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I personally don’t really believe in game skills weakening in a relationship. If anything the sex and feminine elevates a man’s energy and the girlfriend effect lifts him 1000x more than grinding pick up. You can easily spot the guys who have done a ton of pick up but haven’t been in an LTR with a really beautiful woman, fallen madly in love. Especially the guys who do pick up decently and do get sex. They lack this finesse and authenticity. Cold hearted. They don’t dress very good either. It’s an entirely different level, get a girlfriend you’re crazy about. That’s the doorway to learning about women deeply if you really want to. You become a sex god too this way.

I don’t really follow this logic though. Considering this is a war and things change. I think the general consensus is for people who support Ukraine is that Ukraine was attacked by another state which is wishing to rebuild their empire and expand their geographic influence into lands they once had control over. This is Ukraine, a nation state fighting for survival while Russia does not really recognize the Ukrainian state and sees them as Russians who have been sort of colonized by post Soviet western forces through military expansion. Russians don’t really recognize Ukrainian sovereignty. They see them as sort of country folk with a different accent but essentially Russian and part of the Russian empire. Russia at face value justifies their invasion as a security risk, NATO expansion up against a geopolitical weak point for the state of Russia, flat land that leads to their capital, however when the one man who chose this war, Putin, speaks his mind he reveals this is actually more of a conquest to regain lands he sees historically as Russia. Rebuild a sort of empire that was destroyed when the Soviet Union fell. In many ways though the identity of the Russian empire has been built a good bit off this geopolitical weakness with all the flat land in Ukraine leading into their Moscow capital, so I do not see this as entirely a lie, there is a point to be made here. I do think there is an element of long term strategic positioning here in terms of wanting to control Ukraine for security for their country.

Anyone done this before? I would consider a 1-2 year online program. Anyone done this? I want for it all to be entirely online and for the work to be as well. Any tips?

How you vote for trump in 2016 then want to shoot him mfer running on the same damn platform

It’s well documented he does not like NATO, does not support Ukraine and doesn’t care what Russia does. You can expect isolationism from him and a petty big shift in USA / European security relations. I already think the damage has largely been done unless some unknown factor / luck influences the Ukraine war in such a way where it revives things.

Well at least this stereotype that all liberal men in America are soy boys who don’t know how to use a gun are starting to be shattered

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The real “enlightened” ones here realize they know nothing. I don’t know shit 😁

This is not a matter of value, it’s a matter of preference. Do not confuse what I’m saying about high body count women as a judgement of their value. It’s a matter of preference that many men share for good reasons.

And I also think this applies to one side more than the other. Bothered by it? Take it up with the creator. We are all different and unique. I’m not crying about having more muscle, the implications and obligations for my own uniqueness, the expectations for me to defend and put my body on the line if there is danger. Let’s not try to just level out the differences in male and female sexuality. My 5’3 120ib ex gonna defend me if there is a war? Way too much denial these days in this. Women putting their bodies up easily for any man are not attractive as long term partners and for good reasons. Men do not want to fully commit to a woman who has been had by a huge amount of men, that number is subjective and depends a lot on culture but it is an observable phenomena. It’s not fair. Life is not fair, it’s fantastic.

I do agree that a woman for her sexuality and whatnot doesn’t diminish her value but also I want to add that men are not wrong for wanting low body count. Men are constantly being gaslit for this. We do not want to give up our options to girls who been fucked by lots of other guys. I know everyone is trying to constantly spin it as male insecurity. Sorry, no. It’s male survival and thank god we have this because choosing a woman who slept with half the town is a terrible survival strategy if we want our genetics passed on and to honor what we value which is beauty and exclusivity. If a woman sleeps around I agree that doesn’t affect her value. Fine. Anyone who wants to be with her can be with her and I wouldn’t say they are better or worse for it. But following your logic we could throw in any preference. You could say the same for being fat, for being physically unattractive. It’s opinion. A woman who slept around is a huge red flag for me and for most men and it isn’t because we are just closed minded bigots. If there’s 10 men and 1 woman on an island, there’s one baby, 10 women 1 man, 10 babies. This is nature. Mammals across many species value exclusivity. From our relative preference why should I value sex with a woman who fifty other men had? Would you like to give me some dollars and I’ll give you Monopoly money? I do agree in an absolute sense value doesn’t change and this is not an attack on anyone. It’s a matter of preference and I’m just saying I’m tired of men being gaslit for having this preference. We value women who haven’t been had by every brother, and that is not an insecurity.

