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What are some useful counseling certificates or diplomas that can be done fully online ? How does one go about getting training. I’m wanting to start a business as a coach/counselor helping guys who have “incel” problems and are unable to make friends or get a girlfriend.

What do you believe there is to learn from Tate? I’ve watched some of his vids and it’s either very generic responsibility pep talks or a culture war rant. There is very little depth to anything he has to say. He is a simple man’s idea of a sophisticated man. All the chess and talk of history does not fool me. I don’t believe the women are victims. They may have been abused but I also think it was their choice to associate with such a shady person. I don’t believe they are to blame but they are responsible for chasing a shady lifestyle like this. I’m sure plenty of red flags were there and many of them made the mistake of sticking around. It’s not an excuse and Tate is responsible for his actions but these women are responsible for not playing the victim card and taking responsibility for their emotions and not repeating the same mistakes.

My gf is Russian as well and said it’s fine to take another girl into the bedroom for a threesome and wouldn’t be that mad if I cheated on her and she is fiercely loyal and aludes to it being open on my side as something that wouldn’t be relationship ending for her. Really feminine energy loves to serve and care for what the masculine desires. I’ve noticed this when both people are really on opposite ends of the pole. I believe men can enjoy multiple women but it’s going against nature the other way around, although it is fine for women to explore if they wish but many men aren’t really open for this role to be reversed if both will then have a traditional relationship together. Most guys don’t want a woman that has had so many guys before but the other way around is experience for a man and seen as attractive by women.

I for one neither hate him nor consider myself as a vigilante. I don’t know him. I envy his bank account but that’s it. All I’ve seen are some of his tweets and some news since he blew up. This guy I recall was an absolute no name for years before this where he would occasionally pop up on a red pill circle and even then he would say tons of toxic and hateful stuff, I’ve always been developmentally above him. I personally don’t need a masculine role model to look up to, which I guess he has a ton of simps that do? I don’t think he is evil. Every person has value and is loved by god the same amount. I think someone like Tate would of been a savage war lord a couple hundred years ago that goes into a town and murders every guy and keeps the women as sex slaves. Back then society was aligned with this behavior so this was just seen as normal and fine. Times have long changed however so his savage behavior won’t go unnoticed and even a conservative country like Romania has had enough of him.

The thing is most guys who watch Tate pick up all the toxic beliefs and disgusting personality Tate has built for himself. They don’t have the ability to differentiate (or they do it poorly) much at all. I’d say there is literally nothing I could learn about life from Tate except not to make the same mistakes he has. He doesn’t really teach anything except the basic premise of taking responsibility for you life and then flashes his wealth as his sort of social proof for that. That’s an age old lesson being repackaged over and over. Men need to hear it for sure but it’s basically an adage he just hitched his wagon to in order to sell self help courses. He took responsibility and directed it towards raping and exploiting. He did not use that to build something solid or truthful. Looks like he’s going to be serving some hard time perhaps now too so let that be a lesson to all guys here, learn from his mistakes and don’t make the same. Tate ended up teaching us something after all here.

I’m fine with poly when it’s open on my side and closed on her’s. It’s a double standard but I don’t care. I believe if a guy can offer a ton of societal value he can find a relationship like this.

I can’t think of a situation as a man that men hate more than when their girlfriend / wife is assaulted by another man. Fuck this guy. Basically we were separated at one point. She asked for directions from a group of four guys who said they were headed in the same direction and they would walk her there (like a two minute walk on a crowded street). As they were walking one of them grabbed her butt while she was wearing a miniskirt and tights. She freaked out, called the guy an asshole and left them straight away. She got a little lost too and it took her time to find her way there alone. She said even the friends of the piece of shit who touched her didn’t approve of his behavior. I keep brass wrings on my hands so if I have to throw a punch it will do 10x more damage. I haven’t had to throw any punches yet but I would of totally clocked this guy if I was there. fuck anyone that does this grabbing girls like that, she literally only asked for directions . rant over

Because Tate is part of society and is aligned with society values and every person here is part of society and most are still aligned with society values. I’ve reflected a bit on this myself and I’ve come to the conclusion Tate’s behavior is disgusting and I believe the best course of action for him is prison. The guy basically is a serial rapist and online webcam pimp. It’s funny how people like Trump and Tate are arbiters of “traditional values” in 2022. Neither of these two individuals are traditional.

Wow this thread has gotten big. I think this is basically a culture war with Tate at the front representing the red pill and anyone that trashes him is on the other side. cause tbh I don’t see anything special about this guy besides he’s good at being offensive. He doesn’t say anything really interesting. He owns all the usually designer stuff and the sort of typical sports car a 14 yo boy dreams about owning. He is kinda like Dan Bilzerian only more political, more toxic and he seems to be a rapist and making his fortune off exploring insecurities of guys selling bogus self help courses. Dan inherited all his wealth and then lied about making it all playing poker. I think tate ran a web cam studio too which can be used to abuse women. But also let’s not paint women as victims here, they need to take responsibility for associating with such a shady character. Dan got caught lying about owning that mansion in California. I guess these guys start falling apart when they get famous? Tate kinda reminds me of Dan but I think Dan is far less toxic and kinda just a chill guy who smokes a lot of weed and throw expensive parties and sleep with Instagram escorts.

