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Go out a lot, without any expectations Ground yourself in your truth Go have fun Give yourself permission to try new things Great things (miracles) happen when you least expect them if you are consistently showing up and caring for yourself

How's the job search going javfly?

sure, but many people don't see it that way. they hold it up to their eye and it's all they see, coloring everything for them.

@Hardkill you should consider really living your life purpose and making yourself your #1 priority. Find hobbies. Look for a girlfriend. Start a family. Change the world. Do what you want to do and love to do. You are focusing way too much on this issue and failing to see the limitless possibilities and wellbeing that surrounds it. This is how you move on from this chronic online political stuff. Do you want to be happy and fulfilled? Focus on you not on politics.

You want pure green living, go live on a commune or in a hippy village and grow wheat grass and raise chickens. Our entire modern survival process is built on stage orange beliefs. Most of where the money flows today is towards stuff that was pushed heavily with stage orange values (investing, tech). It’s basically inescapable. How can we possibly live under green with the current system in place? It won’t be for a while until people move on from “hurr durr socialism bad.”

Let’s bring this down to reality. Honestly, what is the way forward here and the solution to this issue? I don’t see a solution as of now, not even if there’s a ceasefire. It’s gotten quite tangled. The west does not trust Putin to stick to any ceasefire, he can just rearm and go in for more land in 3-5 years. NATO also would not commit to a definitive defeat of Russia (pushing Russian army back to 2022 Ukraine borders + destruction of military positions in Crimea) due to fears of escalation and nukes. They have given Ukraine enough to create a buffer and forever war. Really, what is the solution here? Ukraine capitulation would create an existential problem for NATO, a real risk Putin would test them by attacking a Baltic state. Western leaders seem scared and move slow giving Ukraine what it needs to push Russia back. Ukraine has proven itself it’s capable of defeating Russia when given the technological advantage, where there is plenty of on the NATO side.

Didn’t this guy have sex with an under age girl?

Accept what is. Can you accept reality exactly as it is? Use this as a test to see how committed to truth YOU are. The changes you can make and what you can control is clear if you allow it to be.

Yes they do? They were trained on the HIMARS system which is modified to launch ATACMS. How familiar are you actually with the actual technology that has been given to Ukraine as well as the training provided? Or are you just making assumptions? Ukraine has been well funded and trained to use the weapons provided to them. NATO is not taking any direct action in this war. They are providing weapons, training and knowledge based assistance as guidance. It is the Ukraine state and Armed forces making decisions and responding.

I do agree that RFK, from my point of view, lacks integrity. I think if his campaign was based in truth he would have sat out in the spirit of his campaign. Since then it seems he’s sort of wanted to capitalize on the attention and eyes on himself, he’s been able to enrich his life and career aligning with Trump momentum.

Dude I honestly can’t tell if you are playing a gimmick here now at this point or serious with your hysteria. Calm down. Log off the internet. Turn off your tv. Go for a run, hit the weights. Work on your life purpose. Go with the flow. This worrying you’re doing is a bigger threat to you than a Trump presidency.

you should consider dialing it back

Matt Gaetz as AG is wild

to live in the unknown, beyond all concepts, is a beautiful thing

Thanks for the supportive words. That is true, I would prefer not to jump back into a relationship. I think it's good to take a little time just to make new friends and socialize and whatnot. I am not against dating again and I think it's good to allow for a natural flow so I may be ready sooner than I realize but I think it's important to learn these life lessons from the last relationship. I think the way forward to meet new women would be to be friendly when I go to the beach and just have no expectations, just focus on socializing and it will come to me like my last relationship did.

The right thing to do now is reflect and rebuild, not revolt. Dems waste for too much energy on shit like this.

