Lyubov

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  1. the Israel delusion is wild. And to think I actually was taught this was true. It’s so blatantly colonialism and the wild thing is this belief system breaks the moment you tinker with any of their constants. Switch out any country for any ethnic group. It doesn’t make any sense.
  2. Thanks dude, this is really helpful my question is though do you believe we can still be spiritual while grinding? I think if we are staying honest and true we are growing spiritually and expanding our consciousness. I agree that the more nitty gritty of my ideals or the more careless artistic passions of mine may have to be less prioritized of the pragmatic however I’m trying to find a balance. Don’t want a situation in my life where my dreams went wayside to die while I lost sight of my destination. I will crate my dream life and manifest my passions, I think I need to expand though and definitely bring in pragmatism to balance everything though.
  3. This is the key, “go inside and find your true value” it’s essential for a long term healthy relationship
  4. This is a good point to be made. We as a society really build our wellbeing on shifting sands, relationships. We place our value outside of ourselves and become so attached to the changing tides we are easily toppled when they do. I’ve really gone through a lot of transformations in the last year to come out of this. I think being single is far too often looked at as a bad thing when in fact it can be incredibly powerful for self work and focus. I don’t see being single as a bad thing. I do think however having opportunities for a relationship are also great. I want to stay single for a while though after a 3+ year relationship recently came to an end. I think it’s a great way to know yourself.
  5. Bro was listening to his advisors, corruption is such that where truth is not valued so everyone up and down the chain of command lies. He basically fell for his own propaganda how Russia could steamroll Ukraine in a day. Ukraine intelligence was so confused before the invasion, it’s on record. The initial invasion confused Ukraine cause the country is so big and Russia didn’t build up sufficient amount of troops.
  6. I do not understand why women say that what a vulnerable man yet it couldn’t be further from the truth in my experience. Nothing about expressing your emotions and putting yourself in the position to not be reciprocated by them is perhaps one of the greatest things to end up getting friend zoned. I’ve never seen that work. I do not know what women are seeing when they say this. I’ve seen only charm, courage, strength and intelligence seduce a woman. Nothing about a man being open about how he feels and getting all soft about taking through his inner child and whatnot does nothing to arouse women and you ain’t getting shit from a woman if she isn’t aroused.
  7. Feminine to me is a woman who is just like very girly and pretty and does her make up before going out and is proud to be a woman with a man who pays for most things (70/30 split or more if the guy can afford it) while she is interested in starting a family. I lived in NYC and Philly which were more alternative places and studied at a liberal arts uni so I was always in a climate that I saw was constantly demonizing masculinity. I’ve been a controlling “my way or a highway” type guy before too and it doesn’t even work like that even on feminine women cause any self respecting woman wouldn’t take controlling abuse from a guy even if the roles are very traditional. I’m not looking for someone to control but I do want to be the leader and the head, but every head needs a neck to move it. There’s a lot of women that do want to dictate all the decision making, all the forward energy to the man and they want to bring beauty and charm and playful energy, too much feminine can be hard to be around though due to all the mood swings and inconsistency. It dances and changes so much so spontaneously but that’s what’s so attractive about it to masculine energy. This can be hard to resolve conflicts with, I can def relate to that for sure.
  8. I come from a part Jewish background (my mom, grandma was in the holocaust and Escaped to USA at 17 as a refugee, great grandpa died in prison under nazi control) and I can tell you now Jewish religion is a congregation of a bunch of crybabies that wanna be victims. The holocaust was so wrong. I still think it’s not ok to make jokes about it: but it is a fair comparison today to say that Israel has a lot more common with nazis now than they realize. Delusion long winded story about being special, Aryan race / gods chosen people ✅ both are far right ✅ Both are subjugating an ethnic group that has lived on that land for 600+ years to cruelty ✅ the modern Israeli Jew lived in Europe for 800 years. What claim do they have to this land now?
