Lyubov

This forum is alright if you avoid the spirituality section and anything to do with that here and psychedelic drugs. It’s always been a dumpster fire and filled with dangerous advice, and assumptions from people who believe they are “advanced”, but I heard some long time members got banned which maybe helped? I haven’t followed Leo’s videos for over a year but I do like the forum he made for just general life improvement, politics and dating advice.

This forum changed some. I haven’t been here since last March. What has happened here ?

Pretty much this. He’s throwing pebbles at a tank that doesn’t even know his first name but his case number. How convenient it is to create a boogeyman amongst your fans and just blame it on that whenever your stuff goes south.

How much money do you think this guy has ? He seems to be pretty loaded.

I will break this down simply. You (people) are the creator of your emotions. You are not the victim of them and they aren’t unfolding on their own terms. They are created through beliefs which people have the ability to choose. Let’s not put the cart (emotions) before the horse (beliefs). So to become “vulnerable” is to basically share a belief system with another person. If the beliefs you share are such that where you are creating emotions such as fear and despair then chances are the person you are sharing them with can sometimes be put off by them because they have their own belief system about what a man should be like or they simple don’t like that this is what their man chooses to believe. Some women can’t handle to see that their man still has inner work to do. Women also have their own set of beliefs about men which may not fit with the person they are in a relationship with. creating appropriate emotions at the appropriate time is fine: I don’t think many women will mind if their man cries if someone they love has passed away for example. I would say we as men should strive to be as true to ourselves and not give away our power and let a woman determine our value based off how they think we should be. If you choose to create all sorts of emotions that have to do with feeling sad or weak, that is all on you to figure out why you do it and cease to do so.

Not a matter of perspective, it’s an absolute fact and truth I have a hot gf

if you can’t handle the beauty because you aren’t right with yourself, then stay out of the kitchen. Some of the guys here are fine with some heat and wanna eat something tasty.

She quite simply is a person that has a vindictive belief system that’s largely aligned with ideas around “hating the establishment.” Her entire political career is built around this and she is trying to live up to some sort of image she has created around this. And since much of the left, including outspoken leaders with diverging opinions like Bernie have largely formed a coalition with the center and the establishment, she has to do more radical and different stuff to keep up with what she has aligned herself with. Her new home is the far right because they house more people like this now who will listen to her.

What does vulnerable mean exactly here though?

She’s rubbish. This is why we as men need to choose our partners consciously. My girlfriend actually had a similar initial reaction to me crying but I stood by my guns and put her in her place when she called me out on it. Our relationship has evolved to the point where she sees my crying differently, but also I am far less in “victim” mode as I was back then. The tears I consciously shed I do so as a specific expression of something I believe and I use them to communicate that powerful belief to her. IE I love her and is being separated is something I do not like. So we both changed and now it’s just fine if I cry in front of her.

I’m not sure I necessarily believe or agree that lowering one’s integrity means it’s easier to get laid or simply have sex with a woman. I think they are just two different paths to some form of “success.” In fact I would say it’s maybe even more difficult to not have integrity but a lot of people have steeped themselves in victim mindset thinking so they find themselves twisting everything and doing crazy stuff like this (and in other areas of their life as well).

The thing is it was New Years so we were in a party area of town. Lots of women were dressed up like her. She was dressed up really sexy for me cause our plan was to go out for a bit and get fucked up and then come home and play but when we were apart for a bit and she was looking for the taxi she had her winter coat on which covered most of her and even went down almost as far as her miniskirt so she looked like a big ball of cotton. I think next time I won’t let us get separated even for a minute.

I’m not certain. I have an old school sort belief system (Macho man stuff) I choose to abide by sometimes where I have something to prove in such situations even though the rational adult side of me thinks a more measured and appropriate response depending on the situation would likely be better. I had been drinking and I’m in the best shape I’ve ever been in so I could of seen myself willing to throw down just for the heck of it. I trust myself I’d respond appropriately in such a situation so yeah I may or may not have chosen violence. you are 100% right, lots of women including my gf have all had messed up stuff like this happen to them before. It is part of reality for sure.

Yes ahaha she does have an amazing ass and she is a bombshell especially when dressed up to go to the club but still I don’t think that’s an excuse in this day and age. I think touching a woman’s behind is appropriate only if a woman has given pretty clear signs and rapport has been established. So maybe after a kiss or dancing, while making out it’s ok to touch it and see if she’s fine with it, situations like this. But here she just asked a group of strangers for directions and this scumbag thought he could cop a feel for some crazy reason. she said she was kinda in shock and it happened fast but she said even this scumbag’s two friends seemed kinda shocked he did it as well.

