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Everything really is connected from this perspective and I accept this. I don’t think we need to purity test everything but just focus on ourselves and try to be as honest as possible. I think porn will have some degree of people being dishonest and mistreating people but at the same time also have honesty to it and allow opportunities for people. A close friend of mine did porn and only fans and she sits in over 300k followers on instagram. She’s actually quite grateful for the adult industry and it’s afforded her and amazing life based off her natural beauty. I think we can engage with all aspects of life honestly to the best of our ability and we don’t have to go to such radical extremes to transcend. I like porn too, ok I’ll watch porn that’s well made and wasn’t made through exploitation. I eat animals too, I’ll try to not waste meat and choose meat that was once part of an animal that was treated well.

Thanks for sharing and I agree. I like your cat story as well and to be honest it isn’t so different from what I’m experiencing. I agree I think I need to really let her go and grieve and allow this inner resolution to unfold. I accept this has ended. I do not accept it has ended, but I am accepting that I do not accept this has ended. I do not accept she is gone but I accept I do not accept she is gone. I’m creating longing and will self inquire on this. I think the reason losing a loved one due to a break up can be so devastating and challenging is because there’s just so many dynamics that come to the surface. All the relationship issues and unresolved stuff, inner child issues, logistical stuff for example one person realizes how they have been neglecting their career due to this relationship, kids and money and divorce papers, just all this stuff that needs to be dealt with. I think I’m in a very good position in life given this break up. It hasn’t ruined me financially and I did not have kids with her. I think now it’s really being present for myself and understanding to myself and really listening, without going to extremes.

IC = Inner child ME = Adult me IC: I cannot accept my ex is not prioritizing me anymore. ME: Why do I want to be with someone who won’t prioritize me? IC: I don’t believe I can do better ME: Why do I believe I cannot do better than her, a person who does not want to prioritize me anymore? IC: because I believe there is no one else like her ME: I do agree that there is no one else like her, every human is unique, why does that prove that I cannot do better than her? Wouldn’t the next person I’m with be unique and no one else like them? IC: Yes, the next woman would be unique and no one else like them, but I’m not sure I will meet someone I will want to love as much as her. ME: If I believe it is absolutely true that I will never meet another woman that I will want to love as much as her, then I absolutely should keep fighting for her. I did some self inquiry and had a breakthrough, i realized the belief holding me back is that I believe I won't find a woman that I will want to love as much as her. I found the video above and am going to focus on this perspective. Can any of you speak on this? Please only if you have actual lived experience similar to mine and not some goofy ideology about game. If you went through the end of a long term relationship and then one day you met someone else you loved as much as your ex, if not more so. Is this possible? My inner child believes it's not exactly possible or at least the chances are low but my adult mind knows I could meet another woman I will love just as much as my ex and be able to build an even longer lasting relationship built on honesty and integrity. When did you turn the leaf on this belief that you may not meet someone you want to love as much as your ex? I loved this woman like the sun, we became one for years, we were everything until we weren't

wow thanks, I looked it up and this channel seems really helpful.

Thanks for the replies and different perspectives everyone. This experience has been one of my greatest teachers. That one girl who was so special and beautiful can be really hard to let go. I am not going to pretend like I’m a player even thought I do have other options. We have these beliefs we hold and I know there is a degree of believing she completes me. Very normal I think when you grow so close. I think many of you can relate when you’ve spent years with someone. Working on so many issues together. So much sex and reflections of love. It really is like a family member going away.

Does it have to take years though? Seems like the only thing keeping it that way is myself if I choose so. I’m already open minded some to new experiences. The thing is I do know what I want in a woman to some extent. Some of it is what she was like, some of it is different, I’m also open to being surprised. I know there won’t be another like her cause every person is unique but also I know I can find someone who fulfills everything like she did, perhaps even more.

https://youtube.com/@alexhormozi?si=sCsCaXUGLxcWAVp6 This guy. He says he’s worth 100 million USD. There are so many people scamming and lying in this field. It’s generally not an honest field so I’m trying to learn raw business and marketing from an honest person. The issue I’ve encountered is to start learning I need to invest a decent amount of time into it but sooner or later I may realize the person I’m listening to is a liar. So where can you learn actual raw business skills and marketing from someone who is honest and not lying about their pedigree?

Why do you want to leave your body? I would personally be more focus on nurturing it and finding balance with it. Cause at times it can be hard to experience body.

