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Well, we are living in some of the most peaceful times ever. WWII was a huge lynch pin for the world realizing that war has got to be phased out from conflict resolution. And since then it has gone down. I'm not saying humanity is free from it but I would say it comes from learning communication skills and alternatives to violence where everyone's needs are met. We have to simultaneously build a world where everyone's needs are met as well as have the institutions that facilitate proper communication between conflicting sides. We are making progress slowly in all areas here regardless of what the news has told you. We are living in some of the most least violent times.

It's tricky cause the paradigm of being "good enough" is just setting one up for later failure. You'll always find yourself on the scale you've used towards others to judge their value. My sort of approach to game is much more inner/body based so for me I've largely resolved this conundrum by changing the channel and creating my own paradigm that works for me. I don't supplicate and when I game it isn't about impressing or being different to win their approval but rather do it as a game or an act of giving, fulfilling their needs. It's kinda hard to put into words for me but I'm sorta comfortable with these paradoxes and I just don't overthink them, rather appreciate and have fun with them. It's all about being in the present moment for me and just moving sexual/penetrative energy outward of my body when I game. I would fill your mind with stuff that gets your mind off of this. More body based approaches when you're around women and then just go from there and make your desires clear to them. Overthinking stuff like this won't resolve it. Exposure to experience and getting the results you want will.

Hasan is entertaining but he is kinda the left wing zoomer equivalent of Rush Limbaugh

Some of y'all need to stop simping so hard for Leo. Yes it's his site but it's a bit embarrassing. It's simple... if you not black you don't say n*****, especially if you from the USA. Maybe when some stuff changes in the future things wont be so PC and ridiculous. But as of now, that is not where we at. It's common curtesy.

They don't necessarily. You've made assumptions and are presuming a lot. When it comes to social skills, people act very different and it's due to a wide range of factors why they act the way they do.

OP is allowed to feel angry about it. The video was made 6 years ago though so times have even changed a bit since then. Things are super PC now. Even using it in a classroom setting is too touchy and inappropriate these days. Maybe when race stuff calms down and is resolved things won’t be as touchy as it is now but who knows?

I kinda cringe laughed myself ?

The Colossus of Rhodes was also a very interesting and ancient wonder if the world for it's time. Pretty incredible they could build something like that so long ago with what would not be considered incredibly primitive.

Has this episode come out? I’m in Russia and I’ve probably encountered more scamming here than ever before. It’s almost worked into everyday culture. A dentist literally made up a lie I had cavities so he could drill in my mouth and get some cash. Went to a friend dentist and they told me my mouth had zero cavities. Private clinics will literally run bullshit tests and scare patients into getting treatment they don’t need. It’s insane. At best you lose some cash to some benign treatment, at worst they ruin your perfectly healthy teeth for some cash. Fuck them honestly.

just went through a breakup? very, very painful stuff. sorry.

yep, gotten great results (sex, relationship) on tinder and instagram, and once on badoo as well. Never on Bumble or any of the others.

He was like my first taste of spirituality in a way like 9 years ago. Love and miss him already!

In a way. I would say it more-so has a greater design baked into it where these hardships lead to greater wisdom. We can make society so conscious that conflict won't have to be solved through violence. Humans largely learn through mistakes and trial and error however. So war leads to a lot of pain and misfortune but from that wisdom then comes. Thus the same mistake isn't made again.

yes, the body has needs. food, water, shelter, care and sex. fulfill them all in healthy ways!