I know this is a very controversial take but what men are talking about when they talk about cheating is just having some sexual fun with another woman. Most men will never cheat of the heart, only of the body. I don’t know if women in general are open minded enough to understand it but instinctually they are when sexually with a leading man because it’s not uncommon for them to share a girlfriend with their man but it’s not common for a man to share the woman he’s in a relationship with another man. We don’t mean leaving a woman type cheating. We mean enjoying our freedom and having just sex with other women. Men are extremely loyal when it comes to their heart and will even do crazy stuff even for their ex girlfriend or wife who they may be in love with years later. It’s pretty taboo for a man to flat out leave his wife for a younger woman. I think that’s terrible. But psychologically I understand why men want to have fun on the side with another woman, but still be in a relationship and be with their main woman who they want to build a family and future with. Basically love only one woman but have fun with many.

Could be, I’m just drawing comparisons here for conversation sake, maybe there’s something to learn here. Just seems form my POV men struggle in specific situations when it comes to moving on and rebuilding their lives and I wonder why that is. I don’t doubt there’s things I’m not seeing on the side of women. I completely agree that it boils down to belief system. I wonder why so many men have self sabotaging beliefs when it comes to dating. I’m only speaking from experience here. When my ex and I broke up I could see there were a lot of men in our larger social circle who were interested in having sex with her and flirting because she is a beautiful young social woman. Now does that mean these men will lead to commitment or being what she wants in a partner? Perhaps not. So maybe I’m seeing something she doesn’t value or care about. Like you said you make a good point. Just because women are getting all this attention , like they have a pick from the buffet doesn’t mean they will find what they want or will enjoy. I do think having all these options though does help a lot of women see more opportunities in life. I think men will be very social isolated and not see as many opportunities due to their limiting beliefs so they will choose to become very socially isolated and that’s very damaging. Women seem much better at social support circles and relating to other people. I can speak from experience I have to push myself a bit to really stay social and keep that area of my life healthy while I know a lot of women that is effortless for them. Not saying I’m a victim or anything just it’s interesting these differences.

I disagree. It is impossible to compare your spirituality to anyone else. Do not fall into this guru trap. Sahdguru is just a guy teaching spirituality and if it helps you, I'm happy for you. But don't fall into this trap. It's impossible to be "more enlightened" than anyone else.

@Ampresus Hey dude I missed your post. Thank you so much. Reading it was helpful. I actually really liked the Bible verse you shared. I am not Christian but it got me thinking this verse. I’ve realized at the core of my problem is basically these 2 beliefs 1) Without this person in my life I am unlovable, lacking value and unable able to cope in life 2) I do not want to accept and embrace uncertainty and change in life These two beliefs I hold keep this issue from being entirely resolved and closing the door 100% They also tie back to the Bible verse you quoted since the two beliefs I stated in essence are basically the core issues for most people in life, believing they are lacking value for a reason outside themselves and not accepting uncertainty and change I think it’s eye opening to write this

There’s this one girl. Well, she’s not just a random girl to me but my ex gf and we were together from summer 2021 to spring 2024. I’ve done a ton of growth in terms of accepting things have ended between us but damn this still is the one thing in my life I need to really keep myself accountable with and support myself through. We were in a sort of situation-ship after breaking up and up until this week. This relationship has meant so much to me and she’s been family. We lived together over two years. Letting her go and moving on has single handedly been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in my life. Can anyone relate? I hope one day this will be just another chapter in my life and my mind will be at peace about it.

This is childish and my post was as well. I'm bringing out a pretty immature side of myself since this election and I don't like it. These women are free to do as they wish. I literally do not care what they do and I think it's ridiculous what some of them are saying, just as I think the men going their own way movement is a "blame the other side" copout.

Just a photo of shoes that look alright is difficult. we need to see fit pics, your body type, height, skin color, your personality a bit too. style is personal and just like clothing, one piece of advice doesn't fit all.

Enlightenment is a word and a belief. No words can be put on your spirituality in reality. It’s unique to you. I would say look to live your life with truth, honesty and integrity and you will know god this way daily.

I think you need to have a caring discussion with yourself about comparisons and why you choose to compare yourself to other people. Do you believe you have innate and true spiritual value that cannot be given or taken away?