Lyubov

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  1. I think money is fine for one on one consultations on spirituality, it just depends how you conduct yourself, are you doing so with honesty or integrity? Are you warping your integrity and honesty in favor of your survival? Some people do this while offering information based products, so these are the teachers I try to avoid. It's also the reason why their information products like their youtube videos may not actually be half bad. It's one thing to cognitively recognize truth and preach and it's another to embody it and live it. If you are really living in your flow and living in the moment, acting on what you've found to be true, it's definitely a very helpful vocation for the world to offer counseling and consultations, your perspective and guidance could be the breakthrough someone needs to further develop themselves or resolve a problem in their life. If you've just had a bunch of radical perspective and perception changes, what many people label mystical experiences due to meditation and psychedelics and you haven't actually really built an unbelievably beautiful and truthful day to day life, chances are you won't really be able to help anyone with their spirituality. It takes a good bit of maturity to really build something like this without it being a new age scam.
  2. I would reflect on what you mean by trust and what you are hoping to protect. Why not build your life in a way where if someone does so you wrong, it’s just a shrug of the shoulders?
  3. It seems very half baked what you wrote here to be honest. why not take some time to just get in touch with yourself and what you really want. start writing it out. remember, balance is key. why do yo think some radical yogi lifestyle is for you? I've found from my experience such things don't actually make me more spiritual. If you are wanting to be more authentic and true, why not look at what you're doing now which is preventing that? You can use Claude to help you brainstorm. I would get really clear on your path and build a strong relationship with your inner child and your spiritual side and find some balance. You clearly don't like this tech work. But you do need money to survive and pay bills. What could you do to align the flow of money more with what you genuinely enjoy and brings you passion?
  4. People actually spent 3 hours watching it? I spent 2 minutes skipping through it and turned it off.
  5. They don’t care. He speaks for their insecurities and fears and values, however contradictory they may be. Trump once said he could shoot someone and people would still follow him. It’s true. They don’t care, they care about their world view and Trump represents that. Trump’s personal issues they don’t care about.
  6. The thing is 99% of the time it can be de-escalated by just walking away. Just cause you got fire power doesn’t mean you have to use it. The thing is this power can be intoxicating and guys can get trigger happy. Just because someone calls you names it doesn’t mean you should let it ruin your night or fun. Be like flowing water. If they haven’t put their hands on you just walk away.
  7. Yep, you need to actively hit the gym and cultivate a tough look. Doesn’t hurt to do some boxing once a week. You don’t need to be a dick and deescalation is key. Just cause you have the ability to defend yourself doesn’t mean you should seek scenarios to use it. And 99% of the time an apology and walking away is the best choice. It’s a balancing act. Some guys are trigger happy. Be chill, have fun but Definitely feel confident in your ability to keep yourself safe. Some nightlife attract bigger baboons than others. Places you have to pay to get in are better for security and civility than free or cheap places.
  8. Dude stop throwing out random ad hoc projections on my stance. I’m stating her demographics issue quite starkly. Her base is largely effeminate and doubling down on the abortion ban while trump has gained black and Latino voters. If you can’t see the truth of the situation that she has image problems, I don’t know what to tell you. Someone in this thread even said that she may look bad on podcasts hence why she’s avoiding them. It’s a real issue for her campaign.
  9. Dude it’s this dismissive attitude why the average American thinks left leaning campaigns are tailored for effeminate soy milk drinking, pinky waving people. There are plenty of interesting guests who go into nuanced topics on the Joe Rogan podcast and he does have mature people in his audience. If she wanted to appeal to more Americans she would, she’s banking on far left never trumpers. In a way this sense of fear in them actually could get her to win. She’s banking on abortion ban outrage. Statistically there are more on the left that can’t stomach trump than the other way around with trump voters not wanting Kamala.
  10. She went on “call her daddy”… this is fucked up. If she loses it’s because she didn’t get enough straight men. Also keep in mind her campaign could be banking heavily on all the effeminate people to get her over the finish line. Dem campaigners are notoriously nervous and they don’t have this outward masculine energy. It’s really all about “never trump” and “trump is so mean.” I don’t want to vote for someone who lacks vision. Trump has vision but it’s shit. Give me someone with the intellectualism and collectivism of the left but the ambition of the right.
