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guys remember to leave a little room mentally into what views you are sharing. I do agree with most of you that humanity does not live with integrity. Many people do not and commerce and capitalism are filled with dishonesty and a lack of integrity. But that doesn’t mean we as spiritual beings have to. We are lucky in the sense that we are on the spiritual path and I can tell you now when you align your energies and mind with what’s true, resolve any beliefs or mental issues, and then lastly align your action with integrity, survival becomes less painful and you gain the ability to live in Wu Wei and harness the law of attraction. So just because some people living dishonestly and exploiting people for money does not mean we have to in order to live up to our highest and true potential and transcend survival. You or I are not responsible for the collective which is just going as it go, no one is in control of anything in this sense, it’s just unfolding. Focus on you and focus on what you choose to believe and focus on how hard or easy you are making life for yourself. Just because you see people disconnecting form truth doesn’t mean you have to. Stay committed and engaged and responsible and connected to spirit, you will always have peace of mind and see beauty and value even in all the challenges humanity faces.

Bro I’m reading your posts and am starting to wonder if you’re playing a gimmick here at this point or if you’ve actually been with a woman for any meaningful period of time

Embrace simplicity for issues like this. I’ve experienced ED when with my ex, when some issue would not resolve it would be hard to get aroused because this stress and pain in the relationship would get in the way. I was out of integrity and it was hard having sex. We would sometimes do cocaine to have sex, it was not healthy dynamic.. It’s as simple as that. It’s not hard getting aroused if your belief system is clear and you are in flow. I also would only sleep with beautiful women that are my type. There was a woman I slept with who had an amazing body but she wasn’t my type so I was super unaroused. You said it yourself, out of integrity, have sex when you know it’s right and you won’t have ED, unless it’s purely a physiological issue.

I can relate man, you ain’t the only one on this path. I am coming out of a relationship with a woman I’ve chose to be addicted to. I’m in the process of building a business. Let’s accept uncertainty. It’s the fertile ground which allows for possibilities. Let’s accept change, without it we would never grow. Let’s accept redirection, the world is too big to control, wouldn’t it be more peaceful going with the flow? take this analogy of a sailer; the sailer can not control the ocean or weather, but with wisdom sail to here he desires. Life redirected you on your career, life has redirected me on my relationship. Let’s go into this with an open mind and heart. its so unbelievably cliche but really open your mind and heart, you will see new possibilities from this redirection and one day look back and laugh at how seriously you took it. You won’t care or regret anything in a bit of time when you’re on your new chapter. Just have gratitude.

Nah, fairness isn’t a straight line down the middle it’s a ying yang symbol i def think it’s the man’s role to support his woman financially and be able to solve most of her survival issues if he wants to have sexual freedom and leadership in the relationship, which is what most men desire same with having mistresses. Most men want a girlfriend or wife and then one or two other women just for sex on the side

You guys are wild for hating on anal sex. Anal sex is fine (and beautiful) but it’s not a casual thing to do, imo for a relationship only. Most straight men love anal and want to do it with their girlfriend,

Woke up today and I’m doing alright I asked myself something like this “so I probably will choose to think about this for the next couple days if not weeks” “yes” “why?” im going to self inquire on this.

You’re projecting your own problems. I’m not saying no one struggles with their porn use but you you have to realize not everyone has a problem balancing this part of reality with their life. Just because you have problems watching porn doesn’t mean it causes the same problems for everyone else.

Porn is a form of entertainment and does satisfy certain bodily needs. The women in porn are often unbelievably beautiful. It’s definitely not garbage to want to see unbelievably beautiful women having sex. I’ve had a ton of sex in my life and have had an abundant access to sex with very beautiful women for about 7 years now and I still enjoy porn.

Everything really is connected from this perspective and I accept this. I don’t think we need to purity test everything but just focus on ourselves and try to be as honest as possible. I think porn will have some degree of people being dishonest and mistreating people but at the same time also have honesty to it and allow opportunities for people. A close friend of mine did porn and only fans and she sits in over 300k followers on instagram. She’s actually quite grateful for the adult industry and it’s afforded her and amazing life based off her natural beauty. I think we can engage with all aspects of life honestly to the best of our ability and we don’t have to go to such radical extremes to transcend. I like porn too, ok I’ll watch porn that’s well made and wasn’t made through exploitation. I eat animals too, I’ll try to not waste meat and choose meat that was once part of an animal that was treated well.

Thanks for sharing and I agree. I like your cat story as well and to be honest it isn’t so different from what I’m experiencing. I agree I think I need to really let her go and grieve and allow this inner resolution to unfold. I accept this has ended. I do not accept it has ended, but I am accepting that I do not accept this has ended. I do not accept she is gone but I accept I do not accept she is gone. I’m creating longing and will self inquire on this. I think the reason losing a loved one due to a break up can be so devastating and challenging is because there’s just so many dynamics that come to the surface. All the relationship issues and unresolved stuff, inner child issues, logistical stuff for example one person realizes how they have been neglecting their career due to this relationship, kids and money and divorce papers, just all this stuff that needs to be dealt with. I think I’m in a very good position in life given this break up. It hasn’t ruined me financially and I did not have kids with her. I think now it’s really being present for myself and understanding to myself and really listening, without going to extremes.