Firstly you are the creator of your own emotions, not the victim of them. So you are creating fear, it’s not just happening on its own terms even if it may first appear that way. So now that we have acknowledged that let’s ask ourselves WHY we are choosing to create the fear. What beliefs do you have here ? why do you believe you don’t have control over your future? why do you believe you are doomed to be single ?

Has this topic lost tread on this site? Seems like this will have some major developments going into the summer. i heard rumors of a second mobilization

I would try to reorient your view and just try to catch yourself in the self judgement process. The way your post reads is that “I’ve had all these hard challenges.” No doubt you have, but dig a little deeper. What is your belief about yourself based off what you just wrote here? Maybe I’m being presumptuous but I would assume that “feeling” side which I like to call the “inner child” would you are less than, not good, flawed, etc. And I can say now I respectfully disagree with your inner child. I believe you are a unique and amazing individual who has values and the world would not be the same and would be less than perfect if you didn’t exist. Check out Wu Wei wisdom and how to uncover your beliefs that you then create these painful emotions from. I’m tell you, you are not flawed and you will be shocked at what an amazing person you are if you let go of what’s keeping you from seeing this. You still have to work at things to get better at them. It still takes some time and energy to go out and socialize and make friends and meet women and not everyone will always choose to hang out with us as well but that doesn’t determine your true value. And the adventure of meeting women becomes much more enjoyable when you aren’t creating painful emotions that you trip over.

Your post is steeped in victim mode talk. You are creating these emotions through your beliefs. You are not the victim of your emotions or some label, you are the creator of them, 100%. You maybe haven’t actually worked through fully all the beliefs you are holding that are creating this experience for you and it can go unresolved and it can stay like that if you don’t work through those beliefs. I was diagnosed as being on the tale end of the spectrum as well. And I can tell you now, that whole spectrum is bullshit in determining your quality of life, it all comes down to your beliefs because bro, there is literally one of them guys born without arms and legs who has a hot as fuck wife. Look that guy up in the wheelchair. I’m not saying that to make it sound like you aren’t facing challenges, you absolutely are and they are valid in their own right, I’m just saying you need to recognize even when sometimes you’re given stuff that is out of your control, what you make of it is 100% in your control through your beliefs. You would be shocked if you realized how much power you have simply by what you choose to believe. you say I have Asperger’s in a bad way, why don’t you believe it makes you quirky and interesting? You do realize people on the spectrum have true value just like everyone else and their own unique personalities thst women definitely can and do appreciate ? I don’t want to even say you have to overcome how you’re feeling or anything like that. How can you overcome something you are entirely creating yourself? I would start with looking into inner child work and belief based work. Look up Wu Wei Wisdom.

That’s great for you! Nurturer that love and it will grow.

I’m glad Romania seems to be following EU member rules more. Some of these Eastern European countries wanted to join the EU so badly but not abide by the rules and regulations of it. I’m looking at you Hungary.

It’s simply because life is uncertain and some people steer their canoe into the rocks while going down the river. If you avoid flexing it doesn’t necessarily mean you won’t lose your wealth but these guys were doing more than just flexing.

Wonder what he was doing. I know this guy was a no name until just this past summer and he made a bunch of cash through porn?

Why are you creating guilt? What beliefs do you have about alcohol that then you create guilt from? Yes, I do think you are being hard on yourself and probably should figure out what beliefs you have around this topic and what deeper core beliefs they are connected to.

I think all this stuff and ideas of conservative and liberal are always changing. A country like the Soviet Union has aspects of today’s liberals and even a country like Russia has state medicine which is commonly accepted by the people yet in the west people label a government system as overly liberal and “hippy” by some. What is liberal and what is conservative is constantly changing with each generation and usually it’s just the opposites. Have you ever looked into how the Republican and Democrat parties changed over the course of 150 years? I’m tempted to say the core differences between liberal and conservative are collectivist vs individualist but even then I see how some collectivists are very conservative by todays standard. Really I would build these two labels down to two big tents that are always changing over time and basically spilts in power structure, they don’t really have a core value they stand by that sets them apart since they change each generation what they are about.

These guys aren’t flashy or magical. They make room for spirituality but don’t dive deep into it, but it’s a core component of their teaching. I would say if you are creating any sort of “split” inside yourself or creating any sort of painful emotion on the daily, these guys teaching can resolve it so you are in peace.