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Thanks for the compliment. I agree I do believe I treat women well. I’ve never cheated and if you only knew what I did for me ex… sometimes at my own expense. I think this is a life lesson to not put another person before myself until I can really support someone.
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notice how the majority of the feminine beautiful women in the USA are never the ones pushing these notions of gaining “autonomy and power.” radically redefining long held beliefs will have consequences, both good and bad. I think there’s a little more going on here than simply categorizing women as less free then vs now. Roles have changed for better or worse. Just look at all the disharmony between the sexes.
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Thank you for the compliment. It’s just my preference and lived experience. Seems like a lot of guys had the same lived experience. I didn’t even have a huge problem attracting some cute girls in the USA but I did notice a difference in values. I just feel like I’m valued more abroad for being a man where in the USA it’s like this gender role is constantly under scrutiny
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I don’t like being called this because I was doing this 8 years before this term was coined. I don’t consider myself a passport bro. I don’t like being a part of this group and I’ve integrated well every place I lived abroad. Passport bros tend to be make tourists who go abroad and engage in prostitution.
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I don’t think anything beats rental properties
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I’m going to go off again and say any of you who are struggling to date in one of these countries USA, UK, Canada, Australia Should just leave for a better country: Argentina, Colombia, Brasil, Russia, Belarus, Thailand, Indonesia, etc… (there are more). Even Central Europe, Spain, Mexico, Eastern Europe, South Korea, are huge steps up. It is very difficult to meet women who will value you in the USA if you living as an isolated incel on the autism spectrum, adhd, etc. it’s a nuanced topic but you’re much better going abroad and you will see what it means to actually have a woman value you, and that can kick start a ton of momentum to resolve all those inner issues. I can write up a guide for anyone interested on this. Don’t waste your time in USA, it’s a losing game for the vast majority of you. Unless you’re already really extroverted and know how to pull and have a lifestyle or network that allows you to, don’t bother building it in the USA it’s far too expensive and the dating market is awful. If you’re looking for a spiral tier 2 life partner though I personally believe my above advice matters less since by just walking your tier 2 path you will attract them along the way, however I don’t really go about dating like this. I look for beauty and then compatibility. It may be different for many seekers or people going deep in their spirituality here but I enjoy a relationship for what it is and as long as the sex is good, she’s beautiful, and we share the same interests for travel, and she’s an honest communicator who is loving and charming, I’m set. I’m not looking for something philosophically deep in my relationships. That’s what this forum is for, that’s what books are for.
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The Jewish lobby plays a role and public perception as well. However Israel is similar to the USA , it’s like a little European country. Having an ally geographically situated there gives USA strong influence over the region.
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Maybe at one point in time. They have an extremely powerful military and their current borders are pretty well defended with all the expansion they have done. Golan heights from north gives them high ground. Seems like Iran and Arab countries have their own historical beefs too so that would require tremendous cooperation. Borders in Middle East are drawn in a way that makes it very difficult for international cooperation. No way all those countries could work together to make it a success. Their last attempts failed pretty poorly. The war would have to be staged from Egypt, Jordan and Lebanon. And two of those counties are no longer willing to fight.
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I heard that Israel also faces widespread decline from how unpopular this war is. Committing ethnic cleansing hurts investments in their industries which are very important for their economy. They have almost no tourism. Their academia may suffer some from being an outcast. Their current state system creates so much disharmony it spreads deep through their economic and development as well. I try to avoid extreme takes and look at a balance between what I’m hearing. Israel does have a decent army and some natural gas energy. I don’t think these voices saying Israel will fall are correct but I do think this will make the country much poorer and unpleasant to live in, who knows what that can then lead to. Apparently they have brain drain too now with anyone with means leaving. Some huge number of doctors left as well, their medical industry has brain drain. This war is having similar effects as what is happening to Russia, I don’t think either state will just crumble and the country will cease to be but I think on the world stage their power and wellbeing will be greatly reduced to eventual revolution or entire reworking of the state will take place due to the massive amount of internal issues.
