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more sex definitely does for some weird reason make my girlfriend less bitchy and annoying as well, she will get angry sometimes if I don’t fuck her for a few days and she definitely won’t ask for it either. She wants to feel wanted and desired and for me to make all the moves.

It doesn’t look as dire as you make it sound. No COPIUM on my end, unlike from the Russian side. What we see is a stalemate with both sides gearing up for offensives in the spring. Remember how the last stalemate ended? For Russia, the best they can do now is a stalemate and hope for a frozen conflict.

What do you guys think of this? It’s actually incredibly interesting and I think he makes some great points. I really hope this doesn’t lead to a war though. I could see China wanting to take Taiwan with force and double down as a fascist ethno state like Russia has with Ukraine the close they get to their colapse. time to reorient the world towards stage orange/green

Get a really deep long term relationship under your belt then go and enjoy being single. Sometimes I think we have to experience both of these. I’m personally not going to fully commit and sacrifice am the opportunity to shag more women in the future. I’m clear about that. If she still decides to follow me then that’s her problem.

I don’t disagree. I’d say there are lots of factors and forces which lead up to where we are now and I think everyone is responsible in some way for what’s currently happening. I grew up right at the tail end of what I’d describe as less politically divided times. Wasn’t a time free of these issues but society has def given greater focus to such issue to do with gender/sex and this idea of an incel wasn’t nearly as wide spread as it is today. This is also mostly a USA thing and I do believe some responsibility goes towards the radical left and their brainchild of experimenting with breaking traditional systems. What I’m seeing is zero focus on any problems men face, especially from this side that is a part of this sort of social discourse. The only voices I see appealing to problems men face are Tate and Peterson type people. The radical gender fluid left has definitely played a role in this as well. The radical right has also with their violent beliefs towards women but the radical left has created a crazy environment that demonizes masculine men and tradition courtship. Both sides needs to recognize their role but both are too stubborn to do so.

I do think the American left is partially responsible for contributing to an environment that allows for a Tate type person to rise in popularity. I can’t help but wonder if he would nearly as popular if men didn’t have it so hard in the USA getting their needs met with women. The left has definitely indoctrinated women to a degree and made them afraid of masculinity and even shamed them for wanting a man to lead them like in more traditional cultures. To gloss over what’s going on in the USA like it isn’t an issue would be a mistake. There is a huge gender culture war going on with all sides having things not go their way and one of those sides is the average guy being totally priced out and pushed out of the dating market.

You are creating this through your beliefs. I don’t know exactly what you believe, you have to ask yourself, but why do you believe it’s bad if your girlfriend went with this other guy who promotes some silly stuff a social media influencer says? What are your beliefs around this situation and especially what is says about you. You’re never a victim to your emotions, you create all of them. So what do you believe here? Why do you create grief around this issue ? I would presume you are telling yourself you are less than amazing / less than a man, etc. I disagree with that. I think you have value. You have your true spiritual value and nothing outside of you can ever compare to that. You can’t align with what society says or what some girl says is valuable to her. This stuff is always changing. At one point in time, there were different conventions and there wasn’t even a viral Tate guy. He will be replaced and carried away with change. Don’t hold onto beliefs that are out of alignment with your true value and integrity. Her making different choices says nothing about you as a person.

Too far right and you get some really nasty, disgusting bullies like Tate. Too far left and you get people who just say fuck it like Lizzo and kind of live in a delusion. I think it’s possible to stay in the middle and not shame or bully but also work toward a healthy diet.

Your belief is “there is no choice” you have much more to realize

You have some blind spots you haven’t fully explored or resolved or you wouldn’t the choosing to be with this person. You need to ask yourself why do you choose to be with this person. What are your beliefs around this person and this relationship.

you are offloading human responsibility on a belief that “we are one among many species of animals.” Wrong, humans go beyond animals and have the de facto ability to never act out of animal instinct if we so choose. You think some de facto force out of your control exists which does not, it’s simply your belief that limits your sight to see it’s entirely a human creation with no walls around it. That angry drunk man chose to be drunk and chose to be angry. No one forced him to be like that. You don’t make any point here. World peace will happen when every human realizes this potential and chooses not to be the angry drunk man. There is nothing stopping anyone from having this realization except themselves. How could there be? Humans behave like animals out of choice. There is no outside truth to it. They choose to be like this. There is no reason for violence to exist. You believe violence exists for a reason? Why? All you can list is another belief which will have an endless number of beliefs behind it, going in a circle. I can just keep asking “why?” You place a belief over why it exists. It simply exists because it exists and it will stop existing if people change their beliefs and choose for it to no longer exist. It’s as simple as that. When humanity as a whole roots itself in true spiritual value, violence will cease to exist, but this does not guarantee a world without survival challenges or other problems we will still have to overcome, or what new challenges change may bring. We are simply taking about evolving past violence.

