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I mean it wouldn’t be that bad but who knows. I’m in good health and can support myself now paycheck to paycheck, have friends. I’ve found even just putting energy into thinking about this shit is a drag. I’d rather just go with the flow and make the best of whatever happens. I’ve never been good at prep for anything and every time something goes wrong in my life it’s always something I didn’t see coming. Like they say the stock market is really a source of anxiety if we wish to make it one, and to think there’s people so neurotic they follow it daily sweating bullets as it goes up and down.
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If you guys even knew the lows I hit before my glow up. I was a porn addicted incel until I was 25/26 years old. Never wanted to kill myself. It doesn’t even make sense. You will die one day, time will take you. Why not make the absolute best of what you have now? Do you believe you can’t? Why do think you need this exact degree to be successful? Even with that aside why do you believe you lack value? That’s the core issue. You are posting here so to me you’re probably more interesting than most people. You need to value yourself man. You are valuable bro don’t forget this.
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You could maybe make a case to me that suicide is justified if you have some incredibly painful late stage cancer where ever moment of your life is filled with physical pain, but man I’m telling you, get some perspective on this and you will see this just is not it bro. You sound like a young guy, spiritual because you’re here. Do you believe you have innate spiritual value no matter what? Why not connect with this. This is where your true talents and genius lie. Your life is just beginning man.
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I can see you are contemplating self harm and to be honest I would really take a deep breath on that and realize you are not a victim him. I can see passing this class meant a lot and you sound incredibly stressed. Stop this and just get out into nature. Take some breathes. Get some sun on your face. Look at your body, is it healthy? Can you walk? Take your shoes off and go walk in some grass. I’m telling you now from my perspective this is not worth it man. You’re a young guy and there’s so many amazing opportunities to life. I have the most worthless degree and could go totally broke at 34 next year but I’m happy. Every day I wake up. There’s challenges in my life but damn I’m telling you it’s such a gift and we are so lucky to be alive here. You are not a victim and you don’t deserve this type of self punishment. Stop this nonsense. You are valuable and you have value no matter what even if you pass a class or not.
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Couldn’t in theory I just hold and let it rise back up if I have an income that can support me? I don’t invest in ai and crypto it’s in stock like Pfizer and DuPont, old companies for essential stuff people always use.
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I’m so fucked if the markets crash, a lot of my assets are in individual stocks but it’s all blue chip stuff, old companies and whatnot that have been around a long time. I’ll have to pick up my old job if it gets really bad but I’m riding the waves and believe I can cope with whatever comes my way, I’ll survive. why is Vance a bad vp ? Seems like he’s just very basic
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I think it’s fair criticism to point out that lex platforms a chronic and blatant liar like Donald Trump. People vote for this guy though so obviously most people are fine with having a liar as a president. We are too idealist to think we would have anyone else as a leader though. Many of his other guests I don’t think have a lack of integrity, some may though. I think we are largely far more willing to accept blatant lies from a leader than we once were. We don’t remember pre 2016 when there was more honest and civil discourse in our USA politics. Then again things change and this disruption is a sign of evolution. I personally don’t like either candidate or American politics in general. We need honesty in our leaders, period. There’s a lot of unspoken games I assume one has to play when in politics. It’s bullshit but I hope we can evolve beyond this in the coming decades.
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Yes I would agree. It’s my ex after all. Not really expecting it to go anywhere. A bit of fun.
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My ex moved back in with me for a while and found a condom wrapper, cause I was sleeping with another woman, and now my ex is super into me. We are oddly getting along insane well. Partially due to resolving a lot of issues but she seems way more attracted to me. Nothing makes beautiful women notice a guy more than seeing him with other beautiful women.
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My tinder feed when I visit my parents in the USA.
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Exactly. And one lies through their teeth while the other one subtly twists things. Which to choose
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I hold them both to the same standard. Politicians across the board need to stop lying, flat out.
