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ahaha this community in a nutshell. i need to ask myself why i choose to even come here. it's honestly very low quality discussion most of the time. I think the dating and career sections do have some good suggestions and the personal development section does too sometimes

focus on your life, not whatever you label death as

does it disturb your harmony and flow with life? if so I invite you to consider and ask yourself why you are doing this. It's actually a sort of big picture problem where the human part of life wants to stay in the known and familiar, disrupting the natural flow and wellbeing. Whereas the spiritual side, that which is greater, revels in the unknown and unfolding. I myself am working on striking a harmony between the two. Why do you choose to look for problems?

I have no clue. My ex of 3 years is moving back in with me today …. And idk I wouldn’t say we are together but we are constantly testing the waters with ideas of actually making it work this time. There’s a lot of uncertainty when it comes to relationships. I’m just focusing on my chi energy and staying in balance and cultivating harmony. Who knows what will happen next.

As for getting laid: This is a very simple thing yet can be quite nuanced when you take into account the uniqueness of each individual. What works for me and what i have to do in order to achieve this may be very different from someone else who has to develop qualities I take for granted. i would say the most important thing for me though is clearing all lies like “not being good enough” and whatnot and then being fully engaged in life. Expanding your consciousness but actually resolving your inner issues. You have to actively ponder these deeper inner issues and give yourself the knowledge to resolve them by either going out and finding it or developing your own principles, usually both. Charm, intelligence, strength and resources attract women. Focusing on your own inner transformation, letting go of expectations and actually going out helps. You have to be open to new experiences and be really engaged. How social can most of you honestly say you are?? Many of yall have no idea how radically different life is when you develop extrovert qualities and can seamlessly make friends and talk to women. Moving is also a great idea if you live in a boring place with no hoes. one shoe does not fit all. It’s better to seek personal advice by sharing your story and where you are having problems and why you believe you are having these problems.

However you can choose to be a honest person and still get laid. I don’t know where this misnomer that being honest means more sex or even deserving of sex though. In fact being honest often times weeds out all sorts of draining dishonest sex leaving room for love based sex that is in alignment with truth female attraction can vary but a lot of guys look for predictability and morals in it which there aren’t. It’s just as free of morals and dishonesty and inconsistencies compared to all the ways men will engage in dishonest sex, rape, cheating, etc. Plenty of violent psychopaths repel just as many women, if not more than they may attract. Every man needs to stop putting women on a pedestal once and for all, I know that’s a challenge though, beauty is hypnotizing and a doorway to love. Emotional intelligence is a word thrown around that is confusing. We create our emotions. We aren’t a victim to them. We do so through our beliefs. From my point of view I wouldn’t say women are any more or less aware of how they create their emotions or how others do. But I will say they are better at reading body language and social situations much more so than men, and due to having more opportunities for getting sex and attention and approval from other people, are able to take advantage of these opportunities.

One of many acts for expressing love. Desire brings new life. It won’t be any different from now except without all the lies clouding sexuality.

This. Leo I’ve been watching you on and off since 2015 but I don’t really see the point in even bothering. You automatically go into almost every conversation on this forum like you know everything and you will just go into any podcast the same. So it will basically go with you basically describing your trips and since the host is sober and doesn’t really care about your personal trips they will ask one or two podcast tier questions that literally has the conversation go little to nowhere “ oh wow that’s crazy, isn’t that dangerous, life is inherently dangerous, oh good point man I drove here today and realized I can die any time, but do you really die?” Type stuff. A conversation is two people actually talking to listen and learn something from each other. There’s no point in even talking to other people if you haven’t actually developed this quality for yourself. You already have an audience here if you want to preach.

I would be careful over analyzing you are creating resistance. Keep it at that. now ask yourself why you are choosing to create resistance? Use self inquiry to get crystal clear on what you are doing and then see if it is authentically what you want to do and if it’s true.