That’s 99% of the 24 hour news cycle. People used to get 30 minutes a day of news and that was it.

Acceptance is very powerful.

He’s always acted cringy and weird. You seen him before he got hair plugs around the PayPal time? He has a lot of money and is good at business so people see only that side of him so to speak. If he worked a job with less prestige he would probably be one strike away from getting fired for harassment. Granted he may be in the spectrum though so he’s out of pocket.

Trump did bad but not as bad as Biden

Wonder if this will affect trump as much as the disaster Biden debate

I actually think the opposite hillary was incredibly un likable. She had this sort of this way of carrying herself where she thought she was going to be given the presidency on a silver platter. She was not relatable, boring, zero charisma and it seemed like when debating she was speaking to big money interests. Kamala I feel is talking to me. She’s much better than Hilary. Hilary in hindsight was an awful candidate.

On a state level, sure and one could make a case that's a big deal but socially they are not far off at all.

No clue, life is uncertain no? I hope for 100 years, I have set this intention and will take responsiblity for this.

I would find someone who can really help you resolve your core beliefs and help you understand why you are creating depression. This is my opinion but generally speaking these social bootcamps are overpriced and not worth it at all. The suggestion above about backpacking and traveling is even better. I would really focus on "healing", social skills just naturally get better when you are in your flow and not self sabotaging. I think this is where you should focus, not on some surface level bandaid. If it was affordable I'd say go for it but $4k is so much. Save your cash and look into therapy with someone who is developed and been where you are at. I wouldn't even mind hopping on a call with you if it helps, I'm wanting to practice coaching so it could be mutually beneficial. A lot of talk therapy goes in circles, you need to get down to the core of the belief which you are creating the depression from and change it.

calm down guy, you'd be surprised how many men are willful slaves to this notion. I'm not saying don't provide, I prefer to pay for my dates as well, free yourself from this expectation, you will see how exploited you are by yourself holding onto these beliefs. you can be paying for those dates while she's hopping on someone else's dick, I've seen it, I've been on both ends. Careful with your money and chi energy. You do not need to provide right away.

Great post and I agree with everything you wrote here. I’m currently really quieting and resolving any issues with my belief system which blocks this inner love and acceptance within me.

This is the thing about life though. We can never be 100% sure on anyone or certain about anything. All we can do is focus on ourselves with this regard. I would say it is a very reasonable belief to believe there is someone out there for you if you are aligning with the abundance in the world and you are able to really see the world in a new and different way. Don’t believe everything everyone has told you about scarcity and half of what you see, don’t believe that either. This is where the law of attraction comes in. I’ve found just treating any sort of thinking that largely prioritizes something outside us as fruitless usually. It’s better to ask “what can I do to become more authentic and attractive.” Just even pondering doubts creates more doubt. Be careful.

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I've been through this before myself. I can say that it was eye opening to me. A lot of it comes from beliefs about love and relationships that need to mature, and it's not just for men but women too. We have these ideals about love , we commodify it, we believe we need another person in order to have value when we don't, we can take on a very narrow perspective especially when in love because we see this person as sort of the fix for our addiction. The wider implications are relationships are always changing, love is not a commodity so this person isn't actually giving us anything just mirroring back what we have created, and that lastly and most importantly we don't need another person to be whole and should be prioritizing our own path. So all of this can really contradict and create a conundrum where we have to actively prioritize what is true and what benefits us the best and most in the most honest and authentic way and often times this can come at the expense of our ideal laced relationship which was filled with all sorts of intense passionate highs from sex and travel and really all the amazing stuff that is relating to people. Many people have a natural appreciation for relating. So the life lesson of sorts is to expand and really start to see the bigger picture, which doesn't seem to ever end. I know this exact topic intimately. my 3 year relationship ended exactly over this and many of the things you wrote here were a dynamic which my ex and I struggled with. I have heard her side quite well and have explored mine also so to me I feel very comfortable with my understanding on this. Basically I see this as an opportunity to approach love and relationships from a different angle and drop a lot of the ideals often times placed on them. I'm not sure the next time I will have a girlfriend. I definitely know I don't want one that prioritizes me as an ATM.