  9. Blah blah blah heard this same crap a billion times. Nothing more sexist and supremacist than the western feminist mind thinking it’s so superior that they’ve somehow escaped victimhood and know what’s right for the women of other countries. Why western feminists think women are victims in other countries cause the women there don’t want to be turned into men 😁 I thought you guys were fighting for self determination yet you cry when women choose to be feminine women.
  10. God has no challenges God is not alone because that would then mean there is a way to be not alone but absolute collapses all opposites. God fills all space and everything. You never feel alone when connected to god because it’s impossible to be alone because to be alone implies a finite end or lack of something. You think you are are alone? How? God is there 😁
  11. No offense taken, I get you. I just think we as guys have to come real clean these days when chasing women. My issue with the passport bro movement is how juvenile it is. This movement is blowing up all the hot spots and we aren’t sending our best and brightest. How many gringos get drugged in Colombia messing with prostitutes? if SE Asian women were my type I would but they aren’t. I want to go there though for the culture and beaches. Heard it’s amazing. Language is very difficult to learn though so it’s hard to integrate. I’m into Russian, Ukraine, Belarus women and latinas from Brazil, Colombia and Argentina.
  12. Thanks for the compliment. I agree I do believe I treat women well. I’ve never cheated and if you only knew what I did for me ex… sometimes at my own expense. I think this is a life lesson to not put another person before myself until I can really support someone.
  13. notice how the majority of the feminine beautiful women in the USA are never the ones pushing these notions of gaining “autonomy and power.” radically redefining long held beliefs will have consequences, both good and bad. I think there’s a little more going on here than simply categorizing women as less free then vs now. Roles have changed for better or worse. Just look at all the disharmony between the sexes.
  14. Thank you for the compliment. It’s just my preference and lived experience. Seems like a lot of guys had the same lived experience. I didn’t even have a huge problem attracting some cute girls in the USA but I did notice a difference in values. I just feel like I’m valued more abroad for being a man where in the USA it’s like this gender role is constantly under scrutiny
  15. I don’t like being called this because I was doing this 8 years before this term was coined. I don’t consider myself a passport bro. I don’t like being a part of this group and I’ve integrated well every place I lived abroad. Passport bros tend to be make tourists who go abroad and engage in prostitution.
  16. I don’t think anything beats rental properties
  17. I’m going to go off again and say any of you who are struggling to date in one of these countries USA, UK, Canada, Australia Should just leave for a better country: Argentina, Colombia, Brasil, Russia, Belarus, Thailand, Indonesia, etc… (there are more). Even Central Europe, Spain, Mexico, Eastern Europe, South Korea, are huge steps up. It is very difficult to meet women who will value you in the USA if you living as an isolated incel on the autism spectrum, adhd, etc. it’s a nuanced topic but you’re much better going abroad and you will see what it means to actually have a woman value you, and that can kick start a ton of momentum to resolve all those inner issues. I can write up a guide for anyone interested on this. Don’t waste your time in USA, it’s a losing game for the vast majority of you. Unless you’re already really extroverted and know how to pull and have a lifestyle or network that allows you to, don’t bother building it in the USA it’s far too expensive and the dating market is awful. If you’re looking for a spiral tier 2 life partner though I personally believe my above advice matters less since by just walking your tier 2 path you will attract them along the way, however I don’t really go about dating like this. I look for beauty and then compatibility. It may be different for many seekers or people going deep in their spirituality here but I enjoy a relationship for what it is and as long as the sex is good, she’s beautiful, and we share the same interests for travel, and she’s an honest communicator who is loving and charming, I’m set. I’m not looking for something philosophically deep in my relationships. That’s what this forum is for, that’s what books are for.
  18. The Jewish lobby plays a role and public perception as well. However Israel is similar to the USA , it’s like a little European country. Having an ally geographically situated there gives USA strong influence over the region.