The middle way live in balance and flow

The thing about bashar is that everything he is saying in regards to living in flow and harmony and using the law of attraction to create your dream life is said pretty clearly by other teachers and even discovered by oneself if you do self inquiry. Regardless of the woo woo his core teaching is what I have found to be true in my life as well. Beliefs create your reality so it’s all about taking responsibility for your beliefs and owning them and realizing you create your emotions and your life. The thing where a session may be helpful with him is if you are into epistemological stuff and pondering/discussing mystical states. He basically teaches what the Tao Te Ching says otherwise in terms of living a true / authentic life otherwise. I even prefer some other teachers to him that have in my opinion a better teaching on inner resolution work and law of attraction.

cool dude thanks for the info

Which is why I don’t listen to these teachers. They always say this is the bottom blah blah. I say I live in the unknown. This way there is always something new to learn and discover. You will never stop learning, expanding and discovering if you realize you live in the unknown.

How much is a session ?

It’s a very good question. I’ve even thought about this myself. There’s actually examples of both. There’s guys who have created some very life changing things in this world who were hustling and grinding through it all, and there were people who seamlessly seemed to wait, perhaps in sort of Wu Wei, and when they saw a wave, took off. There is a study where they examined how architects work, and they found the ones who were taking the most action and got started right away on a project were the least talented and innovate. Those that seemed to procrastinate and just doodle seemed to produce the best work, where things naturally unfolded and there was an explosion of creativity and right action. Look at judo, this martial art sport. You don’t struggle or strive in it in order to win. There’s a sort of flow you go with and at the right moment you apply force, and your opponent goes flying. I think the answer to this question is actually quite personal. As a spiritual being maybe you don’t want to take much action, but only the right ones. Or maybe you desire to constantly be doing something. I think it comes down to getting clear within yourself what’s the right choice for you , to be authentic.

Do not take 5meo again. I would get evaluated by a physicians as well, but to be honest this sounds like you have an unresolved issue about this trip. You need to take responsibility and realize you are the creator of your emotions, you are not the victim of them. You are creating them through your beliefs. You have to get down to the bottom of them and understand what is actually going on. why are you choosing to create this experience you call anxiety?

City of God is one of my favorite movies. I live in Rio too so it’s very eye opening to see how the city has changed over the years

super natural and mysticism has become more personal and less a topic of interest for discussion for me the more I have had these experiences. I’m sure sahdguru has plenty of stories to tell but it’s sort of idle chatter.

I read it once and it’s just a great book about a core components to creating whatever you want. Commitment and responsibility.

thank for sharing. I'm starting to look into and do Qi practices. It's very nice for working with the balance and bringing harmony to one's life.

Well that’s the reality of the situation. The most superficial metric which also happens to be the most important part of online dating since women have nothing to judge you by other than your photos. Guys who are in good shape and display a nice lifestyle. At the same time though you only need one woman at a time so I even if you are niched down I don’t think it’s a big problem if you do you really well and everything you are showing about yourself shows care and quality. How interesting the photos are, your fashion, etc.

Which is more authentic choice for you when you quiet yourself?

Wow thanks, I’ll try this. I want to make travel content on YouTube and documentary videos on the platform, travel blogging and also content on spirituality mixed in, self help, maybe even offer coaching or offer travel itineraries. I also am an off the beaten path traveler so I like to tell interesting stories and go places tourists usually don’t see. Any tips on how I can get more clear and creative on what I want to do and how I can align it with the flow of money?

could be, I just don't think this site is substantially helpful. I mean if someone has not developed any taste when it comes to photos or isn't aware of obvious things that make their photos weak, sure it's probably helpful but I would take it's accuracy with a grain of salt. Good photos are pretty apparent when you see them, just brows instagram, they come with an attractive and active lifestyle. Many women are aroused by highly engaged and active men, even if you are niched down, active and engaged lifestyle is key towards good photos.

Dating coaches making videos on dating apps don’t have any incentive to be honest with how the apps actually work or what their actual results are. Saying they have a solution to your problem and hyping that up makes it more likely you will buy something from them or watch their video to the end. Photo feeler itself is also highly questionable if it’s accurate. What woman you actually are attracted to uses that site to rate randoms? The truth is unless you are paying for the premium services as a man and have a very popular look for the area of the world you are swiping in, or you’re exotic cause you’re foreign, the results you get are always going to be mediocre / poor. I consider myself to have pretty decent photos too for the app and I’m a foreigner in South America and I even in doing just ok in terms of volume, a small fraction of matches the typical woman user gets on these apps. If you want results you’re going to need to really upgrade your profile which comes with an upgrade in lifestyle and be prepared to pay as well for perks for any sort of useful volume. I pay for platinum and get 1-3 matches a day of pretty girls.