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If you could only choose one side which would it be?

@ZenTwizzle Your right i stopped caring about their feelings aswell as opinions

@lilacwest @Argue I guess it's my fear of living my siblings behind.( 2 brothers.)

@Pallero No, i just didn't care what people thought ,I felt fearless, and was really calm.

@Pinocchio Seems to make alot of sense

@Vishal First Get a sheet of paper. In the middle of the sheet, draw a horizontal line that splits the sheet in half width wise. Then, from the horizontal line you just drew, draw a vertical line that halves the paper lengthwise to the bottom of the page. On the top half of the paper, write down everything you dislike about yourself, no matter how insignificant you may think it is. Then, on the left side of the vertical line, jot down the things that you can change. On the right side, right down the things from above that you can NOT change. Now...once that is done, hang this up somewhere so that it is the first thing you see when you wake up and the last thing you see when you go to sleep. ACCEPT THE LIST ON THE RIGHT AS THINGS THAT MAKE YOU UNIQUE AS AN INDIVIDUAL...AND WORK LIKE HELL TO IMPROVE EVERYTHING LISTED ON THE LEFT

@Pallero I didn't care about the opinions of others, which made me feel like a sociopath.

Firstly i would look inward. Deal with your past. Find out all the things in the way of you being what you want to be and change it. And gain competence in the areas of life you enjoy.

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Im 26 and (A)never had sex or a girlfriend. And (B) my life is not together, Im bascially a 17 year old boy. It seems like when i focus on A my postion in life doesn't move. On the flip side it's hard to focus on B when all i think about is A. What would you do in my shoes?

Thanks for the advice , my only fear is my inexperience will scare them away

Hey Leo love your videos If you could do it over would you do self-actualize d work first then improve your relationships or keep it the way you did it ,rsdn then self-actualize work. Assuming you couldn't do both at the sametime?