No topic leads to extreme violence. There are simply topics and people choose to have them lead to violence over other choices due to their beliefs. We are always the de facto force behind anything that occurs in our actions or behavior or thoughts or feelings. There is nothing outside of you that can force you to do otherwise (including coercion, there are still beliefs there, still not a justification for trying to coerce people)or believe otherwise or act in any way unless it literally physically forces your body to do so by physical force. And even if it does trespass physicality it still can’t cross into your belief system or spiritual value. Many people place this force outside themselves and blame it on outside circumstances when they are always responsible for themselves whether they know it or not. Violence is not baked into anything. It’s a result of unconscious belief. Violence here is not the same as what Animals are doing. Animals do not have the ability to change their beliefs or see the world in a rational way so they act out a baked in belief system which we call instincts. We can call this survival for animals because it’s basically as high as they can go but not for humans. Survival has violence baked into it for animals but not humans. But like I said many things about how humans see the world will have to change before humans choose to no longer use violence.

I disagree with you too here lol. I don’t believe the logical concept of “agreeing or disagreeing” with another person’s beliefs is what leads to violence. you are basically saying “because people disagree it leads to violence.” Why do you believe because people disagree it leads to violence? These two things are not mutually exclusive. They are two separate things chained together. Not everyone has to believe the same thing for there to be world peace, but they do need to be on the same page about violence. You can have a disagreement with someone and have both people believing the issue does not have to be solved with violence. It happens all the time in modern society. We have courts for this very reason. This issue has been resolved on some scales in modern society already, it’s just expanding it outward. There was a point in time when issues were resolved purely with violence and the concept of a court didn’t even exist.

Definitely leverage this. Get it over to your social media and social circle. Let it seep into your personality. Can get some of them as a body if you ever break up with your girlfriend if you have one ? plant them seeds

I don’t believe it is and tbh I don’t agree with him. It’s simply a belief system the society / collective conscious shares. It will be several generations before people have the right level of development / consciousness and mindset so violence isn’t necessary to solve societal/state problems. A lot of facets and stuff to do with survival and resources will have to be able to support this belief system so lots of different stuff will have to be resolved before this is possible. I don’t see it happening on earth for easily another 200-500 years.

Horrible hopefully humans one day are advance that they believe they don’t need to have a war to stay entertained.

Do the Odin Project and learn JavaScript

Ahahahha I literally started to realize dentistry as an industry is kinda scammy and a large portion of it isn’t exactly backed by the best science either. This was back in 2019. I heard a totally different opinion about my mouth from 4 different dentists. Some saying I need braces asap or all my teeth will fall out by the time I’m 50 to other dude saying that’s all a scam and it’s fine if my wisdom teeth stay in. I met a dentist that talked me into removing my bottom ones because they could get infected and I have found it difficult to floss behind them so yeah, I decided to remove them, but it lead up to this after hearing 3-4 different ridiculous opinions on them. The industry is largely built on scamming people and pushing mostly cosmetic treatments. Dentistry is maybe only 50% about health.

These dudes simping for him as much as they are for women

So this is a term coined by black men in the USA. Basically guys who move abroad to date and meet women. I’m white and I’ve been living abroad since 2016 so I definitely support this and understand why this is kinda a viral thing now in mens groups online. I guess you could say I’m a passport bro before it was a thing and I’m sure it was a thing long before me. I think this is actually the best decision you can ever make for yourself if you are having issues dating in the USA. I think as long as you respect the local customs and laws where you go, make an effort to learn the language and don’t overly objectify the women, then this is some great stuff. I’m headed to South America if shit falls through where I am. Currently studying Spanish and wanna date some beautiful Colombian women. Any guys living the expat life or passport bro life here ?

don't get pumped. stop creating emotions that you probably think are keeping you introverted or lazy. you are creating laziness or whatever this opposite of pumped is. just stop creating that by examining the beliefs behind them. you'd be surprised how friendly and extroverted and the people you can meet just during your day to day life by removing the beliefs that keep you unengaged with people when you go outside.

it's intensive, 5 days a week 4 hours a day + speaking club and materials. yes, SA you have to be very careful. You can be drugged there if not careful. Caucasian will help, but the work you've done on yourself will pay far greater dividends than back home. No fooling at all. I have, it's ok to bad. Results will vary depending on the city and lots of other things including yourself. I do not enjoy USA dating style. Women are not my type there for the most part. I'm about efficiency and I really like foreign women and traveling and exploring. The lifestyle and adventure that comes with this is a huge part as well.

100x more. In NYC I'm lucky to get 3 tinder matches a day, 10 with a boost, 20 with a super boost. In Moscow I got 700 matches in a single weekend.... goes down by 10-20% every country west I go. I'm not a dope either, I'm in great shape, have cash, decent job, responsible for my emotions. I look good and am mentally strong and am a leader. It's a world of a difference. I would recommend most guys do it if the love to travel.

Lol don’t expect any (beautiful) woman to wanna commit to you if aren’t willing to move in together. You are right about boundaries though. You will have a surface level relationship that is going nowhere and you won't learn as much about the nature of women as you could if after a year you are still doing the "dating" thing. It's a rite of passage for going to higher tiers with women by living together and going deeper in this domain. You won't learn that through pick up. It's not necessarily the right priority for everyone or what they need though if they need more space for their career and life purpose.

I stay up late and let her go to bed before me. This helps. I get a lot of work done at night. I had the exact same issues when my gf and I moved in together a year ago. There are solutions. Join a co working space. That can help. Really stick to your boundaries. My gf would get kind offended when I would stand up to her constantly distracting me and asking for me to do stuff. She is unemployed too so you can imagine how much she would distract me. Spend conscious time with her and give her your all when it’s couples time but set strong boundaries for work and alone time. It will take some time to get it right.