I had a conversation with my parents yesterday and it was challenging for my inner child cause I realized how far apart I’ve grown from them. I live in an entirely different country. I have my career and path to focus on. My siblings all live in different places. We all have different interests and stuff we are focusing on in our lives. My dad is 74 years old. I really only have it in me to visit once every year or two due to the distance and where I’m at in life. I can see how time really changes everyone and that once whole family we grew up in as children will one day split up. Mine basically has, not sure we will all get together again, maybe? It doesn’t seem at the time it will happen but eventually it does. I suppose this is where Wu Wei comes in and practicing non attachment and acceptance for change. It’s a little hard to accept though. Can anyone relate?

Stop these stupid word games and focus on your life and you will discover love in the divine sense and realize how real you are.

Categorically false. Israel never has had any intention to make the Palestinians a part of their country. Their right wing does not allow for that and the left wing knows how untenable that is. It’s a Jewish state by their own definition. The demographics would completely change if they did that and Israel claims it’s a democracy. How do you imagine elections being held with a majority of Palestinians voting now? They want an apartheid state, to greatly limit the rights of Palestinians through military force, and to slowly ethnically clean the original inhabitants off the stolen land that is now called Israel.

What’s your life purpose? Do you have any reason to get up in the morning? How do you treat sleep? Do you get a reasonable amount? What are you eating before bed? Are you exercising regularly? How’s your diet? Do you have any unresolved emotional issues, traumas or anything you are spending a considerable amount of time creating painful emotions over?

When you look at just how advanced an alliance like NATO is, then a union like the EU, it’s pretty damn impressive what western governments have been able to accomplish together. Nothing else comes close to this between different states.

It won’t really work or be remotely comparable to NATO. alliances like this require massive amounts of funds and development. It’s more for show. Countries like Iran aren’t really developed enough to carry out complex alliances like this. BRICS is another one. It’s more for show. In actuality basically nothing has materialized from this alliance. In reality advanced alliances are very challenging to build between states.

This one is particularly bizarre. A white girl from USA thinks this is her native land.

Make sure your plate is full before you pass out food to others.

It’s because Reddit crowd has a huge Zionist community on it. Reddit isn’t some diverse eclectic community. It’s largely centrist and favors western imperialist values and foreign policy. You got Israelis in there who are openly atheist but still make the same goofy biblical argument how they own this land cause their distant ancestors of 2000 years ago were expelled from it. The state of Israel becomes intellectually a joke and rationally untenable the moment you read any textbook from a “History of the Middle East” university course.

Talking to zionists on Reddit is wild. These guys really be reaching back to biblical times (1000+ years ago) as justification for their ownership of this land. USA really needs to defund all military spending on Israel.

I am going to do my first Airbnb this autumn. Have any of you been able to build a small business managing a few AirBnBs?

I need to do some self inquiry on the whole money / vocation domain of life. Basically where I'm struggling is my understanding of money, vocation and the actions we take to earn money. I would like my actions I take to 1) earn money 2) something I enjoy doing / my inherent genius gifts & uniqueness / deep meaning to what I'm doing 3) support the lifestyle I want to live / be reasonably sustainable The problem I am creating though is the actions I take may only have 1, maybe 2 of the things I listed above. I'm trying to reconcile this misalignment. How can I go about resolving this and get money energy flowing into my life in a way I love? Right now my current work is just 1) and 3) but not 2) at all and I realized I want all 3.

When will they sentence trump for trying to overthrow the election?

Yes, this is the case. I prefer to learn from people who are honest though and don’t have to fluff their story up. Seems like there is a debate over whether or not his business are/were legit or if he was a fake course / snake eating it’s own tail kinda guy. His free content teaches basic business principles and mindsets which aren’t a secret and don’t really change so I think just for this he’s good.

Thanks for this perspective. It’s really helpful.

I agree that I believe he is being honest in his videos. The thing is a lot of people mistaken videos for the real persons. They think their guru hasn’t told lies in their life before. Lying is going against truth which is what spirituality is about. So what I’m saying is people who idolize gurus have these expectations for their guru that they can never live up to since their guru is human and will make the mistake of lying at some point in their life too.

Do you believe it’s true or false that sahdguru has ever told a lie, big or small before? I can assure you the man has probably lied once before in his life. Humans make the mistake of lying. If anything it is managing the expectations of painting these gurus as perfect saints. Half of them made the same damn mistakes you have, if not worse.