  19. Maybe at one point in time. They have an extremely powerful military and their current borders are pretty well defended with all the expansion they have done. Golan heights from north gives them high ground. Seems like Iran and Arab countries have their own historical beefs too so that would require tremendous cooperation. Borders in Middle East are drawn in a way that makes it very difficult for international cooperation. No way all those countries could work together to make it a success. Their last attempts failed pretty poorly. The war would have to be staged from Egypt, Jordan and Lebanon. And two of those counties are no longer willing to fight.
  20. I heard that Israel also faces widespread decline from how unpopular this war is. Committing ethnic cleansing hurts investments in their industries which are very important for their economy. They have almost no tourism. Their academia may suffer some from being an outcast. Their current state system creates so much disharmony it spreads deep through their economic and development as well. I try to avoid extreme takes and look at a balance between what I’m hearing. Israel does have a decent army and some natural gas energy. I don’t think these voices saying Israel will fall are correct but I do think this will make the country much poorer and unpleasant to live in, who knows what that can then lead to. Apparently they have brain drain too now with anyone with means leaving. Some huge number of doctors left as well, their medical industry has brain drain. This war is having similar effects as what is happening to Russia, I don’t think either state will just crumble and the country will cease to be but I think on the world stage their power and wellbeing will be greatly reduced to eventual revolution or entire reworking of the state will take place due to the massive amount of internal issues.
  21. Hezbollah to the north is strapped with powerful long range missiles and a ton of men. Hamas has the ability to slow down IDF through gorilla warfare in Israel’s offensive. I don’t believe there exists a way to overthrow Israel militarily but there are sunk costs for Israel in this. Getting bogged down in a drawn out conflict can cause long lasting erosion to a state. Also Israel is becoming a pariah on the world stage. Iran is developing nuclear technology. Lastly keep in mind the rising isolationism in the USA and shifting alliances. It was sacrilege to once question NATO, look at how that has been deeply called into question. Israel is on strong footing but it’s not as certain as you think.
  22. I wanted to hear from this forum cause I appreciate it coming from people who value spirituality , but yep I’ll look for other groups as well that are more focused on this
  23. I’ve listened to this guy and he is very well off financially and is an interesting speaker. The issue I have though with his viewpoint is to me it just seems soulless and self centered to the point at the expense of others. He seems to really benefit from a system that greatly exploits people in order for others to be well off. He also says not to follow your passions which to me I believe are the doorways to our most fulfilling and unique lives being our authentic selves. Lastly he equates heavily with having to earn love with being financially successful which to me only feeds the false notion that we need people to complete us, a person spiritually aligned tends to be indifferent towards relationships and their wellbeing is not rooted in this ever changing dynamic. I appreciate that he speaks up for young men and he does seem to have some sensible values about policy reform and old people amassing wealth, yet he seems to have done the same for himself. He’s sort of presented in this thought space as a more alternative and holistic voice regarding the challenges we face with wealth inequality today but to be honest there’s something still soulless and at the core of his belief system built largely around a system that acts based off human scented mind / survival rather than higher guidance. In his belief system the core problems of our exploitive economic model are not actually resolved. He would probably disagree with me and I’m not saying he’s entirely wrong but some of the stuff he says I don’t agree with. What are your thoughts? “Let’s be honest, it’s the most boring shit that makes you rich” to me right here this is the exact, soulless problem our society has today. Maybe it’s just my ideal? But this is a recipe to living a spiritual broke life with a full bank account. I’ve had half a million in cash sitting in my bank at one stage in my life and I can say this, no amount of cash can make up for living a boring inauthentic, passionless life. “Find your talent not your passion” I’m not even sure what this means? Usually the thing a person is most passionate about holds their greatest talents.
  24. yes it's true. I'm not saying I'm anti-money and I'm not saying I'm such an idealist that I will say it's the root of all evil and we need to rework the planet so money no longer exists. I accept money and realize it's part of reality and a part of me. I am working on integrating money in a healthy way. I'm just saying let's not entirely lose sight of the bigger picture and let our logical survival mind run the show. We need to stay in touch with our higher guidance