Lyubov

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  1. I sometimes feel bad knowing I may be wasting my gf's time. idk if I wanna get married or have kids and she really wants this. I love her though and we both very much wanna be with each other. she's 26 so realistically she has like maybe 4-6 more years before she enters the "dating divorced men" phase if she isn't hitched yet. is it a man's fault for wasting women's time? I feel I'm pretty up front about my long term plans, no kids or marriage in my early 30s.
  2. Nah I’m super into her ? I’m just a horny bastard ….
  3. Move to a place where beautiful women are the norm. Digital nomad lifestyle. Join me. So many USA guys thinking they have the best looking women when they are a dime a dozen here in Eastern Europe ? Will literally see physically fit attractive men dating the most average looking women in the USA. The only exception to this is if you’re rich like Leo and have time to go out to exclusive night clubs. You’re playing on hardcore mode if you’re in the USA and want abundant beauty and you don’t have some badass job or some inner connections. Stop playing games. You aren’t going to think your way to abundance like some BS puas teach. Just like you aren’t going to think a million into your bank account. You are either rich or you aren’t. You can either skip from beautiful girl to beautiful girl and not worrying about it or you can’t. Your environment is super foundational and if you are in a country where women don’t put a ton of effort into their looks then good luck fighting over the top shelf that you and like 1000 guys are dming at a time.
  4. She made bank and is gone now. She made like 5 million dollars or more I think.
  5. Men are most sexually attracted to women in their 20s. This does not tend to stop for most until they get much older and then it’s women in 30s when they are like 50 and then 40s when they are like 60. Guys that are like 50 and still going after early 20s are a bit creepy though. They need to grow up and stop with the Peter Pan lifestyle. I plan to date chicks in their 20s till I’m at least in my mid 40s.
  6. My temperature is back down to 36c. I'm taking some vitamins now. Feeling better. I think I had covid and then I got the winter flu. Cause the first week was more like COVID symptoms. I even lost my smell but it's back now. But I then got sick again with slightly different winter cold symptoms. May have picked up what my gf's roommate had. Sucks. Finally feeling a bit better. Will rest till Monday. How you feeling? @Preety_India
  7. The thing is there is value in going to retreats like this. They provide a strong container for people with weak psychology and who don't know what the fuck they are doing. Hell, even half of the budget retreats don't even know what they are doing. Tons of people have left fucked up (often mentally but unfortunately sometimes physically) after going to some cowboy Ayahuasca retreat. The actual market value of professional safe Psychedelic therapy isn't really clear yet. It's in it's infancy and poorly overseen. In the meantime cowboy retreats and these rip off retreats will flourish. I wonder how much a solid 3 ceremony retreat would cost in 30 years from now with trained facilitators and therapists? I'd imagine it would still cost a solid 5-10 grand clinically speaking at least in the US if it isn't covered by insurance. Mental health services are very expensive.
  8. actualized def could have been milked A LOT more than it has been
  9. you will learn more about women being in an LTR than if you were to be single and practice cold approach. think long term investment. you can go through phases and you can also sleep around in the future if you so wish.
  10. that's mental. what a waste of 20 grand. can buy a tab of lsd for like $10. none of these guys are above anyone. matt kahn has started offering online "healing sessions" for $400 a pop. No one is worth that much money to talk on zoom for 30 minutes.
  11. I got corona a couple weeks ago. I’m boosted. The thing won’t go away though. Just constant lethargy and small cough and aching body. Seems like the never ending cold/flu. No fever though, can still work some. When tf will it end ?
  12. Yeah I can’t stand it. I felt 100% twice now, then it comes back in. This is the third wave over the last 3 weeks for me. It’s getting ridiculous. I can’t be going out in the winter like this.
  13. Drinking that fever medicine you mix with hot water. Just confused how I thought I was over covid and it came back. It kinda is hitting me in waves where I’ll feel fine and then I’m sick again….
  14. Have a fever now and Just ache all over. Gf tested positive for corona few weeks ago. I got it as well with typical covid symptoms. I got almost 100% better but felt it most go away last weekend. Felt quite good. She started feeling ill again with a cough. I brought her food and medicine and ended up getting it too. These symptoms are different from the fist phase. I think we had corona and it weakened us and now we have a typical cold. Just feel beat up fever. Thankfully no throat ache or stomach pain or even that much of a headache. Just fever, chest cough and sore body. Praying it passes by the weekend ?
  15. ayahuasqueros and traditional shamans smoke a fuck ton of tobacco. you can be at a level of development such that you may be quite conscious but lacking some piece of knowledge that has a profound affect on your being. some people just get lucky. it's better to look at wider numbers. people that generally eat like him face a lot of health issue. that much is known. can you roll the dice and try to get away with it? sure and you may but it's better to not take risks like this.
