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I can’t help but wonder though what would the Iraq invasion would of looked like in 2022. What Russia is doing is basically the same. Not right. But it is fucked up how a stronger country with more influence can get away with it unscathed while a weaker country has its entire innocent civilians punished with sanctions and their entire economy ruined.

I’m sure there is a level of corruption going on with onlyfans. I do think it does take a bit advantage of emotionally stunted men for sure but I don’t think it’s that bad and I think far worse has happened in the sex work industry. For the most part it’s a legitimate service but it needs to be checked and balanced a bit so things don’t get too out of hand.

Those countries in the Baltic, Poland, Romania, etc willfully joined NATO however. It’s not like they were forced or bribed to do that. They all genuinely felt security concerns being next to Russia. Who knows if Russia would of been this benevolent non-violent state if they didn’t have their neighbors join or would Russia still have had its eyes set on expansion and regaining control over territory lost in the fall of the Soviet Union? It’s not so clear. Obviously there was a lack of diplomacy and communication around this issue though.

It’s really cold here and snowy. Like -6 or lower. Makes me so sleepy and I wanna do stuff at night but it’s so cold and I feel so lazy to go out. I just got a really expensive winter coat. I’m still kinda sleepy after work. How can I trouble shoot this and get more energy during these cold winter days and nights? I don’t really drink much coffee. Eating more makes me feel fat. What am I potentially missing?

You know what would of been hilarious? if OP was actually being hit on and she was just hinting at him inviting her back to his place to "get warm" but he took it as her trying to be scammy

My girl freaked out and wants me to buy her a $800 hairdryer after not bringing her flowers on Valentine's Day even though I have basically an excuse and told her over the weekend while I was IN BED SICK WITH A FEVER that I'd need a raincheck and we would celebrate next weekend instead, she's apologized since but how she was kinda bi polar for a bit and making no sense I sometimes don't understand women

They move in quickly where I am, like in the first year. People drag their feet a ton in the west. It’s low key gross IMO.

I forgot to get my girl flowers and a gift on Valentine’s Day ? I’m sick the whole damn week and forgot. She was actually really hurt by it and I felt bad but another part of me doesn’t give a fuck. Feel like a do a ton for her already. I have a fever the last week and the first day it’s down and she’s all whining about how I’m not being romantic. Annoying.

These girls are rare but occasionally some will try to ask for things form guys they aren’t even with. One chick asked me once if I’d meet her off tinder but in exchange for a gift. It’s happened to me several times in different ways. You will come across it a lot when you put yourself out there often. It can be sorta scammy sometimes too so be careful. There are simp guys who will actually do this so they are sorta screening for them. Just ignore such women. Don’t even try to “game” them or change them.

Too damn long. If you ain’t getting married after two years it’s time to move on!

“Dating for 4 years and engaged for a year” wtf ? these Reddit threads are crazy. I would NOT go there for advice ever.

why bother eating? why bother showering after passing a turd?

Just don't be this guy Ukraine is SUPER SCAMMY and they take desperate guys looking for a girl there for a ride all the time

I was pretty awful at falling asleep till recently. I was staying up incredibly late at night (bed at 5am, wake up at 1pm). I wasn't sure if it was physiological or mental. I wasn't pressed to fix it so I just let it stay like this. Have you recently went on a holiday? I went on a holiday with my gf and we started going to bed at 9pm every night there. It was at the beach. When I came back I noticed the resistance and sleeping problems I was having were gone. For me it was all mental. I think finding a way to tackle this side is important if it isn't physiological. Talking about it with trained professional or seeing a sleep therapist. The good thing is this is something that can clear up quick if it isn't too serious.

ah yeah, this is tricky. I still feel this way kinda as well. I'm kinda at a point though where I don't give a fuck. I am who I am. Just got fed up and found myself letting go. I think it's about just surrounding yourself with people who will accept you for you flaws and all. Treating those around you with at least the amount of respect you'd like to be treated with. idk I just got so sick of feeling shame and working on it and exploring it that I just found myself letting a lot of it go. I've done literally hundreds of hours on shame and hard inner work related to regrets from the past and thing I felt ashamed of about myself. I think I just got tired of it and realized I was wasting my time. Exploring it was necessary though, and still is sometimes. I think finding a balance of authenticity where you explore it through all the various means that have been discussed on this site but also then changing focus to other stuff you'd rather do that is fun or interesting. It's a lot about balance I've noticed. Self work needs to be balanced with rest needs to be balanced with creating needs to be balanced with more rest.

half of all hook ups probably happened cause of alcohol I'm fine with having a few cocktails. It's part of having fun. Talking to women is then just a natural progression of the night.

stayed, but tried to do a more honest job gotta pay the bills

Yes, the thing is Belle built her image mostly on her own. She is/was a semi performing artist. I believe OnlyFans took their cut and that is it. Lana went into traditional porn which means she had all sorts of leeches on her, exploiting and manipulating her. I think some women love feeling desired and doing porn. I have had friends in the OnlyFans/Porn scene and they seemed to like the glamorous lifestyle, money, no need to really think about what to do (just make sexy content). It's a pretty comfortable and easy lifestyle that pays really well, especially onlyfans.

I don't rank women with numbers either or talk like there is some objective scale. It's kinda ridiculous and the guys that are unconscious enough to do it are unwittingly putting themselves on a scale as well with an end goal they'll never reach. It does tremendous subconscious harm. Making life for themselves and getting what they want way harder as well but some people unknowingly like to make things hard for themselves cause they got nothing better to do. It's fine to evaluate looks according to your own preferences and state those preferences though.

I’d look over how much savings you have in the bank and also even consider studying if you can. Maybe you can study for a year there intensive to learn the local language some. From there lol just your CV. A lot of jobs are online these days so see what’s available in your current country that let’s you work remotely. Do you have a university diploma? I’d get your education and finances in a bit of working order before traveling. You could always look for jobs in these countries but it’s not really possible if you don’t know the local language. There are opportunities though to get here. I think the student path is a good one if you are young and haven’t finished all your studies yet.

This guy gets it

Well, I would say it will depend more on the city. Any of them that has a developed city will be great. Poland, Russia, Hungary, Czech, Baltic states, Romania, even heard capital of Ukraine is great. That's the thing about Eastern Europe. There will be one or two cities in each country that is modern and nice but the rest of the country is sketchy/ghetto. Society will have stage blue/orange vibes with extremely rare green circles in the capital.

lemon slices, a tiny bit of ginger, honey and hot water is also a really good drink for this I'm feeling better too but still have 37c fever. Hope I'll be better Monday.

Not that hard at all. I wouldn’t do it if you are like OLD though. Hospitals aren’t as amazing as say the US but if you are in your 20-40s you’ll be just fine. Plenty of language schools to study the local language by day and it’s not a op expensive. It will take some adjusting if you don’t like traveling but if you like traveling I’d say it’s amazing. Having been to Asia id say Eastern Europe is easier to adjust to.

I’m not sure on that. I just don’t feel ready for it. I’m young. It’s kinda separate. I see love and relationship as separate. You can love someone to pieces and not want what they want or be on the same path and you can be on the same path with someone and align in some domains but have lost all passion and not be that into them. Loving her more or less wouldn’t change this it’s just a life path difference. I’ll mull it over and see if I’m willing to compromise on this and go with the flow and settle down or not. Idk man.