I’ve started to work through why I am resistant to financial change, working towards a different career, etc. I feel kinda good about it because I made some breakthroughs and gained some insights. I’ve realized that all the past painful stuff, “trauma” if you will, all that stuff can kinda hide in different domains of life. It’s been largely cleared up in relationships, general self image, etc but it still sorta floats around in creativity and my finances. So I felt hopeful because since I’ve resolved it before it’s just a different flavor of resolving it this time around. I sometimes feel I need either to do something really practical with my career switch, with which I then feel afraid of being boxed in. Or I want to chase my passions which then I’m afraid of failing at it and never making it. There are some other threads to it as well that I’m unraveling. I just started this process to unravel the inner stuff as to why I feel a lot of disorientation and inner conflict over career/life purpose/money but I feel hopeful because I’ve done it before in other areas of life. I’m open to this process taking some time but also open to it resolving quickly so I can focus on building and improving my finances with whatever paths I may take

I’m not one of those “eat the rich” types, but I think a more advanced society will just make being some super billionaire not possible. Society will sort of remove this power structure with the billionaire at the top, or greatly curb it. I just wonder what this redistribution will look like. Will we just have stronger governments or will it be sorta spread throughout the economy where everyone has a pretty decent standard of living, guaranteed basic income, etc? What would happen to luxury goods and all the stuff people are competing to own? I feel like it’s unrealistic to just expect people to move beyond competing and falling for supply and demand. We can greatly diminish and even eradicate poverty, health care disparities, food shortages, etc but there will always be some stuff in limited supply to go around like that luxurious LA mansion and private jet.

this dude looks like some league of legends bullshit

The point he's trying to make is that there is fertile ground for this to occur in India. The 2002 Gujarat riots for instance could be seen as this happening on a small scale. I don't see some huge state institution carrying out a genocide but I don't think it's totally out of the question to see something akin to what has happened in Myanmar happen in parts of India.

Famous people will write to him for covid advice? What the fuck?

I’m going to get some d3, any idea about the dosage on this or other supplements to take? also I turned the radiators off and the flat has stayed a nice luke warm temperature of like 20c. it was easily 28+ before… I’ve noticed a differences already just after turning the heat down and coming back to it after work.

I actually kinda at one point felt the same. I’ve gotten a ton of experience since then, life changing amounts. His book just doesn’t resonate with me as much as it used his. I’ve actually read his main book twice and then his other shorter version of it 2/3 times. It’s must read material for sure, I just find it not in the words I’d like it to be in or as in alignment with my current path. I’m sure I’ll read it a third time in some years from now to see if there is anything else I can get from it at a different stage. One poster said getting in touch with your own feminine. This is actually a really good idea. I’m kinda in the midst of doing this myself and learning A TON. I’ve come to realize that a long term relationship with two developed people is going to have both people bouncing back and forth and playing a masculine or feminine role at times. Usually the center of gravity of the original dynamic stays the same though.

It’s universally pretty unpopular across the US. It’s a progressive talking point that is under baked. It’s misunderstood by the right as well as weaponized by them to use as a political talking point against the left. The left hasn’t really fleshed out what it means nor is the country developed enough to implement such measures.

I never followed this tom guy or addy agame. They both seemed pretty predatory and toxic though. I'm all for learning game in a healthy way but it attracts some downright toxic/seedy guys so what theory is shared and promoted here needs to be moderated more closely imo. I'm not judging either of these two guys but I'm glad they were canceled. We need to hold game, especially the forum here to high standards when it comes to resources shared on it if we are so conscious and holistic as we tout ourselves to be here.

Pretty insane what’s going on in Cali. We are living in a time where green doesn’t fully know how to govern yet. Still tinkering with what works and what doesn’t. We need a strong green that is tough but at the same time has green values. I don’t think green has to necessarily be weak hippies that let drug addicts and people driven mad by poverty walk all over them. We need a stricter green that builds on the discipline and order found in blue.

Watched your video. One thing that really stood out for me is the heating. Flats here will be heated up to like 26c+ during winter, really warm. It's sometimes cozy but the moment I step into my hot flat I will feel so drowsy. I'm going to turn the heat off and let it settle to around 18-20c. I think this could be a reason why. Another reason is lack of sun. I'm getting a bit of sun but not a ton. I'm going to try to walk around outside more during the day.