They are definitely not useless. Results may vary though. Your photos, style and physical location play a huge role however.

It’s half hippy new age trash but there is some truth to it. You can’t control what happens outside your body and life is always uncertain. But through your beliefs you can creat and find stuff in reality you like and want and guide your canoe in different directions, but of course there is still always uncertainty. Law of attraction is mostly just a corny way of taking responsibility for your beliefs.

This forum is alright if you avoid the spirituality section and anything to do with that here and psychedelic drugs. It’s always been a dumpster fire and filled with dangerous advice, and assumptions from people who believe they are “advanced”, but I heard some long time members got banned which maybe helped? I haven’t followed Leo’s videos for over a year but I do like the forum he made for just general life improvement, politics and dating advice.

This forum changed some. I haven’t been here since last March. What has happened here ?

Pretty much this. He’s throwing pebbles at a tank that doesn’t even know his first name but his case number. How convenient it is to create a boogeyman amongst your fans and just blame it on that whenever your stuff goes south.

How much money do you think this guy has ? He seems to be pretty loaded.

I will break this down simply. You (people) are the creator of your emotions. You are not the victim of them and they aren’t unfolding on their own terms. They are created through beliefs which people have the ability to choose. Let’s not put the cart (emotions) before the horse (beliefs). So to become “vulnerable” is to basically share a belief system with another person. If the beliefs you share are such that where you are creating emotions such as fear and despair then chances are the person you are sharing them with can sometimes be put off by them because they have their own belief system about what a man should be like or they simple don’t like that this is what their man chooses to believe. Some women can’t handle to see that their man still has inner work to do. Women also have their own set of beliefs about men which may not fit with the person they are in a relationship with. creating appropriate emotions at the appropriate time is fine: I don’t think many women will mind if their man cries if someone they love has passed away for example. I would say we as men should strive to be as true to ourselves and not give away our power and let a woman determine our value based off how they think we should be. If you choose to create all sorts of emotions that have to do with feeling sad or weak, that is all on you to figure out why you do it and cease to do so.

Not a matter of perspective, it’s an absolute fact and truth I have a hot gf

if you can’t handle the beauty because you aren’t right with yourself, then stay out of the kitchen. Some of the guys here are fine with some heat and wanna eat something tasty.

She quite simply is a person that has a vindictive belief system that’s largely aligned with ideas around “hating the establishment.” Her entire political career is built around this and she is trying to live up to some sort of image she has created around this. And since much of the left, including outspoken leaders with diverging opinions like Bernie have largely formed a coalition with the center and the establishment, she has to do more radical and different stuff to keep up with what she has aligned herself with. Her new home is the far right because they house more people like this now who will listen to her.

What does vulnerable mean exactly here though?

She’s rubbish. This is why we as men need to choose our partners consciously. My girlfriend actually had a similar initial reaction to me crying but I stood by my guns and put her in her place when she called me out on it. Our relationship has evolved to the point where she sees my crying differently, but also I am far less in “victim” mode as I was back then. The tears I consciously shed I do so as a specific expression of something I believe and I use them to communicate that powerful belief to her. IE I love her and is being separated is something I do not like. So we both changed and now it’s just fine if I cry in front of her.

I’m not sure I necessarily believe or agree that lowering one’s integrity means it’s easier to get laid or simply have sex with a woman. I think they are just two different paths to some form of “success.” In fact I would say it’s maybe even more difficult to not have integrity but a lot of people have steeped themselves in victim mindset thinking so they find themselves twisting everything and doing crazy stuff like this (and in other areas of their life as well).

The thing is it was New Years so we were in a party area of town. Lots of women were dressed up like her. She was dressed up really sexy for me cause our plan was to go out for a bit and get fucked up and then come home and play but when we were apart for a bit and she was looking for the taxi she had her winter coat on which covered most of her and even went down almost as far as her miniskirt so she looked like a big ball of cotton. I think next time I won’t let us get separated even for a minute.

I’m not certain. I have an old school sort belief system (Macho man stuff) I choose to abide by sometimes where I have something to prove in such situations even though the rational adult side of me thinks a more measured and appropriate response depending on the situation would likely be better. I had been drinking and I’m in the best shape I’ve ever been in so I could of seen myself willing to throw down just for the heck of it. I trust myself I’d respond appropriately in such a situation so yeah I may or may not have chosen violence. you are 100% right, lots of women including my gf have all had messed up stuff like this happen to them before. It is part of reality for sure.

Yes ahaha she does have an amazing ass and she is a bombshell especially when dressed up to go to the club but still I don’t think that’s an excuse in this day and age. I think touching a woman’s behind is appropriate only if a woman has given pretty clear signs and rapport has been established. So maybe after a kiss or dancing, while making out it’s ok to touch it and see if she’s fine with it, situations like this. But here she just asked a group of strangers for directions and this scumbag thought he could cop a feel for some crazy reason. she said she was kinda in shock and it happened fast but she said even this scumbag’s two friends seemed kinda shocked he did it as well.