  11. Why didn’t she go on Joe Rogan and have a deep nuanced discussion? She was a prosecutor and could of perhaps won over the deeper thinking side of Rogan’s audience but instead she went all in on this Beyoncé crap. A Rogan interview would of established her as a strong centrist.
  12. I’ve been watching some of his general self help content and it is helpful though for the strategic aspects of life. His free tour where he yaps for two hours about the matrix is a waste of time and I can take only so much of his autistic screaming. His 30 minute cinematic videos have some decent beliefs and mindsets to adopt though for creating your dream life. I wouldn’t pay him a penny however. Literally everything you need from him is on his YouTube. I don’t believe paying much more than the cost of an audio book on Amazon is necessary for information products. One on one coaching is another story, hundreds/thousands can be an amazing investment. But there are life coaches teaching the same material as him, perhaps from my perspective even more advanced, that you can get coaching for a couple hundred bucks a session. The most advanced and mature person I ever had sessions / coaching from is this guy and he only charges £200 a session. Owen probably is charging thousands, but his clientele are rich California people who think cause they paying more they getting the best. https://youtube.com/@wuweiwisdom?si=bc-LYewJCxXkEFh9
  13. I’m not voting for trump based on his constant lies and Jan 6. I’m not voting Kamala due to her lack of vision and the rejection of masculinity.
  14. The problem I’ve seen with her is that she has completely failed to market herself to the Joe Rogan crowd. Her strategy to get straight men to vote for her is abismal. I’m seeing trump all over podcasts and stuff I would watch and she is nowhere to be seen. Meanwhile she has “trust women”, this feminist crap on large screens at her rallies and in her crowd I see a huge lack of testosterone. I’m tired of the dem party being so effeminate. She could of went more centrist and really campaigned more with the military. She’s too scared to disrupt far left voices in her party. I don’t like how “soft” the dems are, no offense. If it’s the party of democracy it needs to make room for masculinity. I’m not voting for either.
  15. The people who earn money doing drop shipping are the ones selling the courses on how to do it. During a gold rush the guy selling shovels earns the most money.
  16. Dude I’ve tried. This is not how women work or the reality of the situation. You want higher quality women you need to be working on yourself and on your path. There isn’t some magical spring of women who share your values. She’s out there in all the usual places, bars, beaches, restaurants.
  17. Dude you have to go to a big city that you like and meet a ton of women. You can’t exactly filter how you want to. You have to be working on yourself and then using the law of attraction you will attract into your life situations and people who align with you. But just raw filtering like this, it doesn’t work like this exactly. You have to meet a lot of girls and have these conversations to determine if you align or not. There isn’t some general trend of stage green or orange acting a certain way. Plenty of stage green girls love to fuck and go all out hoe mode and definitely act dishonest. You have to meet a ton of women and screen them one by one.
  18. Fair enough, I completely disagree with you and I believe you will be remembered as an ethnic cleanser, not too different from Nazis or the conquest of the Americas in the history books, but I could be wrong, and you are entitled to your beliefs and what you think should happen. I will not try to change your mind.
  19. 1) You are right, there was no modern state of Palestine there, how countries and self determination are understood today was still forming then. The land was controlled by the British and then the Ottoman empire, but had native indigenous people (Palestinians) as the majority living on the land, since the roman empire. There even were indigenous jews who were a minority there and whose lineage went back to the roman empire. These are not to be confused with zionist jews who were Eastern European jews (Ashkenazi Jews) removed from Palestine by 2000 years, their entire lineage is based outside Palestine for 2000 years, 1000 in Europe alone. In what reasonable modern world does that give them a right to Palestine because their book tells them so? European refugees from WWII moved there during the Holocaust and Israel was largely allowed to stay due to pity from Truman and Russia as well as having a newly established ally state there after the British left. There are a lot of jews in the USA to lobby the US government foreign policy, that is democracy. I think it's pretty clear that the forming of a nation state is accepted and indigenous people have the right to determination if their history goes back thousands of years on a land. I do not see how modern European Jews can make a claim to land they are removed from by hundreds of generations. Since Israel was formed, jews from all over the middle east and world have since immigrated so it isn't just Ashkenazi Jews now. Some Arabs maybe are fine with living under Israel, there are millions in Gaza and the west bank who aren't and want to return to the land taken from them. 2) Arab countries then did not accept the UN resolution and Israel because it was freshly stolen land. Why would they negotiate with people who clearly took their land? Why should they yield? Time has changed things since then so totally dismantling and getting rid of Israel is not feasible now. And relations with Jordan and Egypt helped move towards a two state solution but the powerful 10%+ of radical nationalists in Israel do not allow for this to occur. They kill any politicians that come to the table. 3) Again, Arab leaders did not want their land divided, they were under no obligation to just allow territory of theirs carved off. Do I think there could of been a more welcoming stance towards refugees and a protection of minorities under Arab rule there? Sure. 4) Ok, now west bank, east Jerusalem, Golan heights and all other territories, plus the dismantling of the system/blockade that has made gaza and these Palestinian places an open air prison
  20. I've picked this book back up. It's somewhat myopic and definitely not what I would call an integrative or holistic perspective. The author has an "us vs them" mentality which to me is a perspective that is not how I choose to consciously live. I can see it being controversial for it's time. This perspective is raw and cuts out the fairytale aspect to love and relationships. Traditional values still persists today and so do perspectives and ideals around them. I so far agree that men and women are different and most women have a survival strategy and ambition that is about creating a family. I'll write my final thoughts when I finish it.
