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I find myself hitting a wall when it comes to this topic. I've grown out of actively hating or desiring seeing such people punished or such stage red/blue type reactions but beyond that I just feel indifferent. I almost don't want to feel any particular way about it or even put energy into it and I'm far from feeling foregiveness or love for such people. It feels like a blockage. I'm talking about people who are truly beyond saving. The most selfish of the selfish. Not people who are psychotic/unstable and do something crazy or someone in an incredibly desperate survival situation but those with reasonable mental clarity and means who plan and plot out their selfishness which causes immense suffering in the lives of others. I feel zero love and foregiveness for such people and don't have any good wishes to give them. How to overcome this blockage?

wtf did this thread turn into 0_o

I only would have had sex with one roommate of mine but we were friends and she had a boyfriend so I never put any energy into trying to move the relationship in that direction. I think it can work out but it may come with some issues too.

This is pretty common for Rogan. He always handles all his guests with kid gloves unless if they make some statement about how trans women should compete with biologically born women

Do you think tantra can be helpful for someone who has some shame and energy blockages when it comes to sex?

I do agree. I think the core of Moojis teachings are pure. I wouldn't label his satsang a straight up toxic cult. I think it has more in common with very liberal and immature boundaries like one of those workplaces that sort of turns into a party and without ethical standards and delineation where the boss is dating a person in a lower position of power and using their status to indulge in a sort of less than humble conduct. It isn't exactly a cult but it is irresponsible and a recipe for setting yourself up for some trouble. He should be more careful how he chooses his partners and it most definitely should not be students... Perhaps a senior student that is closer to his age and has been part of the organization and holds a position of autonomous power. Not hippie chicks passing through that he takes a liking to and asks facilitators to introduce them to him. This is all hearsay to me though. I don't know exactly what has happened.

yeah this is helpful. I realize for instance if I experienced all the stuff hitler did and was in his position with his means and level of consciousness I would have very likely made similar choices he did. It doesn't make what he did "excusable" or not selfish or not to be held accountable for but it puts into perspective how anyone could have turned out like that and thus there is no reason to judge.

I saw that conor video you posted and want to try this now. I've only heard of it before but I think it is a dimension that may be helpful for me. I'm currently single so I'm going to be practicing on my own. Gonna look up some books and share them when I find them.

love him

this dude has been doing some hardcore seeking since his ayahuasca awakening

This is a VERY common fantasy for many women. It's so common that it is often enjoyed through novels (50 shades), porn, etc. I've dated and spoke to many women who have this same emotional attraction to varying degrees. Many women have this fantasy and there is nothing wrong with it. There is an aspect of the feminine that wishes to be embraced by the masculine like this. All you have to be conscious of is engaging with it consciously. That is it. No need to feel shame about it and it doesn't make you a defective or wrong person. There is so much shame around sexuality. I think as a society we need to realize sexuality is much more expansive than we realize. It is sort of an avenue that various emotional needs may manifest in. No need to feel bad about the content. Just look for ways to satisfy it in healthy ways. Many masculine men fantasies about dominating women, owning them sexually, etc. Find a partner who is on the opposite of the pole of your fantasy and fulfill each other's together.

lurked some right wing message boards. the meltdown and delusion is so thick it can be cut with a knife.

The problem with the argument most people make for the US not being the planet’s s police is that it fails to take into account how such a situation arose in the first place, why it still is and the ramifications of a suddenly the US had its military cut into half and no longer played the role over the course of say one presidential term. It’s not as simple as just cutting budgets and taking troops home. Sure, an audit could be performed and cutting the budget of the military is needed but it isn’t as simple as brining troops home. The balance of power I think is something people take for granted.

throwing one of their own under the bus

there is a good video of a lawyer explaining this possible scenario. I can't find it but it was good and basically he would be escorted out by the military.

I'll check out the manga. I saw the anime and it was really good.

I wonder if he will participate in the inauguration of Biden or if this will be the first time in recent memory that a president skips it entirely

I eat a pound of salmon a week at least... need to do this detox soon ._.

yeah I posted this in the election thread. reminded me of this guy.

I knew you would post something good in here

I would say that first off it's realizing that there is no "best way." It is far more complex and the best arguments and most functional notions will be dynamic and incorporative. Shapiro's can sometimes be hard to debunk because there is an element of truth to them that is woven into the fabric of the argument. Each argument or notion is different and a truly skilled and deep thinker will be open to all possibilities and complexities. My reply is kinda abstract but it's sort of how it is. There is no best way just better habits and ways of approaching issues and looking for integrative solutions.