Lyubov

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  1. I don't rank women with numbers either or talk like there is some objective scale. It's kinda ridiculous and the guys that are unconscious enough to do it are unwittingly putting themselves on a scale as well with an end goal they'll never reach. It does tremendous subconscious harm. Making life for themselves and getting what they want way harder as well but some people unknowingly like to make things hard for themselves cause they got nothing better to do. It's fine to evaluate looks according to your own preferences and state those preferences though.
  2. I’d look over how much savings you have in the bank and also even consider studying if you can. Maybe you can study for a year there intensive to learn the local language some. From there lol just your CV. A lot of jobs are online these days so see what’s available in your current country that let’s you work remotely. Do you have a university diploma? I’d get your education and finances in a bit of working order before traveling. You could always look for jobs in these countries but it’s not really possible if you don’t know the local language. There are opportunities though to get here. I think the student path is a good one if you are young and haven’t finished all your studies yet.
  3. Well, I would say it will depend more on the city. Any of them that has a developed city will be great. Poland, Russia, Hungary, Czech, Baltic states, Romania, even heard capital of Ukraine is great. That's the thing about Eastern Europe. There will be one or two cities in each country that is modern and nice but the rest of the country is sketchy/ghetto. Society will have stage blue/orange vibes with extremely rare green circles in the capital.
  4. lemon slices, a tiny bit of ginger, honey and hot water is also a really good drink for this I'm feeling better too but still have 37c fever. Hope I'll be better Monday.
  5. Not that hard at all. I wouldn’t do it if you are like OLD though. Hospitals aren’t as amazing as say the US but if you are in your 20-40s you’ll be just fine. Plenty of language schools to study the local language by day and it’s not a op expensive. It will take some adjusting if you don’t like traveling but if you like traveling I’d say it’s amazing. Having been to Asia id say Eastern Europe is easier to adjust to.
  6. I’m not sure on that. I just don’t feel ready for it. I’m young. It’s kinda separate. I see love and relationship as separate. You can love someone to pieces and not want what they want or be on the same path and you can be on the same path with someone and align in some domains but have lost all passion and not be that into them. Loving her more or less wouldn’t change this it’s just a life path difference. I’ll mull it over and see if I’m willing to compromise on this and go with the flow and settle down or not. Idk man.
  7. I sometimes feel bad knowing I may be wasting my gf's time. idk if I wanna get married or have kids and she really wants this. I love her though and we both very much wanna be with each other. she's 26 so realistically she has like maybe 4-6 more years before she enters the "dating divorced men" phase if she isn't hitched yet. is it a man's fault for wasting women's time? I feel I'm pretty up front about my long term plans, no kids or marriage in my early 30s.
  8. Nah I’m super into her ? I’m just a horny bastard ….
  9. Move to a place where beautiful women are the norm. Digital nomad lifestyle. Join me. So many USA guys thinking they have the best looking women when they are a dime a dozen here in Eastern Europe ? Will literally see physically fit attractive men dating the most average looking women in the USA. The only exception to this is if you’re rich like Leo and have time to go out to exclusive night clubs. You’re playing on hardcore mode if you’re in the USA and want abundant beauty and you don’t have some badass job or some inner connections. Stop playing games. You aren’t going to think your way to abundance like some BS puas teach. Just like you aren’t going to think a million into your bank account. You are either rich or you aren’t. You can either skip from beautiful girl to beautiful girl and not worrying about it or you can’t. Your environment is super foundational and if you are in a country where women don’t put a ton of effort into their looks then good luck fighting over the top shelf that you and like 1000 guys are dming at a time.
  10. She made bank and is gone now. She made like 5 million dollars or more I think.
  11. Men are most sexually attracted to women in their 20s. This does not tend to stop for most until they get much older and then it’s women in 30s when they are like 50 and then 40s when they are like 60. Guys that are like 50 and still going after early 20s are a bit creepy though. They need to grow up and stop with the Peter Pan lifestyle. I plan to date chicks in their 20s till I’m at least in my mid 40s.