  21. I agree with you, and it’s why I am not someone who is entirely un empathetic to how Israel came to be. I realize we were attacked then and a lot of us only saw what is now Israel as a way to survive. So I’m not saying death and destruction to Israel. But I am saying the country needs to come to terms with the lies and ridiculous story it has told to justify ethnically cleanings another group of people and actively dismantle settlements and come to a new agreement to return land which makes a two state solution possible.
  22. I believe also that women have it much easier when it comes to dating in a certain way. I am not disregarding the nuance of this dimension of life however and do know women face many challenges as well. I've had this discussion a lot with my ex and I could see that from her perspective as a pretty girl, she has put zero effort into actually understanding the opposite sex, very minimal compared to what most men have to do to make themselves competitive in dating. I know perspective matters a lot here so some of my wording may not be agreeable for all of you. It's just what I've noticed. If you are a cute girl you have a ton of options, no guarantee any of them will lead to committing, or be the one you wish would commit. I don't really have any advice for women. I only wish many of them would take the time to understand men a bit more, but this is not something women usually spend time doing. You would be very hard pressed to find a beautiful woman who actually wanted to understand her man, very rare quality in a woman who does this.
  23. Israel: A country founded on the belief that European refugees who suffered genocide and ethnic cleansing during WWII now have the right to build a state and commit genocide and ethnic cleansing because their magic book says they can. You have to throw out all rational and reasonable interpretations of history to wrap your mind around the ethos and reasoning behind the existence of the state of Israel. Keep in mind I'm not even saying Israel shouldn't exist. But the narrative behind the existence of this state needs to be actively corrected for it's complete and total lies and bullshit it's founded upon. Countries like the USA are actively going through this transition now and are aligning more with truth. Israel needs to do the same.
  24. Dude, stop projecting. Every jew like you wants to cry victim and claim antisemitism the moment you guys are held accountable for your ethnic cleansing in Palestine. The entire community is steeped in this victim level thinking, zero responsiblity, just wanting to cry about being persecuted and not looking at any reasons why they are in the situation they are in. No dude, I do not self hate that I am jewish and none of my identity is wrapped up in rejecting judaism nor is it associated with any issues from relatives mistreating me. In fact I cherish my American-Jewish roots and loved every moment associated with them growing up. I do not associate persecution with judaism which is what most Jews do. I don't like that I have to explain sometimes to people that I don't support Israel and bombing kids and killing thousands upon thousands of civilians and ethnically cleaning stolen land like the IDF has been doing shamelessly since the 1940s. but I suppose this is what a lot of Arabs/Muslims went through after 9/11, having to explain not all Muslims support blowing up buildings and killing civilians. A lot of Russians who left their country I've spoken to are tired of having to explain themselves even though they don't support their war. I guess I have Israel to thank for that but it is what it is. You are so lost in delusion you are not worth having a lengthy discussion with. I'm honestly surprised you found your way to this community. You believe you are entitled to steal land and ethnically cleans people from it who inhabited it longer than you by over a thousand years because your bible says you can. Just mirroring back your belief to you. I'm happy I was born Jewish, it's opened many doors for me. Thank god I wasn't born in Palestine on stolen land now called Israel though.