  16. This is really one of those things that just needs to be tested and experienced more by more people from all sides until we know the right way to go about it. This is uncharted and new territory. Adolescent trans rights is obviously something we should explore but the processes of how, what’s safe, whats unsafe, what’s partisan, what’s naive green, what’s draconian blue, etc will just take more time to figure out. I’m not entirely for a mental health system that just blindly encourages transition for adolescent teens but also I think it should absolutely be an option for those that have been keenly identified and are fully ready to make a transition. Green wants their cake and to eat it too sometimes. The whole sports thing for example is ridiculous. If they have been through puberty don’t just act like it’s all good and in the name of compassion and acceptance will 100% solve all problems. These things are nuanced and require building up some systems so everyone’s needs are properly and compassionately met.
  17. It still happens to me a bit still. I’ve realized it’s about how you look at it. It’s not that big of a deal, trust me. People hardly notice and no one is really judging you. It’s not even getting that much in the way of you getting what you want. Just expose yourself to lots of experience and realize no one is judging you or cares. Imagine getting exactly what you want from socializing and at the same time still feeling a bit nervous. People tend to grow weary cause they had a few things that didn’t go their way. Don’t let that happen. Keep socializing and let go and go with the flow and you’ll start to realize what control you have and how you can lead it.
  18. We really are using “free public toilets” as a plus for a country now? Have you guys SEEN the doors on them in the US? Enjoy having some stranger touch themselves to you taking a dump.
  19. Is eating food low or high con? I guess if it's purely McDonald's, low? It's just silly to even ponder. Just live with integrity and do your best to fulfill your needs, experience what you would like to experience and learn from life. You wanna meet women and have sex? Then go out and meet them and do it. Are you not getting the results you'd like? Well clearly then you're missing something and are going to have to change or let go of something. That's where male dating advice comes in for guys who are socially clueless.
  20. I envy his wealth and ridiculous job of just screaming the most useless far left brain dead bullshit into a microphone for donos and subs from liberal arts students. He’s the personification of if a stupid cheetah print t-shirt with “eat the rich” printed on it could stream on twitch. He is also like 30 and dresses like a zoomer. Anything I say about him will come off like I’m a hater and he wouldn’t give a single shit about my opinion. He’s mildly amusing and entertaining for like 10 minutes, sure. But he’s basically Rush Limbaugh just for the left leaning tik tok generation. Kinda funny how people are never really THAT far removed from their parents. Dude is not green either, he’s more like stage orange ? grifting green ideals. He’s tricking liberal ideas out like a cheap hooker.
  21. college professor would be the biggest cock tease of a career. basically surrounded by young women and in a position of power over them but any misstep and it’s a #metoo to being fired and exiled.
  22. look up who was sweden's #1 white supremacist at one point... dude looks half black. plenty of skin heads today have jewish blood as well lol. it's ridiculous. slavic skinheads also are a thing. makes no sense. they just now think anyone that's like DARK = bad.
  23. How you feel today? I just recovered from COVID. I have had 3 vaccines. Minor fever and dry cough for a day. Felt low energy a few days after. Didn't shelter in place as much as I'd have liked but I couldn't just put my life on pause after TWO YEARS of this. I feel much better now.
  24. It's just a no fap thing I think. I heard this before. They say don't jack off so you're horny and wanna chase women. I've not really noticed a difference. If I'm too horny I actually get impatient and women can feel those "thirsty" vibes. It can be a sort of turn off for them. They like a guy that's in control of himself. I personally haven't found nofap useful (gave it a try A LONGGGG time ago and longest I lasted was a week). Basically gave me blue balls and sexual frustration.
  25. I personally agree that cheating is the end for a relationship. It’s kinda hard to avoid all sorts of micro infidelities today though like liking a photo of a girl you wanna fuck or occasionally peaking on tinder or making eyes and flirting a bit with a co worker or wishing an ex happy birthday. Social media especially has kinda just opened a whole new world of mingling and orbiters. I think it can easily be avoided physically cheating if you both have boundaries. It’s why I’m not so into this “pure freedom no boundaries around socializing” in a relationship. It’s not as simple as just detaching if you both have a lifestyle that doesn’t quite jive with a serious LTR. A couple that’s serious about a LTR will have the communication and lifestyle that accommodates an LTR. A guy running around and drinking with his bros on a Saturday night behind her back while she is at home taking care of the baby is another example of this. It’s not healthy for an LTR.