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This is a topic I think all sides need to research more, we need to take medical science into play and really listen to people who identify as trans. You have the conservatives who think this is just a disease or whatever and then you have the liberals who are fine giving an elementary school kid radical hormone therapy cause little Chris now identifies as Christina. I’m supportive of giving pre teens some choice but we need safe guards to make sure they aren’t misdiagnosed or their diagnosis won’t be re-contextualized at a later point where they will regret it. It’s maybe a somewhat poor comparison, but I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was little. I was medicated. I grew up with this label thinking something was wrong with me. My mom had passed away and my dad was very distant and unavailable. Of course I would have behavior problems and not be able to focus in class in school with old teachers where half don’t give a shit. These medical models we use to try to fix kids can have all sorts of flaws and not account for many factors. I limited myself for years keeping my belief system entangled with this adhd / bad student label I created for myself believe what the adults in my life told me. We have to make sure these choices come from the most genuine and clearest of places with cutting edge science as well. These are decisions that shouldn’t be made from liberal emotions. Some adults are making these choices from some fad liberal agenda which is based heavily on their hippy ideology and it could really cause problems for some kids who are indoctrinated into this and one day think they are a different gender cause they want some attention and don’t realize the ramifications from changing one’s identity so drastically.

It’s basically the reason why pick up guys are able to make so many videos. There are a lot of guys who just want to try and understand something that can’t ever be understood in its entirety. Why do women flake? Cause they can. Where does a 300kg gorilla sit? Where ever it wants to. The best thing you can probably do now is rest up and start making some plans to go out this weekend.

Stop thinking about this and stop looking for some silly mental model or belief to explain everything that happens. It’s a waste of your time and mental energy. Your entire energy should be going towards understanding yourself and understanding any beliefs that are keeping you from living in your flow and going out to socialize, or from doing whatever else you wish to do. It’s that simple but it’s the heavy lifting. Stop distracting yourself. This does nothing to get you laid or even understand anything you need to understand.

You need to travel. Vegas is clouding your world view. There is way more to pick up and women than your Vegas bubble.

Most of the guys here envy the lifestyle he had and Tate is also is associated with self help and pick up / women which a lot of guys are into here. Makes sense why he would be discussed a lot here. There is a lack of masculine role models in this space.

How’s your diet ? I’ve noticed this happens to me if I’m eating foods packed with fat and carbs.

I’m going to do some research on this stuff. Some of it seems kinda inconclusive. I did a heavy metals urine test in 2021, did it all properly, and my results came back showing I didn’t have any in me. Found it odd since I do eat canned seafood a couple times a month. I’d like to improve my energy levels and clarity of mind.

A larger gay male population would be similar to the problem when a country goes to war and loses half it’s men. Creates issues with repopulation. Wouldn’t be as bad with all the unresolved trauma and violence though.

So the argument is toxins / metals / pesticides => a contributing factor to fueling degeneracy, potentially harmful sexual beliefs in society and weak social structures. I can kinda see it. I think this would have more to do with stuff like ADHD, learning disabilities, autism and these sorts of stuff but could also affect choices these people make with their sexuality and following a fad. I think the lgbtq culture we see now is partially a fad and will become less prominent and more just a causal fixture in western society going forward. We may even see the gen z generation looked back on as the gay generation. Just hope kids aren’t indoctrinated so much, transitioning in youth seems like it could be a big issue down the line.

@Consept I think early 40s is a good time to look for a long term partner to marry. Testosterone goes down as you age so you probably won’t be as tempted. Also you will have had a solid 20 years to build yourself up and also sleep and date a ton of women. We are gifted as guys because we can play the field longer. I wouldn’t waste that on a marriage in my 20s or 30s. To me it’s important to sleep with a lot of women and get a good taste of all that’s out there. I have a friend who is 43 who was dating a 27 yo. We as guys should not waste this. I’m perfectly fine as of now not getting married and shagging young women till I’m in my late 40s.

Is this guy a student ? there was a video of some old dude doing this as well (he was like 30) and he was getting results ?

This is an unbelievably cool tool and project. I’m actually finding myself coming to it for help on things like JavaScript and asking it detailed questions which it produces. It also seems to have been programmed with integrity which is great (of course I asked it how to have sex with a woman). All around a stand up job from OpenAI. I will use it going forward to help me with programming and writing. It absolutely can be used no for that.