  12. My temperature is back down to 36c. I'm taking some vitamins now. Feeling better. I think I had covid and then I got the winter flu. Cause the first week was more like COVID symptoms. I even lost my smell but it's back now. But I then got sick again with slightly different winter cold symptoms. May have picked up what my gf's roommate had. Sucks. Finally feeling a bit better. Will rest till Monday. How you feeling? @Preety_India
  13. The thing is there is value in going to retreats like this. They provide a strong container for people with weak psychology and who don't know what the fuck they are doing. Hell, even half of the budget retreats don't even know what they are doing. Tons of people have left fucked up (often mentally but unfortunately sometimes physically) after going to some cowboy Ayahuasca retreat. The actual market value of professional safe Psychedelic therapy isn't really clear yet. It's in it's infancy and poorly overseen. In the meantime cowboy retreats and these rip off retreats will flourish. I wonder how much a solid 3 ceremony retreat would cost in 30 years from now with trained facilitators and therapists? I'd imagine it would still cost a solid 5-10 grand clinically speaking at least in the US if it isn't covered by insurance. Mental health services are very expensive.
  14. actualized def could have been milked A LOT more than it has been
  15. you will learn more about women being in an LTR than if you were to be single and practice cold approach. think long term investment. you can go through phases and you can also sleep around in the future if you so wish.
  16. that's mental. what a waste of 20 grand. can buy a tab of lsd for like $10. none of these guys are above anyone. matt kahn has started offering online "healing sessions" for $400 a pop. No one is worth that much money to talk on zoom for 30 minutes.
  17. I got corona a couple weeks ago. I’m boosted. The thing won’t go away though. Just constant lethargy and small cough and aching body. Seems like the never ending cold/flu. No fever though, can still work some. When tf will it end ?
  18. Yeah I can’t stand it. I felt 100% twice now, then it comes back in. This is the third wave over the last 3 weeks for me. It’s getting ridiculous. I can’t be going out in the winter like this.
  19. Drinking that fever medicine you mix with hot water. Just confused how I thought I was over covid and it came back. It kinda is hitting me in waves where I’ll feel fine and then I’m sick again….
  20. Have a fever now and Just ache all over. Gf tested positive for corona few weeks ago. I got it as well with typical covid symptoms. I got almost 100% better but felt it most go away last weekend. Felt quite good. She started feeling ill again with a cough. I brought her food and medicine and ended up getting it too. These symptoms are different from the fist phase. I think we had corona and it weakened us and now we have a typical cold. Just feel beat up fever. Thankfully no throat ache or stomach pain or even that much of a headache. Just fever, chest cough and sore body. Praying it passes by the weekend ?
  21. ayahuasqueros and traditional shamans smoke a fuck ton of tobacco. you can be at a level of development such that you may be quite conscious but lacking some piece of knowledge that has a profound affect on your being. some people just get lucky. it's better to look at wider numbers. people that generally eat like him face a lot of health issue. that much is known. can you roll the dice and try to get away with it? sure and you may but it's better to not take risks like this.
  22. This is really one of those things that just needs to be tested and experienced more by more people from all sides until we know the right way to go about it. This is uncharted and new territory. Adolescent trans rights is obviously something we should explore but the processes of how, what’s safe, whats unsafe, what’s partisan, what’s naive green, what’s draconian blue, etc will just take more time to figure out. I’m not entirely for a mental health system that just blindly encourages transition for adolescent teens but also I think it should absolutely be an option for those that have been keenly identified and are fully ready to make a transition. Green wants their cake and to eat it too sometimes. The whole sports thing for example is ridiculous. If they have been through puberty don’t just act like it’s all good and in the name of compassion and acceptance will 100% solve all problems. These things are nuanced and require building up some systems so everyone’s needs are properly and compassionately met.
  23. It still happens to me a bit still. I’ve realized it’s about how you look at it. It’s not that big of a deal, trust me. People hardly notice and no one is really judging you. It’s not even getting that much in the way of you getting what you want. Just expose yourself to lots of experience and realize no one is judging you or cares. Imagine getting exactly what you want from socializing and at the same time still feeling a bit nervous. People tend to grow weary cause they had a few things that didn’t go their way. Don’t let that happen. Keep socializing and let go and go with the flow and you’ll start to realize what control you have and how you can lead it.
  24. We really are using “free public toilets” as a plus for a country now? Have you guys SEEN the doors on them in the US? Enjoy having some stranger touch themselves to you taking a dump.