves of the most beautiful women I've ever seen on every single corner on every single street in some of these south american and european cities.

lol day game is such a waste of time. you're like the farmer trying to plant a field of corn with a donkey and plow while your neighbor has one of those big ol fuck off john deer tractors. just get to a better place financially so you can move into a nice apartment with some bars one or two blocks away walking distance.

the concept of the "nice guy" is sort of a joke in it's nomenclature. "passive aggressive guy" is what the term actually means.

also god did not intend for regular cross species sex in his grand design besides for the will of some odd humans to be exercised. otherwise he would of allowed Mr.Hands to survive after willingly getting fucked by a horse...

you clearly have never met my neighbor's dog that will literally hump every leg it can get a hold of. on a slightly related note, this section of the forum just keeps getting weirder and weirder lmao

"I would never fuck that guy, he's bellow me" "he isn't my type, never" *proceeds to fuck and date said guy* I'm not trying to start a gender war but I can see through the coy bs a lot of women do. after gaining a ton of experience in this domain I frankly think it's just ridiculous the amount of stupid games that are played. people need to start trying to act as true as possible. it feels good. won't always lead to what you want though.

this is actually pretty good for getting an idea of how women think if you're interested in that, just if a guy wants to understand women better. consider it useful lol.

there aren't. dynamics have just changed and women are getting stronger so to speak so the masculine is kinda in the process of rebranding itself lol. it's like when your main gets a buff in one area but your friend's main hasn't gotten one so now you are beating their ass more cause they haven't learned how to adjust to the new meta. a lot of women don't need to marry a guy to survive now and if they choose not to it isn't frowned upon as much as it used to be.

not even watching the video. didn't that guy have sexual assault charges brought against him? find higher quality resources for theory.

I think you should colab somehow with MAPS too, NGOs, etc to further along Psychedelics for use in society Conversations are interesting and all but it seems like with your audience you could really impact having stuff like MDMA, LSD, Mushrooms, etc hurried along with clinical trials and made legal for medicinal purposes as well as personal for people that wanna explore. talking all day is cool and all but making cultural change through these routes which directly affect people is the real deal

Agreed with avoiding dumb platforms that are just about debates and "got ya" discussions that are actually just debates. I think these platforms bellow will lead to interesting discussion - rebel wisdom - rich roll (for physical health talks) - psychedsubstance - russel brand ???

lol probably wanna be on $6000 a month there just to live comfortably and be able to save if you're single. although tbh I've never been to Vegas and a US city is one of the last places I would relocate to if I was wanting to improve my dating life. travel abroad to south america, europe or asia, it's literally 10,000x better.

yes, you do to a small degree depending on how forward/direct you are but it doesn't really matter cause you will filter out the girls that aren't interested in fucking with you now and if you have an abundance of opportunity to approach and meet girls it won't matter if tons slip by cause your approach wasn't tailor fitted to them. sometime due to life circumstances you may not have the perfect opening for every girl and everything won't always go your way. it doesn't matter, focus on your principles, energy/emotions and opportunities to meet girls.

nah, disagree... sometimes a girl won't be into you. period. maybe you look like her psycho ex and there is just no getting past that with her given you're someone she just met or maybe she at a place emotionally where she will literally turn down anyone except maybe her dream man. not everything is always about what the man did/didn't do. this 100% responsibility jargon is something I remember hearing a lot in my early pick up days and at a certain point it became unhelpful/untrue once I had a broad understanding of this domain.

This is a common misunderstanding amongst spiritual circles. Never get angry, etc. Anger has a place at the table just as much as every other feeling. That’s a good thing or you would be walked over by bullies lol. The point is to not hold on, let it flow and be conscious. It’s a okay to get angry and stand up for yourself if you are being abused!

accurate. after initiation you realize the rest is state chasing / appearance chasing. one's life becomes a psychedelic trip. embodiment process then unfolds with consciousness permanently raising upward and upward. subsequent trips after are just light shows and reference point drops or interesting material like reading a new book, you already know how to read from the first trip, awakened consciousness stays the same since the initiation breakthrough. nothing has yet to top first breakthrough. every other trip is like a refresher or a change of scenery.