I mean, I see your point. I just am not sure where the chemistry line ends and the belief line begins. Seems like there’s always something kinda crazy going on in society. Also, prior to modern chemistry a lot of people were just peasants and drank a ton so it’s difficult to gage it with the health of prior generations since modern medicine has kept up. All I can say is I wonder how people would be different if this stuff was cleaned up from foods and homes. Do I think it would end all the glitter hair gay “my pronouns are xe xer ” stuff? Not sure. Seems like it’s gen z’s version of being edgy. I have a family member who even identified as like non binary or whatever just from hanging around mean green sjw types then seemed he dropped that as soon as he made a new group of friends.

She wants to explore her sexuality a certain way. You obviously don’t want that to be a part of your relationship with her. You ended it, good. Stop creating all negative self hating emotions with your beliefs. You are a spiritual being that is never worth less than your true value, which is the highest and greatest value of them all. We all learn through mistakes and experience. You learned about what you want or don’t want in a partner and how to handle your his situation. Reflect on it and move on. No need to play the victim and create these self punishing emotions which you are 100% doing yourself, no external force is causing you to believe what you believe. You will be wiser and stronger having gone through this ?

If it wasn’t chemicals it was bacteria. I just don’t think this is something influencing people’s preferences or if it is it’s probably towards the back of the line with beliefs towards the front. Maybe the metals could lead to more impulsive choices but we also have molly and cocaine now which probably influences that more. We’ve also had alcohol for ages which has also been a substance a lot of people have sex on. Seems to me all the gay USA non-binary over the top stuff we are seeing is more just a society trying on new clothes and different values. I don’t think it’s rooted too much in the chemistry dimension.

Do you think this is the industry to be in to ensure remote work going into the future? I enjoy this work. But I also largely got into it because it seems to be the best field to be in to be fully remote going into the future.

It’s hard to say conclusively. I don’t think toxins / chemistry plays a role nearly as much as beliefs do. There has always been all sorts of stuff out there in our food. Society values are always changing. In my dad’s lifetime you could be arrested for being gay and today you can get married if you are gay. That is a pretty big shift and I think you can look for chemical explanations to make sense of the data but it won’t actually tell you much. Look at stage blue / red countries. Is their food somehow cleaner? Some of these countries say that gays don’t even exist in them North Korea must be all about that all organic gmo free food. I think some people may have just natural gay / trans tendencies or preferences, but due to the environment and beliefs surrounding this, you have more people choosing to adopt this lifestyle, sometimes even if it’s just “trendy.” the body will give physical pleasure for a lot of things.

Fair enough. it’s not known but by my estimate it isn’t just one or two. This is where I disagree with you and I think you’ve made a number of mistakes. I believe your work’s dangers aren’t always apparent, even with a warning label and I think elaborating isn’t necessarily sufficient and much more of a token gesture and lip service even if that isn’t your intent. I presume you believe elaborating is sufficient to solve this problem, but it is not. I haven’t watched the YouTube video in the OP. I just saw this thread turning into a critique of your work and used it to share my thoughts.

A large portion of your community is what we could label or call “not sane” though or rather unwell / immature, etc. It’s ultimately their responsibility to upkeep themselves and keep themselves safe. I believe this. I also believe it’s your responsibility to use your platform in a way to not spread thoughts/ideas/beliefs (you call them teachings) that could be dangerous in “the wrong hands” or rather do so carefully / maturely.

I tried this once. It makes you seasick and then when water is dumped on you it goes away. that’s all it did for me. I was not sick going in and had nothing to treat. It didn’t improve my life in any way except leave some burns on my arm. I believe it may be able to treat certain medical conditions BUT I also believe these Amazon medicines that have now been adopted by new age communities are very dangerous. There isn’t really any rational thought given to how to administer or use them. Everyone will tell you something quite different. Also there isn’t any oversight or the support of an institution or large body of research to guide your treatment. Things can go wrong in all medical settings but this stuff I think starts to cross into dangerous territory. I would not do this unless you do a massive amount of research and maybe even look for a doctor who went to medical school to administer it. They have some in Spain.

We need better moderation tbh. Too much lunacy gets platformed here for the sake of “thinking holistically” or “confronting self bias” example: that MLK thread there is re-examining historic figures using a sharp, well educated comparative mindset and then there is sitting outside writing “MLK was bad, prove me wrong” like that guy from YouTube.

Romania is corrupt but they are turning a new page and under the watchful eyes of Brussels. Not saying it’s a perfect system of accountability but the influence is better than none and does slowly make these countries less corrupt.

What if that 30 something year old loitering is one of the professors?

I just can’t get behind Tate. Even though I disagree with the radical gender wars and all that radical left wing stuff from the USA. I can’t support someone that’s just so corny and will soon be on trial for rape. It’s like when trump first got into politics in 2015. The guy to me was such a joke and I couldn’t understand how anyone could actually support the guy. It’s the same with Tate even though I probably would agree with half of the thing he says. Integrity is important.