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Hezbollah to the north is strapped with powerful long range missiles and a ton of men. Hamas has the ability to slow down IDF through gorilla warfare in Israel’s offensive. I don’t believe there exists a way to overthrow Israel militarily but there are sunk costs for Israel in this. Getting bogged down in a drawn out conflict can cause long lasting erosion to a state. Also Israel is becoming a pariah on the world stage. Iran is developing nuclear technology. Lastly keep in mind the rising isolationism in the USA and shifting alliances. It was sacrilege to once question NATO, look at how that has been deeply called into question. Israel is on strong footing but it’s not as certain as you think.
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I wanted to hear from this forum cause I appreciate it coming from people who value spirituality , but yep I’ll look for other groups as well that are more focused on this
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sure thanks for your input
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I’ve listened to this guy and he is very well off financially and is an interesting speaker. The issue I have though with his viewpoint is to me it just seems soulless and self centered to the point at the expense of others. He seems to really benefit from a system that greatly exploits people in order for others to be well off. He also says not to follow your passions which to me I believe are the doorways to our most fulfilling and unique lives being our authentic selves. Lastly he equates heavily with having to earn love with being financially successful which to me only feeds the false notion that we need people to complete us, a person spiritually aligned tends to be indifferent towards relationships and their wellbeing is not rooted in this ever changing dynamic. I appreciate that he speaks up for young men and he does seem to have some sensible values about policy reform and old people amassing wealth, yet he seems to have done the same for himself. He’s sort of presented in this thought space as a more alternative and holistic voice regarding the challenges we face with wealth inequality today but to be honest there’s something still soulless and at the core of his belief system built largely around a system that acts based off human scented mind / survival rather than higher guidance. In his belief system the core problems of our exploitive economic model are not actually resolved. He would probably disagree with me and I’m not saying he’s entirely wrong but some of the stuff he says I don’t agree with. What are your thoughts? “Let’s be honest, it’s the most boring shit that makes you rich” to me right here this is the exact, soulless problem our society has today. Maybe it’s just my ideal? But this is a recipe to living a spiritual broke life with a full bank account. I’ve had half a million in cash sitting in my bank at one stage in my life and I can say this, no amount of cash can make up for living a boring inauthentic, passionless life. “Find your talent not your passion” I’m not even sure what this means? Usually the thing a person is most passionate about holds their greatest talents.
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yes it's true. I'm not saying I'm anti-money and I'm not saying I'm such an idealist that I will say it's the root of all evil and we need to rework the planet so money no longer exists. I accept money and realize it's part of reality and a part of me. I am working on integrating money in a healthy way. I'm just saying let's not entirely lose sight of the bigger picture and let our logical survival mind run the show. We need to stay in touch with our higher guidance
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sure, of course. but I definitely see a way to balance both, I don't think there isn't room for spirituality even in very dire survival situations. If anything it can help with survival in terms of clear thinking, balance and moving forward in the best way possible. This line of thinking seems to go too far to one of the extremes. there's always room for spirituality even if survival is what truly needs attention at the moment.
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Very good point and I completely agree, balance is key here. I don’t see how cultivating soul though, following intuition, passion and higher guidance, comes after survival. I believe both spirituality and attracting financial wellbeing, building pragmatic skillsets, can all grow together, not one in front of the other but all at once in balance. It just seems like Scott misses this other spiritual part. I’m not saying ignore all pragmatism but what is pragmatism with out the drive of passion behind it?