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He is a jellyfish that lacks integrity. These types will yap away and huddle low thinking that sweeping this stuff under the rug resolves it. People have no idea how bad it’s going to get if this continues and is not confronted. Law lacks truth in our society. We much return truth to law.
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Lex does not value truth. It’s not possible to occupy his position if one values truth and integrity, just my belief, I’m open to being wrong and other’s take on this.
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Not confronting obvious lies to me is not radical. The mass hysteria and lack of integrity in our society is what’s radical. Trump is a such a massive liar. His base even knows it. They did a survey and his whole base is aware he lies about every, just straight up lies, not even opinions on policy or how to do things, straight up lies. Our society doesn’t care cause he panders to their fears and culture war beliefs. So many people are ok with lies and a lack of integrity if it fits in with their us vs them narrative. This is the core problem. Extreme centrism is basically allowing so many lies into the conversation that the truth is muddied. Perhaps another way to look at it is to present everything and let the audience decide what’s true. Is it lex’s responsibility? Who knows. To me to be an extreme centrist is to not be aligned with truth but that’s just what I believe.
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Half of women will disqualify a guy for this reason alone then end up falling for a really cool broke guy and try to post rationalize why they fell for them. I think it’s the reason we can’t really care about any of this. Dating and attraction is very self biased and not conditional and impartial analysis isn’t afforded to everyone. Just don’t be pervy or rude. We all know guys just wanna fuck at first. This isn’t some secret. It takes a bit of time for two people to start to build something.
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Probably if they aren’t into you. What I noticed with women is you get away with everything and it’s laid out pretty clear on a silver platter if they want casual sex from you, and if they don’t they will make rules about how you can’t objectify them. I would just focus on building yourself up and not worry about the minutia like this unless you’re autistic or really poorly socialized and are constantly offended people with out of pocket comments.
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Yes, to a degree I want it to help people and I want to connect with other people who share my values.
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Well, you are in control of you and it sounds like you are giving your agency away to him. You're in control of your state and emotions and beliefs and what you do. So he isn't exactly doing anything to you by being a boring letdown. But when people go out together it does set the tone sometimes ofr the night and if you go out together you have to account for his vibe in your group. So if he is acting a certain way you don't appreciate just find someone else on the same page as you. simple.
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If this qualifies as new age then I’m down to be new age
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Could be, thing is new age to me looks mostly like a sub culture. Usually done by ethnic white people. It’s probably pretty easy to label really any white personality who build their identity around a sort of pantheistic / eastern religion (Hinduism), shrooms, hippy pants, communal potlucks, gentrification of beach towns in Thailand, the terrible music they listen to. I saw a funny meme that said people with ☮️ tattoos are really mean and selfish while people with 💀 tattoos are usually really nice and thoughtful. The irony.
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Lyubov replied to Princess Arabia's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Oh I like this, and you made another post the other day that was so good “suffering is aligning with lies” something along those lines you said. -
It’s impossible to be rejected. It’s a word and mental idea you can choose to align with or not. You can try to interact with her and she can she end she wants to interact back or not. If you want to label it with a heavy word like rejection which has the connotation of value, go for it but it isn’t helpful.
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If you want to look at it that perspective be my guest. Shit in one hand, wish into the other. See which one fills up first I suppose.
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Pussy is not my god, I don’t base my value in the approval and praise of women. stop projecting your insecurities. I’m engaged with life and honestly manifesting what I desire and working on myself daily. Truth actualized in reality. You are in the dating sub-forum which is the place the largely male audience on this site goes to improve their dating life and fulfill their authentic desires. Give them something shall you. They do not come here to read your broken English and definitions of what you think a man is. You haven’t provided anything really tangible or of any nuance to counter my points. I believe the USA and UK is shit for dating. You believe ???? If you want to go monk mode and try to meditate away your dating issues fine by me. I prefer to actually be responsible. Attract. Create. Manifest. Evolve. The female form is where I expand into everything and the women in my life are some of my greatest teachers and mirrors. You do you bro. man I clicked that video too and wow you are really projecting…