IC = Inner child ME = Adult me IC: I cannot accept my ex is not prioritizing me anymore. ME: Why do I want to be with someone who won’t prioritize me? IC: I don’t believe I can do better ME: Why do I believe I cannot do better than her, a person who does not want to prioritize me anymore? IC: because I believe there is no one else like her ME: I do agree that there is no one else like her, every human is unique, why does that prove that I cannot do better than her? Wouldn’t the next person I’m with be unique and no one else like them? IC: Yes, the next woman would be unique and no one else like them, but I’m not sure I will meet someone I will want to love as much as her. ME: If I believe it is absolutely true that I will never meet another woman that I will want to love as much as her, then I absolutely should keep fighting for her. I did some self inquiry and had a breakthrough, i realized the belief holding me back is that I believe I won't find a woman that I will want to love as much as her. I found the video above and am going to focus on this perspective. Can any of you speak on this? Please only if you have actual lived experience similar to mine and not some goofy ideology about game. If you went through the end of a long term relationship and then one day you met someone else you loved as much as your ex, if not more so. Is this possible? My inner child believes it's not exactly possible or at least the chances are low but my adult mind knows I could meet another woman I will love just as much as my ex and be able to build an even longer lasting relationship built on honesty and integrity. When did you turn the leaf on this belief that you may not meet someone you want to love as much as your ex? I loved this woman like the sun, we became one for years, we were everything until we weren't

wow thanks, I looked it up and this channel seems really helpful.

Thanks for the replies and different perspectives everyone. This experience has been one of my greatest teachers. That one girl who was so special and beautiful can be really hard to let go. I am not going to pretend like I’m a player even thought I do have other options. We have these beliefs we hold and I know there is a degree of believing she completes me. Very normal I think when you grow so close. I think many of you can relate when you’ve spent years with someone. Working on so many issues together. So much sex and reflections of love. It really is like a family member going away.

Does it have to take years though? Seems like the only thing keeping it that way is myself if I choose so. I’m already open minded some to new experiences. The thing is I do know what I want in a woman to some extent. Some of it is what she was like, some of it is different, I’m also open to being surprised. I know there won’t be another like her cause every person is unique but also I know I can find someone who fulfills everything like she did, perhaps even more.

https://youtube.com/@alexhormozi?si=sCsCaXUGLxcWAVp6 This guy. He says he’s worth 100 million USD. There are so many people scamming and lying in this field. It’s generally not an honest field so I’m trying to learn raw business and marketing from an honest person. The issue I’ve encountered is to start learning I need to invest a decent amount of time into it but sooner or later I may realize the person I’m listening to is a liar. So where can you learn actual raw business skills and marketing from someone who is honest and not lying about their pedigree?

Why do you want to leave your body? I would personally be more focus on nurturing it and finding balance with it. Cause at times it can be hard to experience body.

I had a conversation with my parents yesterday and it was challenging for my inner child cause I realized how far apart I’ve grown from them. I live in an entirely different country. I have my career and path to focus on. My siblings all live in different places. We all have different interests and stuff we are focusing on in our lives. My dad is 74 years old. I really only have it in me to visit once every year or two due to the distance and where I’m at in life. I can see how time really changes everyone and that once whole family we grew up in as children will one day split up. Mine basically has, not sure we will all get together again, maybe? It doesn’t seem at the time it will happen but eventually it does. I suppose this is where Wu Wei comes in and practicing non attachment and acceptance for change. It’s a little hard to accept though. Can anyone relate?

Stop these stupid word games and focus on your life and you will discover love in the divine sense and realize how real you are.

Categorically false. Israel never has had any intention to make the Palestinians a part of their country. Their right wing does not allow for that and the left wing knows how untenable that is. It’s a Jewish state by their own definition. The demographics would completely change if they did that and Israel claims it’s a democracy. How do you imagine elections being held with a majority of Palestinians voting now? They want an apartheid state, to greatly limit the rights of Palestinians through military force, and to slowly ethnically clean the original inhabitants off the stolen land that is now called Israel.

What’s your life purpose? Do you have any reason to get up in the morning? How do you treat sleep? Do you get a reasonable amount? What are you eating before bed? Are you exercising regularly? How’s your diet? Do you have any unresolved emotional issues, traumas or anything you are spending a considerable amount of time creating painful emotions over?

When you look at just how advanced an alliance like NATO is, then a union like the EU, it’s pretty damn impressive what western governments have been able to accomplish together. Nothing else comes close to this between different states.

It won’t really work or be remotely comparable to NATO. alliances like this require massive amounts of funds and development. It’s more for show. Countries like Iran aren’t really developed enough to carry out complex alliances like this. BRICS is another one. It’s more for show. In actuality basically nothing has materialized from this alliance. In reality advanced alliances are very challenging to build between states.

This one is particularly bizarre. A white girl from USA thinks this is her native land.

Make sure your plate is full before you pass out food to others.