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I’m not saying it doesn’t make sense. From a certain perspective it’s a good idea and for some people if they believe that is right for them then go for it. I thought what we are doing here though is cultivating our connection to soul which is what is true. Being true and authentic. Not purely strategic / survival minded about money because we believe money guarantees safety (tell that to Kobe Bryant who died a multi millionaire in a helicopter crash). I’m not a expert on what Scott believes but a lot of what I heard from him is based largely around avoiding hardships in life and gaining relationship opportunities via financial abundance. Following a skill set that you are good at and that is currently economically viable (not everyone has at first, evident talents that are economically viable), but then ignoring your intuition and higher guidance which says “this isn’t actually what I want, there’s something else I’m actually passionate about and that is truly my life purpose.” Is this good life advice if we are wanting to live true lives? Does one value truth if their whole world view is based around a strategic money plan that is in place largely due to fear of lacking relationships and experiencing hardships? The man owns many houses and is rich as shit? He half handedly doubts, all be it in a respectful way, 50k euro a year European model which many of those countries have some of the highest levels of happiness and fulfillment. I see his point of view and from a perspective he is realistic about hardships. I don’t disagree that there are hardships in life and there is a place for natural strategic thinking, I don’t know. I think his path looks like it’s paved with good intentions that will lead to a more fulfilling and happy life but I have serious doubts about that, from a Wall Street guy I don’t know. He seems very sensible, much more so than the average Wall Street / tech guy but the core of his teaching I think is still based around living according to fear and avoiding pain rather than following intuition and truth. And I’m not saying working in a bank or finance or sciences doesn’t have its place or may be the truthful for many people but if that’s one’s true calling then follow that, but just picking it solely based off of fear around not having a relationship or money to thrive with several mansions and $100 million. I don’t know. Maybe I’m not making sense if someone doesn’t know what they want to do, I would invite them to do self inquiry and discover higher guidance within, try new things, follow passion. He says not to follow passion. FOLLOWING YOUR FUCKING PASSIONS IS PRECISELY WHAT BRINGS CLARITY AND CLEARS UP NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO! Maybe following passion one discovers their natural talents and gifts are not currently economically viable, or they are, maybe they need some more expanding and to bring in more skills. I’ve found most people’s natural talents and gifts are their passions. Maybe this is just a game of words and most people don’t try enough stuff and haven’t done enough self inquiry so they think because they enjoy playing piano as a hobby that it’s their passion. Passion is the feeling of joy being connected to truth and oneness, not the enjoyment of some hobby.
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Lyubov replied to Javfly33's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I personally like George’s use of falsehood. My dad was not always a very nice guy either. Classic closed off 50s boomer. He was very unsupportive closed off. I wouldn’t call the mistreatment and lack of support falsehood. I think the beliefs we form from it are though. We believe we are not whole, are not divine, the core of it is basically “I’m not good enough, there’s something wrong with me, I’m not whole” so in a way the suffering we are experiencing is based on a lie. Not that we weren’t mistreated but the world view we formed around it. I don’t think anyone denies that it’s possible to mistreat another person. I think the false hood though is what we then claim that miss treatment means. It’s impossible to be a victim. -
We are living in a de facto one state reality. Israel is a Jewish state first and foremost. They can only keep the loud part quiet and ethnically cleanse the place. In Israel democracy comes second. It’s a joke. The democracy is for the Jews in the country not other ethnicities on the territory.
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The thing is though strategically and geographically speaking Israel is painted into a corner. There is no way they will ever let up in terms of the geography they control that technically isn’t recognized as a part of their country by the UN. A large part of their state building even hinges on having these territories and maintaining them for strategic purposes. There’s no way they will cede land. A two state solution borders on impossible in my point of view. How can you have a independent state geographically located inside and controlled by a stronger more powerful state? Really the best the West Bank can hope for is some sort of autonomous region integrated into the Israel state geographic integrity. It’s the only solution I see. In what world will territorial divisions solve this.
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Lyubov replied to Javfly33's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This is spot on. The lower self sees it as losing control but that’s not it at all. It’s just another label by the lower self to stay in the familiar, integration of this is seeing this expansion is true control, inherently designed into the unfolding unknown, which to me true control is total acceptance, which then leads to freedom. -
I don’t like the word evil, far too biblical for my taste. If you agree that evil is action based on a lie then I’m fine using this word in this conversation. So then yes there’s plenty of people doing evil things, but to me truth is beyond morals. So if you are calling it evil because you think it’s good or bad, that’s subjective. At one point in time society thought it was morally wrong to be homosexual but that has since changed, what is considered moral is often subject to change but it does tie in with truth. What do you mean by “surrender some selfishness”?
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Lyubov replied to Malelekakis's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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It’s a game of words and notions. Any sensible and reasonable person grounded in their life would of course agree you can act cruel and evil. I don’t think anyone is actually in denial here that there’s a balanced and healthy way to live that’s spiritual and there’s an opposite to that which could include hurting other people. That’s the problem with these discussions that people try to solidify the Devine so much that it boggles the mind, since at the end of the day all these discussions here are basically yapping. Every person here would agree they don’t want cruel and hurtful things done to them by another person. This does not contradict truth. And I believe it’s possible to live from the absolute perspective, hear no evil see no evil, while at the same time holding this preference and point of self reference for preservation, I know so from experience.
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Oh I see, yes good point